OrganicShadow
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Sweating profusely, pinching your nipples, all while rocking hips back and forth? Sexy.
Aproaching hotties at gym
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divo006
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well, comeing from my wife who goes to the gym at night, i know she doesnt like to be messed with while working out. guys who stare too much give her the creeps and from my view point, must be a huge turn off...
im not in the gym to hook up with chicks, im in there to kill pigs and raise hell. so for any advice that i would encourage after personally hearing up front a womens perspective, back the **** off. if you want to conversate, aproach in a friendly manner just like you would anybody, dont make awkward stares and molest her with your eyes.
im not in the gym to hook up with chicks, im in there to kill pigs and raise hell. so for any advice that i would encourage after personally hearing up front a womens perspective, back the **** off. if you want to conversate, aproach in a friendly manner just like you would anybody, dont make awkward stares and molest her with your eyes.
OrganicShadow
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Yeah I think thats a given. As I stated before a "Hello" in passing a few times and build to conversation when youre both on some downtime. Having people gawk at me might kill my vibe, too. Cant approach it like a hook up is all thats on your mind rather than the mentality of talking for the sake of being friendly.
I met a couple people today between exercises and on my way out. Most of the girls where in a group power class so I just did my gig and headed home. Probably shouldn't have worn a shirt that says "Cheat on your girlfriend, not on your workouts." Might be counterproductive.
I met a couple people today between exercises and on my way out. Most of the girls where in a group power class so I just did my gig and headed home. Probably shouldn't have worn a shirt that says "Cheat on your girlfriend, not on your workouts." Might be counterproductive.
southpaw23
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I like to walk up to her and say..."hey! so you work out huh? coooool...me too".....wink at her and then walk away.
jonesBones40
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southpaw23 said:
A nice pat on her cooch to let her know you like to party
Torobestia
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banthony22
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I think that shirt is hilarious. But for picking up girls, no. Although, I have to admit if a guy came up to me wearing that shirt I would call him out on it. So Cheating on your girlfriend is ok huh?...But I'm a smart ass and like giving people crap
OrganicShadow
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I think that shirt is hilarious. But for picking up girls, no. Although, I have to admit if a guy came up to me wearing that shirt I would call him out on it. So Cheating on your girlfriend is ok huh?...But I'm a smart ass and like giving people crap
Oh I love it. I had a roommate who hated it and she was so offended when I got it. Its a funny shirt if you're lighthearted but could make for bad first impression on meeting women.
Iowa. Awesome album
You could run up to her and say "My junk is like a f-ing rock!" and mast your forearm between you hips. Sadly, it works. Moral of that story: don't bet against the 49ers.
OrganicShadow
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Hit big pyramid squats today in honor of a friend who died this weekend. Had a good spot - he was impressed that 6" shorter and 40lbs lighter I was pushing bigger than him. I was impressed by his SMOKIN hot girlfriend. So I made a friend out of it, and she has friends. Win x2.
Just goes to show StackedCop had it: if you squat heavy, you'll meet cool people.
Just goes to show StackedCop had it: if you squat heavy, you'll meet cool people.
Squeaks4ver
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I am sure it has been said a few times. Just leave us alone if you see us plugged in to our ipods or whatever. There are girls that want to be chatted up... they are the ones not working out :aargh4:
MidwestBeast
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VS91588
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My gym is exactly that; a gym. No fitness classes, just a section for cardio, machines and weights. It's a gym comprised of alot of dudes and I guess it's a good gym to go to if you wanna just focus on your workout cuz it's just strictly weights and that's it. Nothing fancy but I love it. They don't yell at you for slamming weights or grunting. But it's so funny cuz IF a girl does walk in my gym; every guy acts like they never seen puss* b4 and every guy acts like cave men lmao... In my gym just go in and do what you gotta do and leave. I'll stay meeting girls elsewhere lol
Deeerdre
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I wish my gym was like that
I only pay 10 bucks a month tho but they yell at me when i dead lift to much lol and bug the **** out of me. Girls annoy me at the gym the most out of anything. I always get a girl coming up and asking if im using this? or im using this, or this or this. they cant see that im using the damn thing im using ahhhhhhhhhh haha
Squeaks4ver
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I am sorry Deeerdre, those girls are just as annoying as the meat head boys. Before I moved to place that actually had a true gym I had to go to a Work Out World or the college's gym. I saw some pretty impressive lifts, but the moment they smashed to the floor, a manager would be running out with his clip board yelling bloody murder; however, there is something to be said about control throughout the lift (but I am not much of a "lifter" so I am not the best source for anything along those lines). But anyway, my gym now is a gym's gym. Yes it has an awesome cardio area, but i think that was to please the owner's wife more than anything. We have nothing special, no classes, no personal trainers nagging you to join their program, and no juice bar! If you have a juice bar at your gym, it is not a gym, it is a night club where they just decided to put stuff on the floor.
