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Yes I can meet girls quite easily, it's once I find one I like that I wanna keep her around. I just met this girl in May, and we've been 'dating' since then, and today she told me she doesn't want a relationship with anyone, not to take it personally.

DAMN! The one I want doesn't want me, and the ones who scare me keep calling.
 
could it be the scary ones know they cant have u, so they try harder?? yet the one you want, can have u so, she she stops trying??
 
DreamOfWeight said:
could it be the scary ones know they cant have u, so they try harder?? yet the one you want, can have u so, she she stops trying??
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Possibly. But, now that she told me that, she can't have me...................so will she come back after a period of time that I ignore her??? Tune in next week....
 
RenegadeRows said:
Possibly. But, now that she told me that, she can't have me...................so will she come back after a period of time that I ignore her??? Tune in next week....
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for sure!! as long as u play ur cards right and make the right moves.. she wont come back on her own though. my girl use to leave her car unlocked sometimes.. after a big fight id leave a cinnabun and a single stem rose on her seat, so when shes on her way to work she can eat and think about me.. when love, sugar, and thoughts or her boy all enter her head at the same time.... GAME OVER>....I WIN..lol
 
DreamOfWeight said:
for sure!! as long as u play ur cards right and make the right moves.. she wont come back on her own though. my girl use to leave her car unlocked sometimes.. after a big fight id leave a cinnabun and a single stem rose on her seat, so when shes on her way to work she can eat and think about me.. when love, sugar, and thoughts or her boy all enter her head at the same time.... GAME OVER>....I WIN..lol
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hahaha. Honestly this girl showed alot of interest at first, after about 2 weeks i asked if she'd be my g/f ... she said yeah ... then i got kinda crowding at that point ... my bad ... so she said lets take things slower ill get to know u betta ... i said cool and backed off ... 2 weeks lata but now shes sayin no to relationship ... i said we'll just be friends and now imma turn the charm off. then she'll be like 'wheres the charm? he used to cook me dinner and invite me over. whats he up to?' and maybe she'll realize what she lost.

and if not, it wasnt meant to be...

The question is, maybe I shouldn't have turned the charm on so strong. I prolly charmed her out. I shoulda played it cooler, and acted uninterested, at least A LITTLE BIT. Oh well, now I'll try that...
 
RenegadeRows said:
hahaha. Honestly this girl showed alot of interest at first, after about 2 weeks i asked if she'd be my g/f ... she said yeah ... then i got kinda crowding at that point ... my bad ... so she said lets take things slower ill get to know u betta ... i said cool and backed off ... 2 weeks lata but now shes sayin no to relationship ... i said we'll just be friends and now imma turn the charm off. then she'll be like 'wheres the charm? he used to cook me dinner and invite me over. whats he up to?' and maybe she'll realize what she lost.

and if not, it wasnt meant to be...

The question is, maybe I shouldn't have turned the charm on so strong. I prolly charmed her out. I shoulda played it cooler, and acted uninterested, at least A LITTLE BIT. Oh well, now I'll try that...
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never ask a girl to be your gf... leave it to them to bring it up.. keeps the ball in your court.
me and my gf clicked waaay before we started dating... we were both on the same mindset that we were exclusive from day1... she basically told me we were bf/gf one night (in a cute joking manner).

same thing goes for calling and text messaging... make 1 call, or send 1 text... never both (always call the first few times you talk to a girl... texting is waay to childish to establish communication). wait for her to respond. Always leave a voicemail and dont ever call back until she contacts you...otherwise you look desperate

stop worrying about charm and cooking her dinner... .learn to make her laugh. learn how to make her NEED to be around you. just play it chill... just relax...
 
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lol ya... sooner or later the jelous monster that all girls have deep in their heart, is gunna pop out and claim u as theirs..
 
Palo Alto Labs said:
never ask a girl to be your gf... leave it to them to bring it up.. keeps the ball in your court.
me and my gf clicked waaay before we started dating... we were both on the same mindset that we were exclusive from day1... she basically told me we were bf/gf one night (in a cute joking manner).

same thing goes for calling and text messaging... make 1 call, or send 1 text... never both (always call the first few times you talk to a girl... texting is waay to childish to establish communication). wait for her to respond. Always leave a voicemail and dont ever call back until she contacts you...otherwise you look desperate

stop worrying about charm and cooking her dinner... .learn to make her laugh. learn how to make her NEED to be around you. just play it chill... just relax...
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Ahhh yes, thank you master ... the wise man leads and I follow!!!

