Alpha over insecurity all day long. Regardless whether I was diced, or i stretched the hell out of the shirt I was wearing, supreme confidence has always gotten my pick of the ladies. Every once in a while you’ll find a girl that’s attracted just to your physique, but in my experience, 99% of the time, my confidence and attitude was what attracted them.
Plus they usually meet you with clothes on so all they can see is arms, and women love big arms. So I’m not sure being super cut matters a lot with winning a woman over early on. They just care so much more about other thing for Physique to be a huge factor.
My Beta comment was primarily a joke, but you are dead on Mathersby. Confidence is the key to women no matter what you look like. I have a couple of young guys that work for me that don’t have much of a social life. They are both I intimidated and scared to approach women. I’m always giving them advise about confidence and never feel outclassed by another guy no matter what he looks like, etc etc. One of them has taken the advise and has scored a couple of dates, the other guy just plays video games all weekend.
And this leads back to the old debate about women being more attracted to you when you’re on cycle. Is it because of increased confidence or something else. I think it is a mixture, we are almost always more confident and Alpha when on cycle and women respond to that. That being said I also think women can like smell high testerone or something. Maybe without them evening realizing it. It’s like it does something to them subconsciously. I say that because I’m married and I am not chasing women or giving them attention. I can just be doing my normal daily stuff and women just out of the blue react differently and come on to you. It just happens when on cycle. And I don’t look like a physique model or a bodybuilder, lol so it ain’t the looks that are getting the reaction.