You ever break 100?i threw my smart watch back on the charger, re-downloaded the app, and decided I'd give it a try again for fun to track steps out of curiosity, cause I know they're low. so far I'm at 96.
Speaking of the contest, I am honestly no longer being motivated by the contest. I am enetring in my progress, but I have zero care about the outcome of it. I still need to buy my Bucked Up product to account for that requirement. However, I honestly don't really care about it at all. I am in go mode, and doing this for me, not that external source of motivation. I needed it to kick me into gear, but now I am driven.
Yeah, that is one of the things I am a little confused about and need to reach out to someone in there to see. It says we have to buy from them, or one of there trusted retailers, of course I have no idea who their trusted retailers are, but if DPS is one they are always running specials. I will post the question up in the group today and hopefully get an answer tomorrow. They are kind of snowflakish in the group. You post a new message and they have to approve it before it even gets posted. I guess they can't trust people to be civil and follow rules. Either way, it makes me not want to have anything to do with the group because it takes hours, or overnight for a post to go up sometimes and then I just kind of forget to go back to it.Unsure when your contest ends, but I keep seeing the early BF sign up ads from them. So might be able to sneak in with a 50% off deal on whatever product you need to satisfy entry reqs.
2300You ever break 100?
Hell yeah, not only a new low, but a 2lb new low from last weeks lowest.
isn't my actual weight. This is my depleted weight.
Try just the empty bar as a warmup for a couple sessions before your normal Floorpress work. Try to introduce the ROM with no appreciable load first, like basic rehab. Establish ROM before loading.I am considering trying full ROM Swiss Bar Press soon just to see if I have unlocked that capability. I am just making good progress on the floor press right now and am a bit worried I might mess that up if things don't work out for me on the full ROM. I will have to test it out at some point though, so I want to string another couple weeks together of relatively pain free floor pressing before I do.
Thanks man, all I needed was to be well enough to create consistency, and some external motivation to ge the ball rolling. No this snowball is rolling down the hill momentum growing along the way!2300
you have the experience and knowledge that a lot of people lack when doing this to recognize the difference, but even depleted lows are fun mile markers cause you know you'll probably have that point of depletion weekly at some level and it gives you a new low to bounce off of. You're like a freight train with momentum right now![]()
Great idea, I didn't want to derail, but a couple sets with just the bar should give me a decent idea if that area of my shoulder is okay with being up against the bench during movement under load. I can bump it up a tiny bit each week to test if it is going well.Try just the empty bar as a warmup for a couple sessions before your normal Floorpress work. Try to introduce the ROM with no appreciable load first, like basic rehab. Establish ROM before loading.
Man that was a great session there….you’re cooking with fire now. Yeah, the main benefit of that contest was you set a goal and started that train to rolling down the track again….now you’ve picked up speed and you’re gonna blow by that contest like it’s a blip on the map. I think you’re really setting up for a strong finish to 2026 and carrying some great momentum to kickoff 2027.You ever break 100?
Had a heck of a lower body session yesterday, expecting some soreness to start creeping in soon.
Lower Body Workout
November 4, 2026
Start: 4:41 PM | End: 5:30 PM
Duration: ~49 minutes - This did not capture the 5 minute @20MPH on the Airdyne Bike, no arms.
Arsenal Leg Extension
Warm-up 1: 40 lb
Warm-up 2: 60 lb - Warm up had to be slow reps at first, get the knee even willing, and ended up almost a work set on this last warm up.
Set 1: 80 × 6 (2 RIR)
Set 2: 80 × 6 (1 RIR)
Set 3: 80 × 5¾ (0 RIR)
Notes: Final set reached failure approximately ¾ through the sixth rep. This thing is so heavy, I don't know what the ratios are for the pulleys, but they only put 150 on the stack so I am pretty sure it is a 1:1, and maybe others are at a 2:1 typically. Either way, I don't know that I could do the whole stack right now, especially for reps. It is that heavy.
