i never understand why the world loves alcohol so much, its such a flawed drug. Alcohol, is pretty much the worse drug, illegal or not, that has negative consequences on different aspects of the body.
Will drinking a few times a month be bad, no, of course not, some studies have even shown modest quanties of alcohol can have certain benefits.
If you get drunk a few times a month, thats bad, a few times a month, equals 20-50 times a year, equals you get the picture. You could look up a study, saying that italians have better cholesterol and overall health because they drink a glass of red wine everyday.
Off topic, get some Thermogum, that stuff way better than alcohol any day, for a party. Is it safe? Hell, it could be less safe than alcohol. Like nothing is safe in major quantities.