Prayer Request Thread
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Zero V
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The pain is in the middle of my back down into my lower back. Its not really a pain like...if I fell, or if I punched something, or got cut kinda pain. Its like a low humming pain that goes constantly and builds up and is driving me mad.
I would say a burning almost but not quite. Like a tooth ache in my back maybe. Its right along my spinal cord.
I was fine like friday, and over the weekend. Last day I lifted was sunday which is when it was bothering me a lil. though I only did tri/chest.
Last week when doing situps, my back was popping. I had a vertibre that would pop when I would pull up in the situp. Not uncommon, did it to me last year too. A bit of stretching and it would go away, etc.
Well this time it kept popping. Then I noticed the next time I lifted even if I leaned back it popped. And doing inclined DB fly's was a lil uncomfortable for it even. And for my flat DB bench it was rough to get down.
So yesterday its been driving me mad. Mostly because I am so worried, and I am attributing some of it to being psychosomatic because of worry. Even though I cannot find a comfortable position atm, and I hate sitting with it.
I am taking Darvocets I had left over from a time ago, and using Active On rubbed up and down my spinal cord to relieve it. The combo makes the pain go away. Honestly the Ative On stick took care of the pain all day, I didnt take a pain pill till 2 hours ago. I havent slept either due to a slim x from yesterday.
There is the story
sorry its long. Wanted to include it a..
Iron Lungz
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Jon - My prayers are with you and your family during this time of loss. Stay strong, my friend.
DR.D
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I love you Jon, I wish I knew something more to say brother. You and your family remain in my prayers.
God bless.
tattoopierced1
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well when it rains it pours.. so not only do i have court and custody to worry about, but my fiance lost her job today..
DR.D
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Sometimes God spares us a greater pain later, by giving us a lesser pain now. If Tyler was going to live in pain, how gracious God was to spare him and his family that pain, and take him to that eternal playground now! There is good reason for everything He does, though it's a weak consolation today as our tears and prayers join with this man and his family.
DR.D
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Prayers in progress bro!
DR.D
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Sorry Tatt. What about your ex, what's her financial situation?
tattoopierced1
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well my ex has had 5-6 jobs I would guess in 2 years (she quits on her own) and is an LPN, so she makes decent money. She's moved my son 4 times in the past 1.5 years and isnt providing a 4 year old with a stable, secure environment like she should be.. its a real mess I tell ya. Add to that, we have joint physical custody and I'm supposed to have say in things like his education, and she never consults me on any of it, but just "tells me how it is going to be".. if I had to take her back to court over every rule she blatantly broke, I'd be hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt....
DR.D
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Sounds like she's mad because she has no control of you now. My ex bypasses me as often as she can too and uses our 5yo daughter as a pawn to try and still control me. I've given it over to God because I don't see a solution!
I got your back in prayer tatt, and feel free to PM if you ever need a friend to listen bro. God bless.
I got your back in prayer tatt, and feel free to PM if you ever need a friend to listen bro. God bless.
subweevil
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Goes double for me bud!! Matter of fact, that goes for anyone here. You folks see me on and need to vent, pm me and I'll pop of my cell number so you can get it off your chest if you need to, since I know it just isn't the same venting at a computer. I work an awful lot, but when I'm on here, it's all good!! All the best to everyone!!
BUCKNUTS
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Amen bro we may not know the reason but we do know that we can trust God to do what is the absolute right thing for us.
Jeremiah 29:11
11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.
tattoopierced1
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That is part of it I do believe. Had a psych appointment for my son yesterday and when she asked him about his family and where he lived, he replied "with daddy sometimes, and sometimes with my mean mommy". I really hope this all works out for the best, and that psych answered some questions that helped. My son has been having bad headaches for the past few months, and my ex has taken him to the Dr. for it but they find nothing, and the psych said anxiety and stress can cause the headaches, so it all makes perfect sense now. He never has the headaches when he is with me, seems to only be with his mom, the unstable one.
dragonfly
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AMEN Dr D, put your faith where it CANNOT be compromised and you will endure whatever life throws at you Invalid Link Removed
There is only one way to heaven and many ways to hell. No wonder majority of people are lost.