I think PAL is just a code for "Professional Advisor on Ladies"
 
Iron Warrior said:
I'll agree this to a certain extent. There are guys I know who will just not make simple modifications that would help them out. A good friend of mine dresses like a bum and shaves every 3-4 days. Sometimes he looks like a brand new homeless person with his appearance. I tell him to buy nicer clothes and look like a eligible bachelor but he'll say some stupid a$$ thing along the lines of "This is how I am and if they don't like it then too bad". It's almost to the point where I'm embarassed to be seen in public with the guy based on his look although he's a cool guy and one of the funniest people I know.
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Man, tell him not to worry to much, walmart has plenty of jergens lotion...and she'll never leave ya brah, damn sure of that...unless u move to japan and steal.
 
Palo Alto Labs said:
never ask a girl to be your gf... leave it to them to bring it up.. keeps the ball in your court.
me and my gf clicked waaay before we started dating... we were both on the same mindset that we were exclusive from day1... she basically told me we were bf/gf one night (in a cute joking manner).

same thing goes for calling and text messaging... make 1 call, or send 1 text... never both (always call the first few times you talk to a girl... texting is waay to childish to establish communication). wait for her to respond. Always leave a voicemail and dont ever call back until she contacts you...otherwise you look desperate

stop worrying about charm and cooking her dinner... .learn to make her laugh. learn how to make her NEED to be around you. just play it chill... just relax...
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This man speaks volumes. A female can find any boot to cook a decent meal and call it gourmet but someone that impresses her with the way he carries himself, personality, and confidence is way more attractive than chef boy-hardly.

One thing to note tho, texting is not always childish THE FIRST COUPLE OF TIMES. Some women love getting small txts while at work...especially if its the first time. It is very surprising to them and kinda of cute to them...a phone call sometimes is overbearing.
 
Palo Alto Labs said:
nice guys dont finish last..... boring guys do


i used to be a nice guy.. then i realized i was making mistakes by trying to be too nice and proper... i was trying to show my value to a woman by being nice... i SHOULD have been showing my value by being interesting.

find something interesting about yourself that sets you apart from the 10000 other guys she meets everyday. What is it that makes you different from the rest of them. talk about her and then introduce queues about you. find some common ground.

ive always held true to being a nice guy... but i came out of my shy shell and will lead a conversation with a girl rather than waiting for her move.

the best thing I ever learned: If you can make a girl laugh.... shes yours.

the jerk only usually wins bc the other guys stand down to him.. making him look dominant.
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Excellent advice! I also tried to be too proper before. For me my sense of humour and intelligence is what helps set me apart from other guys in the eyes of the women i date.
 
hardknock said:
One thing to note tho, texting is not always childish THE FIRST COUPLE OF TIMES. Some women love getting small txts while at work...especially if its the first time. It is very surprising to them and kinda of cute to them...a phone call sometimes is overbearing.
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I agree... i just meant that you should NOT make your first contact or 2 via text. Always call. After you have spoken on the phone a few times.. then proceed to text your little thumbs off as fast as tehy can T9 :toofunny:
I know too many guys that text instead of call the first time they get a girls number... girls dont like that
RenegadeRows said:
Ahhh yes, thank you master ... the wise man leads and I follow!!!

I think PAL is just a code for "Professional Advisor on Ladies"
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hahah nah i just learned from failure. i was horribly awkward with girls in high school. i could attract them, but dropped the ball from there. I always hung out with an older crowd, so i learned quickly. College was a blast :D
 
The texting thing applies but for young girls it does not.

I've dated two girls who never called me, always preferred to text. They did that with everyone.

It was a bummer for me, because a damn text messaging conversation can last for 2 hours... whereas you can get so much more accomplished with a phone call.

