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ozarkaBRAND

ozarkaBRAND

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I'm so completely pissed off right now.. it's all I can do to not get up and punch the concrete wall until my hands start to bleed.. Physical pain sounds like the only thing that could possibly make this better.
 
Dude lol your on some pretty good t-booster eh if you don't mind me asking what kind? So I can try them, and why are you so pissed right now ?
 
JudgementDay said:
Dude lol your on some pretty good t-booster eh if you don't mind me asking what kind? So I can try them, and why are you so pissed right now ?
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Haha.. I'm actually on the best t-booster around, testosterone.. lol.

Pissed at a girl, big time, obviously.
 
That sucks, ****in women are always the one that have the power to really push the mans last button.
 
well all i have to say is your punching wrong lol! try to use your inner 2 knuckles, more weight gets put into it. i dont know what your current situation is but if its a girl that your having sex or in a relationship with the next time you do her get up and leave and dont answer her calls for the rest of the day that will def piss her off like she is doing you.
 
seriously man, do something like that to let her mind wonder... next time she calls and wants to hang out blow her off or tell her you will call her later and just dont. let her know she has to put in effort to keep you.
 
Dyou said:
seriously man, do something like that to let her mind wonder... next time she calls and wants to hang out blow her off or tell her you will call her later and just dont. let her know she has to put in effort to keep you.
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I haven't answered any of her calls after our "little" argument earlier.. I'd like her to sweat it out and feel like ****, I'm so sick and tired of being the one that has to suffer, alone.
 
Dyou said:
seriously man, do something like that to let her mind wonder... next time she calls and wants to hang out blow her off or tell her you will call her later and just dont. let her know she has to put in effort to keep you.
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Or how about talk it out like a real couple? Maybe drop the games all together? Perhaps try to rationalize the situation, whatever it may be...

I love how everyone is jumping to conclusions when they have no idea what happened.

And ya, punching a wall...that's awesome. Solves everything. I bet you feel so much better now, don't you? Perhaps imagine it's her face. That will make you feel even better :rolleyes:...because subconciously, that's what you're doing...

I've done the same thing myself, and thought through it, and realized how stupid I was.

Talk with her. It's the only way to solve the issue.
 
I do feel much better, actually.. and no, I was not punching her, subconsciously, consciously, or any of the like. I've attempted to talk to her, rationally, she doesn't listen, can't understand, won't understand, etc...
 
Irish Cannon said:
Or how about talk it out like a real couple? Maybe drop the games all together? Perhaps try to rationalize the situation, whatever it may be...

I love how everyone is jumping to conclusions when they have no idea what happened.

And ya, punching a wall...that's awesome. Solves everything. I bet you feel so much better now, don't you? Perhaps imagine it's her face. That will make you feel even better :rolleyes:...because subconciously, that's what you're doing...

I've done the same thing myself, and thought through it, and realized how stupid I was.

Talk with her. It's the only way to solve the issue.
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and let me guess you have been happily married for 20 some odd years?? thiers no one solution to any relationship problem everyone is different. i was just saying what i would do in that situation. and let me guess you feel really smart with your smart ass reply? :rollseyes:

ozarkaBRAND said:
I do feel much better, actually.. and no, I was not punching her, subconsciously, consciously, or any of the like. I've attempted to talk to her, rationally, she doesn't listen, can't understand, won't understand, etc...
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ill just put (IMO) infront of everything now... i have had this happen before, no i dont know what your argument was over but it sounds to me like she is unreasonable, not worth it
 
I say get a dummy punching bag and put her picture on it... it'll be better than breaking your hand and cripple your workouts....
 
You need to get married so you can fight it out like a real couple.....

Real couples fight fisty cuffs AND stay together :)
 
i'm curious, did you take that photo with your cam in your mouth? or do you have like 3 hands? or do you like have a photographic memory you can upload into your pc? :D
 
Wow my comment got erased. Apparently my sense of humour was to much for them....It was a JOKE!
 
