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What is the best way to approach a girl at work?

ArnoldIsMyIdol

ArnoldIsMyIdol

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know some of you will say that dating people you work with is not a good idea, but for some people work is the only place you really meet people, and lots of people have gotten married who used to work together. So what is the best way to try to start up a relationship with someone at work, without of course straying into sexual hairyassment, or making things awkward?
 
Sexual harrassment only follows if a) You oogle at her or touch her inapparopriatly or b) you ask and she says no and you continue to ask

And I don't think there is a tried and true method since it'll vary from workplace to workplace and not to mention what works for one woman may not for another.

I suggest asking the person you find attractive out for lunch while at work and test the waters.
 
Work on building a comfortable friendship at work before you make the big move and straight ask her out. This way you get to see a little more of what to expect, and it makes things less awkward for her.
 
People overcomplicate things.

Say "Hi" and see what happens from there. Dont ever try to plan something out, it just doens't happen that way. If things go well after a few conversations tell her YOU are heading out to lunch, and ask her if she would like to go. Don't make it sound like a date right off the bat. You'll look desparate.
 
Ditto to what kwyckemynd00 said, if you're still looking for other methods go watch The 40 Year Old Virgin if you get really stuck for ideas. Repeating the question they just asked you may work, lol.
 
It's not cheating if you ordered her from overseas and keep her in the basement where no one knows she's there.


*nods*
 
MaynardMeek said:
Never dip your pen in company ink
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see i had a VP tell me the exact opposite. he said while your young, dip the pen in as much of the company ink as possible...
 
Form a friendship first and find out if she likes you, this you should be able to get just by the way she interacts with you. Then proceed from there. If she does then ask her to grab lunch or a quick romp in the storage closet. Either one works for me. You never know what she'll say, I've had both:D
 
jminis said:
Form a friendship first and find out if she likes you, this you should be able to get just by the way she interacts with you. Then proceed from there. If she does then ask her to grab lunch or a quick romp in the storage closet. Either one works for me. You never know what she'll say, I've had both:D
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My god man, I thought I taught u better than that...I think getting engaged seriously messed with your head. :nono:
 
JBlaze said:
My god man, I thought I taught u better than that...I think getting engaged seriously messed with your head. :nono:
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LOL you think. I'm half crazy at this point. I can't believe i suggested lunch, just go for the "meet me in the closet in 5". Works like a charm
 
Don't listen to anything JB has to say about meeting women. The ****er is like a functioning penthouse article. **** doesn't happen to normal folks like that...Unless it envolves dreaming.
 
Re: What is the best way to approach a girl at work?

be her friend first. flirt from there
aka don't 'approach' her
work from there :)
 
Man I gotta say I just don't think it's a good idea to date someone you work with. They can dig dirt on you and get you in trouble if they really wanted to just in case your relationship turned out messy. I say go do your fishing in another pond unless this woman looks like pornstar :D
 
Iron Warrior said:
Man I gotta say I just don't think it's a good idea to date someone you work with. They can dig dirt on you and get you in trouble if they really wanted to just in case your relationship turned out messy. I say go do your fishing in another pond unless this woman looks like pornstar :D
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Agreed, look elsewhere :)
 
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