Women...
- Thread starter Zero V
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southernxgun
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i hear ya V. whats wrong with em these days?
Iron Warrior
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LOL If only they all liked football and relied on common sense instead of their emotions.
Zero V
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greatest advice I ever received from a woman is golden advice, and she said this "All women are fickle" and she was my pastors wife.
Seriously, they will draw in a guys heart, and I always keep my guard up, after 2 years I let this girl work her way in, and it took her a good 6 months, as soon as she is in, and things seem to be going crazy good, bammo. Pulled a fast one, flirting with another guy, said we were in the past, but it was hard for her, and that this other guy who just showed up is nothing, its just a hormonal/emotional thing she has to deal with. And she hopes I dont put back up my guard, because its a good thing its down...And she was one of those real nice good girls, who have a clean past...and all of that info surge happened in like 4 days, and it was out of nowhere, actually the us is in the past came after the flirting as an explanation...
I mean she dug so hard, she even said so, to push through all my barriers and walls....and then turns around and lets loos with some explosive diarrhea once inside. I mean its even on the ceiling, and she didnt even flush.
Add in my ex who we came to my church together, is now married to another guy in my church who has boobs and no testosterone or manlyness to him...
I feel better now, just had to rant. Celibacy has its freaking benefits I tell you. At least I control my own money, and block my own **** thank you very much.
How the hell do you tell a guy you were snuggling a short minute ago, that the reason your on another guy's back is just a hormonal/emotional thing and that its ok...
Iron Warrior
Registered User
What's up with that trend ! ? ! ? I saw my ex a few weeks ago at a wedding and her "man" shook my hand with the strength of bulemic high school cheerleader.
The best revenge is to have sex with some chick that's hotter
liquid
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What's up with that trend ! ? ! ? I saw my ex a few weeks ago at a wedding and her "man" shook my hand with the strength of bulemic high school cheerleader.
The best revenge is to have sex with some chick that's hotter
*ding ding ding ding*
Zero V
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What's up with that trend ! ? ! ? I saw my ex a few weeks ago at a wedding and her "man" shook my hand with the strength of bulemic high school cheerleader.
The best revenge is to have sex with some chick that's hotter
I havent seen pink in...going on 3 years now >.< reasons of faith.
rubberring
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Zero, sit back, relax, and let the sweet sounds of Ben Folds ease your pain...
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DerickVonD
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Speaking of women. I've always wondered how are older women? Like late 20s to mid 30s. I've always wondered. I've always gone with girls younger then me (big mistake).
liquid
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Currently with a early 30's woman, my first older chick.
She babies me, and pampers me, kind of like it. Would like to hear other stories lol.
DerickVonD
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Man, that's like my dream woman haha. I do have a thing for older women. I want to be their young stud hahaha.
rubberring
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It can be a different, yet equally frustrating, can of worms. There's usually a higher level of social and emotional maturity. But, there are drawbacks as well: If the chick's divorced, she's bitter as hell. If she's never been married, there's usually a reason why!
Catch-22.
Oh, what I'd give to just be a promiscuous gay man over here in the SF Bay Area. No... wait...
jakellpet
Banned
Maybe, but I've had less dramas eating that can of worms :afro:
rubberring
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I hear ya. I've been with my lady for 8 years now. She's 38, a couple of years older than me. She's also Asian, so she looks 10 years younger than me, so... bonus!:18:
Chub
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The best revenge is to have sex with some chick that's hotter
thats working quite well for me
buuzer0
Member
Then they would be... men. At least, mentally.
Nah, I like them just fine the way they are... most of the time!
Also, I couldn't see myself getting bent out of shape over a woman who I'm not even in an explicitly exclusive relationship with... Unless married, women are free to date who they please, same as us. Yeah, it sucks to see a girl you like go off with some guy that you would deem as less cool than yourself, but that's the way it goes sometimes. Move on, there's thousands of other beautiful women out there who you've never met!
EasyEJL
Never enough
Vance
Member
The golden age with chicks is 25-30 fellas. Old enough to have been screwed around by at least one ******* (Small shoes to fill), mature enough to hold a conversation, generally know what they want out of life and know their way around the bedroom.
Any younger they're generally dumb as dog **** when it comes to conversation and needy as all hell. Any older they've been damaged twice and have waaaay too much baggage for one man to shift. The older ones you have to be careful of, they'll seem normal at first, even awesome, but it's only a matter of time before crazy comes out to play!
That's my buck-o-five.
Any younger they're generally dumb as dog **** when it comes to conversation and needy as all hell. Any older they've been damaged twice and have waaaay too much baggage for one man to shift. The older ones you have to be careful of, they'll seem normal at first, even awesome, but it's only a matter of time before crazy comes out to play!
