do you have sex, even when you dont want to!

Do you have sex, just to please your partner?

  • yes

    Votes: 17 37.0%

  • no

    Votes: 3 6.5%

  • sometimes

    Votes: 22 47.8%

  • never

    Votes: 4 8.7%
  • Total voters
    46
Yes, that woman has no empathy for my feelings. Sometimes I just want to snuggle and know she cares:toofunny:

:bruce3:
 
back before I was christian, I know my girlfriend did this a few times. But alas.....I figure marriage has those days too, i will find out someday.
 
I never turn it down. never. The main reason is. You never know when you're going to need it again. or when the ole lady wants to. plus after about :30 sec. i say to myself....."yeah, i wanna do it!"
 
Yes. Unless it's with someone new, my sex drive is usually pretty low. I just get bored with the same woman easily, regardless of how/where/what we do after a while. But since I love this girl, I'm gonna give her the dik when she wants it, so that she stays happy. And I'm an expert at being "into it" so no worries on that front. I can pump with the best of em'. enthused or no.
 
Goes both ways...but that said, it is sort of her job to turn you on, while at the same time it is your job to turn her on.

Provided the rest of your life is satisfying (no "issues" affecting overall sex drive), and there are no other confounding factors (worked for 5 days straight, big project due in 2 hours, etc.) then not wanting it is a symptom of other problems in the relationship.
 
If I'm having sex with a girl, then it's because I want to. I honestly don't recall a time that I did not want to be having sex while having sex.
But then again, I have given my girl oral just to please her. But I also enjoyed it, so I don't know how to vote. :)
 
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majorpain said:
If I'm having sex with a girl, then it's because I want to. I honestly don't recall a time that I did not want to be having sex while having sex.
But then again, I have given my girl oral just to please her. But I also enjoyed it, so I don't know how to vote. :)
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omg!..where do you get the strenght to train?..:icon_lol:..j.k..!
 
I've done it so many times,.. I mean just to keep the peace, and even things out kinda!!!
 
I voted never, because I never had a girl who wanted to f**k more than I did....:D

But then again, I never lived with a female more 1 week so I never had a chance to get bored.
 
I voted 'sometimes'.

I don't always "feel like" sex, but I'm nearing 60: that means I respond to direct attention (*ahem*) better than I respond to mere proximity. If she's willing to take care of insertability (and since she learned that this was the difference between "enough sex" & "not enough sex" she's more than willing), I'm willing to roll. Some of the best sex I've ever had was the result of me being 'coaxed into it'.

Then again, is there a more potent aphrodisiac than knowing she wants you however she can get you?

Sadly, she's not big on receiving oral or anal, so I'm seriously contemplating a second girlfriend (the second I'm considering is also iffy about receiving oral, dammit, but enthusiastic about anal...both are enthusiastic about giving head, and proud of their skilz)
 
BodyWizard said:
I voted 'sometimes'.

I don't always "feel like" sex, but I'm nearing 60: that means I respond to direct attention (*ahem*) better than I respond to mere proximity. If she's willing to take care of insertability (and since she learned that this was the difference between "enough sex" & "not enough sex" she's more than willing), I'm willing to roll. Some of the best sex I've ever had was the result of me being 'coaxed into it'.

Then again, is there a more potent aphrodisiac than knowing she wants you however she can get you?

Sadly, she's not big on receiving oral or anal, so I'm seriously contemplating a second girlfriend (the second I'm considering is also iffy about receiving oral, dammit, but enthusiastic about anal...both are enthusiastic about giving head, and proud of their skilz)
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reps!..sent..!lol..!wow!!!!!:dance:
 
dsade said:
Sounds like he's the one that gets the manual, then.
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He can do wicked things to a empty bottle of Havoc. :lol:
 
I have never met a guy that did not want to. Hell, I am 32, and cant remember a time I didnt want to. Any woman Ihave been with just had to look at me and the response was "okie dokie, lets go" (not literally of course)
 
Reaper329 said:
I have never met a guy that did not want to. Hell, I am 32, and cant remember a time I didnt want to. Any woman Ihave been with just had to look at me and the response was "okie dokie, lets go" (not literally of course)
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My mind's telling me no...

But my body, my body's telling me yes!
 
I voted yes. Stress is a big factor on this. If I've had a rough day, been busy after work, a heavy day of lifting and we just did it that morning. Sometimes in the evening I won't want to repeat, because all I want is to pass out. But she has no problem convincing me, as soon as takes her clothes off I can't say no. :lol:

But yes there are times when it's not the first thing on my mind.
 
Nabisco said:
I voted yes. Stress is a big factor on this. If I've had a rough day, been busy after work, a heavy day of lifting and we just did it that morning. Sometimes in the evening I won't want to repeat, because all I want is to pass out. But she has no problem convincing me, as soon as takes her clothes off I can't say no. :lol:

But yes there are times when it's not the first thing on my mind.
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i hear you loud and clear,bro!
 