Seated Leg Curl
Warm-up 1: 40 × 10
Warm-up 2: 70 × 8
Set 1: 90 × 10 (2–3 RIR)
Set 2: 90 × 8 (1–2 RIR)
Set 3: 90 × 7 (0 RIR) - I would say I actually hit failure here, but I was so close to the completing the final rep I counted it.
Leg Press
Warm-up 1: 310 × 15
Warm-up 2: 400 × 10
Set 1: 490 × 15 (RIR uncertain)
Set 2: 490 × 15 (2 RIR)
Set 3: 490 x 3 - Stopped due to knee pain starting. Not major, but enough that I knew if i wanted to push legs again this weekend I needed to stop here.
Notes: Knee discomfort decreased to pain free during the warm up, right up until the final set was aborted.
Arsenal Hip Thrust
Set 1: 90 × 10 (2–3 RIR)
Set 2: 135 × 8 (3 RIR)
Set 3: 180 × 6 (2 RIR)
Set 4: 180 × 6 (0–1 RIR) - I had to fight to complete the last rep, I may have been able to get one more if I paused for a few seconds, but not adding rest pauses just yet.
45° Hyperextension Plank (Isometric)
Set 1: 44 seconds
Set 2: 32 seconds - I have been watching this guy who talks about some of Poliquin's old back and hip stuff and found one of his big things for correcting the back was doing these and building up to where you can hold for 2 minutes. I can do over a minute fresh, but after this session not even close. It definitely feels like it is forcing things to work. The key is to elongate the spine while in the hold, no real arching or anything to make it easier.
Daily Nutrition Totals
Calories: ~1,280 kcal
Protein: ~145 g
Total Carbs: ~67 g
Net Carbs: ~24–27 g
Fat: ~57 g
Now for the most fun entry of the day....
Morning Weight 204.6!!! Hell yeah, not only a new low, but a 2lb new low from last weeks lowest.
I have to stay out of my head right now because I am not looking as good as I would hope at this weight, but also this isn't my actual weight. This is my depleted weight. I expect to look much better when I am this weight with normal glycogen levels. I am not goin to assume supraphysiological levels weight here, but on average I would get my normal glycogen weight is probably 4-5lbs above my depleted weight. So, I am right about where I think I should be considering that.
I am also a short compact man, so a little fat loss means a lot once I get closer to where I need to be. So I still think my assessment that I will probably hit my goal around or before 190 still feels pretty realistic, but of course, we shall see. Once you get to a certain level of fatness it becomes hard to guess how far you have to go, and we often underestimate it. So, if it is lower, it is lower, we might add something in then, but that would be after this contest for sure.
Speaking of the contest, I am honestly no longer being motivated by the contest. I am enetring in my progress, but I have zero care about the outcome of it. I still need to buy my Bucked Up product to account for that requirement. However, I honestly don't really care about it at all. I am in go mode, and doing this for me, not that external source of motivation. I needed it to kick me into gear, but now I am driven.
Yes, as long as I can avoid re-injuring anything I think going into 2027 is going to be pretty kick ass. I intend to be much leaner by my 54th birthday Feb 1st, and hopefully in that time will have progressed injury and strengthwise to really be able to start pushing toward some strength accrual goals. I mean the reason I do this isn't just vanity, although that is a good part of it. More importantly, I want to be a force to be reckoned with well into my 60's, and hopefully 70's.Man that was a great session there….you’re cooking with fire now. Yeah, the main benefit of that contest was you set a goal and started that train to rolling down the track again….now you’ve picked up speed and you’re gonna blow by that contest like it’s a blip on the map. I think you’re really setting up for a strong finish to 2026 and carrying some great momentum to kickoff 2027.![]()
I love the "my goal was never to be skinny, it was to be extremely inconvenient to F with" reels and memes that have been popping up lately.More importantly, I want to be a force to be reckoned with well into my 60's, and hopefully 70's.
I want both!I love the "my goal was never to be skinny, it was to be extremely inconvenient to F with" reels and memes that have been popping up lately.
