What is the best one for getting a girls attention to talk to you ?

more like trouble.

No if she focuses on me then to me it's a good sign she cares about me (at least for the moment) and will block out some ho across the room.

I like the gougeous ones that act like a lady instead of a ho. One that I'd think while dating her "holy cow, and she picked me..."

I don't need a ho I need a hug when I feel like crap. That's a woman in my book.
 
i just assume all girls want me and that seems to do the trick... if one denies a kiss i give up and go meet her more interesting and more attractive friend.
 
Just thought I'd add this one, after spending a little time single in the past week or so.
This is struictly for getting girls to talk to YOU.

Your on the phone, or talking to a dude while at a bar , walking by girls, group of girls or sitting next to them.

"All women SAY they want a nice guy, but SECRETLY, they want something else"

IT's gold.
They can't help but want to know what the "secrete" is,...
Plus, they dont know what they want themselves. It peeks their interest, and the ylove a good secret, and just want to shoot down the guy who thinks he has women fiqured out..
THEY WILL COME TO YOU MOST OF THE TIME. If not, just drop it.

HAve an answer though,...
But have the RIGHT answer. (something like nice guys are like diet fod, only good for a few weeks. They want a man who "gets it".. who keeps their interest, confidence, builds attraction, does his own thing, ( Dont say:Alpha male type who OCCASIOBALLY does nice things ON HIS OWN TERMS, realizes that keeping the element of attraction is the #1 key to keeping things interesting)


A;so, women love unique things.
HAve the MOST interesting lighter, least a a prop. HAve the MOST interesting shirt. You get the idea.
 
ItsHectic said:
Only point I dont agree with, you should be focusing your attention on her while your breaking the ice, not other people, I hate it when I am with a girl and she has to say something negative about another girl across the street or room, it usually has insecure or ***** written all over it
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However, most girls see guys doing this as being confident and glad they are themselves and not others. They also see this as having moreso of an ******* persona to others but they get that real deal. My girl seems to be into the fact that I can't be a complete **** with everyone else but her. It makes her feel safe I guess because she knows I'll speak up if someone is trying to pull some **** with her. If you do it without sounding overly upset about something someones doing or wearing and it's more of a joking laid back approach that doesn't go into detail then they'll see you as being confident and not egotistical. It's better than talking about yourself. Girls don't like to hear guys talk about themselves, they like to talk. So throw in some smart ass comments, then ask her some questions but not like your interviewing her for a job. Everyone hates talking about work, school, etc. Unless she looks hella young and your over 18, I'd avoid asking their age right off the bat.
 
Pherlure works for me!!! I have a hard time startin up conversations with girls but the way they act around you when your wearin the pherlure helps you relax and just talk!! Try it you'll see what i mean!!
 
Rivet said:
I like the "smart" girls/women so usually the line "Oh thats a good book/subject" when I have read the book /know the subject, works :). This only works when they are holding a book hehe. Otherwise Its odd but usually I'm the one who Is approached so I don't have too much experience in the initial "pickup" department.
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In my opinion, the answer to this thread is simple.

1. Have a body like Rivet

2. Drive a Sports Car

3. Blow a hell of a lot of money on your target

4. ????

5. Profit!

Works better than any pheromone. :icon_lol:
 
Mach .78 said:
Never,ever, accept a drink from some seemingly confident guy that you didn't witness being poured or opened with your own eyes. Think I'm bullsh1ting? Someone slipped something into my wifes drink "before we met" one night and her guy "friend" took her home. She asked him the next day what happened and he said, "We started messing around but you said stop so I stopped.":think: I'm sorry KG but I have seen plenty of guys(decent looking scumbags) that would "make the effort". Run new guys through your guy friends, they can smell a bullsh1tter a mile off and beat the crap out of him to boot. Always have backup, I'm in South Florida, what do you expect?
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One of my family members was violated because of someone slipping some powder into her drink, beware!
p.s. I live in south Fl
 
xtraflossy said:
Just thought I'd add this one, after spending a little time single in the past week or so.
This is struictly for getting girls to talk to YOU.

Your on the phone, or talking to a dude while at a bar , walking by girls, group of girls or sitting next to them.

