yah i guess he has it made when it’s put that way. I’m starting to see how bad it is with a clear head, hoping i can grow the balls to actually do something about this:/ definitely seems like this is now his true self.He doesn't leave you because he doesn't have to - you stay around regardless of how he treats you - why should he leave?
How could you make things worse - what is worse that being treated poorly?
It shouldn't be confusing - you simply need to see things as they actually are.
He did not change - he is just revealing his true self to you.
I'd suggest you having a talk with your Dad about this. He won't be the least bit confused.