That guy ripping 560 off the ground Tuesday and I were talking aesthetics a bit and I told him 6 packs are nice, and eventually I'll get back into a legit cut of some sort, but my definition of a man has changed and strength and longevity are more important to me than being an Abercrombie model. I don't need to attract women on the beach, I need to be able to protect the one I have.
I mean yeah realistically, but I'm still going to say that I am exactly what I want to be when asked lolI want both!
Nice drop! And great session.You ever break 100?
Had a heck of a lower body session yesterday, expecting some soreness to start creeping in soon.
Lower Body Workout
November 4, 2026
Start: 4:41 PM | End: 5:30 PM
Duration: ~49 minutes - This did not capture the 5 minute @20MPH on the Airdyne Bike, no arms.
Arsenal Leg Extension
Warm-up 1: 40 lb
Warm-up 2: 60 lb - Warm up had to be slow reps at first, get the knee even willing, and ended up almost a work set on this last warm up.
Set 1: 80 × 6 (2 RIR)
Set 2: 80 × 6 (1 RIR)
Set 3: 80 × 5¾ (0 RIR)
Notes: Final set reached failure approximately ¾ through the sixth rep. This thing is so heavy, I don't know what the ratios are for the pulleys, but they only put 150 on the stack so I am pretty sure it is a 1:1, and maybe others are at a 2:1 typically. Either way, I don't know that I could do the whole stack right now, especially for reps. It is that heavy.
Seated Leg Curl
Warm-up 1: 40 × 10
Warm-up 2: 70 × 8
Set 1: 90 × 10 (2–3 RIR)
Set 2: 90 × 8 (1–2 RIR)
Set 3: 90 × 7 (0 RIR) - I would say I actually hit failure here, but I was so close to the completing the final rep I counted it.
Leg Press
Warm-up 1: 310 × 15
Warm-up 2: 400 × 10
Set 1: 490 × 15 (RIR uncertain)
Set 2: 490 × 15 (2 RIR)
Set 3: 490 x 3 - Stopped due to knee pain starting. Not major, but enough that I knew if i wanted to push legs again this weekend I needed to stop here.
Notes: Knee discomfort decreased to pain free during the warm up, right up until the final set was aborted.
Arsenal Hip Thrust
Set 1: 90 × 10 (2–3 RIR)
Set 2: 135 × 8 (3 RIR)
Set 3: 180 × 6 (2 RIR)
Set 4: 180 × 6 (0–1 RIR) - I had to fight to complete the last rep, I may have been able to get one more if I paused for a few seconds, but not adding rest pauses just yet.
45° Hyperextension Plank (Isometric)
Set 1: 44 seconds
Set 2: 32 seconds - I have been watching this guy who talks about some of Poliquin's old back and hip stuff and found one of his big things for correcting the back was doing these and building up to where you can hold for 2 minutes. I can do over a minute fresh, but after this session not even close. It definitely feels like it is forcing things to work. The key is to elongate the spine while in the hold, no real arching or anything to make it easier.
Daily Nutrition Totals
Calories: ~1,280 kcal
Protein: ~145 g
Total Carbs: ~67 g
Net Carbs: ~24–27 g
Fat: ~57 g
Now for the most fun entry of the day....
Morning Weight 204.6!!! Hell yeah, not only a new low, but a 2lb new low from last weeks lowest.
I have to stay out of my head right now because I am not looking as good as I would hope at this weight, but also this isn't my actual weight. This is my depleted weight. I expect to look much better when I am this weight with normal glycogen levels. I am not goin to assume supraphysiological levels weight here, but on average I would get my normal glycogen weight is probably 4-5lbs above my depleted weight. So, I am right about where I think I should be considering that.
I am also a short compact man, so a little fat loss means a lot once I get closer to where I need to be. So I still think my assessment that I will probably hit my goal around or before 190 still feels pretty realistic, but of course, we shall see. Once you get to a certain level of fatness it becomes hard to guess how far you have to go, and we often underestimate it. So, if it is lower, it is lower, we might add something in then, but that would be after this contest for sure.
