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why dont girls come up to guys?

Yes that is true aswell, but typically men are more assertive and are the first to act. More girls should try to be less passive, but to me it's usually the ones who I'm not interested in who come up to me. Actually since i have a girlfriend more girls will try to dance with me and then my girl is like no he's with me.. LOL.. I think having a girlfriend makes you more desirable. I'm just passing the bro-knowledge for his benefit.
 
Omega Man said:
Yes that is true aswell, but typically men are more assertive and are the first to act. More girls should try to be less passive, but to me it's usually the ones who I'm not interested in who come up to me. Actually since i have a girlfriend more girls will try to dance with me and then my girl is like no he's with me.. LOL.. I think having a girlfriend makes you more desirable. I'm just passing the bro-knowledge for his benefit.
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I agree with everything you're saying..just playing a bit of "devils advocate" here...
lots of post about "males and females in the animal kingdom playing certain roles.." so my response is "we're more advanced than that so we dont have to follow suit because lower life forms are that way". We as intelligent/spiritual beings should respond to traits beyond who's most aggressive. A person missing out on a chance to be with another of high morals, values, character, etc. because they havent come at them like a run away train is a bit primitive.
Something for women to think about :think: - the nice guy at the club whos looking for a meaningful long-term relationship with that one special lady doesn't come across like the super cool mac-daddy type who's use to kicking it to every pretty face and doesnt care if he gets turned down because he just moves on to the next. The quiet dude looking for something more meaningful might be a bit more reserved and uncomfortable because his feelings are involved and he has more to lose. He might come across a bit "nerdy" but at least he likes you for YOU. Invalid Link Removed
 
JohnnieFreeze said:
I agree with everything you're saying..just playing a bit of "devils advocate" here...
lots of post about "males and females in the animal kingdom playing certain roles.." so my response is "we're more advanced than that so we dont have to follow suit because lower life forms are that way". We as intelligent/spiritual beings should respond to traits beyond who's most aggressive. A person missing out on a chance to be with another of high morals, values, character, etc. because they havent come at them like a run away train is a bit primitive.
Something for women to think about :think: - the nice guy at the club whos looking for a meaningful long-term relationship with that one special lady doesn't come across like the super cool mac-daddy type who's use to kicking it to every pretty face and doesnt care if he gets turned down because he just moves on to the next. The quiet dude looking for something more meaningful might be a bit more reserved and uncomfortable because his feelings are involved and he has more to lose. He might come across a bit "nerdy" but at least he likes you for YOU. Invalid Link Removed
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Pass the Kleenex
 
shyguava said:
I for one find that females cant get enough of me. I have to go shopping for groceries on the internet as I cant walk into a supermarket without being swamped with women offering their phone numbers to me. So these days I just work from home, shop from home, pay my bills from home, have my car serviced at home etc. Its living hell. Now I find women emailing me and wanting dates. It appears I shall have to leave for a more isolated location soon with no phone or net access. Ah the perils of being born a chick magnet. You guys think its a cool thing to be me I bet. But no...its a living hell.

Trust me. Being intelligent, handsome, sporty and loaded in more ways than one....its a curse.
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You must use Axe i take it
 
shyguava said:
I for one find that females cant get enough of me. I have to go shopping for groceries on the internet as I cant walk into a supermarket without being swamped with women offering their phone numbers to me. So these days I just work from home, shop from home, pay my bills from home, have my car serviced at home etc. Its living hell. Now I find women emailing me and wanting dates. It appears I shall have to leave for a more isolated location soon with no phone or net access. Ah the perils of being born a chick magnet. You guys think its a cool thing to be me I bet. But no...its a living hell.

Trust me. Being intelligent, handsome, sporty and loaded in more ways than one....its a curse.
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LOLLL!!!
 
shyguava said:
Dont need it. The scent of my own sweat is enough to trigger off an invitation from a hot babe to get down and procreate.:thumbsup:
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Wow..a pheromone scent that is "hot babe" specific.
put it in a bottle and sell and you'll be a billionaire within a year.:thumbsup:
 
shyguava said:
I for one find that females cant get enough of me. I have to go shopping for groceries on the internet as I cant walk into a supermarket without being swamped with women offering their phone numbers to me. So these days I just work from home, shop from home, pay my bills from home, have my car serviced at home etc. Its living hell. Now I find women emailing me and wanting dates. It appears I shall have to leave for a more isolated location soon with no phone or net access. Ah the perils of being born a chick magnet. You guys think its a cool thing to be me I bet. But no...its a living hell.

