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Not so great being big...

jay21 said:
OMFG SAME!!!!!!!!!!!!
they always wanna see me nipple ring :)

i always say to girls " u can touch mine if i can touch urs "
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Here are two of my favorites:

When girls ask you to buy them a drink say "Get Real. But you can buy ME one and prove that your different from the rest of the gold diggers in this bar."

When women start touching you excessively say "Hands off, I don't think your credit limit is high enough for this merchandise."

Those two work wonders, espeically on strippers and 10s @ the bar.

:hijacked:
 
Personality is what bags p-ussy. Not your body. Thats why you see some skinny fat guys with dime ass girls. Of course the body can help but you can ruin all of that when you open your mouth. Train your mind like you train your body.
 
^ is BS

trust me if it were ture i would have girls rolling all over me. im am pretty convinced girls love money and idiot guys who spend it all on them. to me...... i just dont take them serious anymore. i AM one of a kind guy u have no idea the sit i did for my girls some were not even dating me just friends and guess what i always got ****ed over. ....... i have my opinion which is fairly diff.
 
jay21 said:
^ is BS

trust me if it were ture i would have girls rolling all over me. im am pretty convinced girls love money and idiot guys who spend it all on them. to me...... i just dont take them serious anymore. i AM one of a kind guy u have no idea the sit i did for my girls some were not even dating me just friends and guess what i always got ****ed over. ....... i have my opinion which is fairly diff.
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I agree - if you're going to have a one nighter with a hottie at the bar....it's because you look hot to her, not because she liked your personality.
 
jay21 said:
^ is BS

trust me if it were ture i would have girls rolling all over me. im am pretty convinced girls love money and idiot guys who spend it all on them. to me...... i just dont take them serious anymore. i AM one of a kind guy u have no idea the sit i did for my girls some were not even dating me just friends and guess what i always got ****ed over. ....... i have my opinion which is fairly diff.
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ALLOT of Girls want an A$shole..
 
Big clothes? lean out? F**k em in the neck man. You pay good money and work hard for the body you have, shouldn't you be proud of that? If you change anything it should be your outlook and attitude..I like bien bigger..called a planet or an eclipse lol they just do that sh*t out of embarrassment for they're laziness.We are all indivuals..be one.BEST OF LUCK MAN...
 
jay21 said:
yah girls like to be treated like ****
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If you pursue superficial skanks then you have to put up with their psychologies.
 
DUDE i dated a straight out of russian , russian girl (she just came over to us of A) if u can handle them than any girl from then on is easy
 
jay21 said:
DUDE i dated a straight out of russian , russian girl (she just came over to us of A) if u can handle them than any girl from then on is easy
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Easy also gets boring extremely fast.
 
No offence but if a chick called u an ogre you are probably ugly

no one is going to say anything if you are big and handsome (no homo)
 
warbird01 said:
No offence but if a chick called u an ogre you are probably ugly

no one is going to say anything if you are big and handsome (no homo)
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NO WAY MAN! IM GORGIOUS! (i really do have a sexy face)

I think she just used the wrong word and meant to say monster or something. Ogre makes me think of some hunchback with knots on his head and holding a club in his hand while he drools on himself. (I only do that occasionally)
 
Ya def not good connotation(sp?) associated with Orge. I personally like beast. I can go with Beast from the East lol.
 
slacker86 said:
(overwhelming jealous from this thread....) cant believe people are complaining about being big.....
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I'm not complaining, I'm just a little perturbed by the reactions I get from some people- don't get me wrong most are impressed but I guess it's the haters and such that irk me because of their impersonations.

I ultimately wanted to know if anybody else got that same type of criticism and what they do to respond to it, if not ignoring it altogether.
 
Yeah, you'll get it over your size, the amount you eat, because you're not on the p1ss during the weekends with the boys . . . . fk em all. And in certain situations I WILL imtimidate them if I think they're trying it on - in business and in leasure.
 
im just giving u guys **** lol. i get the immitations every once in a while i think its funny cause there arent close to half the man i am. cause 1) if i have a problem with someone i would explain it to their face. (and i usually do after they perform the immitations) and 2) they look up when u yell "hey princess", thus proving my point.
 
warbird01 said:
No offence but if a chick called u an ogre you are probably ugly

no one is going to say anything if you are big and handsome (no homo)
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lets start this first post in this thread by saying warbird. youssse a douche! ohhh, yousse a douche wow. if you sing that right thats remix of youusee a ho song! just throwing that out there.

secondly and more serious, sweat pants and a sweatshirt always does the trick nicely. it still looks casual but hides the mass

when i first was getting big youd think that no one would pick you out but in this society it seems that ppl pick you out more because you seem like the alpha male of the crowd. and the mentality is that if they can take out the alpha than it is there position. its sometimes better to wear a sweatshirt and blend in and not the muscle shirts when you can.

lasty, we work our ass off to be this big. everyone thinks that you can toss in some steroids or phs and by the first swollow you are as big as jay cutler. we had at study the ****. eat right, lift when bobby was sitting in his lazy boy and go to the gym on days we dont feel like it. alot of comments are based out of jealousy. you worked hard for 220! enjoy. youre in the top 10% of the population.
 
