lady problems?

pumpking

pumpking

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anyone else having problems finding a girl the "understands" or "respects" what you do. I'll meet a nice girl, and things will be good, then she finds out what I do and there she goes. And if you don't have this problem please don't post saying so, I don't care.
 
By what you do do you mean...

A job?

or

The gymrat mentality, use of tons of supplements and possibly anabolics to aid your eternal desire to grow bigger, better, faster, stronger?

Cuz I have had some issues with that...You just gotta kinda move on. I am a big church goer, alot of the girls I am interested in are turned off by the fact I pop so many pills sometimes(supplements here, supplements lol) yet some it turns them on because it seems "edgy" not wrong yet not right, and it becomes forbidden fruit to them. Gets even crazier if you have needles and gear around.

So it does limit your choices sometimes. The nicer girls will be harder to get, but sluts who dont care...well probably wont care.
 
Don't tell them. Plain and simple. Some things are better left unsaid. Girls are extremely tense about "roid rage." They are media sheep's and won't listen to you...
 
exactly girls wont listen to the "real" truth they only know what they've been taught, whether it be from a class in grade schoool or the news and media..
 
Not just girls. People in general bud. Keep things like this between yourself, and close open minded accepting friends. You are doing something that 99% of people will not understand and shun you right away for it... no questions asked.

Keep it to yourself. I hide my raisin nuts with hCG from the Gf. You gotta do what you gotta do.
 
I dont think you should have to hide what you do. At least not from someone who's supposed to be by your side. If she don't understand, she's not for you. Hiding only goes so far. People need to accept you do what you do and its for you and no one else. If they can't accept THAT they don't need to be around you.
 
SouthernCharm said:
I dont think you should have to hide what you do. At least not from someone who's supposed to be by your side. If she don't understand, she's not for you. Hiding only goes so far. People need to accept you do what you do and its for you and no one else. If they can't accept THAT they don't need to be around you.
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True, but its also not something you throw out on the table too soon. You dont bring your syringe of test and a baggie of dbol pills to a first date :bigok:

I just let them know I am big into "Physiology, exercise, nutrition and mastering the human body"
 
Oh yeah I guess the length of time that youve been with a chick plays a factor. If she's some tail, you can either hide it or ditch her if she's got a problem with it.

If she's a winner she'll remind you to take your doses and even hit the gym with you.

my girl repped some squats with me and hit 400 on the leg press yesterday ;)
 
I think I speak for most guys though, I want a girl that likes me for me. I don't want to have hide stuff from her and risk a future relationship.
 
Of course. It's just that somethings you need to rope them in for first. Otherwise what may be a deal breaker when she has little invested. May be something that isn't so big if she likes a whole mess of other things about you first.

For instance, my midget porn addiction. I'd be a FOOL to tell her about that on the first date. But a few months down the road she'll think it's "cute".
 
LOL, diz you rock.

But good point. If a girl can fall in love with a damn fool who beats her, and wont leave him. I am quite sure a good man, who juices, can keep a girl once there is love.

Remember though, dating for love is rare today, its all fake bullcrap anymore.
 
Dizmal said:
For instance, my midget porn addiction. I'd be a FOOL to tell her about that on the first date. But a few months down the road she'll think it's "cute".
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So, what you're saying is that midget porn addiction does not make for a good icebreaker?
 
pumpking said:
I agree Diz, but not so sure a girl is going to think deca and test are "cute".
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She'll think our little shriveled nuts are "cute" at the end of the cycle and much easier to fit in her mouth which she'll thank us for :stooges:
 
God forbid they care about you.

...you can't get upset at someone for not wanting you to do illegal drugs. - And yes, I know all the arguments against that, and for the most part I agree, but the fact is that the only reason they're getting upset is because they care.

Don't get so upset about it. Try to have a talk. If she's not cool with it at all, and you really like her, it's sad that you would choose sauce over her. - If you don't love her, then whatever, but if you do...

If you found the right person, and she wasn't okay with it, I would almost guarantee you'd give it up.
 
In the words of the wise man gucci: "Girls are like buses, miss one next fifteen one comin..."
**** them if they like the body but dont like what it takes to get it there.
 
