Sunder
Active member
How you get her to stop is entirely dependent on the reason she does it.
1. I walked around the house naked or in my underwear often in the summer when it was hot if I was alone or my (now ex) was there.
- if my ex asked me to stop, I would have. You could always ask her to stop, if you respect each other.
2. Maybe she has a fantasy that you'll bring your friends over. Maybe she likes the idea of turning them all on.
- you either deny her entirely or go over the top. Bring your crudest or ugliest friends who aren't afraid to make comments. No guarantee this will work though - she may end up making out with one of them in front of you just so she "doesn't lose".
3. Does she do it to bug you? Does she know it bugs you? Do you two "fight" like that? How important is "winning" to you?
- you can either make her feel uncomfortable by pretending to make sexual advances towards her
- or walk around naked yourself
But seriously - I've never fully understood the difference between beachware and underwear in this respect. Would you freak if she was in a bikini? You guys are family - maybe she just feels safe and comfortable? I personally wouldn't be bothered by this if my sister did it. Who cares? Get her to bring her friends over, lol.
1. I walked around the house naked or in my underwear often in the summer when it was hot if I was alone or my (now ex) was there.
- if my ex asked me to stop, I would have. You could always ask her to stop, if you respect each other.
2. Maybe she has a fantasy that you'll bring your friends over. Maybe she likes the idea of turning them all on.
- you either deny her entirely or go over the top. Bring your crudest or ugliest friends who aren't afraid to make comments. No guarantee this will work though - she may end up making out with one of them in front of you just so she "doesn't lose".
3. Does she do it to bug you? Does she know it bugs you? Do you two "fight" like that? How important is "winning" to you?
- you can either make her feel uncomfortable by pretending to make sexual advances towards her
- or walk around naked yourself
But seriously - I've never fully understood the difference between beachware and underwear in this respect. Would you freak if she was in a bikini? You guys are family - maybe she just feels safe and comfortable? I personally wouldn't be bothered by this if my sister did it. Who cares? Get her to bring her friends over, lol.