FUKK MY DAD!

luelinks

luelinks

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That's it I have had it with this stupid fukking people. I just went to the doctor to get some get a check up and my dad keeps fukking telling people about all the pills I take(animal PAK and animal FLEX, or OMEGA) and his is just pissing me the fukk off. At the end of it we were walking to the car and I told him that if I was taking anabolic steroids I would have a needle injections and I asked him if he sees any needle injections? He replied with "well maybe next year". SO FUKK HIM! If he and all my friends(but mostly him) think that am taking PH or steroids then why not take it. Why try to do this the natural way when everybody thinks am on something. I have never even tried smoking or drinking. So lets talk PH. I'm fukking 20. 5 months into it and by the time I'm done with this stack it'll be 8 months into it so any suggestion is welcomed.
 
Whoa Fella. I would be glad people thought I was "ON" and wasnt. Dude ignore all that BS. Kepp on doing what your doing and dont stare down the barrel yet. Whatever your doing your obviously doing something right. Im not saying DONT TAKE STEROIDS, but I wouldnt give other people the satisfaction. I learned in my groups, that the second you make others the reason your going to do something, that you yourself have lost all power and have given it to them. Just some food for thought my man. Hey ..Im just hear to help.
 
i feel ur pain luelinks. i avoid my parents at all costs because they accuse me of steroid use because i "eat too much" and "creatine is a steroid". its naive f ucks like them that piss me off.

my life, my choice....get the f uck over it
 
nosnmiveins said:
i feel ur pain luelinks. i avoid my parents at all costs because they accuse me of steroid use because i "eat too much" and "creatine is a steroid". its naive f ucks like them that piss me off.

my life, my choice....get the f uck over it
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people do fukking meth and coke and there parents don't give them this much sh!t
 
Killerkanadia said:
You should just try drinking.
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Hmmm. Being in recovery and an alcoholic myself. Im GUARANTEE this isnt the best idea. My mother and father seemed like they didnt care when I was your age, doing all sorts of drugs and what not. 8 years later when my party never ended...I found out my parenst Did care. But they were giving me space to do my ADULT things. And when My life started coming to a complte halt. It was my parents(who are seperated now) who were in my corner and next to my girl, my biggest support group.
Man your young. Parentsdo and say stupid stuff, moslty because they truly may be looking out for your best interest. Im sure when your a bit older, youll look back and truly appreciate what your parenst are/were trying to do.
MAn when I have a kid, its over. I can tell im going to be super strict, but at the same time try and teach them, what not to do like I did.
Maybe you should go hit the weights mad hard dude. Or go for a long ass run. Get those endorphines going. You may feel better.
 
luelinks said:
people do fukking meth and coke and there parents don't give them this much sh!t
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First off, chill. I wont talk to my dad much. If I had a headache, its the pills i take. An infection? Pills caused it. etc,etc,etc....well obviously you know.

What I did? I lay down ultimatums and follow through lol, so when I told him over a certain situation that if he accused something again I would disown him and not speak to him until the day after he died....he stopped. Because he knew I was dead serious.

Thankful for him having raised me, but he is not entitled to be an idiot. No one is, blood or not.

But just chill, likely he is easily consumed by the media, unable to search for truth, easily agitated, has to have the last word, and a slew of mental issues such as paranoia, racism, etc.

At least thats what I learned to deal with with mine. Just take a deep breath, and tell him the next time he says your on steroids your going to start taking them. Get together a Vitamin B12 shot, next time he says it walk right out in front of him and jam that pupping in yourself and shoot er in.

Guarantee his balls will drop all over again.

I have had old people say creatine is steroids ahahahaha.
 
Well being 20 years old, and hasn't even started drinking, i doubt he's going to drink himself into alcoholism any time soon. I'm sure he will get around to it eventually anyways, almost everyone drinks after they're 21.

Just sayin, before now, you obviously didn't want to get into anabolic steroids yet. Just because your dad ticked you off about it, doesn't mean you're ready to start. Obviously you're having good results the natural way, so why don't you stick to it a little longer.

In the mean time if you want to piss your dad off, leave a couple coores light cans layin around the front yard.
 
