Unanswered Boyfriend acting different on steroids..

[Outofbody]

OP left the thread. We all scared her away

 

[Aleksandar37]

OP left the thread. We all scared her away

"her"...I've never met a girlfriend who knew that many details of what their boyfriend was taking unless she was taking it too

 

[Beau]

Might have to broadcast a BOLO

 

[Rubisean]

"her"...I've never met a girlfriend who knew that many details of what their boyfriend was taking unless she was taking it too

Man I thought the same thing

 

[Rubisean]

OP left the thread. We all scared her away

Like that chick that showed her tits and said Meso was better than FB in her first post..... gone

 

[Aleksandar37]

Like that chick that showed her tits and said Meso was better than FB in her first post..... gone

wait, what now? lol

 

[Rubisean]

wait, what now? lol

Meso is better than FB

Been lerking for a while, enjoy reading all the **** on here. I can’t go a day without checking MESO. So decided to get active. I’ll just get the tit...

thinksteroids.com

 

[Outofbody]

"her"...I've never met a girlfriend who knew that many details of what their boyfriend was taking unless she was taking it too

TBH I never read his/her/they’s original post. I saw a wall of text and was like oh ****, we got one of those posters here

 

[Matthersby]

"her"...I've never met a girlfriend who knew that many details of what their boyfriend was taking unless she was taking it too

I actually suspected this from the very first post.

She’s a dude trolling or trying to get advice, which makes him even more of a psycho.

 

[Brain5ick]

My life is rather unstable right now and things went crazy right when I went on cycle. I’m used to it now but I felt manic and unstable. I still have mood swings but that’s because I have emotional and mental issues to start with, that’s 100% on me. If you have issues then gear will either help tremendously or amplify those issues and you don’t really know unless you try it (shitty huh?). Whatever your personality is, gear will amplify as well, it’s really all about who you are from the start. All that being said, a buddy of mine had a comment about Tren I feel hits the nail on the head. “If you have demons, Tren will bring them out of you”, just something to think about.
The majority of these guys have great advice so I hope you get some help and relief here.

 

[Matthersby]

My life is rather unstable right now and things went crazy right when I went on cycle. I’m used to it now but I felt manic and unstable. I still have mood swings but that’s because I have emotional and mental issues to start with, that’s 100% on me. If you have issues then gear will either help tremendously or amplify those issues and you don’t really know unless you try it (shitty huh?). Whatever your personality is, gear will amplify as well, it’s really all about who you are from the start. All that being said, a buddy of mine had a comment about Tren I feel hits the nail on the head. “If you have demons, Tren will bring them out of you”, just something to think about.
The majority of these guys have great advice so I hope you get some help and relief here.

The girlfriend is actually just the guy on steroids.
We cracked the case...

 

[Brain5ick]

The girlfriend is actually just the guy on steroids.
We cracked the case...

Well damn. I actually posted that like 2-3 hours ago. I wonder why it’s just now hitting the board?

 

[beefyfan]

Hey so my boyfriend has used steroids in the past but usually has used Deca (pardon my steroid talk-i’m a total newbie to all this lol) before we had started dating. Since we started seeing eachother almost 10 months ago he has changed dramatically these past two weeks. He went from being a super loving, super affectionate and caring man to being very distant, angry, negative and depressed. Alongside the steroid use, he is also very upset about some family issues he’s been going through and says he feels as thought his life is a mess at the moment and that he’s very stressed, upset, and angry all the time. He knows i’m here for him and support him thru whatever he does, including the roids but i feel as thought i’ve been completely neglected the past two weeks since he changed his dosage and steroid. He switched to Tren and uses something called T400 with it and has doubled his dosage as well. I’m not sure what to do in this situation because I have been very understanding of his emotional instability as of late and just want to get back to how we used to be. We also haven’t seen eachother since he started tren(2 weeks) as he has been isolating himself from me and even a lot of his friends because he says he does not want to lose control of his anger on anyone. He pretty much went from being super in love and a little clingy to completely distant. I just want him to feel better and have our relationship go back to normal even while he is on these steroids but i have no idea what i could do to make him reduce the distance between us? Would anyone know what i could do or say to have him go back to being normal with me?

Or just start blowing him more.

 

[Outofbody]

Or just start blowing him more.

He doesn’t want that though cos he’s cheating on her

 

[Andy Roo]

If you're not happy and think he's cheating, then either talk to him or leave. It might be in part to steroid use or it might not be, but blaming it on that is only going to add fuel to the fire. Two weeks isn't a long time for somebody to be down and thinking they have changed completely. He might just have hit a rough patch and doesn't feel like talking about it.

