paternity test rights
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CROWLER
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Well I would speak to a lawyer. You are going to have to do more then just go get a blood draw for yourself and him. You may need a Dr to request it and that may require a signature of the parent.
Are you listed as the parent on the Birth Certificate.
If you don't think the child is yours(BTW how do you know) then why do you have 'access' to him/her?
Because if you go to the Dr and some how are able to get a blood draw and then some how get the paternity test done and you are NOT the father you could face criminal charges as you took a child who is not yours and had a medical proceedure done on him/her.
CROWLER
CROWLER
Are you listed as the parent on the Birth Certificate.
If you don't think the child is yours(BTW how do you know) then why do you have 'access' to him/her?
Because if you go to the Dr and some how are able to get a blood draw and then some how get the paternity test done and you are NOT the father you could face criminal charges as you took a child who is not yours and had a medical proceedure done on him/her.
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yeahright
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True paternity may not matter. The court will be looking out for the best interests of the child during the divorce proceedings. As the husband, you are presumed to be the father. If you have acted as the father, the courts may hold you to child support even if you are not the biological father (because it is in the best interests of the child and you should have raised paternity concerns when the child was born).
How old is the child?
BTW, you really need an attorney to help navigate this during the divorce.
Re-reading your question: Do you mean your soon to be Ex is currently pregnant? If so, then you'll want to challenge paternity during the divorce, and a court supervised paternity test can be done once the child is born. You're going to need an attorney. I'd strongly advise against do-it-yourself divorce when a child is involved.
How old is the child?
BTW, you really need an attorney to help navigate this during the divorce.
Re-reading your question: Do you mean your soon to be Ex is currently pregnant? If so, then you'll want to challenge paternity during the divorce, and a court supervised paternity test can be done once the child is born. You're going to need an attorney. I'd strongly advise against do-it-yourself divorce when a child is involved.
JonesersRX7
Registered User
No blood needed... just a cheek swab.
Will be more expensive because they have to strip apart the 2 strands of the double helix and then compare to you only and it's cheaper because of the reference of the mothers DNA.
Best bet is to call the place you are doing it and as I am sure they would be the most versed in the law.
Good luck.
Will be more expensive because they have to strip apart the 2 strands of the double helix and then compare to you only and it's cheaper because of the reference of the mothers DNA.
Best bet is to call the place you are doing it and as I am sure they would be the most versed in the law.
Good luck.
BMW
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basically to make a long story short i was with my ex happily in love with her but she started to change and kept haging out with this guy. fast foward a few months later she cheats on me with him and decide they going to get married lol. well it turns out teh brotha doesnt compare to me and she regrets leaving me. now he some things that dont make sense:
i ****ed this girl over a countless amout of time at least a 100 time over the course of 8 or 9 months every time we never used protection or bc as she has a condition which severly limits her chances and my sperm is fugged up do to the many cycles i do. now she just happens to get pregnant when things start going bad with this guy, yet she claims she never fukked or even kissed him but they want to get married? bull****. she would basically try to cheat on him with me while they were together but i never did. hmmmmmmm.
now last night i was horny and i went by to check on her status, well first of all she cried to me the other day how theyre are not together anymore and how good i was but when i get there i pointed out "hey why do you still have your engagement ring on?" she say o i forgot. WTF!!!! how do you forget you have an engament ring on? and she has his picture on her cellphone and other shyt. anyways we fukked for like 5 min and she got of and said that she couldnt do it! i know why she feels guilty. well i go by the house today to check on her again and guess who was there! he supposed ex fiance hes been coming by alot actually.
so i think im being set up for paternity fraud. the other guy has nothing to offer and shes just realizing that i guess and now wants me to be the father? well all i know is the dude is black as burnt ash, im mixed black/white, she puerto rican if the baby comes out to dark somethings is up for sure!!
i ****ed this girl over a countless amout of time at least a 100 time over the course of 8 or 9 months every time we never used protection or bc as she has a condition which severly limits her chances and my sperm is fugged up do to the many cycles i do. now she just happens to get pregnant when things start going bad with this guy, yet she claims she never fukked or even kissed him but they want to get married? bull****. she would basically try to cheat on him with me while they were together but i never did. hmmmmmmm.