Chub said:
i'm curious, did you take that photo with your cam in your mouth? or do you have like 3 hands? or do you like have a photographic memory you can upload into your pc? :D
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lol... dude, that never even crossed my mind until you said it. good catch!
 
ozarkaBRAND said:
I do feel much better, actually.. and no, I was not punching her, subconsciously, consciously, or any of the like. I've attempted to talk to her, rationally, she doesn't listen, can't understand, won't understand, etc...
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then its time to say bye-bye to her
 
ozarkaBRAND said:
I've attempted to talk to her, rationally, she doesn't listen, can't understand, won't understand, etc...
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Word of advice, it won't get any better with this one :)
Speaking from experience.. If they can't understand and don't want to listen, it's useless to continue with someone like that. They might grow up in time, but not any time soon
 
And another word of advice, don't get too serious, married, or engaged with a girl before she's 26/27 - this should improve your chances of success with her in life...most girls go through some sort of change around 26-27, and then actually enter reality at this time. If they don't change around this time or earlier then you are fuc*ed because they never will. If you want to be frustrated for life or in general, or go through a future divorce, you can ignore that advice :)
 
Gutterpump said:
And another word of advice, don't get too serious, married, or engaged with a girl before she's 26/27 - this should improve your chances of success with her in life...most girls go through some sort of change around 26-27, and then actually enter reality at this time. If they don't change around this time or earlier then you are fuc*ed because they never will. If you want to be frustrated for life or in general, or go through a future divorce, you can ignore that advice :)
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I married my wife while she was 20 :)
 
i'm psychic...it was a chick and they deleted my post.

people need to lighten up...thats half the problem in the first place
 
Irish Cannon said:
Or how about talk it out like a real couple? Maybe drop the games all together? Perhaps try to rationalize the situation, whatever it may be...

I love how everyone is jumping to conclusions when they have no idea what happened.

And ya, punching a wall...that's awesome. Solves everything. I bet you feel so much better now, don't you? Perhaps imagine it's her face. That will make you feel even better :rolleyes:...because subconciously, that's what you're doing...

I've done the same thing myself, and thought through it, and realized how stupid I was.

Talk with her. It's the only way to solve the issue.
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Indeed, and agreed. Good post, IC.

Chub said:
i'm curious, did you take that photo with your cam in your mouth? or do you have like 3 hands? or do you like have a photographic memory you can upload into your pc? :D
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Hahahaa! Nice!
I was actually thinking the same when I was reading over this thread.

EasyEJL said:
then its time to say bye-bye to her
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So true. Why waste your valuable time with someone that does not listen. Listening isn't something that just happens; you either know how to, or you don't.
 
EasyEJL said:
I married my wife while she was 20 :)
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Then you had a lucky find. Congrats :) Young marriages are more likely to end in divorce. A lot of people go through a big self-change between 24-27. If they don't then it's disastrous. If they didn't need any change though, then that's great but rare lol

If a woman is not in touch with reality and not able to act rationally..this usually changes with age I find, I've dated a lot of women. I haven't found many women in the 20-23 age range that were very rational or realistic about life. My gf is 23 right now and I'm learning this all over again :18:
 
Dyou said:
and let me guess you have been happily married for 20 some odd years?? thiers no one solution to any relationship problem everyone is different. i was just saying what i would do in that situation. and let me guess you feel really smart with your smart ass reply? :rollseyes:
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Smart ass? You mean sensible?

And sorry to say, but talking is the only way you're ever going to solve any relationship problems. There is no way around it.
 
EasyEJL said:
:D It will be 14 years this august, so seemed to work out.
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You're a lucky man! Haha..Congrats to 14 long yrs :)

Are you two around the same age? This could help explain it as well.

I personally can't stand women who are too young anymore...no matter how great I think they are, their lack of maturity always shines through, but I just can't stay away from those young twenty-somethings for some reason lol..

It's a delicate balance...you go for a certain age, they could be too immature...you go for older and they can carry too much baggage. Tough world out there ;)
 
Nope, i'm 7 years older. :) but we did get pregnant almost immediately after getting married, which does change things a little
 
Irish Cannon said:
And sorry to say, but talking is the only way you're ever going to solve any relationship problems. There is no way around it.
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It's hard to talk when one person never admits to being wrong...especially immediately after doing something wrong. If they can't listen to rational thought, then it's worthless. This is when it becomes an impossible mission.
 