TravisG said:
lets start this first post in this thread by saying warbird. youssse a douche! ohhh, yousse a douche wow. if you sing that right thats remix of youusee a ho song! just throwing that out there.

secondly and more serious, sweat pants and a sweatshirt always does the trick nicely. it still looks casual but hides the mass

when i first was getting big youd think that no one would pick you out but in this society it seems that ppl pick you out more because you seem like the alpha male of the crowd. and the mentality is that if they can take out the alpha than it is there position. its sometimes better to wear a sweatshirt and blend in and not the muscle shirts when you can.

lasty, we work our ass off to be this big. everyone thinks that you can toss in some steroids or phs and by the first swollow you are as big as jay cutler. we had at study the ****. eat right, lift when bobby was sitting in his lazy boy and go to the gym on days we dont feel like it. alot of comments are based out of jealousy. you worked hard for 220! enjoy. youre in the top 10% of the population.
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Sound advice. That video a couple posts up is f***ing halarious. I forgot about that movie... yeah, that's definetly not me! But I'd still like to toss some of these jive-asses off a f***in balcony. And yes bro, I'm proud of what I've created... A BEAST!
 
man screw other people if they think your too big. If they can't handle it then you'll find someone or other people that can. you do seem like a pretty big guy and I hope that when i get to my target weight (215) I don't feel the same way but I don't think I will. The most annoying thing will just be kids that want to fight. Anyway, good luck man you'll figure it out.

Also, I got a few friends that were a little bigger shirts so they don't have to deal with the people around them looking at them like they are roid heads. so bigger clothes may help, like others have already said.
 
n8te said:
man screw other people if they think your too big. If they can't handle it then you'll find someone or other people that can. you do seem like a pretty big guy and I hope that when i get to my target weight (215) I don't feel the same way but I don't think I will. The most annoying thing will just be kids that want to fight. Anyway, good luck man you'll figure it out.

Also, I got a few friends that were a little bigger shirts so they don't have to deal with the people around them looking at them like they are roid heads. so bigger clothes may help, like others have already said.
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Yea I don't wear compression under armor out in public or anything, but I could probably find some looser shirts.
 
I'll wear a black wife-beater and wind pants to wal-mart, just because the fatties wear them stretched over their beer bellies. Gives 'em a reason to hate ;D

I do like jeans and a t-shirt that's snug across the chest, and tight on the arms.

I used to be fat when I was younger :D
 
UnrealMachine said:
People look at you real differently when you're big. Being leaner does help though, I'd try for that, i spent a lot of being being heavier than I am now and I much prefer being under 10% bodyfat and having a well trimmed look but still a lot of muscle. I don't have more muscle than before but I do look much more juiced.... Still no one has asked me if i'm on steroids.

Sometimes people kinda give you **** but that's just them being jealous. I only have to take **** from my friends and that's all good, strangers know better than to do that. I think a lot of people are just kinda jealous and so that might provoke some weird reactions or negativity out of them but when the guys are checking you out, and the chicks are checking you out, its jealousy.

Also don't worry about the chick calling you an ogre... girls definitely like guys that are manly and built. Its evolutionary instinct! If anything try dropping off some bodyfat, being big and under 10% bodyfat makes you look way better than being huge with over 12% bodyfat.
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Agree 100% on the body fat. It can be the difference between chicks going "ewwww, that's gross!" (over 12%) to "OMG, he's hot!" (single digit bf%). ;-)
 
jakellpet said:
Yeah, you'll get it over your size, the amount you eat, because you're not on the p1ss during the weekends with the boys . . . . fk em all. And in certain situations I WILL imtimidate them if I think they're trying it on - in business and in leasure.
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perfectly put my friend!!
 
seriously, i like it when people ask me if i'm gear (I am, hahah). It's just an obnoxious question but still i take it as a compliment because it means they are wondering how you got so fkucing jacked and muscular looking and the only way they can explain it is that it must be drugs. The funny part is i used to get it more when i was leaner and smaller than now, where i'm bigger but with more bf. This is going to sound ****y and arrogant, but i think it was similar to how people hated on me once i started making good money. People would talk behind my back that i was dealing drugs or that i thought i was better than everyone else (i've never even done any drugs and i still have the same friends as when i was homeless). I think the only constant is that the more successful you are, the more jealous haters will try to drag you down! screw them all!! hahah

the ONLY time i don't like looking big and jacked is family events and at work, where i wear sweatpants and larger shirts. dont need to intimidate my grandma or a client! hahah
 
Had a guy I kinda knew a few years back see me in the gym today and as he was walking away he said "Damn!" to his friend. Def put a smile on my face.
 
