Any progress?
Hey dudes what's the best alternative to viagra, I'm 22 and having some issues and am too embarrassed to see a doc.
Hey. I realize this is an old post but old posts still come up on Google searches forever so maybe my 2 cents can help someone. Did you discuss this with anyone other than here? Since you say the problem is strictly endurance I don't know that a doc is necessarily your only choice. I'll tell you though, being embarassed about talking to one you're really doing yourself a disservice. It's a job to them, they don't discuss it at dinner with their spouse. When I got a vasectomy I asked the dude if I would ejaculate any less. Because the volume of your orgasm has everything to do with how long it lasts right? (albeit measured in under a minute) Sure it was a bit awkward but I didn't know what to expect. For all I knew my orgasms would forever after be lame so this was important information for me to know before I commited to the procedure. Who else was I going to ask? Everybody is different so what people advise from personnal experience on a forum may not apply to you. One guy told me last year I would have permanent diarrhea after a gallbladder removal. That person's experience was not at all what mine has been. Talk to a professional that can give you real facts about what the average joe might expect when they operate or medicate or whatever. At 22, at least speaking for myself, I'd be looking at what I could do to have more discipline and control over the physical process.
Would having a 4 hour erection help anyway if you're premature? I think Viagra (or a sub), while maintaining your erection would do nothing for performance. Mind you this is a guess on my part. I can give you some honest opinions based on my own experience though and I hope that it helps.
-you will have more control as you age. that doesn't help now but trust me it gets better
-kegel exercises will help you gain control AND enjoy more powerfull orgasms
-you can train yourself with controlled breathing and masturbation cut short. Google it.
-this might sound lame but try to think about something else while you're in the act. because...
A lot of this might be in your mental approach. Focus more on your partner and you'll find that pleasuring them makes the whole thing more enjoyable for you. I can only comment on how this works between men and women but any guy can get it done lickety split if he's concentrating, whereas I think most women require more attention (and sometimes just can't no matter what you do). So, given that you'll manage to reach orgasm anyway focus first on hers and try to set yours aside. If you have to think about spiders or Margaret Thatcher then do it. With experience you'll find that a quickie won't come anywhere near the pleasure for both of you if you stretch it out for an hour.
Approaching this as a matter of discipline will be more work and time but well worth it. You'll feel great about satisfying your partner and have plenty of the control that you want. Set your phone to remind you to do the kegel exercises. If you keep at that you'll be a rock star in the sack after a couple months.
One last thing. At your age a quick fix of 3 beers prior would pretty much make me last until I would put my mind to finishing up because of a bit of a numbing down effect. Try between 2 and 3 and see what happens. NOT 4. Having to pee in the middle of sex ruins everything for everyone.
Good luck man. This is important for a well balanced life. You need a better solution than a pill.