SweetLou321
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I got the same shirt, and it never hurt my chances getting girls. Actually it helped me a few times haha
MidwestBeast
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Oh, man, juice bar...
My gym can get annoying, but luckily the personal trainers don't bother me. They also don't rack their weights, and I tell them to go pick them up. I've been there longer than both of them.
My gym can get annoying, but luckily the personal trainers don't bother me. They also don't rack their weights, and I tell them to go pick them up. I've been there longer than both of them.
ManBeast
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I really don't approach anyone at the gym unless its a quick question about working in/sets left/or how effective they feel one of the new-fangled machines we have at my Y is. If someone talks to me I respond and what not, but I try to not let it get chatty unless I'm leaving or just getting there.
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Squeaks4ver
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Not racking is annoying. The only good thing is that my gym painted their weights an orange color, so you can see them on the black floor.
banthony22
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I wish my gym was like that
You must go to a gym with MORONS! I don't go to the gym if I don't have a plan. If I have to adjust my planning because items are being used I have a back up plan already set up. I don't like being bothered at the gym, therefore I don't bother anyone. I surely wouldn't ask a guy for help or for this item or that. If I ask anyone for help it's a trainer, or a female. But even that I don't do, If I don't know what I'm doing I don't belong there
banthony22
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Yepp! And those are the ones with slabs of making up and they are on a treadmill with their hair down! Now that is annoying to look it!
Torobestia
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I've had pretty good success, as others have speculated/spoken from experience, when approaching someone after their workout. Usually when they're by the front desk waiting on a friend, or wrapping up after using some piece of equipment (like racking plates, for instance). Actually, sometimes the best times are outside of a gym setting, but only if you've said something to them in passing beforehand at the gym. But honestly, it's easier to talk to or hit on the girls at the desk as opposed to people coming in for their workout, in my experience. Also, I imagine this is all easier in a school gym setting than at a commercial gym. I probably wouldn't talk to 98% of the women there.
mikeg313
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Deeerdre said:I wish my gym was like that
Maybe that's their way of approaching you at the gym and your missing opportunity... Ever think of using it to your advantage?! Ya never know , you may end up finishing with alil cardio in the changing room with her!
Deeerdre
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Yes exactly juice bars are a joke and other dumb things like tanning booths and there own gyms bullcrap supplements they charge a arm and a leg for.
hahah awesome! ya i hate personal trainers too, they think they know more then me and are better when they dont have a freaking clue, i did NASM and NCCPT certs but just dont personal train, and these guys always feel they have to come up to me and bug me. I was deadlifting once I think I had 415 on and he comes over and tells me to bring the weight slowly down to the floor....f that if i do ill break my back
You must go to a gym with MORONS! I don't go to the gym if I don't have a plan. If I have to adjust my planning because items are being used I have a back up plan already set up. I don't like being bothered at the gym, therefore I don't bother anyone. I surely wouldn't ask a guy for help or for this item or that. If I ask anyone for help it's a trainer, or a female. But even that I don't do, If I don't know what I'm doing I don't belong there
Yes i do go to a gym with morons... but thats what i get for paying 10 bucks a month lol, i used to go to LA fitness which was 30 a month and i liked it there lol i need to go back. And I think everyone just needs to keep to themselves at the gym and just do there buisness
Deeerdre
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True...but I got a girlfriend haha
EasyEJL
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But whats going to go wrong? are you going to puke on her like in south park? Otherwise who cares? Be honest. If the whole reason you want to talk to her is that she's got an ass made for banging doggie style, then just say it. If its because she looks intense when she's working out then say that. Even if she says "are you out of your mind? leave me alone" then so what.