...A week ago I went shopping. It was Saturday and I usually do the bulk of my groceries on Saturdays and I also USUALLY complain and whine :rant: Invalid Link Removed about not having a car.....
Well, that particular Saturday as I was taking off on my bike fully loaded (I felt like a mule :lol
, there was this guy looking at me with the “oh-I-feel-so-sorry-for-you-life-must-be-tough-without-a-car” expression on his face. I was just smiling :biglaugh: ... I thought, what's a car worth if you don't know God ? What's anything worth in this world if you end up gambling your place in heaven. .... no compromises, there is only one way to get there I’ve been going through some rough times lately. I won’t go into details because they are irrelevant, we all have our troubles and to each of us our own sufferings are the greatest because well, they are ours !
The only thing that maintains my sanity is my faith in God. Everything that happens to us is according to God’s plan and we don’t have to understand it nor should we get angry at God for not understanding it. It is in fact a test of faith. To those of us who withstand it, the whys shall be revealed
Like Keeper, I have never lost my faith in God (even though I did go off his path a couple of times
)Here is why:
When I was about 3 years old I saw a demonic appearance. In that moment I acquired "intelligence and awareness" that was beyond that of a child. It was almost like I was in another, parallel dimension. My parents were present in the same room but they were oblivious to what I was experiencing....and I was completely aware of that. I knew it was not intended for them to see the demon.
The evil I felt from that thing was beyond horrible. I don't think I could ever find words to describe it.
For a long time I struggled with that experience, I kept asking God: Of all people, why me ?
Why did the demonic appearance happen to me ?!!!!! I know now..... I know that hell exists.
I know rejecting God and not living by His word is a ticket to hell.
Point being, whatever troubles and grievances this earthly life gives me, NOTHING, and I repeat NOTHING compares to the horror I felt for the brief moment in which I faced pure evil. To think that I could spend eternity in a place full of demons is enough to set my path only where God wants it
........I am happy not to do my way, I will gladly do God’s way, I will gladly endure all the tests He gives me, I shall not complain, nor shall I be too inquisitive about God’s plans... for who am I to question The Creator ? Until now I have only shared this experience with three friends. As God’s witness I feel obliged to share it with all of you
Stay strong brothers and sisters, trust the Lord in all that you do and rest assured that all your sufferings shall be rewarded. THE LORD NEVER FAILS TO FULFILL HIS PROMISES. That is what satan does.
PRAISE THE LORD !!!!
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andrew732
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You know, I always hear people I do not want to go to hell, but want to go to heaven. I always say there is not point in even worrying about hell, I know I want to go to heaven not just avoid hell but to see the beautiful presence of God, to glorify and praise his name, to rejoice with God, to see the beauty of purity.
keeper
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Yes, yes, yes I cannot wait to fall on my face before Him then to have eternity to sit and listen to Paul, James, John, hotheaded Peter and the others who left everything behind to follow Christ in ministry. I want to hear all about their experiences. Talk about the great adventure!
I look forward to all that when this life is done, but for now, I relish the comfort and peace that this faith walk gives me.
isoc
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Old Gospel Hymn My Savior First of All
Words: Fanny Cros*by, 1891.
When my lifework is ended, and I cross the swelling tide,
When the bright and glorious morning I shall see;
I shall know my Redeemer when I reach the other side,
And His smile will be the first to welcome me.
Oh, the soul-thrilling rapture when I view His blessed face,
And the luster of His kindly beaming eye;
How my full heart will praise Him for the mercy, love, and grace,
That prepare for me a mansion in the sky.
Oh, the dear ones in glory, how they beckon me to come,
And our parting at the river I recall;
To the sweet vales of Eden they will sing my welcome home;
But I long to meet my Saviour first of all.
Thro' the gates to the city in a robe of spotless white,
He will lead me where no tears will ever fall;
In the glad song of ages I shall mingle with delight;
But I long to meet my Saviour first of all.
Refrain:
I shall know Him, I shall know Him,
And redeemed by His side I shall stand,
I shall know Him, I shall know Him
By the print of the nails in His hand.
I love that refrain!
Words: Fanny Cros*by, 1891.
When my lifework is ended, and I cross the swelling tide,
When the bright and glorious morning I shall see;
I shall know my Redeemer when I reach the other side,
And His smile will be the first to welcome me.