now last night i was horny and i went by to check on her status, well first of all she cried to me the other day how theyre are not together anymore and how good i was but when i get there i pointed out "hey why do you still have your engagement ring on?" she say o i forgot. WTF!!!! how do you forget you have an engament ring on? and she has his picture on her cellphone and other shyt. anyways we fukked for like 5 min and she got of and said that she couldnt do it! i know why she feels guilty. well i go by the house today to check on her again and guess who was there! he supposed ex fiance hes been coming by alot actually.
so i think im being set up for paternity fraud. the other guy has nothing to offer and shes just realizing that i guess and now wants me to be the father? well all i know is the dude is black as burnt ash, im mixed black/white, she puerto rican if the baby comes out to dark somethings is up for sure!!
yeahright
Well-known member
BMW said:
Ok, she's 2 months pregnant and broken-up with you. No marriage.
Did you live together?
Is she claiming that you are the father?
Most likely, it will be up to her to establish paternity, not you to dispute it.
Given the possible paternity dispute, it seems to me that it is in everyone's interest to get this cleared up.
My advice:
1) Stop having sex with her.
2) Express your doubts on the paternity.
3) Do not acknoledge the child as your own until a test proves it to be.
4) If the child is yours, pay your support, show the kid love and remember that it's not the kid's fault that his/her mom is a bad person.
toughchick401
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yeahright said:
good post
NUPE69
New member
I agree with everything this guy said.
You can also have a blood test done, once the baby is born. {At the hospital}
Don't sign no birth certificate or place the child in your name, till the test come back negative or positive.
Dawg, you need a DRINK and prepare yourself for 18 to 21 years of child support. Kanye West has a song out regarding your issue. When you have sex raw, you need to prepare yourself for the possibility of a female getting pregnant. {That just common sense}
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You can also have a blood test done, once the baby is born. {At the hospital}
Don't sign no birth certificate or place the child in your name, till the test come back negative or positive.
Dawg, you need a DRINK and prepare yourself for 18 to 21 years of child support. Kanye West has a song out regarding your issue. When you have sex raw, you need to prepare yourself for the possibility of a female getting pregnant. {That just common sense}
{{{{ SUPER THIN CONDOMS }}}}
yeahright said:
black06
New member
Dude, it's not that serious at this point. You're not married so just don't sign the birth certificate or take legal responsibility for the child until it's proven that it is or isn't yours. If she's out for child support, the first thing they do is legally establish paternity with a paternity test so no worries there if it isn't yours.
Apowerz6
Board Sponsor
As stated, if you dispute fatherhood and do not sign the birth certificate, she will have to prove it is your child, if she wants you to pay. DO yourself a favor and strap up with the next ones, because there is the three letter killer on the loose esp in OUR community-HIV or like we say it the Hi-5. Even now you don't know what her other guy is on he might be on some DL ish, be careful bro...
Cuffs
Well-known member
I was told the other day that the law in California is as this. If a couple is not married and the state gets involved to obtain child support from the father, then a paternity test is mandatory. Even if there isn't a dispute over who fathered the child. Now, if you are married, and there is no dispute, then the state would not go there. However, if there is a question as to who the father is, then I believe the state would use the same recourse as earlier stated.
Basically, the state will order a paternity test, via a court order, and one does not have the right to refuse.
My ex is going through the paternity crap right now. Serves her right though.
Basically, the state will order a paternity test, via a court order, and one does not have the right to refuse.
My ex is going through the paternity crap right now. Serves her right though.
refrieddreams
Active member
Well it sucks to be the kid.
The Experiment
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refrieddreams said:
Cue South Park's "Cartman's Mom is a Dirty Slut." It must suck to be someones illegitimate kid with a mother who was trying to scheme to sucker a man to pay up for her mistakes.
refrieddreams
Active member
The Experiment said:
Nice...classic
I hope whoever kid it is it
A) finds a loving home
B) is not raised a Dolphin fan, I mean he has enough working against him, I understand the pretty teal and orange is nice and all but...
The Experiment
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refrieddreams said:
I mean think about it. If this is the kind of mother the kid has, the kid is going to be screwed up and probably a deep distrust of women in general.
Once you find that the kid is yours, you should move to take custody rights. A good lawyer and you can probably get it.