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lulzz..well thanx for the pep talk there iowa :lol:I think there were a lot more incompatible marriages in the past but they were forced to live with it because divorce was so highly frowned upon. It's more acceptable now so when people realize they are in a relationship with the wrong person, they get out rather than live their lives in misery. But just because it was the wrong person before doesn't mean there isn't a right one. Sh*t bro, knowing what you need in a person to make a lifelong relationship work is a pretty f*cking hard thing to do first try. We barely know OURSELVES when we make the decision, and usually for the wrong reasons; pregnancy, convenience, fear of being alone, or one I see a lot of people doing - using marriage to revitalize a failing relationship. But when you find that one that makes you forget about all the other sh*t you've had to endure with other relationships, you'll know you've got something real.
and not that what you say isn't dead on, but - I am 42 yrs old (soon to be 43)..you think I haven't figured that out yet?
anyway - sure marriage is difficult; who said I was burnt out on women tho?
marriage in general, I will continue to hold my own views on what I feel about it..who knows? like other things in life, maybe I change my mind, maybe not
but i'm certainly not losing any sleep over it, nor dwelling on the past..it is what is is