RR
 
RenegadeRows said:
DAMN! The one I want doesn't want me, and the ones who scare me keep calling.
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ROFLMAO I had this one chick who I though was amazing ! I couldn't find anything wrong with her and suddenly she asked me to mock rape her during sex :fool2: I was speechless and thought that was just out of bounds. I can't believe this is a fantasy to some ladies LOL.
 
Iron Warrior said:
ROFLMAO I had this one chick who I though was amazing ! I couldn't find anything wrong with her and suddenly she asked me to mock rape her during sex :fool2: I was speechless and thought that was just out of bounds. I can't believe this is a fantasy to some ladies LOL.
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Wow! :fool2:

Now that is one scary fantasy lol!
 
Iron Warrior said:
ROFLMAO I had this one chick who I though was amazing ! I couldn't find anything wrong with her and suddenly she asked me to mock rape her during sex :fool2: I was speechless and thought that was just out of bounds. I can't believe this is a fantasy to some ladies LOL.
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Yep, I had a close friend that I knew had been raped twice when she was younger, and she admitted that she preferred for guys to be forceful with her almost like she was being raped again, and that was the easiest way to get her off. She said the closer it felt to rape, the more she enjoyed it. Needless to say I stopped trying to get in her pants after that. She was a real wacko in many ways. A lot of fun to party with though, it just always seemed dangerous to allow her to get attached.
 
Iron Warrior said:
ROFLMAO I had this one chick who I though was amazing ! I couldn't find anything wrong with her and suddenly she asked me to mock rape her during sex :fool2: I was speechless and thought that was just out of bounds. I can't believe this is a fantasy to some ladies LOL.
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HAHA that was my girlfriends fantasy... she started crying about 5 min into it.she told me i scared the sh*t out of her.. at least now i know im good at it! lol jk
 
Palo Alto Labs said:
I agree... i just meant that you should NOT make your first contact or 2 via text. Always call. After you have spoken on the phone a few times.. then proceed to text your little thumbs off as fast as tehy can T9 :toofunny:
I know too many guys that text instead of call the first time they get a girls number... girls dont like that

hahah nah i just learned from failure. i was horribly awkward with girls in high school. i could attract them, but dropped the ball from there. I always hung out with an older crowd, so i learned quickly. College was a blast :D
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Dave,
For some reason you mostly say what I would have said, before I do. Wierd, huh? Sure your not "community?" ;)


When you get a number, usually text a few times, then call. I have used this many times, and girls have verified that this is a good way to do things.

Heres a few good lines to get the number:
"put your number in my phone and we will hang out sometime."
"I gotta get back to doing...xyz...how can we continue this conversation?'
Take a piece of paper, tear it in half, and hand her half and a pen. If she asks what its for say" I'm sure your a smart girl, use your imagination." If you wanna be funny add"draw a picture of yourself on there too, so I can remember what you look like."

When you get the number you can also ask "should I call or text?" Got this from a friend of mine.
 
Took me a while to figure this one out too.
I was getting numbers, but many were flaking whenn I would call.

2 things I did to fix this:
1. text a few times, then make one of your texts "call me real quick?" Flake percentage on numbers has gone way down. :)
2. the interaction. If i was being very flirty, and didnt get more serious, or do some "get to know you" stuff in the interaction, the flake percentage was quite high. Its as if i wasnt taken seriously.
Once you "know" your attracted, and share a little about one another, it tends to be a solid number.
 
Iron Warrior said:
ROFLMAO I had this one chick who I though was amazing ! I couldn't find anything wrong with her and suddenly she asked me to mock rape her during sex :fool2: I was speechless and thought that was just out of bounds. I can't believe this is a fantasy to some ladies LOL.
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Umm i know more than a few that like that, it's more common than you think, I like my kinky women, lol
 
Nabisco said:
I'm not saying not to be yourself. But some people make it harder on themselves unnecessarily. There is nothing wrong with changing your mannerisms, attitude, or sociability for the better. Just because you grow as a person (i.e. change to a degree), doesn't make you "not yourself".

I think too many people misconstrue "be yourself", as continue doing everything you're currently doing. Becoming a more sociable, confident, fun person is not a bad thing as long as you're not compromising your morals. Break out of the shell and try new things, you'll be amazed at what happens. (Girls sold separately)
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x2.
 
