Compliments are dope! Got one today from my car mechanic, same age as I but way out of shape. Now he may up his service fee out of jealousy, damn.
Yeah it is nice and this one was at a great time. I had a guy tell me I looked smaller recently. Now that tends to happen when leaning up but we want to hear looking leaner, more defined, stuff like that. There was a language barrier though, his English leaves something to be desired so it was more like this.
"You lose weight? You look smaller... lose a lot of muscle huh?" Me "I have lost about 10lbs, but haven't lost that much muscle. Mostly fat from what I can tell."
He says "No you smaller, you arm and shoulder not as big before..."
Me: "Yeah, I lost fat and am more defined, I am going to look smaller in my clothes plus I don't have my pump on."
He says "Well you muscle look like you smaller to me, but you still look good."
So that one was kind of a kick in the nuts, even though I am pretty sure it was more of a language barrier and not understanding that intramuscular and sub-q fat adds a good bit of size to the frame.
I know for sure I have lost a bit of size though. I knew it was going to happen due to my training limitations, but hearing that from a lay person still doesn't sound good. It is kind of like when my wife was trying to compliment a buddy I used to coach, I got him from 269 down to 235 @8% when he was prepping for a show before moving. My wife sees him and wants to compliment him on his progress. So she says what would make a woman elated. "WOW!!!! YOU LOOK SO TINY!!!!!" Wrong answer, poor guy had a mini-meltdown. I had to explain to her how that was taken. She apologized to him, and explained. However from that point on he is known as TINY to her... So it became a running joke with us.
Anyway after that weird convo with him I really needed a nice compliment from someone who is also a trainer and knows how things work when it comes to cutting down. So it was really nice to have someone in the field that I respect pay me that compliment today.
Even though I have said I am okay with dropping down it doesn't change the fact that my brain is going to fight the idea of becoming smaller until I reach a point of definition that I am so excited to be ripped I could care less if I am as big.
Being big, or thick has kind of always been the goal. Right now it isn't and I am going to have to keep reminding myself of that fact. As well as why I am doing it.