Oh, the soul-thrilling rapture when I view His blessed face,
And the luster of His kindly beaming eye;
How my full heart will praise Him for the mercy, love, and grace,
That prepare for me a mansion in the sky.
Oh, the dear ones in glory, how they beckon me to come,
And our parting at the river I recall;
To the sweet vales of Eden they will sing my welcome home;
But I long to meet my Saviour first of all.
Thro' the gates to the city in a robe of spotless white,
He will lead me where no tears will ever fall;
In the glad song of ages I shall mingle with delight;
But I long to meet my Saviour first of all.
Refrain:
I shall know Him, I shall know Him,
And redeemed by His side I shall stand,
I shall know Him, I shall know Him
By the print of the nails in His hand.
I love that refrain!
dragonfly
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Me too
To those who truly seek Him, God reveals Himself in everyday life. He is not a distant and impersonal force. The more time I spend reading His Word the more I am aware of His presence....and it makes me joyful in the worst of circumstances
Zero V
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Going to the ER tomorrow night....cant stand the spinal pain no more...this is a nerve, i know it because the pain shoots into my stomach, and is messing with appetite and also making me feel like I gotta poo 24/7
Sry for complaining so much. I never felt this before...broken bones aint shiz....to this.
Sry for complaining so much. I never felt this before...broken bones aint shiz....to this.
BUCKNUTS
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Me too
To those who truly seek Him, God reveals Himself in everyday life. He is not a distant and impersonal force. The more time I spend reading His Word the more I am aware of His presence....and it makes me joyful in the worst of circumstances
Amen sister the more time I spend in prayer and reading God's word the closer I am to Him, my faith has waned at times and and I have moved away from God at times but I've never lost my faith. in the end I realize that God stays faithful it's me who walks away and when I do it's clear that my attitude and my outlook become darker. I love these scriptures from Ephesians 6 on the subject, as always God's word is truth. God bless everyone, have a blessed day.
Ephesians 6
14 Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, 15 and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; 16 above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. 17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; 18 praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints
DR.D
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Don't worry bro. My daughter's psychiatrist said one day it will back fire on our ex's, big time. When our kids get old enough to see the truth, they will resent them badly she said. It's sad, but that's when we can take them back and finish parenting the way it should be. In fact, my 5yo already has started to see it! She says "my mommy lies all the time, she's never happy, and she doesn't do what she says she will, but the other mommy is a nice lady and she never lies, she does what she promises."
Kids know, they figure it out. Even as careful as I am to defend my ex for all her mishandling, my daughter isn't blind. The truth can tell itself. I know how much you must appreciate and respect your new wife for taking on this stress. God bless, strengthen and reward her too.
You're a good man tatt, I feel you. Hang in there bro, and please be strengthened knowing you're prayers are not alone.
DR.D
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... When I was about 3 years old I saw a demonic appearance. In that moment I acquired "intelligence and awareness" that was beyond that of a child. It was almost like I was in another, parallel dimension. My parents were present in the same room but they were oblivious to what I was experiencing....and I was completely aware of that. I knew it was not intended for them to see the demon.
The evil I felt from that thing was beyond horrible. I don't think I could ever find words to describe it.
For a long time I struggled with that experience, I kept asking God: Of all people, why me ?
I know now..... I know that hell exists.
I know rejecting God and not living by His word is a ticket to hell. ...
Thanks for the T-Rex, I love dino stuff! I had an extensive fossil collection by the age of 6 and could tell you all the Greek names for everything by heart, lol. I wanted to be a paleontologist when I grew up.
About the demonic realization, I have seen and heard them too. It's actually what led me to Christ, but I can't imagine it happening at so young an age as 3. You are a strong woman, dragonfly, with a spirit of discernment and courage. You are protected by our Lord Jesus Christ no doubt.
"Because he loves me," says the LORD, "I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. He will call upon me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. With long life will I satisfy him and show him my salvation." - Psalms 91
BeBig
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Don't worry bro. My daughter's psychiatrist said one day it will back fire on our ex's, big time. When our kids get old enough to see the truth, they will resent them badly she said. It's sad, but that's when we can take them back and finish parenting the way it should be. In fact, my 5yo already has started to see it! She says "my mommy lies all the time, she's never happy, and she doesn't do what she says she will, but the other mommy is a nice lady and she never lies, she does what she promises."
