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She said "I love you"

jp17815 said:
Wow. I know this story.
That's how I ended up with my wife and 3 kids.

LOL.

That was over 10 years ago. But it all happened the same way you described.
Funny how that works.

JP.
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Bro, I dont know you yet, but does that say 5'4" 185? Cripies.... I want to be on your good side.
 
refrieddreams said:
Here is that thread I was speaking of.... Invalid Link Removed

AM rocks!
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I remember that very well....Its when you became more than a screen name and became a dear friend....:)

I told you why I said what I said, I even left a voice mail to explain it to you, be careful, I admit i didnt get the txt she sent but all I am saying is go easy, she has feelings for you, and you have some for her....... if you lived close to me I would hug you than slap you and sit you down for a long talk until we figured it out....:) But i do the best I can!!!!!

((((HUGZ)))))

me
 
Well, having successfully formed a very health relationship after first night boning I'd just leave it at this: You're probably right that most guys shouldn't fall for girls that do it on the first night--they're skantastic hoes. However, you're just totally irresistible.... like yours truly. So, it wasn't her fault that she gave into temptation... it's yours. So don't go blaming her for your crap.

If you threw that one issue out the window, does your projection of your future together change? If so, just deal with the fact that your a sexy bitch.

Give her a fair chance.
 
kwyckemynd00 said:
Well, having successfully formed a very health relationship after first night boning I'd just leave it at this: You're probably right that most guys shouldn't fall for girls that do it on the first night--they're skantastic hoes. However, you're just totally irresistible.... like yours truly. So, it wasn't her fault that she gave into temptation... it's yours. So don't go blaming her for your crap.

If you threw that one issue out the window, does your projection of your future together change? If so, just deal with the fact that your a sexy bitch.

Give her a fair chance.
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Hey man, I was wondering if you were still around.

Thanks, and I will chalk it up as I am one sexy bitch.

I mean I'd do me...:hitit:
 
Yeah... I'll probably be gone again shortly. But, it's nice to be back temporarily ^_^ I'm trying to learn how to eat/lift again, get the scoop on what works, etc. But, I won't have time a couple months from now. School will be eating my life for the next 4 yrs... I somehow managed to trick admissions committee members into letting me into medical school. What a bunch of fools. LOL.

Glad to hear you're getting some action in your life ;)
 
kwyckemynd00 said:
Yeah... I'll probably be gone again shortly. But, it's nice to be back temporarily ^_^ I'm trying to learn how to eat/lift again, get the scoop on what works, etc. But, I won't have time a couple months from now. School will be eating my life for the next 4 yrs... I somehow managed to trick admissions committee members into letting me into medical school. What a bunch of fools. LOL.

Glad to hear you're getting some action in your life ;)
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Great to hear you are doing well. Good luck with the school.
 
kwyckemynd00 said:
Yeah... I'll probably be gone again shortly. But, it's nice to be back temporarily ^_^ I'm trying to learn how to eat/lift again, get the scoop on what works, etc. But, I won't have time a couple months from now. School will be eating my life for the next 4 yrs... I somehow managed to trick admissions committee members into letting me into medical school. What a bunch of fools. LOL.

Glad to hear you're getting some action in your life ;)
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Did you get married?
 
Here's what you should have done man (and I have NO IDEA if this is still current) but, you should have told her upfront what you wanted...you said that you told her that there could never be anything serious between the two of you. However, this must have occurred after the first sexual encounter because you mentioned that the encounter was your sole reason for not wanting to date her seriously.

So, NOW, you should just call her up or go over, etc, and say that you only want this to be a sexual relationship. If she continues to be in it then that is all that you can possibly do. Well, the other thing is demand that the relationship end.

I would have said from the go, just sex, if that is what I was looking for.
 
hOLY ****....


I thought it was over, I took the high road, blah blah blah. Afterall I have my eyes on my true love ;)

Then last night she invite me over for Steaks and beer (just say NO refrieddreams, be strong) Hmmm sex, steaks and beer....

I told her again how I felt, and that I need to catch up on sleep. (I work close to 70 hours a week)

Then at 9pm or so as KOBE was going off, I get a IM, I have never used an IM in 4 years, I didnt even know I had it on this computer and this is what it said, I will copy and paste.
 
***flippy: hope you are sleeping well ****ing *******, no wonder your ex feels the way she does cause this ex does too
***flippy: hahah
refrieddreams**: well that was mature
refrieddreams**: Id like to point out the fact that you called me a ****in *******, and then dog my fatherhood, that was really precious. Its funny how you can dog me that fast...when I didnt even do anything wrong...but whatever...
refrieddreams**: think of the ma\ean things I could say right now....that I wont. I have NEVER judged you at all. ANYONE else would of...
***flippy: yeah, i ****ed up, didnt mean to put the enter button but the back space and now im a HUGE bitch, i didnt mean to be like that
***flippy: yeah, that was not mature at all and I would never be like that,
***flippy: but i was and never meant that to be sent out,
***flippy: it was horrible thing to say, I meant one thing and hit the enter button instead of back button trying to correct what I was sayin, wow, horrible, I would hate me too, well, like I said and could explain but the words are out and cant be taken back, Ill leave you alone, I really didnt mean it and did not mean to sound like that. Holy ****, im sorry is all i can say. Ill back the **** off and let you be cause it was a mean horrible thing to say that I didnt mean, I really thought I was hittin the back button cause when I read it I thought oh god that is terrible and I dont really mean that and I hit enter and thought, ****! I dont think or feel that. bye
 
Crazy......But let this be a lesson to you.....:X

On a side note, it isent the end of her insaneness (spelling)....but remember ignore, ignore, ignore esp since this girl knows where you sleep......You need to have a rule like mine, dont bring em to your place for at least 6 months, intro to family members 8 months and since most dont make it to date number 2 with me....lol its been ok :)

Good luck I see a bumpy road for you...........

