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do you have sex, even when you dont want to!

Do you have sex, just to please your partner?

  • yes

    Votes: 17 37.0%

  • no

    Votes: 3 6.5%

  • sometimes

    Votes: 22 47.8%

  • never

    Votes: 4 8.7%
  • Total voters
    46
Dyou said:
funny question, this has been driving me crazy for the last couple of months. when my gf and i first got together we would go at it all the time almost every night. she had a medical problem for a little bit and since then its maybe once every 2 weeks. its VERRY discouraging when i try to make a move and i get denied 10 times in a row. makes me not even want to try anymore and i feel its starting to ruin our relationship.
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well mine is going through depression (well probably forever it runs in her family) so unless she's on anti-depressants she's NEVER, i repeat NEVER in the mood

When we first got together (3 years ago) we would do it whenever I wanted, then I found out she was doing it to make me happy but she had no interest in it :frustrate which was bad for me cause I thought it was my fault, but couple girls here and there has made me realize it aint my fault, cause they keep calling back for more... but im taken :numbered:
 
Dyou said:
we have talked about it before and her explaination is that she isnt comfortable with her body and that she feels ugly. I think she is gorgeous. then i think that never stopped us before... i dont think im a jelous person but that just makes me think theirs something going on that im not aware of.
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sounds like you need to romance her a bit. let her know, through flowers at work, a date night, etc that you still think she's the most beautiful woman out there. maybe if you somehow boosted her confidence, you could make the progress that you want.

a little trick i like to do, is when i'm feeling hungry, i'll bring a pillow down there with me. not only does it support my neck, but it lets her know i'll be there for awhile....

its the little things that make women feel better. sometimes, just having her know that you'll give her one first, is all you need to seal the deal in the future. just a thought.
 
Dyou said:
we have talked about it before and her explaination is that she isnt comfortable with her body and that she feels ugly. I think she is gorgeous. then i think that never stopped us before... i dont think im a jelous person but that just makes me think theirs something going on that im not aware of.
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You mentioned a medical condition. Do you think it is still a problem?
 
i voted yes!..due to the fact that precious!(the doll in my avatar)..has a steel libido,of course i got her second hand..but then again we all got one of those!..anyways..case at hand!..she's totally receptive to all of my advances,i like that in a woman!..even if she comes with a raft foot pump,you can say she loves to asessorise,..there is already talk about walking that aisel!..you guessed it,la,lalala,la,lalala!
we hardly ever fight,because of the awesome chemistery we have!..so i vote yes!..i have sex just to please her!..we were going at it all night ,lastnight and the only reason we stopped was because the ashtray fell off her a$$,and my lit ciggerate fell out of it and blew out her left thigh!..she's better now though..thanks for asking..and she wasnt' even mad!..this is a keeper!
 
crader said:
You mentioned a medical condition. Do you think it is still a problem?
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no she has been fine for two months now.

Suncloud: I do things all the time to let her know how gorgeous i think she is but it doesnt ever seem to change her self image. I lol'd at the pillow thing, I have only given an O once while doing that. I dont think I know what im doing when it comes to that specific action lol.
 
Dyou said:
no she has been fine for two months now.

Suncloud: I do things all the time to let her know how gorgeous i think she is but it doesnt ever seem to change her self image. I lol'd at the pillow thing, I have only given an O once while doing that. I dont think I know what im doing when it comes to that specific action lol.
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Slow and steady wins the race in that act. Just try it out and ask her to tell you what she likes most while you're doing it. Make sure you ask what "she likes the MOST", not what she likes and what she doesn't because some ladies are a little nervous about opening up on these subjects. Practice makes perfect, and along the way at least she knows that pleasing her is your priority :cheers:

That is of course if the problem is just insecurity on her end. If it's something more, then I'm at a loss my friend.
 
dsade said:
Goes both ways...but that said, it is sort of her job to turn you on, while at the same time it is your job to turn her on.

Provided the rest of your life is satisfying (no "issues" affecting overall sex drive), and there are no other confounding factors (worked for 5 days straight, big project due in 2 hours, etc.) then not wanting it is a symptom of other problems in the relationship.
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wow i was waiting for the punchline lol good words man.
 
i voted sometimes because sex is alot of fun and pleasurable dont get me wrong but sometimes im just not really into it, kinda just doing the deed. I love my girl though but this is the longest ive been with a girl and honestly once in awhile i get kinda bored with her esp when im the one doing all the work all the time and i have alot of stress on my mind, maybe i just wanna lay back and have her take a ride...
 
RenegadeRows said:
The Fleshlight is always horny. It's really taking a toll on me. :)
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better question - if you're drunk, desperate, and you don't think anyone would find out....would you hook up with a FleshHEAVY?
 
dsade said:
better question - if you're drunk, desperate, and you don't think anyone would find out....would you hook up with a FleshHEAVY?
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i have while in an tequila induced enibreated state!..and why not blame the tequila,when people fart,they blame it on the dog!..lol..!
 
Hell NO! If I smell it before I get it or see it, I don't want it. I like salmon, but only when it is cooked.
 
ABNRanger said:
Hell NO! If I smell it before I get it or see it, I don't want it. I like salmon, but only when it is cooked.
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So bring her into a jacuzzi and poach it.
 
ABNRanger said:
Hell NO! If I smell it before I get it or see it, I don't want it. I like salmon, but only when it is cooked.
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good answer



quick question. it's simply a matter of poor hygenie if it stinks correct? There arent girls who just stink inspite of good upkeep right?
 
There are some who smell regardless of how great their hygiene is. It's almost like someone with halitosis......no matter how much they brush their teeth, or use mouth wash, their breath still stinks. Some women with poor diets might suffer the same issue. My best friend told me her BF sperm began to taste bad since he started taking certain workout supplements. Of course I was like "OK that was TMI"
 
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