That's my buck-o-five.
luclyluciano
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Most women are attracted to CONFIDENCE! Never open up like that!!!!! It's the opposite of what they want!
buuzer0
Member
It's not good to put people on a pedestal. There's a more lewd version of this saying, but it's pretty accurate as well ("don't put the p---- on a pedestal").
just goes to prove she has no sense of taste, and she isn't worth your effort
Yep! It's not really that a girl with bad taste isn't worth your effort... it's just, why bother when there are So. Many. Others? It's all about having an abundance mentality, rather than one of scarcity.
If you're at a cookout and you have a tray full of delicious bbq chicken, do you obsess over that one piece you were nibbling on, but accidentally dropped on the ground? NO, you go "dammit", shrug your shoulders, and grab a fresh one. Not equating women to bbq chicken, but hopefully you get my point. I do love bbq chicken though, but that's for another thread...
Good advice... and it goes double for someone you've never been physically intimate with. You come off needy, whether you are or not. Your attractiveness to that woman goes down, and you get a quick trip to the
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Enjoy.
Keep a little mystery about yourself, it's attractive to the opposite sex.
DerickVonD
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**** the friend zone
luclyluciano
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This could be another problem. I had to read this twice to believe what I was reading. If you are 22 and are not planning on getting married soon then why bother. You are just torchuring yourself if you are gonna follow that faith and in todays society, dating and not touching "SALLY" is a very difficlult thing. She may want you to meet "SALLY" even though she may from the same faith club.
DerickVonD
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Part of the problem I have with women is I never had a lot of confidence. Part of the reason I workout. Now I don't care as much, because most girls I have across are bitches. Guys say they are the same everywhere, but somehow I think I'll have an easier time somewhere else. I really hate MD girls. Most of the girls around here are into rap, hip-hop, drugs, alcohol. Definitely not what I'm into. So, I can't relate to most of them.
Iron Lungz
Banned
Zero: It's pretty simple, man, God is testing you. Maybe he knows you put walls up for people to climb when in fact, you should embrace them and welcome them the way he would. Food for thought.
DerickVonD
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Man I could have gotten laid so many times. Problem is I don't have a car. ****. Same reason I missed this concert I wanted to go to for half a year.
liquid
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I agree, there are drawbacks. But generally speaking there are drawbacks of whether the girl is young or old.
My current drawback is that I have a hard time getting my point across, and not enough pink.
buuzer0
Member
What time of day are you trying to meet them, and where? If you're out at night and at clubs or bars, there's going to be a higher ratio of girls that are more into a party lifestyle like that. Not all of them are though, some girls you may see out once in a blue moon because they're simply out celebrating with their friends (could be for a birthday, job promotion, bachelorette party, etc.)
If you insist on meeting a more "wholesome" girl, try talking to some during the day at grocery stores, whole foods stores, bookstores, coffee shops, libraries, malls, etc.
Chub
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I've spent hours looking in supermarkets for cougars. no luck yet but i'm still young, plenty time!
keeper
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I don't know why but some women can't seem to appreciate a truly good man. They are always looking for what they can't have and in the process screw up what they do have. Not all are like that. You just have to keep looking.
(and some of us DO love football!)
(and some of us DO love football!)
DerickVonD
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Well I tried meeting them at the mall and those are the types that are always there. Either that or young dumb teenage girls. If I had a car and a job I could try meeting them at the gym. I really do feel stuck in college, but I don't know what else to do. Even though I'm not learning anything of use. I'm hoping my friend will get this job working at a video game company (he is really good) unlike me. Basically I'm in college for graphic design and can't draw worth ****. I thought I'd get better, but none of the classes I've took helped. It's just all a bunch of bs and people in the drawing classes already know how to draw. I just hope my friend can get that job and put in a good word for me and I can work as a beta tester. I don't really want to change my major to anything.
EasyEJL
Never enough
buuzer0
Member
I think it's all about the time of day that you go! I don't know the best time, but it seems like right after work is a great time to see older women out and about.
Also, I know around here that the same bars/pubs where you normally find young women at night have a lot of older women directly after work during happy hour (especially Wednesday through Friday, and Saturday Evenings around 7, 8, 9pm).
I usually hit the gym right after work though (lots of older women there too... but be careful, you wouldn't want to have a fling and messy break-up with someone where you usually go to relax and pump iron), so I don't get to happy-hour events very often. I usually end up at social spots like bars, clubs, etc during the late evening hours so mainly see girls in their 20's.
Also, you're more likely to see the older women at the spots where the young girls aren't, and usually these places are more high-scale.
Hell, I'd type "where to meet older women, cougars" into google if I were you. I'm at work though, so yeah...
keeper
Guest
men are the same
How well I know!
buuzer0
Member
men are the same
Yes, we definitely are at times! Just have to try not to take it too personal when someone makes a bad judgement, especially when you're not exclusively together.
bigmoe65
Banned
This guy is the million dollar winner. Your girl wants to get banged and she's got another guy willing to do it. Im sorry to be blunt Zero but a 22 yr old male who doesnt want to have sex is a little odd. Religious girls like sex too.
buuzer0
Member
So simple. So true.