He just asked me to help him on moving something and I told him he should wait until I do steroids so I would be strong enough. He got pissed and started cosing at me so I cussed him back. Told him straight up to fukk off. I don't give a damn anymore if people don't respect me I won't respect them. If he hits me then...fukk it **** will go down. I want some god damn respect. I got a job at 15 and he made me quit my job when I did he told me I was a failure. Got another job at 17 and he told me they'll fire me within the first two weeks not two months tops. I've been there for 3 years and no his like I never said that! People just want me to fukking go off on them.
 
luelinks said:
I should of taken that scholarship and moved the fukk out. sigh*
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Very unhealthy relationship. Save up the dough and move out, your life will improve 20 fold if your being so emotionally pressurized and repressed by the guy.

Not all parents are good. I cant compare to that man, my dad always told me I could do anything, still does. We just dont see eye to eye. Sorry to hear its so rough.

Find a good buddy to be a roommate, move out.
 
If you need to have your Daddy take you to the doctor it suggests to me that you live under his roof, eat his food, are under his health care and likely your Mommy still does your laundry and might even still tuck you in at night.

When you're ready to make it on your own in the world then maybe you can do what you want without judgment. Until then...that's the breaks! :D
 
man you should feel lucky that you have someone that cares enough to piss you off.... i went thru the same crap with my parents when i was your age, as im sure 90% of the guys around here did as well..... believe me when i say that your relationship with your folks will get better over time.... mostly because you wont be living with them anymore... lol
 
AtlasEnduring said:
Very unhealthy relationship. Save up the dough and move out, your life will improve 20 fold if your being so emotionally pressurized and repressed by the guy.

Not all parents are good. I cant compare to that man, my dad always told me I could do anything, still does. We just dont see eye to eye. Sorry to hear its so rough.

Find a good buddy to be a roommate, move out.
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And like most children, they tell their bro's their side of the story so they will sympathize with them and you have no idea...really. Been a parent to 20yo's...the truth is very selective.
 
I'm sure you've settled a little after posting this but I still want to toss in my 2 cents.

Welcome to adult life. People all around you will be a-holes. You are 20 and its just starting. You are going to have a life of coworkers, family, relationships, friends and retards in the gym and on the street that project their crap on you. It sucks. Its a part of life.

You have a choice. You can choose to let them mess with you. Let them get in you head. Let them change you. Let them push you into things. Let them run your life.

Or not.

You can choose to be your own man. Take responsibility for your own life. Realize that other people have their own issues and don't take offense. Explain your side, if needed, and move on. Don't get heated. Make good choices and hold your head high.

Its a process and its not easy. Again, welcome to being an adult.
 
David Dunn said:
If you need to have your Daddy take you to the doctor it suggests to me that you live under his roof, eat his food, are under his health care and likely your Mommy still does your laundry and might even still tuck you in at night.

When you're ready to make it on your own in the world then maybe you can do what you want without judgment. Until then...that's the breaks! :D
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My doctor wanted my parents there cause I wanted to get a testostrone test and my parents wanted me to get EVERYTHING checked out to see if the "steroids"(my dad thinks there is steroids in the mass protein containers, animal pak, and animal flex). But he doesn't pay for all the food and I pay for our cellphone bills and couple of other stuff. Now I'm not saying his a bad father just one that made fun of me when I was fat and now that I'm not he makes steroids jokes. One day I bought him a $400+ tv mount and he though I had stole from someone. I haven't done SH!T in my laugh that would make him think that. I don't go to parties, I don't drink, smoke, nor do I have pictures of naked chicks on my walls and sh!t like that. NOTHING!!!!

P.S. I wish my mom cooked for me and tucked me in. But she's a lot better than my dad and when I she says something I explain it and she lessons and learns rather than my dad saying everything is steroids and that I'm a failure. Oh and I'm going pre-med but still failure to my dad.
David Dunn said:
And like most children, they tell their bro's their side of the story so they will sympathize with them and you have no idea...really. Been a parent to 20yo's...the truth is very selective.
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I would tell whole side of the story cause if I'm doing something stupid I want people to point it out. But one time he told me that I went to school early not for the tutorials but to get drunk and smoke. I don't even know how the fukk is that possible. I could never make him happy or even for him to get off my d!ck. I'm just cranky cuz of this damn cut and my parents aren't helping.
 
as far as parents not caring about meth use- not true is used to iv methamphetamine but dude move out- yhour 20 years old- your pops doesnt sound like the best communicator- you dont either lol so obviously it aint workin- save up the loot move the F UCK out and if u wanna juice when ur old enough research it ( NOT SAYING JUICE OR DONT JUICE) but man if ur not on juice and you know it- who cares man-


until then grow up and realize that in life- not everyone is going to give you respect- stick close to the people who respect you and who you respect
 
You will miss them when they are gone.

