Im goin to put my .02 in as well if yall do not mind. Now not that im the know all end all of RLs, and deff. havnt had "that many" compared to yall, being that im sooooo super picky, but there has been some wonder info brought out by yall i think. And im sure TL knows it and appreciates the support!
A 3 yr RL is not something that "just is", there has to be "something" that keeps yall going, one way or another. We are all tested in certain ways and as the wise AZ said "This could be one of those times where you guys learn how to handle the tuff times together and the relationship gets even stronger."
Its quite apparent that TLs girl cares for him and he cares for her regardless of anything else! For TL as a man, a strong one, and not emotional(or very very lil) it shows us that he has a heart for her and there in turn makes him a better man then most!
Bro i wish you luck in what ever happens and IF that time should come were, it just wont workout, for whatever reason, you know we are here as support, and you will have many other beautys lined up. Noooow weather you want them or not, well that is up to you brotha!