Speaking of the contest, I am honestly no longer being motivated by the contest. I am enetring in my progress, but I have zero care about the outcome of it. I still need to buy my Bucked Up product to account for that requirement. However, I honestly don't really care about it at all. I am in go mode, and doing this for me, not that external source of motivation. I needed it to kick me into gear, but now I am driven.
LMAO, I mean you kind of are, you make the decisions that make you who you are so unless you got there by accident... You picked it.I mean yeah realistically, but I'm still going to say that I am exactly what I want to be when asked lol
Thanks!Nice drop! And great session.
LMAO, I mean you kind of are, you make the decisions that make you who you are so unless you got there by accident... You picked it.![]()
LOL same, 210 this morning. I was like this adds up, made a bit of a cardio push. my legs are probably anabolic AF from all that walking and just swole/jacked. then I remembered I didn't measure my creatine yesterday and accepted a large portion in addition to the au jus I had last night. so I'm basically completely saturated with creatine and sodium at the moment lolMorning Weight 208.4 - An odd jump back up in weight with no real explaination.
we shared a salmon ceasar, but I might have also got some tots. then I got home and my step daughter had surprised me with a burger dip she brought me from her work. lol. so I had that while we watched V is for Vendetta.Sounds like you had one heck of a good meal if you had au jus.
Yes, but it will make leaning up a little much easier!I have had a number of people tell me they don't "feel anything" when they do them, but I sorta imagine with your athletic history you'll figure it out. for me its a warming sensation in all the supportive tissue. they should always be done light weight. max 35lbs but tbh I have had great success as light as 5lbs when showing people how to do it.
we shared a salmon ceasar, but I might have also got some tots. then I got home and my step daughter had surprised me with a burger dip she brought me from her work. lol. so I had that while we watched V is for Vendetta.
I'm going to be really bummed when she moves out next week and this sandwhich supply dries up.
LMAO! Little Much is like 1 Giant, and Much Little is like 10000 ants. I thought that was clearly opaque.very little much!
Nice work on pull-ups….you are definitely progressing each week.LMAO, I mean you kind of are, you make the decisions that make you who you are so unless you got there by accident... You picked it.
Thanks!
Pull Workout – November 5, 2026
BW: 210 lb
Warm Up - General Movement - 5 minutes to get bood pumping
Warm Up Circuit - TRX - ITY, Low resistance rows, Lat Pulldowns - 100x10, 10,
Close Neutral-Grip Pull-ups: BW × 1, 1, 1, 3, 5
Overhand Pull-ups: BW × 5, 4, 3
Close Neutral-Grip Pull-ups: BW × 5, 5, 5, 5, 5, 5 - Bonus! - I got 5 on all sets this time last time, last 2 sets were 4 and 3 respectively.
Chin-ups: BW × 4, 2 - Those 4 extra chin ups trashed my biceps to the point the curls got me near failure quite easily.
DB Curls: 25×12; 30×8; 30×5 ~1 RIR each set
Not too bad at all, I am up 7 reps, and increased pull up volume by 13.5%.
My right shoulder was tight when we started, and it felt a little off throughout but never did become truly problematic. However toward the end I could tell I had fatigued it severely, and I was running out of time because I had a very late start due to other responsibilities after work. So between that and the fact I didn't trust that going into the TRX-Recline rows was going to let me escape unscathed because rowing tends to be a bit harder on my shoulder / RC area. So, from that fatigued and compromised state, I decided to end it.
All in all I think ending it here was the right move. I woke up this morning no worse for the wear.
Push day considerations - I am going to remove the Rest Pause from my push days for a bit. I think while I am just pushing volume up intentionally that adding the intensifier risks pushing my shoulder too far. The fact it was still tight, and a little grumpy tells me I overdid it on push day. The fact it affected this workout tells me if I continue to push that hard I am probably going to create/aggravate an issue. So we might see a slight drop in overall volume here without the rest pauses.