My dad was taken from me when I was 7 years old.

I have zero tolerance for this type of whining.

Move out or shut it.

/Rant.
 
luelinks said:
That's it I have had it with this stupid fukking people. I just went to the doctor to get some get a check up and my dad keeps fukking telling people about all the pills I take(animal PAK and animal FLEX, or OMEGA) and his is just pissing me the fukk off. At the end of it we were walking to the car and I told him that if I was taking anabolic steroids I would have a needle injections and I asked him if he sees any needle injections? He replied with "well maybe next year". SO FUKK HIM! If he and all my friends(but mostly him) think that am taking PH or steroids then why not take it. Why try to do this the natural way when everybody thinks am on something. I have never even tried smoking or drinking. So lets talk PH. I'm fukking 20. 5 months into it and by the time I'm done with this stack it'll be 8 months into it so any suggestion is welcomed.
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Dude relax, that's what parents do. I'm a little older than you and I use to react the same way. When you get older, you'll be thankful that your old man took such an interest in you, even if his words or actions seem misplaced, he's doing it out of a sense of love. Parents are a pain the butt, but remember they don't have a handbook either when it comes to dealing with, or raising kids. Your 20...you don't need to start taking PH's, just stick to online porn it'll give you a hairy chest, the 80's look, chicks dig that.
 
My doctor wanted my parents there cause I wanted to get a testostrone test and my parents wanted me to get EVERYTHING checked out to see if the "steroids"(my dad thinks there is steroids in the mass protein containers, animal pak, and animal flex). But he doesn't pay for all the food and I pay for our cellphone bills and couple of other stuff. Now I'm not saying his a bad father just one that made fun of me when I was fat and now that I'm not he makes steroids jokes. One day I bought him a $400+ tv mount and he though I had stole from someone. I haven't done SH!T in my laugh that would make him think that. I don't go to parties, I don't drink, smoke, nor do I have pictures of naked chicks on my walls and sh!t like that. NOTHING!!!!
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Sounds like your dad just likes to tease you.
 
luelinks said:
My doctor wanted my parents there cause I wanted to get a testostrone test and my parents wanted me to get EVERYTHING checked out to see if the "steroids"(my dad thinks there is steroids in the mass protein containers, animal pak, and animal flex). But he doesn't pay for all the food and I pay for our cellphone bills and couple of other stuff. Now I'm not saying his a bad father just one that made fun of me when I was fat and now that I'm not he makes steroids jokes. One day I bought him a $400+ tv mount and he though I had stole from someone. I haven't done SH!T in my laugh that would make him think that. I don't go to parties, I don't drink, smoke, nor do I have pictures of naked chicks on my walls and sh!t like that. NOTHING!!!!


I think the real problem here is you not having naked chicks on your wall, and while you're at it, you should probably put some on your dad's wall also, that way you and your dad can bond while staring at the wall together, real father and son time...that's a real solution courtesy of the google machine.
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take him to a nutrion store and have them explain to him what all this stuff does to you and how it is good for you to be taking it. then when he finds out about it, challenge him in arm wrestling, beat that ass, and he will forever owe you respect.
 
andrewcb said:
take him to a nutrion store and have them explain to him what all this stuff does to you and how it is good for you to be taking it. then when he finds out about it, challenge him in arm wrestling, beat that ass, and he will forever owe you respect.
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Yeh take him to GNC, those guys are like PhDs, they'll sell you megaman vitamins and convince your dad you're huffing paint for breakfast.
 
i'm assuming you have tried to educate and show him the stuff you take instead of flying off the handle? if he's still harping on ya, then move out man. i was raised by a drunk irish sailor and moved out when i was 18 and i love my old man dearly, he did the best he could. life isn't a breeze man, and if you're not juicing then don't sweat it.
 
I got made fun of, well talked about every day in high school saying I was on roids, big deal that didn't make me do them at the time. Who cares what they say, you should laugh and be damn happy to know your natural and people think you are not.
 