Personally, given the current climate in the 'West' I'm always and forever suspicious of women who 'bad-mouth' men without first hearing the other side of the story...especially given how women have been weopanised and influenced to critique / hate men, via 100 years of feminism...not a female panderer or kow-tower here, sorry not sorry.

 

[beefyfan]

He doesn’t want that though cos he’s cheating on her

Then she should start tonguing his balls more often.

 

[Mathb33]

My life is rather unstable right now and things went crazy right when I went on cycle. I’m used to it now but I felt manic and unstable. I still have mood swings but that’s because I have emotional and mental issues to start with, that’s 100% on me. If you have issues then gear will either help tremendously or amplify those issues and you don’t really know unless you try it (shitty huh?). Whatever your personality is, gear will amplify as well, it’s really all about who you are from the start. All that being said, a buddy of mine had a comment about Tren I feel hits the nail on the head. “If you have demons, Tren will bring them out of you”, just something to think about.
The majority of these guys have great advice so I hope you get some help and relief here.

So true. So fucking true.

 

[_Y13S]

"her"...I've never met a girlfriend who knew that many details of what their boyfriend was taking unless she was taking it too

LOL i only know that many details cuz i’ve researched it a lot since he started haha

 

[_Y13S]

Then she should start tonguing his balls more often.

:/

 

[_Y13S]

He doesn’t want that though cos he’s cheating on her

hope not :/

 

[Beau]

:/

I believe we have found the root cause, no pun intended.

 

[_Y13S]

I actually suspected this from the very first post.

She’s a dude trolling or trying to get advice, which makes him even more of a psycho.

i’m a girl omg

 

[_Y13S]

Like that chick that showed her tits and said Meso was better than FB in her first post..... gone

was hard seeing the cheating responses:/

 

[Beau]

i’m a girl omg

Pics?

 

[_Y13S]

If you’re kind enough to accept his use of steroid he should at least have enough respect for you to not run something like tren if he knows it’s gonna change him. I mean alot of people love steroids I get that... like I’m on year round basically but I would never keep running something that’s damaging my relationship and hurting my loved one. I think your boyfriend is an idiot and you should definitely keep distance.

i feel like he’s an idiot too but i’ve jus been putting up with it and acting normal myself but it seems as though he doesn’t notice or even care about how i feel at all

I know you don’t want to hear this right now but there is plenty of men out there who just want a chance to love a woman and give her everything. You deserve a man that’s gonna make you his priority.

You’re right, just invested so much into this hence why i’m desperately trying to find some sort of answer

 

[Aleksandar37]

Pics?

damn, you beat me

 

[_Y13S]

damn, you beat me

no no i’m scared he’d run into this thread one day n see it was me

 

[Aleksandar37]

:/

Is this a diagram of your technique or a frowning face?

 

[_Y13S]

Is this a diagram of your technique or a frowning face?

it’s a frown:/

 

[Beau]

no no i’m scared he’d run into this thread one day n see it was me

Won't happen. He is off watering someone else's lawn.

 

[Aleksandar37]

no no i’m scared he’d run into this thread one day n see it was me

You're safe. Nobody who uses steroids comes on this site

 

[Beau]

it’s a frown:/

Whew - I thought it was a diagram of the "short-legged sidewinder" - as I assume many of us did.

 

[_Y13S]

You're safe. Nobody who uses steroids comes on this site

scared of judgement too so

 

[Outofbody]

was hard seeing the cheating responses:/

He’s probably not. Take comments with a grain of salt. Got some jokers on here, myself included

 

[_Y13S]

Wait for his E2 to crash or get someone else who knows about his use and talk to him together about his use and dosing down or dropping it. This is most likely the tren so make that the subject.

Asking a friend or something isn’t really an option for me:/ what is e2?

 

[_Y13S]

If you're not happy and think he's cheating, then either talk to him or leave. It might be in part to steroid use or it might not be, but blaming it on that is only going to add fuel to the fire. Two weeks isn't a long time for somebody to be down and thinking they have changed completely. He might just have hit a rough patch and doesn't feel like talking about it.

Problem is that it’s been 5 weeks now.. idk what kinda rough patch this is but it’s jus gotten so much worse:-

 

[Beau]

Asking a friend or something isn’t really an option for me:/ what is e2?

A type of Estrogen

 

[_Y13S]

A type of Estrogen

what happens when it crashes?

 

[Beau]

So it has been 5 weeks -- and you tolerate being treated this way, huh?

Why?

Do you want to know how this will turn out?

Ready?