Guys should realize this, and let go of the negative bs stereotypes that go with this truth (deeming women as "loose", "whores", "sluts", etc). I think us men would get more action if we did!
Zero V
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Well actually she wont let a man near that at all, she is actually pushing him out now. I know a few girls, very pretty, going into their 20's who have never had intercourse. Its not insanely hard to find them. Thing is they are so worried about picking the right guy for marriage, they brush off every single guy, and will likely end up 30 going WTF why didnt God bring me a guy? Hell he brought you 20, but sense he didnt come with a shipping label and a pedigree from heavens gates, you ignored them. LOL.
Eh, I am find now just got frustrated and had to rant...
Its not depressing or anything, just stupid. Not to mention all these girls who are resiliant, and have preserved themselves, at the age of 18 want a 22 year old, at the age of 20 a 24 year old, and so on. Whati s with all this complication.
Trust me I desire it greatly, its why only certain girls I can come to be so attracted to. Normal girls, I am sorry I would end up in bed. At least with the right girls, we both resist.
bigmoe65
Banned
I gotcha man. I didnt want to come off as being harsh but your young and you should be having the time of your life, not playing games and trying to find the perfect mate. Yet.
Also, I think you need a normal girl for now
DerickVonD
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Alright Im going to just say this. I hate it when women have droopy tits. There I said it. I kind of have a story behind that. The first pair of tits I saw in real life I was disappointed with. See I was so used to seeing tits in porn and my girl friend at the time showed her tits to me and asked "do you like them?" and I said yeah. In reality I was thinking "Those are ****ing droopy". lol just thought I'd share that little story.
toughchick401
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The golden age with chicks is 25-30 fellas. Old enough to have been screwed around by at least one ******* (Small shoes to fill), mature enough to hold a conversation, generally know what they want out of life and know their way around the bedroom.
Any younger they're generally dumb as dog **** when it comes to conversation and needy as all hell. Any older they've been damaged twice and have waaaay too much baggage for one man to shift. The older ones you have to be careful of, they'll seem normal at first, even awesome, but it's only a matter of time before crazy comes out to play!
That's my buck-o-five.
your joking right??????? actually us older girls, myself being 34, havent been married, no kids working on my second degree and in the end, much happier.....................
Whitesnake
Active member
Have to give you that one........I've been around long enough to know:happysad:
EasyEJL
Never enough
there are good women in every age bracket, and bad ones too
Its true though, that men and women don't tend to hit emotional maturity until at least their 30s.
CDB
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:yuck: :damnit: :sadwavey:uppy_dog_eyes: :boggled: :cussing:
:banghead: :crying:
:aargh: :zx11pissed: :rasp: :rant: :grumble: :soapbox:
...wtf is wrong with your kind....I am done with head and heart games >.<
I see no point to let my guard down anymore, freaking >.<
Well, either they're all completely ****ed or you're picking the wrong ones. On the off chance that half the species isn't a complete waste...
Do yourself a favor. Concentrate on self improvement for a bit until you're over whatever this recent thing is, and then **** like a jack rabbit for while. You'll be fine and ready to open up again in no time.
CDB
Registered User
Anyone who believes what a woman says, outside of fashion advice, needs their head examined. Even when it seems like they're telling the truth. Women do not speak English, they speak a dialect of English where what they say and what you say to them has no actual connection to the dictionary meaning of the words used. It's all contextual and emotional. Remember that and you'll be able to communicate better.
CDB
Registered User
Yeah, but from what I've read you seem comfortable with who you are. My guess he's talking about a smaller subset of women who are like you, but stressing over why they are not like their mothers: married young, ten kids, huge family, etc., etc., etc. This leads to static.
Women these days are more independent but often don't know how to handle it, like a stay at home dad dusting with a leaf blower. Today's woman has society telling her she can do anything she wants and have everything she wants, reality telling her something very different, that being that all actions have opportunity costs. They feel they can take care of themselves but modern feminism tells theym they are perpetual victims. Empowered ad victims at the same time. There's mixed messages on what is attractive, and what's worse women's confusion leaves guys worse off because we, tending to be more rational and straight forward in our thought processes, can't make heads or tails out what ever the **** it is you guys are doing.
**** will settle down eventually. But I think one thing is definitely true, and that is a lot of women after years of being told they should be independent and empowered are now looking for a guy and a long term relationship, and having waited quite a while and having massively over estimated their value on the meat market, are still surprised Brad Pitt isnt falling all over them with marriage proposals. Roger Devlin's got a bead on some of what's going on, though I think he's a bit extreme in some of his judgements.