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  1. toughchick401

    Health

    I decided to write my thoughts here, FB is not an option ( sister sees it all) so here it goes...I had weight loss surgery in 2010, lap band ( they don't even do it anymore) and than it was removed in 2013, my first doctor lost his license and was a drug addict, fast forward to only 2026, Over...
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    need advice.....

    So my parents passed suddenly 8 years ago, first dad than mom of a broken heart, she lasted 3 months and asked me to move home to help her as she was on O2, so I did...she passed in the ICU and I was curled up next to her and I swear I felt my heart break before she died she looked at me and...
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    a meatball

    Well now I know my other issue along with a stomach that does not digest food and makes me sick I have a meatball sized tumor at the base of my esophagus...t least now I know I am not crazy all the times I tried to eat and I had to vomit or make myself do the heimlich( very hard to do on one's...
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    It should've been me

    I had a very good friend who recently passed away from breast cancer that was stage four and had gone off her body, we met years ago when I was teaching preschool special, Ed and she was teaching regular classes..... Her myself and another woman became instant friends, and every month we meet...
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    I seriously should know better

    So I worked briefly someplace this summer where I had an attraction to a guy he had attraction to me and it never worked out because he had a girlfriend so moving forward he comes back with. I'm not with her anymore. We broke up and I'd like to see if you wanted to go on a date and I was like OK...
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    Erie peace

    So someone read my post about what I've been going through and I just decided yesterday that I've had it all my doctors are like you need to get in here ASAP, it's imperative that we see you right away when I go to make appointments the earliest I can get it is April or May what do I need to do...
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    Enough is enough

    So I decided it's time to go radio silent, nothing can change in a day I know that, but people treat me differently, my friends treat me differently. I've lost friends, my family is especially tough on me which doesn't make things easier. I get called nasty names, like skeleton, anorexic, girl...
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    Well it's done

    A few years ( many more now) I did someone wrong, at the time I knew I loved him (my Aussie boy)but the whole thought scared me to be honest...... so I ended it badly......so after countless attempts to reach him I get his wife who I assured I was only trying to reach out to say I was sorry ...
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    Losing friends

    So today I lost another friend and not by death I don't mean by death I mean that she told me she was tired of me talking about my illness and she was tired of me canceling plans because I was ill. Now this is a person I haven't known that long I didn't cancel plans on purpose but I didn't feel...
  10. toughchick401

    Rant thread 2

    So it's been a while since I've been here and I've gone up and down in weight, I was diagnosed year and a half ago was something called gastric paresis so that is when your stomach does not digest food it's pretty much paralyzed it is damaged to the Vega nerve there is no cure for it for the...
  11. toughchick401

    North Carolina

    So I'm looking for something in the North Carolina area I don't care where I should just need something a condo would be preferable I am selling my house in Rhode Island because it's way too expensive for one person on one budget I just can't afford it so my sister and I are splitting the...
  12. toughchick401

    Sometimes

    I guess sometimes a very long overdue apology is not good enough I knew that an ex of mine had been long gone and I owed a very big apology to him you know having gastroparesis and having to deal with my own mortality basically has set a lot of things in the motion for me and that is that I...
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    An oldie , I'm back, kind of

    So after many many years of not being here I decide to come back and see if any of my old friends are here are used to be wrangler girl, now I'm toughchick401...... I feel like I've been through hell and back I've lost both my parents, I pushed away the love of my life which was the biggest...
  14. toughchick401

    Question.

    So I'm looking for a mans honest opinion!!! I'm 5'11 , 142 and I am a size B. Like a pathetic 12 year old. I have come into a lot of $$$ and one thing besides going on vacation and investing the rest I am having my boobs done. From a size B to a size D. My question is big or small??! Just...
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    Off the grid

    I'm taking time to go off the grid. I just can't deal and I'm spent mentally. Huge fight with my sister and holidays with out parents. I'm done. Thank you puccah for being a email away. I hope all is well with your brother and even thought I'm off the grid I'll be thinking of you...
  16. toughchick401

    I'm trying.

    I feel like I'm trying to do the best I can and my best is not good enough!!! I lost my dad a year ago suddenly and unexpectedly and it hurts more than I can explain. Then three months after my dad my mom died from broken heart they were married for 56 years!!! Now I have the broken heart...
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    Ryan's Banana Split Party

    Check out facebook page and join if you like....trying to pass this along..Ryan has quite the following..:) As some of you may or may not know, I have a "Heart Mom/Dad" friend that had to make some very difficult decisions yesterday, decisions no parent should ever have to make. Through all...
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    eating disorders

    Anyone know of a link???
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    Gall bladder

    I was told in November I had to have surgery,to take out my gall bladder, so I planned it during my break from school, 1/14/11, since than I can't eat, anything..... I eat and I barf, I drink and I am in the bathroom on the toilet, ( not to be gross).... Before surgery I was in the bathroom but...
  20. toughchick401

    Assualt...

    I just need to vent, hoping talking about it will help.... July 3rd I was working in the hospital, I jumped into help with a restraint on a 13 yr old female, out of control behavior nothing I have not dealt with a 100 times before, 3 men have her on the ground on her back, I jump into help and...
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