Being accused of taking steroids to me is a complement. People are acknowledging you look big/cut
 
luelinks said:
My doctor wanted my parents there cause I wanted to get a testostrone test and my parents wanted me to get EVERYTHING checked out to see if the "steroids"(my dad thinks there is steroids in the mass protein containers, animal pak, and animal flex). But he doesn't pay for all the food and I pay for our cellphone bills and couple of other stuff. Now I'm not saying his a bad father just one that made fun of me when I was fat and now that I'm not he makes steroids jokes. One day I bought him a $400+ tv mount and he though I had stole from someone. I haven't done SH!T in my laugh that would make him think that. I don't go to parties, I don't drink, smoke, nor do I have pictures of naked chicks on my walls and sh!t like that. NOTHING!!!!

P.S. I wish my mom cooked for me and tucked me in. But she's a lot better than my dad and when I she says something I explain it and she lessons and learns rather than my dad saying everything is steroids and that I'm a failure. Oh and I'm going pre-med but still failure to my dad.


I would tell whole side of the story cause if I'm doing something stupid I want people to point it out. But one time he told me that I went to school early not for the tutorials but to get drunk and smoke. I don't even know how the fukk is that possible. I could never make him happy or even for him to get off my d!ck. I'm just cranky cuz of this damn cut and my parents aren't helping.
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Dad's are not perfect and often in the eyes of a 20yo son are pretty ****ty. When you walk a mile in his shoes you'll learn to appreciate how he did the best he could.

Until then, love him unconditionally and forgive him whenever possible and even when it seem impossible. One day soon it will be you who will be asking for his forgiveness...I promise.
 
David Dunn said:
Dad's are not perfect and often in the eyes of a 20yo son are pretty ****ty. When you walk a mile in his shoes you'll learn to appreciate how he did the best he could.

Until then, love him unconditionally and forgive him whenever possible and even when it seem impossible. One day soon it will be you who will be asking for his forgiveness...I promise.
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100% agreed.
 
southpaw23 said:
100% agreed.
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my son is only 4 years old, but now i'm walking in my fathers shoes, trying to figure how to teach him to be a stand up person and live by values that have been instilled in me by my father, albeit, there are some things i will do different but that's part of life's journey.
 
bigsexy74 said:
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my son is only 4 years old, but now i'm walking in my fathers shoes, trying to figure how to teach him to be a stand up person and live by values that have been instilled in me by my father, albeit, there are some things i will do different but that's part of life's journey.
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Just had this conversation with my fiance today. I have a 1 year old son from another girl though.
 
bigsexy74 said:
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my son is only 4 years old, but now i'm walking in my fathers shoes, trying to figure how to teach him to be a stand up person and live by values that have been instilled in me by my father, albeit, there are some things i will do different but that's part of life's journey.
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I'm not a father yet, but the relationship I have with my father, is one based on immense respect and friendship. The man worked 3 jobs early in my life and still managed to get me to the park. Growing up I was a pain in his butt, but now approaching 30, I'm grateful beyond words that I had a man like him to look up to.
 
Man I say move out. I lived with my mom and step dad
And I have never liked him. I live with my real dad now. And we get along so much better than my step dad lol (my dad is even paying for my next cycle haha, well since he's gonna go on his 2nd cycle) they way imy real dad raised me was if someone isn't supportive of u the screw them. Kick them out like yesterdays news. And that's what I live by. When people don't respect me there is no reason y I should respect them. But then again I'm a pretty heartless bastard haha.
If I wasn't so heartless I would say try to reson with ur dad but since I am I say SCREW THAT BASTARD AND DISOWN HIS A*SS.
But don't juice cuz ur heated. If u want to juice research bro.
Lol us here on A.M will be ur new daddy hahaha
U can call me papi
 
fmfws185 said:
Man I say move out. I lived with my mom and step dad
And I have never liked him. I live with my real dad now. And we get along so much better than my step dad lol (my dad is even paying for my next cycle haha, well since he's gonna go on his 2nd cycle) they way imy real dad raised me was if someone isn't supportive of u the screw them. Kick them out like yesterdays news. And that's what I live by. When people don't respect me there is no reason y I should respect them. But then again I'm a pretty heartless bastard haha.
If I wasn't so heartless I would say try to reson with ur dad but since I am I say SCREW THAT BASTARD AND DISOWN HIS A*SS.
But don't juice cuz ur heated. If u want to juice research bro.
Lol us here on A.M will be ur new daddy hahaha
U can call me papi
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Lol at your dad paying for your next cycle, you should have your own talk show, offering advice to kids. I could just see you helping at risk kids become productive members of society, by teaching them how to create and sell deca out their parents' basement.
 