Trust me. Being intelligent, handsome, sporty and loaded in more ways than one....its a curse.
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Easy there lone ranger, you might pull a muscle flexing.....
 
Esox Express said:
Trust me, it works. I've seen the commercials. :thumbsup:
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ahhaaa. Maybe to attract junior high girls who know the scent through and through.... :) I'm teasing you.

Although I think it may be psychological: wearing the stuff gives you confidence, which girls can see. So technically it is the confidence that gets you the girl, not the Axe. ;)
 
babywifey said:
ahhaaa. Maybe to attract junior high girls who know the scent through and through.... :) I'm teasing you.

Although I think it may be psychological: wearing the stuff gives you confidence, which girls can see. So technically it is the confidence that gets you the girl, not the Axe. ;)
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interesting...... never thought of that.

I wish I could have explained that to the morons in my high school locker room who would drench themselves in that garbage instead of taking a shower cuz they thought the ladies went crazy over it.

damn kids :nutkick:
 
Esox Express said:
interesting...... never thought of that.

I wish I could have explained that to the morons in my high school locker room who would drench themselves in that garbage instead of taking a shower cuz they thought the ladies went crazy over it.

damn kids :nutkick:
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Haha! That is hilarious! I know a lot of guys that do that- mostly guys in their early teens, although I'll be in the gym sometimes and actually smell it on guys in their 20's. You know how I can tell that it is Axe? because its the only "cologne" that you can actually smell because of how strong it is, and unfortunately it is crap- it reminds me of ant poison! :P
 
There's a simple answer to this: men (of whatever age) approach women for dates/sex/whatever because they have to - that is, they won't get what they want unless they do; OTOH, women *don't* approach men because they don't have to.
 
BodyWizard said:
There's a simple answer to this: men (of whatever age) approach women for dates/sex/whatever because they have to - that is, they won't get what they want unless they do; OTOH, women *don't* approach men because they don't have to.
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Words of wisdom.
like the original poster, the types of women who have made the 1st move towards me, were unfortunately the types who also "have to." Invalid Link Removed

Of course when it comes to men with power, the roles do reverse..men in power have to beat them off with a stick. This isn't necessarily true in reverse. Often times women in this position are lonely because men are too intimidated to approach.
The universe has a way of evening the odds in the long run.
 
IF i see a guy who i think is cute, nice smile, or just has a great look, I always approach, and I dont care if i get a number (yeah its nice to get it)....BUT always passing on a kind word is nice...and it throws em for a loop for a long time.....

TC
 
toughchick401 said:
IF i see a guy who i think is cute, nice smile, or just has a great look, I always approach, and I dont care if i get a number (yeah its nice to get it)....BUT always passing on a kind word is nice...and it throws em for a loop for a long time.....

TC
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my kind of woman for sure. Invalid Link Removed
 
Like it's been mentioned before, women give YOU the signal. Follow up on it if you get it. Heck, I LIKE following up on it. Because I just don't care about the outcome. I'm kind of like Larry David. Here's how I operate:

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***The funny thing was, is that he HAD IT at the beginning. She was waiting for someone to talk to her.
 
i've had more than one woman approach me. well, they used to - now my girl just beats them down. its the long arm reach that makes her so dangerous :)
 
Kurruptive said:
that's true confidence is awsome, but in reality its only the alcohol that makes them come up to you in a club. it's in our gene's my friend, there isn't many animals that i know of where the female finds the man, except birds of course. and it'll take many, many generations until we develop beyond those genetics that we've inherited from the apes and monkeys alike. besides a chick that comes up to you can occasionally want to put you on a leash and strut you around like a puppy because they are abit to over confident like they just know they the sh*t or just a general co*k whore. :lol:
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Agreed my friend, for now the man has to take action and show he is interested but don’t show her how interested give her a little taste then back off. Let her know that you are confident in yourself and if she is into you she will make the next move. Defiantly do not put her on a pedestal right from the start that is something she will have to prove she is worthy of. :thumbsup: good luck
 
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