This is a huge loss for our community. Just a few months ago we lost another forum member who went by the name Bone Daddy. Another enormous loss. I can't handle more of these
This is a huge loss for our community. Just a few months ago we lost another forum member who went by the name Bone Daddy. Another enormous loss.
I can't handle more of these
Bone daddy? No....when?
Whoa, did not hear about that either...geez
Yeah it happened mid September of this year. I believe it was a heart attack.
This is a huge loss for our community. Just a few months ago we lost another forum member who went by the name Bone Daddy. Another enormous loss.
I can't handle more of these
Although I don't get to know almost all of you, I tend to recognize those who have been here for awhile and also get to know those who tend to....tell it like it is. Snags and I had some confrontations behind the scenes mainly over style rather than substance.......he was actually banned once before because he "told it like it is"....but after corresponding with him in emails and PM's I came to respect his point of view..even though it could rub people the wrong way. Steve was brash at times...Steve was in your face at times....Steve was extremely passionate at times....and Steve simply broke the rules sometimes...but as an Admin of a forum that is supposed to help those who are inexperienced....pass on information from not only those who study this...but those who live it as well......I simply realized that Steve was very valuable here even though he pushed the boundaries and sometimes beyond them. I could have easily banned him several times for "breaking the rules"...but i chose not to because I believed he had a lot to offer this community and I believed he was a good person and whose intentions were honorable for the most part. I am saddened by this news because Steve did contribute a lot here and he helped out a lot of people. I valued him and his achievements...his point of view...and his honesty. He lived it..and for that..he deserved respect....and he got it from me...even though he might not have known it. The AM community will miss him...I will miss him as a member. Rest in peace Steve....
i think steve would really respect you for this, i know i do!!!
i think steve would really respect you for this, i know i do!!!
steve does respect the man.. hes watching over us as we speak. for some strange reason I want my legs to grow a couple inches out of no were. im sure its buddy snags tellin me to get to work!
I have not been very active on the boards as I always feel others are much more experienced to offer advice or feedback, so most will not be familiar with my handle. Snags, however, is one of the most active and experienced here. I say that in present tense. With the internet, the knowledge and advice he has offered will always be a simple search away. He will continue to help others long after his passing.
It deeply saddens me to hear about both BoneDaddy and Snags. It reminds us that we are all very human and we tend to take life for granted. As lifters, we spend so many hours in the gym or planning our meals without taking a moment to consider just how fragile our life is. We are only a blood test or a car ride away from not being with the people we love.
We should take a moment every day and give thanks for the having another day of life, another day with our family, another day to do what we enjoy most. We never know what tomorrow will bring.
May snags and bone daddy rest in peace. May your families be comforted knowing you are in a better place.
I have not been very active on the boards as I always feel others are much more experienced to offer advice or feedback, so most will not be familiar with my handle. Snags, however, is one of the most active and experienced here. I say that in present tense. With the internet, the knowledge and advice he has offered will always be a simple search away. He will continue to help others long after his passing.
It deeply saddens me to hear about both BoneDaddy and Snags. It reminds us that we are all very human and we tend to take life for granted. As lifters, we spend so many hours in the gym or planning our meals without taking a moment to consider just how fragile our life is. We are only a blood test or a car ride away from not being with the people we love.
We should take a moment every day and give thanks for the having another day of life, another day with our family, another day to do what we enjoy most. We never know what tomorrow will bring.
May snags and bone daddy rest in peace. May your families be comforted knowing you are in a better place.
lolz at mr tripod.Damn....mr tripod
Another one I'm going to miss.
Well said....well said. I am so shocked right now. Checked out for a while due to pushing too hard and making my "inny" belly button an "outty" (aka hernia) so just hearing of this HUGE loss. RIP Brotha!Although I don't get to know almost all of you, I tend to recognize those who have been here for awhile and also get to know those who tend to....tell it like it is. Snags and I had some confrontations behind the scenes mainly over style rather than substance.......he was actually banned once before because he "told it like it is"....but after corresponding with him in emails and PM's I came to respect his point of view..even though it could rub people the wrong way. Steve was brash at times...Steve was in your face at times....Steve was extremely passionate at times....and Steve simply broke the rules sometimes...but as an Admin of a forum that is supposed to help those who are inexperienced....pass on information from not only those who study this...but those who live it as well......I simply realized that Steve was very valuable here even though he pushed the boundaries and sometimes beyond them. I could have easily banned him several times for "breaking the rules"...but i chose not to because I believed he had a lot to offer this community and I believed he was a good person and whose intentions were honorable for the most part. I am saddened by this news because Steve did contribute a lot here and he helped out a lot of people. I valued him and his achievements...his point of view...and his honesty. He lived it..and for that..he deserved respect....and he got it from me...even though he might not have known it. The AM community will miss him...I will miss him as a member. Rest in peace Steve....
Excellent post and I think this applies to most of us here at AM.To be honest my wife always tells me I'm on this too much. I really appreciate the advice and words because I agree 100%. I need to prioritize a little better. This is all good as long as it's put into perspective and it doesn't take away from my wife and son. Sorry again for your guys loss.
For those of you who would like to know, i went to Steve's condo last night for the first time since he died. I believe he ODd on Diphenhydramine as i found 6 empty boxes. Coroner tox report will tell us for sure in a few weeks.
Also, to those of you out there who spend more time on here than you spend with your family...stop. Steve spent more time here (and other sites) than he did with us for years, and now we have a lot of posts that he wrote but not nearly enough memories of him. What you focus your attention on in life is what is most important to you. Make your focus your spouse, your children, your family, your friends...take my word for it you will not regret it.
Two great posts making the same point. I realized this a few months ago as well which is why I stopped repping and am hardly on here anymore.Admin and I had a couple discussions about board time and priorities a few years ago. Most don't know me or my presence like I used to be. I was on here far too much, not just for the position as Admin/Mod but because I was semi obsessed with the lifestyle and more candidly the feeling of worth I got from being a veteran member who from what I was told was respected and appreciated. I posted some 10,000 posts over the first 8 or 9 years. I don't think I have done more that 200 in the last 2 or 3.
When I clocked the gym time and board time I realized that my priorities were far far off. I looked back on what better transcending and legacy investments I could have been making with my family and reprioritized. I miss it but will never ever go back to the way it was.
Being divorced myself Steve and I had a couple of PM conversations about our fatherhood and sons. He loved his son very much and he was indeed his first love.
Love is an action. Where you time and money are is where your heart is. As men we can get lost on and in ourselves. Please be careful men.
on the positive side...there are many worse things in life than spending time on a forum helping people!!!
with that said, any obsession can have bad results!!!
Admin and I had a couple discussions about board time and priorities a few years ago. Most don't know me or my presence like I used to be. I was on here far too much, not just for the position as Admin/Mod but because I was semi obsessed with the lifestyle and more candidly the feeling of worth I got from being a veteran member who from what I was told was respected and appreciated. I posted some 10,000 posts over the first 8 or 9 years. I don't think I have done more that 200 in the last 2 or 3.
When I clocked the gym time and board time I realized that my priorities were far far off. I looked back on what better transcending and legacy investments I could have been making with my family and reprioritized. I miss it but will never ever go back to the way it was.
Being divorced myself Steve and I had a couple of PM conversations about our fatherhood and sons. He loved his son very much and he was indeed his first love.
Love is an action. Where you time and money are is where your heart is. As men we can get lost on and in ourselves. Please be careful men.
Thank you for taking the time to share this information, as well as your concern for others who may be going through similar situations. I'm sure it was a difficult task for you to post this, and your strength and character shine through.
My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.