When people started asking me "are you a football player?" rather than "are you a baksetball player?" (I'm tall) that was pretty awesome. Growing up, I'd have never passed for a football player, was always very thin. Went from looking like Andrei Kirilenko to Jeremy Shockey. (kinda) Very cool moment.
 
DenDestroys said:
Normally the people I encounter at my job, and they're always strangers; the skinny, little (unathletic) looking people are the snobby customers, while the obvious weightlifters I meet are usually always the most courteous of them all.

On a side-note - does anyone ever notice how a lot of big guys you are smoking cigarettes? I think, "hmm, they must bust their ass in the gym to get that look.". Then I see them light up - 75% of most weightlifters I see, and this is at my work, in cities, etc. But they all smoke.
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wow man ive totally noticed that too(about the ciggarretes i mean)
 
i think its great being big. as many of u have said, most of us were fat or super skinny throughout our school years and now we enjoy the positive attention.

its flattering to have middle aged men (and MILFs) walk up to me and ask what kind of exercise i was just doing, or what all i eat on a daily basis, or just stare at me while i train.

f uck the haters, enjoy what u do for YOU....dont care what others think....most are just envious or jealous.

if u dont want the attention then this lifestyle isnt for u
 
JW32Hoops said:
When people started asking me "are you a football player?" rather than "are you a baksetball player?" (I'm tall) that was pretty awesome. Growing up, I'd have never passed for a football player, was always very thin. Went from looking like Andrei Kirilenko to Jeremy Shockey. (kinda) Very cool moment.
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Yea I know how that is! I've had some people ask me who I play tight end for :thumbsup:

When I went home on vacation last week I heard a bunch of stuff about being big, looking swole, etc. Had a couple of lady friends tell me their boyfriends or husbands thought I was intimidating. Even had a guy tell me that if I wanted to get on his girlfriend I could, because he would not be able to do anything about it.

SWEET :head:
 
Im certainly not huge but I used to be really skinny, I've put on 45 lbs so far and still gaining :woohoo: I definitly like wearing the shirts that are a bit tigher on the chest and arms though.
 
For me it's mainly a height thing, I'm pretty tall and lean but my height still intimidates people. I've also noticed that as I have gotten bigger from lifting weights the past couple of years(I used to be 6'4 and 165 and in HS 6'1 and 140 lol) that women I interact with seem to trust me less and think I'm ****y, it's weird. I think it has to do with the fact that as you workout and gain muscle, you become more attractive and some girls feel as if they're not qualified for you. I do get more attention nowadays.

I also agree that for the most part it's the unathletic small guys who are the haters, for the most part because they are too lazy to actually work out. I am not big by any means but I certainly made progress in my life overcoming being ridiculously skinny to the point where now I look pretty good. So I say be proud of being big and **** the haters.
 
Well I think I look big because I am short(some1 said I look about what he did at 6'1" 250) plus maybe the fact I am half asian. It kinda comes as a surprise to people to see a bigger asian. I mean I haven't seen many asian strong men in the World's Strongest Man competition except when they held it in China say 1 and that was for obvious reasons.
 
jay21 said:
DUDE i dated a straight out of russian , russian girl (she just came over to us of A) if u can handle them than any girl from then on is easy
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I dated a girl like that as well. It was awesome. Favorite race to date now. FREAKS MAN. they are FREAKS. :)
 
neverstop said:
HAHAH!! best quote EVER, that is freakin hilarious.....
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I know, my two friends that were with me at the time later on in the night were like....what did that guy say to you? Did he really say that? They said I should have gotten on it....I wasn't interested.

But in response I told the guy, look brother I'm not trying to step on your toes...she's all yours. Just think of me as some added protection this evening, outside the condom in your pocket =D
 
I was out with this chick the other night and one of her guy friends came over and she introduced us. Later, she told me he asked her why she had a bodyguard with her.

I don't feel like I'm that big... though I think I suffer from muscle dysmorphia.
 
Link24 said:
This thread seems a bit exaggerated to me. . .
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I agree.....unless these people spend time walking thru cafe's with teenagers playing W-O-W, who all look like Steve Erkyl.

But I do get dirty looks from the fatties...its awesome.
 
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