Sexually Deprived

sp447

sp447

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My sex drive is out of control :woohoo:

And my GF/SO shudders at the very mention of intimacy. :sad:
 
How can I con this stubborn woman into getting naked before I have to cheat on her with my hand?
 
No dude, nobody else here seems to have that problem, it's just you. Don't know what else to tell you.
 
DmitryWI said:
Have you study physics in school? The harder you push the more resistance you get?
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He's right, take it from me-a married guy who knows NEVER BEG! It never works ,candles,dinner,makin out, all that lame sh1t, that works.
 
So= significant other Id imagine
 
man, that's a shame. if she has no sex drive, help her revive it through research/action.

if she's using the "no sex" policy to punish you, i'd seriously reconsider who you're dating. sex is mutually-gratifying. and for a female to deprive herself of hers just to get back at you is a bit strange in my book, UNLESS you've done something that makes her legitimately angry to where she doesn't even want you near her, let alone in her. heck, she might have a new meatman. hahaha. jk, buddy.

P.S.-sorry to hear that, friend.

P.P.S.- you know what i'd done with the one woman who'd actually told me she wouldn't give me sex once-----i had sex with myself in front of her while laughing. but i'm unbalanced.
 
Well - I cooked my wife dinner tonight, and as a thank you she made it a point to be the dessert. :chick:



It works like a charm everytime haha! ;) :)
 
If a girl says no and you pressure her, then that's only gonna make matters worse. Pulling your pork is much better than cheating, but it's not healthy if she's depriving herself and you of sexual intimacy. If it's not serious, then end it.
 
I havew learned inb 11 years begging will nbot work. Help her with something, and listen to her with whatever she says. That always gets my wife
 
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Manimalia said:
P.P.S.- you know what i'd done with the one woman who'd actually told me she wouldn't give me sex once-----i had sex with myself in front of her while laughing. but i'm unbalanced.
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ohhh man.. if that doesnt get a woman all fired up inside... i dont know what will!!!!!!!!
 
First of all bub, women don't equate intimacy with sex. Intimacy to a woman can mean a bunch of different things at different times, whereas intimacy to us almost always equals sex.

Second, the reason that you are not having sex is probably somehow your fault, even if you don't realize it. Some women tend to like to punish men by withholding sex, but most women withhold sex because of something that you did or said which has killed her desire to have sex with you. I know it sucks, but get used to it.

Third, don't try to remedy this situation by "taking your relationship to the next level". That will just reinforce the idea that withholding sex from you gets positive results.

Fourth, you might just have yourself a frigid woman on your hands. Some women just don't really care for sex, if this is the case with your girlfriend, then all I can say is run away fast.
 
You think it's bad now, wait till you marry her, and if you think it's bad then, wait till kids are involved...it only gets worse with time ;)
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Buy her a vibrator, it might ramp up her sex drive LOL.

If she's taking the pill, she probably needs something to free up her test, g.diesel's TTE or something similar.
 
Gutterpump said:
You think it's bad now, wait till you marry her, and if you think it's bad then, wait till kids are involved...it only gets worse with time ;)
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Buy her a vibrator, it might ramp up her sex drive LOL.

If she's taking the pill, she probably needs something to free up her test, g.diesel's TTE or something similar.
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My wife and I dated for years before we were married. I married her because she is the only woman who I ever loved so intensely. I had many girlfriends, and had even been in love with one other woman, but not to the degree that I love my wife. I married her because she is one of these women who dreamed about a big wedding, and we are still together and happily married today 7 years later.

That being said........

If my wife dies unexpectedly, or if we do find ourselves divorced down the line, I can say this with 100% conviction:

I will never marry another woman.

That is not to say that I am giving up on relationships with women, all I am saying is that I will not engage in a legally binding contract between myself, a woman, and the state. If I were to fall in love again, I would have no problem being totally committed, and expressing that committment in front of all of our friends, family, and God, followed by a nice reception, but there will be no marriage license.

The deck is just too stacked against men in the divorce courts, and most women(and men) have a difficult time understanding what a marriage is. A marriage isn't the thing by which you will be made totally happy for the rest of your life, no man or woman can possibly be the source of eternal happiness for another person. This is why so many fail. We have been programmed to think of marriage this way, and when the hard times arrive it becomes time to find a new person to make you happy.

