I would like to make a note that not everyone here wants to be 5'10 240lbs.
My goal is about 190, I still need great speed, agility, etc to be effective. There are reasons I dont fear "big" people. They develop many weaknesses in the process of becoming so big.
Lets keep things civil. Everyone has their own goals. Think of Speed freak sprinters, they sure as hell dont want the same mass you do, but they will win a race everytime, and if trained in martial arts probably stand a better chance due to endurance/speed reasons in a fight...
Everyone has their highs and lows, so...Leave it at that?
Every one is young once, every one is dumb once.
I will yell at someone who is about to do something stupid yes. But there is a point where your just looking like idiots bickering like children.