Granted, do it at a casual moment when she doesn't have headphones in, not in the middle of her workout. And don't try and work into her set as that seems cheesey.
EasyEJL
Never enough
don't forget too much perfume too. Blech I hate that in the gym
Torobestia
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What does that have to do with a little cardio?
Torobestia
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Hahaha, the worst are when they wear those biker shorts things. I've seen some girls that have a good 3-4" between the bottom cusp of their cheeks to where the two cheeks meet.
Yeah dude, I feel like that would actually be a turnoff.
Squeaks4ver
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Actually... I have no idea how I would react to that. Blush... slap you...call the cops.. or divorce my husband! lol
EasyEJL
Never enough
I've never quite used that one
But being straightforwards about it - "I just wanted to say hi because I saw you deadliftiing and so few women do it, even though its a great full body conditioning exercise" or "your leg workouts are working because your legs look better than most fitness models" instead of "gee do come here often?" or "man its hot in here" or trying to find other small talk things to be the ice breaker.
Deeerdre
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What does that have to do with a little cardio?
Didnt think about it that way....hmmm yea cardio is good for you... haha, it helps the heart
MidwestBeast
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GuyverX
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All I can say is be cool and banish any anxiety you might have.
Women sense confidence like a tiger senses fear.
When I used to be a gym rat before I bought my home equipment , if I saw a lady I was interested in I'd just walk by, smile and say hello.
And if she had headphones on and gave me that extended look I'd just smile and keep walking.
Some would stop their workout and initiate conversation, others would finish and come to where I was and a couple waited around until I got ready to go. I was in and out no bs in those days. Now do not get me wrong it was probably a 15-20% success rate at best but that was better than nothing.
As far as the makeup women there to be noticed, either they are interested or not. After I trained I'd step over and flirt shamelessly for a while and bid them a good evening. Eventually it would get to the point where they would say something like "why don't you go ahead and ask me out."
Funny thing though, I'm a severe introvert and usually keep the conversation to a minimum. But smile and a good attitude from a lady brings the best out.
To be honest I just enjoy women. The way they look, they way their voices sound(some of them) , their natural musk, their curves, their features, their essence(even the seemingly strong ones are girls at heart).
My advice, adopt a laid back attitude. Enough ambition for folks to know you are on your business but chill enough that folks know even if stuff goes wrong you are going to survive. Show your skill and excellence but never show off.
Go to the gym put your work in and be friendly. Relax. You may not get the first one but one or more will eventually be interested.
Women sense confidence like a tiger senses fear.
When I used to be a gym rat before I bought my home equipment , if I saw a lady I was interested in I'd just walk by, smile and say hello.
And if she had headphones on and gave me that extended look I'd just smile and keep walking.
Some would stop their workout and initiate conversation, others would finish and come to where I was and a couple waited around until I got ready to go. I was in and out no bs in those days. Now do not get me wrong it was probably a 15-20% success rate at best but that was better than nothing.
As far as the makeup women there to be noticed, either they are interested or not. After I trained I'd step over and flirt shamelessly for a while and bid them a good evening. Eventually it would get to the point where they would say something like "why don't you go ahead and ask me out."
Funny thing though, I'm a severe introvert and usually keep the conversation to a minimum. But smile and a good attitude from a lady brings the best out.
To be honest I just enjoy women. The way they look, they way their voices sound(some of them) , their natural musk, their curves, their features, their essence(even the seemingly strong ones are girls at heart).
My advice, adopt a laid back attitude. Enough ambition for folks to know you are on your business but chill enough that folks know even if stuff goes wrong you are going to survive. Show your skill and excellence but never show off.
Go to the gym put your work in and be friendly. Relax. You may not get the first one but one or more will eventually be interested.
tuberman
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I would say that women sense a lack of confidence like a tiger senses fear. In order to banish anxiety it's a good idea not to hypnotize your self into a crush on a women you don't even know. That will make it hard not to get a negative energy surge during an approach. What GuyverX has to say is worth listening to, and I would add that you should treat it as a learning game. It's fun.