A marriage really is the sharing of life together with a person who you want to go through this journey with, just like the vows say through the good times and bad.

This is why I will never marry if something happens to my marriage, and this is also why I encourage my single friends to never marry.
 
Dadof2 said:
First of all bub, women don't equate intimacy with sex. Intimacy to a woman can mean a bunch of different things at different times, whereas intimacy to us almost always equals sex.

Second, the reason that you are not having sex is probably somehow your fault, even if you don't realize it. Some women tend to like to punish men by withholding sex, but most women withhold sex because of something that you did or said which has killed her desire to have sex with you. I know it sucks, but get used to it.

Third, don't try to remedy this situation by "taking your relationship to the next level". That will just reinforce the idea that withholding sex from you gets positive results.

Fourth, you might just have yourself a frigid woman on your hands. Some women just don't really care for sex, if this is the case with your girlfriend, then all I can say is run away fast.
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Reps sir.
The rest of us joked, and you gave a serious answer.:clap2:
 
Most women tend to perceive men who continue to persue them continously after a rejection as inferior, or a sign of weakness. Women can eventually even lose some attraction to them if it continues often. This can also give them a sense of power feeling they can 'control' aspects of the relationship by their sexuality. Try to turn the tables by being slightly distant from her, or a better word mysterious. Don't even mention sex, or even act like it's on your mind for a change. In fact just try to come off as it's the last thing your thinking about. After some time, she'll be coming onto you as she'll begin to feel maybe something's wrong, or your avoidance of her sexuality may make her start to wonder if she's still attractive to you. This can help shift some of the 'sexual prowess' back your way.

And if temporarily re-inventing yourself doesn't work and she still doesn't seem to wanna be intimate, chances are there's someone else :duel:
 
Dadof2 said:
My wife and I dated for years before we were married. I married her because she is the only woman who I ever loved so intensely. I had many girlfriends, and had even been in love with one other woman, but not to the degree that I love my wife. I married her because she is one of these women who dreamed about a big wedding, and we are still together and happily married today 7 years later.

That being said........

If my wife dies unexpectedly, or if we do find ourselves divorced down the line, I can say this with 100% conviction:

I will never marry another woman.

That is not to say that I am giving up on relationships with women, all I am saying is that I will not engage in a legally binding contract between myself, a woman, and the state. If I were to fall in love again, I would have no problem being totally committed, and expressing that committment in front of all of our friends, family, and God, followed by a nice reception, but there will be no marriage license.

The deck is just too stacked against men in the divorce courts, and most women(and men) have a difficult time understanding what a marriage is. A marriage isn't the thing by which you will be made totally happy for the rest of your life, no man or woman can possibly be the source of eternal happiness for another person. This is why so many fail. We have been programmed to think of marriage this way, and when the hard times arrive it becomes time to find a new person to make you happy.

A marriage really is the sharing of life together with a person who you want to go through this journey with, just like the vows say through the good times and bad.

This is why I will never marry if something happens to my marriage, and this is also why I encourage my single friends to never marry.
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truer words never spoken.

my wife and I have been married 8 years and together for 11, it has been great, good and terrible at times, but at the end of the day, never again.

Marriage is an institution, and I dont want to be institutionalized
 
Reaper329 said:
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truer words never spoken.

my wife and I have been married 8 years and together for 11, it has been great, good and terrible at times, but at the end of the day, never again.

Marriage is an institution, and I dont want to be institutionalized
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That is a quote for the ages.
 
Ziquor said:
Most women tend to perceive men who continue to persue them continously after a rejection as inferior, or a sign of weakness. Women can eventually even lose some attraction to them if it continues often. This can also give them a sense of power feeling they can 'control' aspects of the relationship by their sexuality. Try to turn the tables by being slightly distant from her, or a better word mysterious. Don't even mention sex, or even act like it's on your mind for a change. In fact just try to come off as it's the last thing your thinking about. After some time, she'll be coming onto you as she'll begin to feel maybe something's wrong, or your avoidance of her sexuality may make her start to wonder if she's still attractive to you. This can help shift some of the 'sexual prowess' back your way.

And if temporarily re-inventing yourself doesn't work and she still doesn't seem to wanna be intimate, chances are there's someone else :duel:
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i like this answer.
 
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