You are right in that the higher BF you are the easier it will be to drop fat. But you fail to take into account that I am a girl. The average girl is of 25% BF, while the average guy is approximately 15-18%. Starting my recomp at 23% BF for a girl translates to being 16-18% as a guy. Being 16% BF as a girl translates to about 11-12% BF if I were a guy. If you are looking for guys who recomp at a low body fat percentage check out Resolve or Irish Cannon or Viking Inc.
As to the second paragraph you are right to an extent. The more you weigh the more calories it will take to maintain your weight, but lb for lb muscle requires more cals to maintain than fat. Therefore if you have 2 people that weigh the same amount the person who has lower BF will take more cals to maintain weight simply because of their higher LBM.
There is a big difference between being fit and having more lean body mass. A cross country runner can be considered fit even though they have next to no muscle.
Also, I am not telling you that you will be gaining muscle on a cal deficit. I am saying that in eating maintenance level calories on lifting days you are providing your body with enough fuel to maintain your weight. Provided your training is intense and sufficient to grow new muscle you will gain LBM and lose BF simultaneously. On off days I recommend a slight cal deficit in comparison to your lifting day calories simply because you aren't expending as many cals and therefore don't need to take in as many.
I would rather be the runner who looks really lean and cut with low b/f, because I'm not a body builder. More of a person who wants to be "fit" and healthy. To me, going on a bulk and eating a crazy amount of food is not really "healthy." What's wrong with just eating normal and lifting weight, you know? (Unless your trying to lose fat) It's not good for us to consume all this saturated fat to bulk up and cut down, etc...Eating a normal diet and exercise sounds like the way to go. I wonder if people have tried this? lol
What is your point in saying that a person who has more muscle requires more calories per day? I know this. Muscle burns fat. Every extra pound of muscle is about an extra 65 calories burned a day. So yes, the lower b/f person with the same weight would require more calories to maintain his/her weight. But, this is irrelevant to the analogy i was referring to about a fat person compared to a thin person.
I see your point on the workout days. But, i think you view it different. I eat more calories on workout days, because your burning more calories, so you want to eat what you burned. When your not working out is when your body is rebuilding and starts to need the fuel. Technically this would be on your off days and when a surplus would matter for optimal muscle development.
Do i believe this? I have no idea...(still confused) Like i said, just what i have read.
Honestly, i'm reading this book called: Eat Stop Eat. It has to do with fasting 2 days out of the week, then eating whatever you want (within reason) on the other 5 days. This theory has been proven to speed up your metabolism and not lose muscle gains...How? I have no idea...Do i believe it? Yep, because he has everything documented and plenty of references. This goes against everything i've ever heard...Eating 5 times a day, don't skip meals, you will slow muscle growth, starvation mode, etc. He proves every theory and how it is beneficial for the body. Honestly, it sounds like something i would try on a cut...
I'm not trying to argue with you in anyway. People say one thing and another scientist says another. I think it all boils down to the amount of calories you consume week to week, month to month, year to year, etc. It's the accumulation of what you have eaten year round, not so much the pizza and cheesecake you had that week. I've also read that your body can only use so much protein in a week, so their is no need to eat 1g of protein per 1lb of body weight each day, because your body couldn't possibly use that much...
Lol, it just seems like not one person can ever be right.