Grow up a little bit and don't let the little things annoy you. If anything I'd be proud I was being accused of roids and not being on them. I remember those days haha.
 
southpaw23 said:
Lol at your dad paying for your next cycle, you should have your own talk show, offering advice to kids. I could just see you helping at risk kids become productive members of society, by teaching them how to create and sell deca out their parents' basement.
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southpaw23 said:
Lol at your dad paying for your next cycle, you should have your own talk show, offering advice to kids. I could just see you helping at risk kids become productive members of society, by teaching them how to create and sell deca out their parents' basement.
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Lol ya it weird when I think about it but then again he's like 5'6 and 230lbs he's a dam monster haha. He's done them in the past and I finally asked him if he's done them abt a month ago and he laughed and said "I knew you would ask me this one day" then I told him "why r u holding out on me" haha and we started talking and now were gonna do a cycle together.
Real father son bonding time haha. And that leads me to my thread I posted
Test and equipoise haha
 
Instead of reacting to each situation involving your father, try calmly explaining your feelings regarding supplement use. Verbally express your passion for physical fitness, and politely explain the role each supplement (or specific ingredient) plays in achieving your goals. I have a feeling you've expressed your true feelings in this thread, but not in person when conversing with your parents...
 
My friend you have no clue how easy you truly have it. My dad was killed when I was young. Later I ended up with a step father whos idea of fun was heavy drinking and hitting me. By the time I was 14 I was forced to get a job because he didn’t feel the need to buy me the most basic of things such as cloths and school supplies. When I was 16 I was forced to move out and thrown into the real world. Because of him I was unable to complete even high school due to the need to work full time to have a place to live. Now 10 years later he is out of the picture and I am just now able to start rebuilding a relationship with my mom for letting all of this go down.
Count your blessing, you really could have it so much worse.
 
fmfws185 said:
Lol ya it weird when I think about it but then again he's like 5'6 and 230lbs he's a dam monster haha. He's done them in the past and I finally asked him if he's done them abt a month ago and he laughed and said "I knew you would ask me this one day" then I told him "why r u holding out on me" haha and we started talking and now were gonna do a cycle together.
Real father son bonding time haha. And that leads me to my thread I posted
Test and equipoise haha
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Lol nothing says heart warming moment, quite like a father and son bonding over Deca.
 
UGHQTempus said:
Welcome to adult life. People all around you will be a-holes. You are 20 and its just starting. You are going to have a life of coworkers, family, relationships, friends and retards in the gym and on the street that project their crap on you. It sucks. Its a part of life.
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i absolutely agree with this.very intelligent insight, especially the projection part.yet to this day i havent really figured out how so many people can be so narrow minded.its not like it benefits them.they are miserable, at least where i come from.
then again, i think when you stop caring and transcend that bull****, these people suddenly become very respectful towards you and you wonder what happened.its like when you have a really good day.you know those days where somehow everyone seems to be friendly?
 
At the stroke of midnite when my son became a teenager, I became an idiot. When he turned 20,I was a f**king idiot. At 32,dad knew what was right and he still calls me for advise from time to time. As time passes,you will see things in a different light, it's just the nature of growing.
 
Respect your parents bro..

THats all I have to say. Doesn't mean you have to like their rules, or what they accuse you of. Don't forget that you might not be so different then them, and that when you are older you will see where they are coming from on most issues. If you truly have issues, then move out like most have said and it will really put things in perspective. You only get one set of parents, and I dont know them but everyone who has kids has to learn as they go, so cut them a break.
 
David Dunn said:
If you need to have your Daddy take you to the doctor it suggests to me that you live under his roof, eat his food, are under his health care and likely your Mommy still does your laundry and might even still tuck you in at night.

When you're ready to make it on your own in the world then maybe you can do what you want without judgment. Until then...that's the breaks! :D
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^^^^ This...

Kristofer68SS said:
You will miss them when they are gone.

My dad was taken from me when I was 7 years old.

I have zero tolerance for this type of whining.

Move out or shut it.

/Rant.
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^^^^ ...and this.
 
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