Guys I have girl problems as well. I turn down sex when offered cause I am waiting for a person I really like and not many down to earth girls in new jersey lol. I am either really aggresive or passive when it comes to flirting and getting digits. By the way I love to act socially ackward and try to be overly blunt when I meet a women or go out on a date its funny watching they're reactions of being shocked and pistoff. Im an a hole i know lmao.

And for the kids dont follow my footsteps cause you wont get laid and you will pissed you have to then pay for sex.

Women dont like guys who do steriods lol... in the mean time over half the girls in my highschool did cocaine in order to lose weight.



I mean I hate going through boot camp for a month with a girlfriend just to get laid. I only do it with someone who is worth my time.
 
wow only 4 posts and banned.
i think that people really just need to be educated about it. i have people giving me crap about creatine and protein because they dont know what it is/does, but people who understand what they are see it as normal and a wise choice.
Personally i just think that its people who are misinformed are creating all the negative views in the world.
 
Alot of girls think just cause you take steroids or supplements that it automatically makes you a bad person. I don't understand how that works but thats how alot girls are.
 
Shane0Mac said:
wow only 4 posts and banned.
i think that people really just need to be educated about it. i have people giving me crap about creatine and protein because they dont know what it is/does, but people who understand what they are see it as normal and a wise choice.
Personally i just think that its people who are misinformed are creating all the negative views in the world.
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The dude was DEA...4 posts is too long
 
Irish Cannon said:
God forbid they care about you.

...you can't get upset at someone for not wanting you to do illegal drugs. - And yes, I know all the arguments against that, and for the most part I agree, but the fact is that the only reason they're getting upset is because they care.

Don't get so upset about it. Try to have a talk. If she's not cool with it at all, and you really like her, it's sad that you would choose sauce over her. - If you don't love her, then whatever, but if you do...

If you found the right person, and she wasn't okay with it, I would almost guarantee you'd give it up.
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I agree here. The right person can change everything. The things in your life that SEEM so important to you now can very well change in a heartbeat when you meet that right person and they are expressing concern over the risks that you are taking. My wife had that effect on me and I love it.

You will know when you know. My wife and I both had heard people say that all our lives and we both really didn't know what they were talking about until we met each other. Things tend to fall into order very easily when she is the right one.
 
I'm seeing this girl and she loves the fact that I bodybuild, she thinks its great because she thinks its "healthy". I like this girl alot and want a strong and healthy relationship with her. It sucks though cause I know what I'm doing isn't healthy and I feel so bad about it. Do I tell her the truth about what I do? Do I hide it from her until she catches me? Or do I just drop the gear now and never look back? thanks guys for being understanding :)
 
pumpking said:
I'm seeing this girl and she loves the fact that I bodybuild, she thinks its great because she thinks its "healthy". I like this girl alot and want a strong and healthy relationship with her. It sucks though cause I know what I'm doing isn't healthy and I feel so bad about it. Do I tell her the truth about what I do? Do I hide it from her until she catches me? Or do I just drop the gear now and never look back? thanks guys for being understanding :)
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Don't hide it and do NOT lie. If it comes up then it comes up and you can address it then. My wife knows that I have used gear and she would be totally against me running it again. She would not freak out if I ran a PH for a short cycle but this is what she tells me: "You look great without using that crap....you look natural, not all roided up!" She is why I don't do stuff right now. I would never sneak...out of respect.
 
and don't trust a woman who doesn't fart. If she's holding that from you, what else is she holding back? lol


I say tell 'em. Honesty is always, or most times, the best policy. My wife knows what I take. She asks questions sometimes, and I reassure her. Her biggest fear was sterility for some reason, and I proved that one wrong 2 years (and 9 months) ago! :D
 
My gf is more along the lines of "I know it doesn't matter what I say you are going to do it anyways"..
she doesn't understand why I can't be "happy" or "satisfied" w/ my body the way it is but she tolerates it to keep us together..
shes a winner
 
Im not sure if my girl is even aware of me taking protein shakes, bottem line what i've noticed is any thing that im too interested in is a big no. I dont share my hobbys with my girl bc they are not things she would consider fun.
plus I have a really close friend that is a girl and all of her friends including her think gym rats are losers and anyone who takes creatine or any of that are losers.
So I dont even share the fact that I work out, with anyone ( except on here ) bc when it comes down to it your only making douche bag conversation and you sound full of yourself you know
 
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