"All women SAY they want a nice guy, but SECRETLY, they want something else"

IT's gold.
They can't help but want to know what the "secrete" is,...
Plus, they dont know what they want themselves. It peeks their interest, and the ylove a good secret, and just want to shoot down the guy who thinks he has women fiqured out..
THEY WILL COME TO YOU MOST OF THE TIME. If not, just drop it.

HAve an answer though,...
But have the RIGHT answer. (something like nice guys are like diet fod, only good for a few weeks. They want a man who "gets it".. who keeps their interest, confidence, builds attraction, does his own thing, ( Dont say:Alpha male type who OCCASIOBALLY does nice things ON HIS OWN TERMS, realizes that keeping the element of attraction is the #1 key to keeping things interesting)


A;so, women love unique things.
HAve the MOST interesting lighter, least a a prop. HAve the MOST interesting shirt. You get the idea.
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as a female, this is one of the funniest things I have ever read. And by funny, I mean ridiculous.

You don't need props, one liners, magically smelly ****... You are either a douche or youre not. Just be yourself and say hi. And for all you douche's out there, take heart because lots of stupid good looking chicks will still think you are great.
 
With those kinda replies, the thread title should be changed now to:

"Hi, I want to stay a virgin, what do I do?"

:lol:
 
"I don't know how to put this but I'm kind of a big deal":thumbsup:
 
Dudes, If you have the time, this book changed the way I act in EVERY social situation, anywhere I am. Conquer your campus. It's mostly about college campuses and social hierarchies within. But honestly, it applies EVERY moment of your life.

It pretty much tells you to be a 20% man, a fun, dominant, easygoing, leader. It's simple, put those traits into your attitude, and be yourself around girls. Act like theyre normal people, not some sort of entity that you have to win over or stand there and hope for some sort of magic(pheromone...LOL!) to win them over for you. Chicks don't want random horny dudes around them, they want guys who embody those four traits, so that they can be themselves too. Just try to have fun no matter what situation you're in, don't focus on getting ass, TRUST ME, it WILL come to you.
 
Real Social Dynamics.

It changes everything about you and basically forces you to look deep within yourself and analyze why react in a certain fashion. It helps you to look at yourself because if you don't learn to correct your behaviors, then success with women will never happen.
 
hey alls i have to do is wear the rolex and pull out the wad of cash wrapped up in a tiffanys money clip. money and the presence of money is like a great door opener, and leg opener. just because u got it also, doesn't mean u gotta spend it on her.

also, get some victoria's secret very sexy for him cologne. i swear to god, you put that on and I don't know what it is, but chicks get intoxicated with that smell when i wear it. even married women (some fine lookin ones i might add) just cant get enough of it.
 
Some Aqua Dgio and a good sense of humor will win them every time. Women are more attracted to guys that can make them laugh than anything else. I still keep my GF laughing till she snorts to this day.
 
thegodfather said:
Some Aqua Dgio and a good sense of humor will win them every time. Women are more attracted to guys that can make them laugh than anything else. I still keep my GF laughing till she snorts to this day.
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Making a woman laugh is the key to her heart!

Good post!:goodpost:

In addition though....the secret to getting attention from women...I don't care how played out it sounds...it is the big "C" word...get your head out of the gutter...not that C word....I'm talking Confidence! :D

Cheers!:cheers:
 
You can wear whatever you like, but if you don't have game at all, she will be long gone before she smells you. Be confident and be yourself. Do things you enjoy so that you have things to talk about with people(that will also put you in a good mood). The biggest mistake is trying to be somebody who you're not because you will feel uncomfortable and that won't make you confident(unless you fake confidence and you're good at it). It's not that hard once you get it going.

And making a lot of women laugh is boring. I don't want to offend anyone, but I'm bored of doing it. I make them laugh while I'm getting bored due to the fact that they're not joking back nor contributing in any way to the conversation(it's like that quote of Churchill... Don't have a battle of wits with an unarmed person). This type of women are just lucky they have a hole in between their legs because otherwise nobody would have talked to them otherwise. This is why I always have my first meeting with a girl in a park... If she's boring, I tell her I have to go and leave.

thesinner said:
Girls don't go to the clubs/bars just to drink drinks that would cost half as much if prepared at home and dance to crappy music.
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I know girls that do. Since morons always pay their drinks and that makes club/bar drinks cheaper than home drinks. Free costs less than cheap.

