People can and will manipulate people period, end of that discussion. Unless you have some type of clairvoyance then you can be lied to and made believe it. It is plain and simple. Unless you can just flat out read minds then you can be lied to and made to believe it....
Now, it is when you KNOW they are lying to you and you CHOOSE to not believe it is a lie, this is when you should slap yourself with a piece of broken glass.
Everyone gets trampled on in their voyage to a better situation. Hell, I had a girl that cheated on me and had 4 guys try to rip me apart, literally, kill me. Well, I can't say she SET ME UP because she didn't know I was coming over that night but she didn't tell me he had 3 friends waiting out back, wtf? One second I am tearing this guy limb from limb, the next second, I am face down being decimated by 4 guys. Shiat happens, move on.
The worst part wasn't even the physical beating. I could recover from that. It was the mental beating that she put me through by lying to me for 6 months about her friend, some guy from the military and a bouncer that her friend was cheating on with both guys. come to find out, in the end, it was me, her, and the other guy. I was playing the role of the military guy, the cheater guy was the bouncer and she was the friend...lol
Imagine, she asked me advice on several situations as to what she should tell her "friend". Damn, when I think back about what i told her to tell her friend, then finding out it was actually her, me, and the guy that I was giving advice about....i nearly lost it, well i did lose it. I went into an institution for 3 weeks.
That's like me coming to you zero, and giving you stories about some chick from Alaska that I am sleeping with and asking you advice about it, you giving me all types of advice on what to say and do and in the end, you find out it was your wife the whole time....