I know how much you must appreciate and respect your new wife for taking on this stress. God bless, strengthen and reward her too.
You're a good man tatt, I feel you. Hang in there bro, and please be strengthened knowing you're prayers are not alone.
Definitely agree with you on the kids D they know truth and that's about it because if they lie and get in trouble they know better so they will see truth in everything...They will tell on their parents and everything its crazy but good in the same respect though...
BUCKNUTS
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I don't know anything about the problems a lot of you brothers are or have experienced with ex-wives and I thank God for that. I would be lost if my wife went psycho on me, I don't know anything about how to be with any other woman it's been to long that would def suck. I have 3 kids and they are def more observant and perceptive than given credit for being. It really is sad that any parent would use their child as a tool against the other parent, divorce is difficult for a child and you would think parents would knock themselves out to make sure the children adjust as best they can instead of playing games with their emotional well being. I pray that all of these children be restored as well as the hurting parents.
BeBig
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I will pray for all them too...I've been through that kinda when i was a kid an it's not cool...my mom didn't really try to put me against my dad so to speak but i do remember her saying some things she probably shouldn't have about him cuz i still remember that today and I'm 32 yrs old now....
keeper
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My mom left when I was 6 and both my lil sibs still in diapers. My dad raised us alone and extremely well. We had it better than most kids with 2 parents in the home. We didn't see much of our mom, but when we were with her it was obvious that she had the utmost respect for our dad. Though he had plenty of reasons, Dad never spoke ill of our mother. He helped us deal with the situation in as healthy a way as possible. I overheard him tell my uncle that whether our mom deserved our respect or not, "those 3 kids need to be able to find things to respect about their mother and I'm seeing TO that, for their emotional well-being." We benefited endlessly from his wisdom and unselfish love.
BUCKNUTS
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That's what I'm talking about, that's a good dad he put his own hurt aside and tried to make sure his children adjusted to a bad situation as well they could. BeBig the fact that you remember those comments all these years later just goes to show how hurtful that situation can be. Have a great day everyone and God bless you all.
keeper
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I'm not an expert... haven't been there as a parent, but I'd sure encourage anyone to put forth all effort to hit the delete button on bitterness. God can enable that. It will help you find a more peaceful existence and will be much more healthy for your children. You can't control your ex but you can control how much the dumb things they do get to live in your heads rent free. It's hard to accept, but you can only do so much when parenting part time. I feel for you guys, especially regarding the step-parent issue. Truly. Just do the best you can to help them know they are loved and be as involved in their lives as possible.
dedlifter1
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Don't worry bro. My daughter's psychiatrist said one day it will back fire on our ex's, big time. When our kids get old enough to see the truth, they will resent them badly she said. It's sad, but that's when we can take them back and finish parenting the way it should be. In fact, my 5yo already has started to see it! She says "my mommy lies all the time, she's never happy, and she doesn't do what she says she will, but the other mommy is a nice lady and she never lies, she does what she promises."
I know how much you must appreciate and respect your new wife for taking on this stress. God bless, strengthen and reward her too.
You're a good man tatt, I feel you. Hang in there bro, and please be strengthened knowing you're prayers are not alone.
This is absolutely correct. As the child gets older, the resentment against the bad-mouthing parent will manifest. I think as we get older, it is important to remember that we are still all human, and often times we make desicions based soley upon our emotions, with no thought of the future consequences. My father used to bad mouth my mother, because she chose to go drinking instead of being my mom. I used to idolize my father, but as i got older, I came to see his pitfalls, some major, as a parent, but instead of resenting him for them, i examined my own behavior, and have done everything in my power to ensure that i am the best possible father i can be, and you know what? I still fall short. That is why I trust in GOD, to help me be a better father, husband, friend, worker, etc. I guess my point is that if we trust in GOD, and realize that judgement is reserved for him and him alone, we will be able to come into situations like these, see the transgressions of others, and forgive.