If nothing works, GHB does. jk
 
well its easy...talking to a fat chick is so easy its fun. Requires no effort your just talk to them like they are a friend.

Now picture the hot chick you want to approach as a fat walrus taking a sh*t. Now its instantly easy to talk to her without trying to hard and screwing up.
 
monsterbox said:
well its easy...talking to a fat chick is so easy its fun. Requires no effort your just talk to them like they are a friend.

Now picture the hot chick you want to approach as a fat walrus taking a sh*t. Now its instantly easy to talk to her without trying to hard and screwing up.
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:head: thats so true.
 
monsterbox said:
well its easy...talking to a fat chick is so easy its fun. Requires no effort your just talk to them like they are a friend.

Now picture the hot chick you want to approach as a fat walrus taking a sh*t. Now its instantly easy to talk to her without trying to hard and screwing up.
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:icon_lol:That if Fen funny, But so true. I also had to add your quote to my sig.
 
karategirl said:
Ooze confidence and don’t seem too desperate.
If a guy walks into a room with a ton of confidence then it makes me want to know what I am missing, he is obviously something hot and knows it.
If you walk in with your head down then I will probably not give you a second glance.
One liners, may work if they are not cheesy and if they are made as a joke, a nice compliment would go a really long way too.
“I couldn’t help but notice how beautiful your eyes are and I have to come over and tell you”.
Something like that makes a girl feel really special.
Offer to buy her a drink, or even better, find out what she is drinking and get one for her before she asks, that shows that you have made an effort.
Most importantly be yourself, because we can sniff out a bull****ter a mile off.
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^^^^^ this is so unbelievably true. I met my wife 3 days after I won a show and she had no chance to say no because I was oozing so much confidence! If I had met her in the off-season I may have never spoken to her.
 
monsterbox said:
well its easy...talking to a fat chick is so easy its fun. Requires no effort your just talk to them like they are a friend.

Now picture the hot chick you want to approach as a fat walrus taking a sh*t. Now its instantly easy to talk to her without trying to hard and screwing up.
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HAHA, but I may feel a little dirty approaching a fat walrus with the same intentions as a hot chick.
 
monsterbox said:
well its easy...talking to a fat chick is so easy its fun. Requires no effort your just talk to them like they are a friend.

Now picture the hot chick you want to approach as a fat walrus taking a sh*t. Now its instantly easy to talk to her without trying to hard and screwing up.
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The problem is that I rarely talk to fat girls. Simply because they're usually dumb and needy too. I'm amused that they come and talk to me like they just saw Brad Pitt.
:dump:

My problem isn't getting to talk to girls, but finding girls that are worth while.
 
No girl is going to talk to you. Women usually want an aggressor. No matter what you wear, do, or how you look. Go after what you want.
 
killfat said:
No girl is going to talk to you. Women usually want an aggressor. No matter what you wear, do, or how you look. Go after what you want.
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true and not true, there are some woman that are aggressors based on their behavior pheromones.
 
I would have to agree... dont put the pxssy on a pedestal on you'll be fine... talk to them like you would talk to anyone else in the bar
 
There isn't a replacement for strong self-image and confidence. Its not about an act. Usually RSD has a bad reputation, but I suggest watching "The Blueprint Decoded" as a solid foundation. And make sure you watch it at least twice.
 
What man wants to be pursued anyway? Unless you're that wus from Twilight. You don't have to be a caveman but women do usually, prefer men to chase after them. Sometimes I catch women baiting and waiting at the gym for dudes and the dudes are so into joking w/their dumb friends or are just not paying attention that they miss it. Here he's stressing on how to talk to girls and maybe they're already there. It depends on the situation, but a couple normal glances here and there and then a day or two passes and they continue and it just builds up to Hi. Hi is good. Sometimes Hi is safe and safety too is what women want. It's a passive aggressive way to put yourself out there.
 
hahaha, dont need no stinking pheromones. Just grow a pair and walk up to the nice female and start with a hi, maybe a "dont I know you from somewhere?" but always look at body language, smile, facial expressions etc. Works for me..:burnout:
 
bigpapa said:
please tell me u have not seen that....
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I haven't, and not even free would I. The girl in it is really dopey too. I can't do moody vampires. At least when Brad Pitt was whinning in Interview w/a Vampire, it was funny and Tom was just so excited to be in ruffles but I can't do moody teen vampires that live in trees. I can't. I just can't.
 