CHAPS said:
Umm i know more than a few that like that, it's more common than you think, I like my kinky women, lol
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LOL women are just too weird ! I just didn't see that chick as the type who wanted me to enact a rape fantasy on her. She was even telling me how hard to grope her and said I should act as if I'm really raping her :fool2: ?
 
everyone has got a fantasy.. u should feel good knowing that she likes/trust u enough to let u into her world.
and with trust comes responsibility.... dont tell ur friends!lol
 
Iron Warrior said:
LOL women are just too weird ! I just didn't see that chick as the type who wanted me to enact a rape fantasy on her. She was even telling me how hard to grope her and said I should act as if I'm really raping her :fool2: ?
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LMAO, ya buddy! Man most women in general like to be dominated in the bedroom, some are unsatisfied if your too nice or gentle, obviously the rape fantasy is on the extreme end of the scale though. But i've known alot of girls to like having their hair pulled, spanked, being bitten a bit, handcuffed, tied up and treated practically like prostitutes. Mind you it depends on the mood, and the girl, lol And don't go just pulling out the handcuffs on the type of girl who wants you to romance her with rose pedals, candles etc, lmao.

Oh man i remember this one time i jumped right into filthy dirty talk without her being warmed up enough, the look i got oh man, i felt like the biggest dirt bag, lmfao I cringe just thinking about it.
 
I think it is very very normal to have a rape fantasy. But then again.. what is normal for me..... anyway lol... as long as your GF isn't actually wanting some strange man to come into her house and actually rape her... might as well give her what she wants!
 
AHHHlol... i just got done telling my girl, less than ten seconds ago... that thinking like that is selfish, and is only hurting the financial status of our relationship/future

EDIT: She denied me 20 bucks for my GOLDMEMBERSHIP
 
HAHAHA i actually keep track of all the $$ in my house hold... you heard me right MINE lol. and I make him wash my hair and rub my back.. and stuff.. if he wants dime one!
 
lol. i dont mind the back rubs n stuff, but i just dont get why MY money is the only money WE spend?

EDIT: IM not *****ing about it
 
Well. we actually have two of our own accounts and one joint account. Half of our pay goes to our own accounts and the other goes to our joint. If I want to go tan or get my hair or nails done... i take the money out of his account. If i want to buy him something for his birthday.. i take the money out of the joint account! lol

jk.. as of right now.. he makes a heck of alot more than I do.. and we save my pay for things like.. gas, food, and any sort of vacation we want to have etc. His pay goes to the house. Eventually i will make more than him and then the rolls will switch.. its a pretty fair way of doing it but only do it if you are married.. it gets messy if you want to open up joint accounts with a bf or gf... like getting a cell phone plan together but 10 times worse
 
Squeaks4ver said:
Well. we actually have two of our own accounts and one joint account. Half of our pay goes to our own accounts and the other goes to our joint. If I want to go tan or get my hair or nails done... i take the money out of his account. If i want to buy him something for his birthday.. i take the money out of the joint account! lol

jk.. as of right now.. he makes a heck of alot more than I do.. and we save my pay for things like.. gas, food, and any sort of vacation we want to have etc. His pay goes to the house. Eventually i will make more than him and then the rolls will switch.. its a pretty fair way of doing it but only do it if you are married.. it gets messy if you want to open up joint accounts with a bf or gf... like getting a cell phone plan together but 10 times worse
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Yea same with my wife and I, each have separates but we have a joint. I am the breadwinner though and for some reason we only spend out of my account lol
 
thats why every month u need to tell her u got a speeding ticket... then open another account and start saving that money ..lol
 
Breadwinner!!!??? She lets you eat carbs!!!! lol.. we can only eat carbs on sundays :-( makes the baby jesus that lives in my heart cry)

well. its not that he LETS me eat them.. i dont let him eat them as well... well.. thats what he says
 
Trauma1 said:
When i asked my wife why she chose me at the time many years ago, she told me that i could always make here laugh and keep her attention. She was actually dating a guy when i met her, and i stole her away. :) She is a more serious person than I, but we compliment each other very well.

