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The "I Can't Believe I Did That Last Night" Thread

Rodja said:
I have never felt worse in my life...I have felt like I want to vomit for hours.
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Wow....just wow.
 
Rodja said:
I got drunk at my GF's parents house, was hit on by her best friend, and then I slept with her...not one of my better moments.
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I did something quite similar two years ago. There was a girl who absolutely despised my girlfriend at the time, yet strangely always enjoyed my company. Well, one thing led to another and an entire 26 of Jagger was gone in about 1/2 hour, which was basically the end of my recollection. Among other things I was told I:

1) Spit on a girls mom
2) Threw my friend out of the house
3) Was periodically falling down the stairs and then screaming "It's gooooooooood"
4) Stealing people's beer

And to top it all off, this girl who I spoke of ended up seducing me into a room; I slept with her while some kid was puking on the floor beside the bed. As we were coming out the room she was doing my pants up, that dirty biatch, and my gf came right around the corner. End of that relationship..lol

Coincidentally, that was the last time I drank...Anything.
 
Mulletsoldier said:
I did something quite similar two years ago. There was a girl who absolutely despised my girlfriend at the time, yet strangely always enjoyed my company. Well, one thing led to another and an entire 26 of Jagger was gone in about 1/2 hour, which was basically the end of my recollection. Among other things I was told I:

1) Spit on a girls mom
2) Threw my friend out of the house
3) Was periodically falling down the stairs and then screaming "It's gooooooooood"
4) Stealing people's beer

And to top it all off, this girl who I spoke of ended up seducing me into a room; I slept with her while some kid was puking on the floor beside the bed. As we were coming out the room she was doing my pants up, that dirty biatch, and my gf came right around the corner. End of that relationship..lol

Coincidentally, that was the last time I drank...Anything.
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I am dying inside because I feel so terribly for her, but I know that I can't tell her wha happened.
 
I had a similar experience just recently mullet, and I too have basically given up drinking...

Anyways, this year? I was working in a small town in the rocky mountains, so I spent New Years at a Jerry Doucette concert, lol :p
 
Rodja said:
I am dying inside because I feel so terribly for her, but I know that I can't tell her wha happened.
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You OWE her the truth, homie. To keep it a secret would compound your betrayal.

You did the deed, take then consequences or the rest of this relationship will be a lie.

I have been, many times, on the receiving side of betrayal...and there is no right of one to keep the secret from the other. You steal from her her right to make an informed decision as to whether she wants to remain with someone who betrayed her. Every second you do not tell her, you become more of a thief of time and trust.
 
WHat Dsade said is the most painful and hardest way to go because you risk losing the one you love but it's the right choice.
 
dsade said:
You OWE her the truth, homie. To keep it a secret would compound your betrayal.

You did the deed, take then consequences or the rest of this relationship will be a lie.

I have been, many times, on the receiving side of betrayal...and there is no right of one to keep the secret from the other. You steal from her her right to make an informed decision as to whether she wants to remain with someone who betrayed her. Every second you do not tell her, you become more of a thief of time and trust.
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I would agree with you Dsade but in this case......
Her friend is the one who has to come out and start explaining. He was seduced by her while he was drunk. He should be there but she should do the explaining.
 
Mach .78 said:
I would agree with you Dsade but in this case......
Her friend is the one who has to come out and start explaining. He was seduced by her while he was drunk. He should be there but she should do the explaining.
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I'm going to have to call "copout" on that one. I have been drunk MANY MANY times, and been hit on just as much, and I have NEVER so much as kissed another woman when committed.

It takes two people, and to claim that someone doesn't know exactly what they are doing...

I like Rodja a lot...but this is his action and consequence to man up to between him and her. He cannot blame the friend, nor the alcohol.

Besides, the chances of surviving this will be MUCH better if he talked to her as an adult, and was the one to confess.
 
dsade said:
I'm going to have to call "copout" on that one. I have been drunk MANY MANY times, and been hit on just as much, and I have NEVER so much as kissed another woman when committed.

It takes two people, and to claim that someone doesn't know exactly what they are doing...

I like Rodja a lot...but this is his action and consequence to man up to between him and her. He cannot blame the friend, nor the alcohol.

Besides, the chances of surviving this will be MUCH better if he talked to her as an adult, and was the one to confess.
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I definitely blame myself for letting get this far...it is not her fault b/c I should have stopped her advancements.
 
Rodja said:
I definitely blame myself for letting get this far...it is not her fault b/c I should have stopped her advancements.
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Rodja...I have been watching your posts closely...somewhat because of the DCP testing, but mostly because you generally come across as a VERY upstanding, honorable person. Up to this point, you have definitely been someone deserving of my respect.

Do the right thing, my friend, and be someone that is able to look EVERYONE in the eye, knowing that you stand tall on your principles, even when you make mistakes.

If you ever want to talk about anything, feel free to email me at [email protected].
 