I'm sure all you guys knows this but women have an extra sense of smell. We're able to smell someone on you, where you've been and if something is going on. So, any change in your PH for the better, like cologne, ANY kind of cologne, it's a good thing. Brands really don't matter. If it smells good, and you don't have game, at least you'll get a positive response out of us or at least you'd be known as the dude that smells awesome as opposed to that quiet loser that stinks. I'm a woman and when I was dating women, I used to leave samples out on my desk, like I didn't even notice them, and just went about my day working and the girl that I liked stopped one day and said, "hey I love that stuff" and pointed to one of them and smelled it, and that's how I found out what scent she liked and that's what I bought. Those little tricks work just fyi. Nevertheless, you still have to go after them.
 
Yeah this phermone deal is total horseshit. Be yourself. Smile alot make eye contact. If she looks away first then looks back again youre on the right track. Women love attention and confidence from us. All ya gotta do is do a ballcheck and give it to them. Learn to read body language. If she plays with her hair that means shes making herself moe attractive for you. Google it, do some research. Learn to speak well. And be honest.
 
Brutus977 said:
Yeah this phermone deal is total horseshit. Be yourself. Smile alot make eye contact. If she looks away first then looks back again youre on the right track. Women love attention and confidence from us. All ya gotta do is do a ballcheck and give it to them. Learn to read body language. If she plays with her hair that means shes making herself moe attractive for you. Google it, do some research. Learn to speak well. And be honest.
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I wouldn't say it's complete and utter horseshit. There is a lot of cutting edge research coming out showing that both men and women are subconsciously receptive to pheromones. Especially during key times throughout the month.

However, due to the complexity of human social interaction, and given that we are much more evolved that our primate ancestors who relied more heavily on scent and pheromone cues than we do now, it would be foolish for anyone to believe that using pheromones = a guaranteed lay. They are not.

What pheromones do is give you an advantage. They help men and women take advantage of one of many attraction mechanisms that we respond to. So if your game sucks, you can have a pheromone advantage while you work on your gaming skills. If your game is spot on, you can increase your conversion ratio by using pheromones. This will give you not only a socially calibrated advantage, but a chemical advantage as well when it comes to triggering chemical attraction mechanisms.

Having game is key, I can't stress the importance of that enough. And there are many phenomenal resources out there for improving your game. But just like an athlete looking to completely enhance his muscle growth, he/she has to take advantage of all possible methods to induce muscle growth. It would be like lifting hard and heavy and getting plenty of sleep while eating tons of protein, but neglecting to consume high levels of complex carbs. You have to cover all your bases and all factors to get the best results.

Using a pheromone cologne is like covering all your bases in this example. Guys wear cologne anyways, so why not wear a cologne that smells great AND gives you a pheromone advantage?
 
bigpapa said:
hey alls i have to do is wear the rolex and pull out the wad of cash wrapped up in a tiffanys money clip. money and the presence of money is like a great door opener, and leg opener. just because u got it also, doesn't mean u gotta spend it on her.
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Kinda disagree. If you are going out of your way to show you got $$$ women will sense this and feel like your trying to buy them or they will stick you in the friend zone and suck you dry of cash without giving you the nookie. Men who have money are successfull with women because they are overflowing with confidence from their business ventures and it shows all over them. Confidence, having balls, being funny and very social with everyone, and most of all not giving a f whether or not some chick digs you(because you have many options with other females and have high standards) is how you get chicks. I never buy chicks drinks that I meet for the first time, as it makes you look like you are trying to get with them and kinda like a puss. If some chick asks me to buy her a drink I laugh and say "sure you get the next round thats how I do it with my friends".
 
Rodja said:
Real Social Dynamics.