Once you do catch notice it's good to be an interesting story teller. What you are trying to do with the stories is A) break the ice and establish comfort, and B) direct the stories to engage her imagination. You are deeply interested in her, and you use stories to get her started talking about herself in an imaginative way. Then listen carefully for the insights.
aLinux
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First things first. Get ur handycam set up on a tripod and do some video shots of her, etc ... upload it to utoob, then provide a few links back here -- don't be stingy and forget those close-up shots (u know, right moment shots that really count). Then will give you healthier advice.
jonesBones40
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mikeg313 said:
That's a good way to get booted from the gym hahaha
falcaof
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Worked for me!!!!!
Try to find an exercise you both have in common and on any given day you ask to work in with her. Help her change weights when its her turn. Thank her for allowing you to work in and walk away. If she has earphones on, don't try to start a conversation. Since then she will at least know who you are. The following days you can start saying HI. Act still like you don't care. Until another random day when you meet her again for the same exercise. It'll will seem like a "coincidence", but women like to think that coincidences happens for a reason. Smile as this being a funny occurrence and remove the earphone from one ear and say "I guess this time I have to let you work in" even when you were the one showing up after her. If she smiles back or remove the earphone from one ear to listen......you are set. If not, finish your set and walk away. Goodbye!!!!!
Try to find an exercise you both have in common and on any given day you ask to work in with her. Help her change weights when its her turn. Thank her for allowing you to work in and walk away. If she has earphones on, don't try to start a conversation. Since then she will at least know who you are. The following days you can start saying HI. Act still like you don't care. Until another random day when you meet her again for the same exercise. It'll will seem like a "coincidence", but women like to think that coincidences happens for a reason. Smile as this being a funny occurrence and remove the earphone from one ear and say "I guess this time I have to let you work in" even when you were the one showing up after her. If she smiles back or remove the earphone from one ear to listen......you are set. If not, finish your set and walk away. Goodbye!!!!!
wtmdcg91
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As a girl i say try to make a move and if she don't respond to you nice move on simple is that!!! I hope you don't get too many crushes on women or you be a lonely dude!! BUT GET NEW BALLS AND APPROACH THE WOMAN..... OR MOVE ON !
jonesBones40
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wtmdcg91 said:
She's callin out your manhood bro
Squeaks4ver
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This may need to become a new thread, but before I left myold “night club / gym” I had a guy actually pull my ear-buds out of my head tospeak to me. I thought it was some sortof emergency. Was it? NO! He told methat he has seen me off and on and wanted to get to know me better. I try not to be too much of a jerk to people,but I would not say that I am thewarmest person to strangers who nearly physically assault me lol. I ended up going on this 5 min rant about me,did not realize I was yelling, and I swore I saw the fear of God in hiseyes. But I was wrong! He then had the audacity to “invite me” (andhe said, I would like to invite you) into the posing room so I can tell him ifhe looked symmetrical! What the eff! Iended up telling him I would, and I would meet him in there when I was done withmy run. He jogged down the hall, andwhile he was in mid jog, he yelled out that he was going to sauna and oil up first … I finished my run, and went home. This guy reminded me of guy Ben Stiller played in the movie “Dodge Ball”.
The next day, I saw him again. I’ve never seen this guy before and now twodays in a row I am blessed with his company. He started yelling at me saying I was leadinghim on and that it was little girls like me that “turn women into slutty b*****s”and “I missed out”. I was actually savedfrom the situation by a professional wrestler who works(ed) out there from timeto time. I thought there was going to be a big old brawl. My hero cut the whole thing short by grabbingthe guy by the back of his neck, I mean he had inches of skin in his hand, andthrew him out of the back door for sexually harassing his daughter. He never came around again. :twak:
Anyway, that is my worst gym “pick up” story. And now I have a 12:00 Russian History classto teach. BYE!
The next day, I saw him again. I’ve never seen this guy before and now twodays in a row I am blessed with his company. He started yelling at me saying I was leadinghim on and that it was little girls like me that “turn women into slutty b*****s”and “I missed out”. I was actually savedfrom the situation by a professional wrestler who works(ed) out there from timeto time. I thought there was going to be a big old brawl. My hero cut the whole thing short by grabbingthe guy by the back of his neck, I mean he had inches of skin in his hand, andthrew him out of the back door for sexually harassing his daughter. He never came around again. :twak:
Anyway, that is my worst gym “pick up” story. And now I have a 12:00 Russian History classto teach. BYE!