Andy G
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Prayer Request:
Hello all. A friend of mine and co-worker's brand new baby boy Zachary Yeager is going through some very challenging physical ailments. He was diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome(HLHS) back in March before he was born. Basically what this condition does is the left side of the heart is under developed and the right side of the heart starts to grow around it. The left side of the heart is the muscle that pumps blood throughout and there is usually a hole between the right atrium and this muscle that is way too small. Zachary has to undergo three open heart surgeries before the age of 2. He just had his first, two weeks ago, and has been surviving with the chest left open as it heals, etc. The chest closure is this morning. I was hoping to have the power of a.m. prayer on his side today! Thank you all for your spiritual support in this matter and feel truly blessed to able to be a part of your world as well.
Hello all. A friend of mine and co-worker's brand new baby boy Zachary Yeager is going through some very challenging physical ailments. He was diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome(HLHS) back in March before he was born. Basically what this condition does is the left side of the heart is under developed and the right side of the heart starts to grow around it. The left side of the heart is the muscle that pumps blood throughout and there is usually a hole between the right atrium and this muscle that is way too small. Zachary has to undergo three open heart surgeries before the age of 2. He just had his first, two weeks ago, and has been surviving with the chest left open as it heals, etc. The chest closure is this morning. I was hoping to have the power of a.m. prayer on his side today! Thank you all for your spiritual support in this matter and feel truly blessed to able to be a part of your world as well.
tattoopierced1
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Will be keeping the little one in my prayers.
JZ7757
Member
I am deeply moved this morning and so very troubled to hear about this little one. It is very tuff to hear of these little ones, that go through so much in the first few months/years. I have a coworker as well, who's granddaughter had been through (2) surgerys over six months to resolve spinal growth that happend when she was in the womb. Praise the Lord the operations and recovery have both been successful!
Lets us not forget, the Lord is faithful in all things, even more reason for our faith should not waiver in these difficult situtions. These come about so that his name can be Glorified and people may come to believe in his name, the only name that can save.
I have and will continue to pray for Zachary and that God will guide the doctors hands/decisions and that Zachary will make a full recovery. I will also continue to pray for you and for his father/family's salvation, if they do not know Christ.
BUCKNUTS
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To late for a.m. prayers Andy but never the less prayers sent. Please keep us updated on how Zachary is doing. God bless.
dedlifter1
Well-known member
I will most certainly be praying for him my friend!!!
Beau
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I can't imagine the anguish involved in some of the children-related posts I've read. I am so sorry for what the parents (and children) are going through.
Reading this made me realize how very thankful I am to have three healthy children. Even if I don't get to spend time with my youngest; I still take comfort in knowing she is physically healthy.
Reading this made me realize how very thankful I am to have three healthy children. Even if I don't get to spend time with my youngest; I still take comfort in knowing she is physically healthy.
Andy G
Member
Yes, gratitutde shrinks my problems down to the size of about nothing, especially compared to children with serious physical or mental challenges. God's plans are so far beyond my understanding most days. I don't understand why children are meant to suffer so. But I do have the faith to believe that there is some broader stroke of His brush, creating a picture I cannnot see, yet.
keeper
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Andy, that has puzzled me, too. A few years ago, I had kind of an ah-ha moment. I realized how observing the strength that a strong faith provides others during their valleys had grown my own faith. The ah-ha came when it registered with me that when we go through trials, there are always others looking on. If we crumble or grow angry/bitter, well... that's not exactly something that says our faith is beneficial nor is it a mindset that's appealing to others. I can't help but believe that those looking on are affected when we stand firm in our faith during trials. As they see our unshakable belief that SOMEHOW God will use trials for good there are innumerable instances where someone's going to think... "hmm... I want what he's got." As others see us draw strength from knowing that our God makes no mistakes and IS in control it is our true witness to His sovereignty. People on the fringes of our battles notice how our faith affects our fight.
Put simply, how believers handle the curves life throws is like a billboard showing others that He brings comfort and assurance, regardless the circumstance. Seeing our faith in action during crisis can affect others for Christ. That was my ah-ha.
Put simply, how believers handle the curves life throws is like a billboard showing others that He brings comfort and assurance, regardless the circumstance. Seeing our faith in action during crisis can affect others for Christ. That was my ah-ha.
dedlifter1
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This is exactly true. Encouragment and leading by example, are the most powerful things we can do. Believe that I believe.
BUCKNUTS
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Amen Keeper, we are to be living testimonies.