It changes everything about you and basically forces you to look deep within yourself and analyze why react in a certain fashion. It helps you to look at yourself because if you don't learn to correct your behaviors, then success with women will never happen.
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I'm all for looking at yourself to correct mistakes and weaknesses, but Tyler is one annoying individual. You can get more effective stuff from DeAngelo and Mystery, neither of whom talk like they are a 15 year old.

The problem is that I rarely talk to fat girls. Simply because they're usually dumb and needy too. I'm amused that they come and talk to me like they just saw Brad Pitt.


My problem isn't getting to talk to girls, but finding girls that are worth while.
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Agreed. Maybe 1/5 have worthwhile brains and personality, roughly the same number have worthwhile looks. So, yeah, about 1/25 is really girlfriend material, and not all of them are going to be into you.

Nevertheless, you still have to go after them.
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I actually followed this advice from 16-21, with almost universal failure. Hot-cold, negs, a playful attitude, and almost never asking a girl out or for her number have taken me everywhere I want to go relationship wise since then. And I'm a total fatass.
 
The Paper Route said:
I need one so that whn i go near a girl and talk to them they just stay near me and talk and get interested in me.
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sorry to bust your balls man but no there will never ever be a cologne or scent that will make you any more interesting to a woman, just won't happen. girls don't like guys because of the way they smell...
 
Hatebreed930 said:
Kinda disagree. If you are going out of your way to show you got $$$ women will sense this and feel like your trying to buy them or they will stick you in the friend zone and suck you dry of cash without giving you the nookie. Men who have money are successfull with women because they are overflowing with confidence from their business ventures and it shows all over them. Confidence, having balls, being funny and very social with everyone, and most of all not giving a f whether or not some chick digs you(because you have many options with other females and have high standards) is how you get chicks. I never buy chicks drinks that I meet for the first time, as it makes you look like you are trying to get with them and kinda like a puss. If some chick asks me to buy her a drink I laugh and say "sure you get the next round thats how I do it with my friends".
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i dont go out of my way. thats the way i dress anyways. i usually go out to the bar i work at neways so everyhting is free for me neways so i just say put it on m tab. the girls usually know who i am neways becuz they see me working the other nights. but it dont hurt to show a lil sumin sumin once in a while
 
a7 or chikara, maybe soe, none will work if you don't have any game. There are entire pheromone boards dedicated to this debate, google pheromone forum.
 
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killfat said:
No girl is going to talk to you. Women usually want an aggressor. No matter what you wear, do, or how you look. Go after what you want.
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Maybe no woman comes and talks to you... I've never approached a woman and I do ok. I am sure I would do better if I had balls but I still do better than most guys with balls.
 
The Paper Route said:
I need one so that whn i go near a girl and talk to them they just stay near me and talk and get interested in me.
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It's called talking...In my social circle and my platoon, im pretty much the pick up artist. Because it is an art. I havent studied it long, but im a quick learner, and it works...

Check out Lovesystems.com

I have their e-book, Magic Bullets. A lot is covered in there, but their boot camps are stellar. I never thought that **** would work, but it does. In short, have a good opener, transistion, attract with teasing and games, then progress further to comfort and seduction. Its a very indepth book and process, but it works.

Forget everything you've seen in movies and TV shows, it doesnt work. For example, never buy a girl a drink unless she truely deserves it. I mean after a few hours of talking/dancing/being with her...
 
JassUSMC said:
Forget everything you've seen in movies and TV shows, it doesnt work. For example, never buy a girl a drink unless she truely deserves it. I mean after a few hours of talking/dancing/being with her...
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That's right. TV shows are all unrealistic.

Try this cool game to learn some game to get some game.
arianeb.com/dategame.htm
 
JassUSMC said:
Forget everything you've seen in movies and TV shows, it doesnt work. For example, never buy a girl a drink unless she truely deserves it. I mean after a few hours of talking/dancing/being with her...
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reminds me of a time i was in a club...talking away to some chick for about 10mins then she comes out with " so you going to buy me a drink?"

"erm no" and off i go :)
 
Chub said:
reminds me of a time i was in a club...talking away to some chick for about 10mins then she comes out with " so you going to buy me a drink?"

"erm no" and off i go :)
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hahahaha nice
 
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