I can't emphasize enough how important it is to just be yourself and let the rest play itself out. Nobody likes a fake person and it will bite you in the azz in the end. I wasn't even looking for a serious relationship when it fell upon me. I believe that when it's your time, it will happen.
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I myself seem to be able to do this very well and not even on purpose. lol
 
so most of yall are married already huh..... how was it... me personally, i dont like attention.. ive never really had an actual birthday party after i turned 7 and a clown scared the sh*t outa me.. i dono if i can stand at the alter infront of all of my friends and family..

EDIT: sorry for being so random
 
no, it's not that you're nice, so much as timid. and you're frustrated now because your own lack of courage/love-of-self is still keeping you from the life you want to live and the woman you want to love.

and now you want to lash out. you're continuing down the wrong track, from lack of confidence to anger about it. no, you need to fix yourself.
 
Squeaks4ver said:
uhm hello.. you guys are suppose to pay for everything.. we dont carry cash!
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my woman has HER cake, and she eats it. but thankfully, she doesn't try to eat all of MINE too. there's no reason for men to pay for everything anymore, seeing as how there are just as many, if not more, successful women among men nowadays.
 
Squeaks4ver said:
Laughter is really the best.. and also having the ability to just let us vent and support us.. not solve our issues.. just support. AS for the book.. I think your theory that you share with said book is going to work wonders on the highschool sr. or maybe the college sophmore or freshmen.. but.. there is a point in YOUR life where you will start looking like the creepy old man hanging out side the grade school trying to pick up girls that are 20 years younger than you. If you are just looking for a F$*# then by all means.. i love a good eff. but.. for a relationship.. your book is only good to wipe ones bottom.
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No offence, but you really have no clue. This book he is talking about i have read more then once. It changed the way i am, for the better. You probably dont even realise that you have been gamed before. So many girls say "oh that stuff would never work on me". So wrong. It aint about learning how to get a girl into bed. That is easy, its about giving you the confidence and skills to bag the hot smart girl that you deserve but never had the courage to say hello to................cos she might say no.
 
Australian made said:
No offence, but you really have no clue. This book he is talking about i have read more then once. It changed the way i am, for the better. You probably dont even realise that you have been gamed before. So many girls say "oh that stuff would never work on me". So wrong. It aint about learning how to get a girl into bed. That is easy, its about giving you the confidence and skills to bag the hot smart girl that you deserve but never had the courage to say hello to................cos she might say no.
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If you mean the book "the Game" your 100% right.
The smarter, more interisting a girl is, the better pre scripted lines, and material work on her most of the time.

And yes, if the guy is doing it right, even if he learned it, the girl will :
A;not know shes being gamed, cause it feels so natural
B; know, but not care, because the guy is so intisting, witty, attractive...ect....
 
Australian made said:
No offence, but you really have no clue. This book he is talking about i have read more then once. It changed the way i am, for the better. You probably dont even realise that you have been gamed before. So many girls say "oh that stuff would never work on me". So wrong. It aint about learning how to get a girl into bed. That is easy, its about giving you the confidence and skills to bag the hot smart girl that you deserve but never had the courage to say hello to................cos she might say no.
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Since I was the one who would always walk away from the guy first.. and more so than not.. there would be a 3 week period where they would get all sad.. and cry.. and call me.. and then his friends call me because he is sad.. and drinking too much and boo hooo.. and punching walls.. throwing beer bottles at me for leaving.. i think i "gamed" them.. There was no way in hell i ever was taken by any of the theories there.. for one simple reason.. I didn't give a $&*% about anyone or anything during my college years and 3 years post. If my husband is trying to do it now.. then he sure does suck at it lol
 
Squeaks4ver said:
Since I was the one who would always walk away from the guy first.. and more so than not.. there would be a 3 week period where they would get all sad.. and cry.. and call me.. and then his friends call me because he is sad.. and drinking too much and boo hooo.. and punching walls.. throwing beer bottles at me for leaving.. i think i "gamed" them.. There was no way in hell i ever was taken by any of the theories there.. for one simple reason.. I didn't give a $&*% about anyone or anything during my college years and 3 years post. If my husband is trying to do it now.. then he sure does suck at it lol
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hear her roar:aargh:.
 
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