Me
 
no bumpy road...Im a big boy...is that you blowin up my phone?

She is done, but you knew that..she is just in withdrawl....joking
 
Sorry dear, a double tomorrow 7am-11pm...i am in bed, signing off now and trying to sleep till tomorrow.....:) sweet dreams


me
 
Wow, that text was insane. Glad you've managed to stay strong, and now after what she wrote you see what kind of person she is. I like the way you responded, super mature compared to the insane and downright mean remark that she "accidentally" sent, all because you turned down a meetup. That was a true low-status move on her part. Name-calling? Really? Wow.

27 text messages huh? Wow again.

Hope things simmer down and go better for you this week.
 
buuzer0 said:
Wow, that text was insane. Glad you've managed to stay strong, and now after what she wrote you see what kind of person she is. I like the way you responded, super mature compared to the insane and downright mean remark that she "accidentally" sent, all because you turned down a meetup. That was a true low-status move on her part. Name-calling? Really? Wow.

27 text messages huh? Wow again.

Hope things simmer down and go better for you this week.
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I said the same thing excpet i called her the mayor of crazy town....hey when the hat fits wear it :)

TC
 
Darlin she is the mayor and I am scared...

Heres the latest. TC knows already but for the rest of yall,

She emailed me, saying how sorry she is and how she didnt mean it, but she drank 12 beers that night and didn't mean it.

So I get another email, she quit drinking, and had a meeting with God. He woke her up and whispered in her ear, that she needs to stop drinking and she needs to remind me daily one great thing about me.

So a little while later I get a very random email entitled "day one" then the next day "day two" these emails are very sweet, and say nice things about me, but I think she may be whacked...
 
This is "Day one"

She references my "pain" as I have a sciatic nerve deal which is very bad, to the point where I cant push the clutch on my 2nd car...

I told the ladies I work with what I said to you, they were shocked at me, and said how horrible that was to say. Yeah I know. I had a coming to Jesus moment not too long ago. Yesterday every time I ate it came back up. Today every time I ate it came back up. It is my nerves, the crap I wrote to you plays like a broken record in my head and cant eat. We had steak and shrimp at work and was mad cause it came back up. So, I got on my knees and asked God how in the world can I over come this guilt and be able to look at myself again in the mirror. He said "Well you ****ing bitch" I said "Gasp, God!" He said " Doesnt feel so good does it? A little of your own medicine" I said but God I didnt mean it I tried to backspace but after 12 beers" He said "Stop right there, what are you in 2nd grade, that is the stupidest excuse, what the hell!?" I said " I know right, I wish it was not the truth cause I coulda made something up that would not make me look so retarded" He said " You know you failed, you knew what your job was and you failed, your job was to build him up" I said "I know, I suck" He said "Well, I have something you could do that you understand that you will do it without the hope of ever talking to him, seeing him or being with him ever but would mean that you could move past the guilt you are carrying and be able to look at yourself, can you do that?" I said " I can do that" He said, " You know I created an amazing awesome person that needs to know this and I want him to know it, you need to tell him something good about himself" I said "How long do I do this?" He said "You will know when the time has come to stop" I said "How will I know what you want him to know?" He said since you are not drinking and abusing yourself you can hear me again and you will know" I said "Ok"

Day One:
Every day you are in pain. Some days it is almost unbearable for you. You do this unselfishly for your daughters. You do not get the appreciation or recognition for it most days. You need to know that it is noticed and appreciated. It may not be expressed to you verbally but the example of that you are to them will be rewarded. The respect that they will have for you and the expectation they will have for their future spouse will be higher because whoever they choose to be with must measure to the example you have set for them.
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This is "Day 2"

She should write greeting cards.

I woke up this morning and when trying to orient myself to what is today what I am I supposed to be doing today, his repectfulness, was wispered in my ear, chills went down my right side of my body cause I literally felt the breath in my ear. I love when creepy **** happnes to me like that especially when you are not looking for it or expecting it.

Day Two:
The repectfulness that I have you seen you show to others as well as to myself seems to be almost a stealthy maneuver on your part. So many people are very open and boisterious about their own self. You have a quiet way of letting people be themselves and putting them at ease, even if they are a person you do not want to associate yourself. You notice those around you with great attention, thoughtfulness, care and your willingness to show consideration shows great honor in your character.
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refrieddreams said:
This is "Day 2"

She should write greeting cards.
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Really, write greeting cards where for the hallmark store of CRAZY TOWN!!!!!! damn, she is off her damn rocker...... I told you my take, perhaps one day you will listen to me, and funny thing is when i tell you something about your love intrests they end up being right...............

Really, run from this weirdo, you have kids to protect and yourself..........................

TC
 
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