:/

 

[_Y13S]

And you tolerate being treated this way, huh?

Why?

Uhm.. i don’t know to be honest with ya haha guess i’ve been treated worse in the past, gotten used to this i suppose

 

[Mathb33]

How can you still tolerate this seriously? It’s not even a relationship anymore if you ask me... he’s like keeping you as a side piece and it’s disgusting. Man just do what you girls do best and let the estrogen side of you go fucking nuts. Go to his home, scream like a fucking freak, smash the door, enter, insult him and if needed slap him like the bitch he is. When you have his attention, keep screaming even more and ask for answers right now and see where you guys at. If he’s not willing to answer leave that kid alone and find a real man you deserve better.

 

[Beau]

Uhm.. i don’t know to be honest with ya haha guess i’ve been treated worse in the past, gotten used to this i suppose

You can throw in the haha if you want - but I don't think you find this amusing, or shouldn't.

I would suggest you really figure out how you want (demand) to be treated, and make some changes to cause that to happen. Being treated worse in the past is hardly a reason to stay in a bad situation. Being alone is, by far, better than being with the wrong person.

 

[Mathb33]

Time to take my adex dose.

 

[_Y13S]

You can throw in the haha if you want - but I don't think you find this amusing, or shouldn't.

I would suggest you really figure out how you want (demand) to be treated, and make some changes to cause that to happen. Being treated worse in the past is hardly a reason to stay in a bad situation. Being alone is, by far, better than being with the wrong person.

It’s just really hard for me because i considered this guy my best friend before anything... feel like i’m losing more than just a boyfriend. And yah i don’t find it amusing i guess i jus added it that in there to make it a bit lighter haha

 

[_Y13S]

How can you still tolerate this seriously? It’s not even a relationship anymore if you ask me... he’s like keeping you as a side piece and it’s disgusting. Man just do what you girls do best and let the estrogen side of you go fucking nuts. Go to his home, scream like a fucking freak, smash the door, enter, insult him and if needed slap him like the bitch he is. When you have his attention, keep screaming even more and ask for answers right now and see where you guys at. If he’s not willing to answer leave that kid alone and find a real man you deserve better.

I don’t understand why he wouldn’t just leave me tho? I really do want to go nuts on this guy but i don’t want to make things worse Whole situation is so so confusing for me and so out of nowhere... he changed overnight and that’s what boggles my mind i guess and i don’t even know if the roids are the problem anymore tbh

 

[Mathb33]

I don’t understand why he wouldn’t just leave me tho? I really do want to go nuts on this guy but i don’t want to make things worse Whole situation is so so confusing for me and so out of nowhere... he changed overnight and that’s what boggles my mind i guess and i don’t even know if the roids are the problem anymore tbh

Roids are not the problem lol. I’m on all type of roids and I’d be a flower for you as we watch the office. He probably cheated unfortunately. It sucks to hear but it’s the truth.

 

[Beau]

I don’t understand why he wouldn’t just leave me tho? I really do want to go nuts on this guy but i don’t want to make things worse Whole situation is so so confusing for me and so out of nowhere... he changed overnight and that’s what boggles my mind i guess and i don’t even know if the roids are the problem anymore tbh

He doesn't leave you because he doesn't have to - you stay around regardless of how he treats you - why should he leave?
How could you make things worse - what is worse that being treated poorly?
It shouldn't be confusing - you simply need to see things as they actually are.
He did not change - he is just revealing his true self to you.

I'd suggest you having a talk with your Dad about this. He won't be the least bit confused.

 

[Aleksandar37]

He doesn't leave you because he doesn't have to - you stay around regardless of how he treats you - why should he leave?
How could you make things worse - what is worse that being treated poorly?
It shouldn't be confusing - you simply need to see things as they actually are.
He did not change - he is just revealing his true self to you.

I'd suggest you having a talk with your Dad about this. He won't be the least bit confused.

Bingo. _Y13S, you're a safety net for him. You need to get out and realize there are countless other people out there. Don't settle, because you're going to blink and it'll be 20 years later and you'll be in the same spot if he hasn't left you by then.

 

[Outofbody]

Wowzers, nobody knows these people beyond a few forum posts, and everyone’s giving all this deep life advice. Sorry, I find it a bit much!!! So many assumptions in this thread, laced with good intentions however.

 

[_Y13S]

Bingo. _Y13S, you're a safety net for him. You need to get out and realize there are countless other people out there. Don't settle, because you're going to blink and it'll be 20 years later and you'll be in the same spot if he hasn't left you by then.

yikes you’re right:/ jus really hard for me to do! think i’m jus way too nice wit this guy...