I'm going to have to call "copout" on that one. I have been drunk MANY MANY times, and been hit on just as much, and I have NEVER so much as kissed another woman when committed.

It takes two people, and to claim that someone doesn't know exactly what they are doing...

Your right D. But I think it was underhanded what her friend pulled. I do believe it is partly her fault Rodja. Your right, It does take both parties involved. Tell her what happened.
 
I'm going to have to call "copout" on that one. I have been drunk MANY MANY times, and been hit on just as much, and I have NEVER so much as kissed another woman when committed.

It takes two people, and to claim that someone doesn't know exactly what they are doing...
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Your right D. But I think it was underhanded what her friend pulled. I do believe it is partly her fault Rodja. Your right, It does take both parties involved. Tell her what happened.
 
dsade said:
...We toasted the New Year with some good champage, good food, and good company (each other), and ended up setting up a good meeting with a publisher....so it looks like I am pretty close to getting my book contract.

This is going to be a great year for all.
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It just hit me what you were talking about...this is in reference to your children's book, right?
 
BTW its going to be ultimate betrayal for her, her best friend + You = GOING TO **** HER UP. Just hope she takes you blacked out answer and blames it mostly on her friend. The worst case is her friend tells someone else who tells her.

In that case, good bye relationship.


Dr liftalot
 
Dr Liftalot said:
BTW its going to be ultimate betrayal for her, her best friend + You = GOING TO **** HER UP. Just hope she takes you blacked out answer and blames it mostly on her friend. The worst case is her friend tells someone else who tells her.

In that case, good bye relationship.


Dr liftalot
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Yeah, her friend and I talked about that and I know that this will destroy her; I have only told one person and she says she hasn't told anyone so I really doubt that there will be a grapevine effect.

I ****ed up big time, but I have to own up to my mistake. I want to tell her, but her friend lives in Houston and I want it to be face-to-face. All I can hope for is some form of forgiveness...
 
mmowry said:
Sorry to hear that wild man!We got our scrapping out of our system 2 days ago.:trout:
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thanks, its all good now, just that night (of course it had to be after midnight, :( )
 
I think that i forgot to mention this, but I actually met the friend before I met the GF. We met at a party and we went to my GFs apt and I made-out with her. My GF knew about this when we started dating, so there is a little history there, but I dont think we ever thought this would end up happening.
 
stxnas said:
It just hit me what you were talking about...this is in reference to your children's book, right?
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YES!! :)
 
Congrats to you and the clam (I forgot his name!)! Children's fitness definitely needs to be addressed in this modern time fast food, microwave dinners, and Nintendo Wii!
 
I have a total of 26 books I have written..not sure which one will get published first.
 
fine dining, fine woman, fine sleep.

1st course shrimp, crab stuffed mushroom caps.
2nd course spinach salad.
3rd course lobster, steak, rice, carrots cauliflower.
4th ginger cake, french vanilla ice cream.

pinot noir, sauvingon blanc, champangne, shot of gibsons, 2 shots of bazooka joes, 1 vanilla vodka and coke, 2 double rye and coke, 2 shots of some butter caramel thing (woman shot), poker till 430 AM home to bed. too tired to hit it we passed out till 430Pm the next morining. No hangover just hungry.
 
No clue what most of that stuff is SWG (except Bazooka Joe's - of course) - must be Canadian stuff...

Rodja - Is your girl the one that lives in H-town or the friend that you slept with? I'm confused as to why you can't tell your GF now. She's not near you at this point? Is this a long distance relationship?
 
jmh80 said:
No clue what most of that stuff is SWG (except Bazook Joe's - of course) - must be Canadian stuff...

Rodja - Is your girl the one that lives in H-town or the friend that you slept with? I'm confused as to why you can't tell your GF now. She's not near you at this point? Is this a long distance relationship?
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No my GF lives in San Marcos, but her friend lives in Houston. I want us to all be in the same room and have to accept her anger. I have talked to her friend several times since it happened and we both know that it was a terrible mistake. She doesn't want to tell her, but I do. I think she is coming up here soon so I am going to try to make her come clean with me.
 
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh - no way I'd tell the GF with the friend there.
No way in hell.

I'd tell the GF by yourself.

(Unless you are going to try to convince the GF to have a 3some...)
 
jmh80 said:
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh - no way I'd tell the GF with the friend there.
No way in hell.

I'd tell the GF by yourself.

(Unless you are going to try to convince the GF to have a 3some...)
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Ironically, the friend did say that we should have one...if only if were that easy, but I would be lieing if I said that is didn't cross my mind.
 
Rodja said:
Ironically, the friend did say that we should have one...if only if were that easy, but I would be lieing if I said that is didn't cross my mind.
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I'd send the friend in on a solo assault if she really wants that. She seduces your GF. They have fun and then break the "terrible" news to you. :thumbsup:

Beware: Slippery road ahead.
 
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