Getting to the point you have to hit a brick wall when in an argument with a woman is a sure sign of lack of self control and should be considered for at least one session with a therapist... Seriously man, you hit something that could of broke you hands over an argument with a woman?? At least hit a punching bag. There isn't anything cool about losing control.
 
Jayhawkk said:
Getting to the point you have to hit a brick wall when in an argument with a woman is a sure sign of lack of self control and should be considered for at least one session with a therapist... Seriously man, you hit something that could of broke you hands over an argument with a woman?? At least hit a punching bag. There isn't anything cool about losing control.
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Agreed.
I usually just hit the bag when I need to blow off steam. That, or spend a lot more time at the range. I broke my hand over a temper problem when I was fresh out of BC. If it wasn't for a really understandable Jumpmaster, my ass would have been out of Jump School. Luckily, I had no problem with deploying, or any other tactical maneuvers except for tying my boots. :D
Lesson learned.
 
This just hit me as a way of bragging that control was lost and wanting others to condone the situation. Big difference from losing control and realizing you did versus losing control and thinking it was the right thing to do.

Maybe my bias on the subject is showing...
 
Jayhawkk said:
This just hit me as a way of bragging that control was lost and wanting others to condone the situation. Big difference from losing control and realizing you did versus losing control and thinking it was the right thing to do.

Maybe my bias on the subject is showing...
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With you be a PO, I'm sure you see what tempers can lead to...
 
Honestly, I just wanted some pain.. I knew it would clear my head, and keep me from focusing on the stressors at hand.. Was it a great idea, naw.. prob something much more constructive I could have done.. however, it was pretty damn appealing at the time, and offered a quick fix.
 
Irish Cannon said:
Smart ass? You mean sensible?

And sorry to say, but talking is the only way you're ever going to solve any relationship problems. There is no way around it.
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Hmm depends on the situation...sometimes my wife needs to run out of things to throw first ...before we can talk.:laugh:


On a side note don't marry a drama queen unless you have the patience of a hindu cow.
 
Yeah my ****ing girl i wish I never met her for the shizznitz she putting me through right now. And yeah not worth it. Not worth my time anymore. Women are just a hinder and like they say women comes and goes.
 
come on OZ!..dont hurt yourself like that my friend.its not worth it..there was this friend of mine,awhile back who used to date my cousin.well anyways we were at the gymnaisium one night and they got into an argument,he stood up and punched the bleachers that were in the folded up position.he broked his hand immediatly...my cousin just stood up,and walked away..no care in the world!...my point is this....why hurt yourself when you can get away from the situation,cool off,then try to talk it over...my friend could not do siht with his right hand for awhile after that,and we both really loved the water but he had to watch from the shore..if you hurt yourself,how can you train..etc?
slick.
 
As some have mentioned, a punching bag is invaluable at these times. When it gets real bad, I will just go out the door and run, run, run,... for miles, till my head clears, whatever!!! I'm not going back in the house with a resentment or an argument to finish.
No one can make me feel a certain way unless I let them!!!
 
ozarkaBRAND said:
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I would take it easy on that wall punching there brother, especially over a girl, because after she is nothing more than a bad memory you will be suffering the physical consequences of abusing your hands . Unless of course you are into the idea of your wrist and knuckles hurting like hell everytime it gets cold or damp outside.

I am not coming down on you, don't take it that way, I just have the (dis)advantage of hindsight here.

From now on everytime your chick makes you mad, go have angry sex with her best friend/sister/mom.
 
Gutterpump said:
And another word of advice, don't get too serious, married, or engaged with a girl before she's 26/27 - this should improve your chances of success with her in life...most girls go through some sort of change around 26-27, and then actually enter reality at this time. If they don't change around this time or earlier then you are fuc*ed because they never will. If you want to be frustrated for life or in general, or go through a future divorce, you can ignore that advice :)
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Married my wife when I was 29 she was 20. 7yrs of "I would choose her every time again and again given the choice....golden" Dating sux.
 
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