I voted NEVER simply because I can't ever remember not wanting to have sex...of course I'm still only 29. My last girlfriend would sometimes have to give me special attention to get that second time in a row out of me sometimes...but I was more than willing and wanting.
 
funny question, this has been driving me crazy for the last couple of months. when my gf and i first got together we would go at it all the time almost every night. she had a medical problem for a little bit and since then its maybe once every 2 weeks. its VERRY discouraging when i try to make a move and i get denied 10 times in a row. makes me not even want to try anymore and i feel its starting to ruin our relationship.
 
Dyou said:
funny question, this has been driving me crazy for the last couple of months. when my gf and i first got together we would go at it all the time almost every night. she had a medical problem for a little bit and since then its maybe once every 2 weeks. its VERRY discouraging when i try to make a move and i get denied 10 times in a row. makes me not even want to try anymore and i feel its starting to ruin our relationship.
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that is alot of time's claiming to have a headache..huh?..lol..!j.k!:frustrate
 
Dyou said:
funny question, this has been driving me crazy for the last couple of months. when my gf and i first got together we would go at it all the time almost every night. she had a medical problem for a little bit and since then its maybe once every 2 weeks. its VERRY discouraging when i try to make a move and i get denied 10 times in a row. makes me not even want to try anymore and i feel its starting to ruin our relationship.
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Have you explained the situation to her?
 
we have talked about it before and her explaination is that she isnt comfortable with her body and that she feels ugly. I think she is gorgeous. then i think that never stopped us before... i dont think im a jelous person but that just makes me think theirs something going on that im not aware of.
 
At 21, there is almost never a time when I dont want to.
But there are times when I have hit on girls while my judgment has been impaired, and while sobering I realized it was a bad idea. But, being the saint that I am :D, I'll proceed to show them a good time. I call it community service :)
 
Haven't yet encountered that situation but I probably would. At 50 I consider it a healthy sign that sex is still the fundamental purpose of my existence (geez, why else would i workout like this, eat healthy and arrggh.. do cardio?)
 
whiskers said:
At 21, there is almost never a time when I dont want to.
But there are times when I have hit on girls while my judgment has been impaired, and while sobering I realized it was a bad idea. But, being the saint that I am :D, I'll proceed to show them a good time. I call it community service :)
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hahahha! you have beer goggles on like your avatar!..j.k!..takem off!..lol..!
 
bslick69b said:
do any of you have sex ,even when you dont want to, just to please your partner?
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What's this "pleasing your partner" business you're talking about. :think: :D

My wife is a full time mom and works part time and is the caretaker of the business of the house. She can at times take it or leave it. Quite honestly I can too at times, but not too often. She is always a willing participant even when I am just doing so because I am bored with nothing better to do at the moment.

I enjoy abstaining from time to time. This allows the habitual aspect of it to diminish. Then when it is her idea and she has a need to be met it is much more motivating and inspirational and provides me the opportunity to at least display the perception that I am less selfish and self serving.

My answer to the question is "No".
 
B5150 said:
What's this "pleasing your partner" business you're talking about. :think: :D

My wife is a full time mom and works part time and is the caretaker of the business of the house. She can at times take it or leave it. Quite honestly I can too at times, but not too often. She is always a willing participant even when I am just doing so because I am bored with nothing better to do at the moment.

I enjoy abstaining from time to time. This allows the habitual aspect of it to diminish. Then when it is her idea and she has a need to be met it is much more motivating and inspirational and provides me the opportunity to at least display the perception that I am less selfish and self serving.

My answer to the question is "No".
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o.k!
 
yea like most of you, i can't think of a "don't want to" moment.

Sometimes i think i don't but 30 - 60 seconds after the woman is making some pre-sexual contact with me (foreplay i guess), "don't want to" becomes "hell yea"
 
I sleep during the day since I work the night shift.. so as soon as I'm knocked out my girl decides she wants to wake me up for some sex.. I get grouchy but as soon as I'm hard.. it's on like donkey kong *****.. turn around so I can ass **** you lol no seriously though no ass ****ing =/ but the pussy's nice anyways lol and she's got a mean ass so I love spanking the **** outta that ****!

Oh.. damn I just got myself hard haha time to wake up the misses!;)
 
MassBuilda123 said:
I sleep during the day since I work the night shift.. so as soon as I'm knocked out my girl decides she wants to wake me up for some sex.. I get grouchy but as soon as I'm hard.. it's on like donkey kong *****.. turn around so I can ass **** you lol no seriously though no ass ****ing =/ but the pussy's nice anyways lol and she's got a mean ass so I love spanking the **** outta that ****!

Oh.. damn I just got myself hard haha time to wake up the misses!;)
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:rofl:..good one!
 
If she's hot I never don't want to

If she's not hot I'm probably drunk so ehh... I don't remember
 
wow I guess im not the only one who thinks the question is crazy, with my girlfriend if she wants sex IM already on her ! There's no way she ever wants sex more than I do, if I could do it everyday I would,

but she wants it like once or twice a month !Talk about feeling unwanted

But on the flip side gives me more time to workout since I tell her it's my way of getting me tired
 
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