Nutrition - Calories 1450
Protein 141g
Fat 89.5g
Net Carbs 13.7g
Morning Weight 208.4 - An odd jump back up in weight with no real explaination. I can only assume the big whoosh this week stressed my body, and it is trying to maintain homeostasis by holding onto some water to maintain weight. I have seen bounces off of new lows many times. So not stressing over it. I sure didn't gain any fat on 1450 calories. That should still be at least a 1000 calorie defict, if not a touch more.
Today is a rest day, so basically some walking, and I may play some VR if I get frisky. Tomorrow is supposed to be a full body sesson, but we shall see how I am feeling with my shoulder. If feeling too tight I might push it to Sunday and just continue the keto tomorrow. That or choose to split the sessions up over the weekend to allow things to clear up for upper body by doing some leg work tomorrow. I know I am not in the clear on the shoulder until I see how it feels tomorrow with how post session inflammation seems to work with me.
Either way, I am stoked, I am making progress on pullups which is one of my goals. I think I am starting to get enough volume I can think about doing less sets and more reps per set, but we will see. A lot of that is about shoulder fatigue management.
Thanks, that was my thought too!I’m not saying the TRX Recline or extra volume would be worthless, but I believe from N=1 that if Pullup/chin-up work is solid and you feel cooked, you got everything you really needed for lats. They’re only going to get bigger from this session!
Thanks you Sir!Nice work on pull-ups….you are definitely progressing each week.![]()
my lifting belt is telling me I need to have that accident.Also, I have accidentally fasted all day so far from getting busy. Just 3-4 cups of coffee today. LOL
Also, I have accidentally fasted all day so far from getting busy. Just 3-4 cups of coffee today. LOL

Haha, it is such a mental fight eh? Be bigger, lift more weight, VS this pudge is starting to bother me... UGH!!! MIne is more do I want to lose or stagnate muscle growth now, or like how my physique looks. It got bad enough that the physique finally won!my lifting belt is telling me I need to have that accident.
Honestly, this is more about circadian rhythms, and flexible metabolism. Mine are changed due to fasting, so I often don't get hungry until at least 2I don't understand this. I have probably missed a meal only the number of times I can count on one hand. It's like clockwork, it's 12-12:30 it's lunch time, if 3-4 PM, afternoon snack.
But that's probably also why I've never really gotten lean!![]()
Thanks, yeah, it is a challenge for sure butSorry to hear about the axle issues, but congrats on the diet progress!
Yeah, it is frustrating to say the least but not much you can do. Something must have been defective or installed wrong for it to have popped out after what 5-6 months.Yeah, hate to hear you may have axle issues again, but glad you got a good friend that’s your mechanic to take care of it. Sounds like you gave yourself a good treat with that prime rib. And that’s great you’re daughter is getting her car back.
Congrats on the new lows.![]()
Oh man that’s horrible what your poor Mom has been through. I know that has to be rough on you and your sister, but thankfully your sister went back to check on her and got her help.![]()
Wishing your mother recovery and your family strength! I’m sorry to hear this brother.
Thanks Gentlemen, Right now things are looking up, and we are all keeping a positive attitude and practicing gratitude that she is still around when things could have easily gone another way. She will likey end up moving up near my older sister who is retired and would be able to provide more availability to her tan the rest of us who are still working. however, we are also giving her a choice to figure it out. My wife already said she was welcome of course, so she has a place with us if needed. We just need to see what will work out best for her and her situation. We are only looking toward the positive here. The bad things happen regardless of outlook, so you just try to have a plan, and not worry outside of that. It doesn't help, and it doesn't affect the outcome. So, not going to waste energy on worrying.So sorry to hear this Kleen. Hope she gets the help she needs.
Thanks Brother, me too!Man glad to hear your sister went to check on her and got into quick action to get help. Wising all the best man![]()
That’s a couple of great sessions, getting in some good volume. I like those supersets you did, I could feel the burn and pump just reading.Here is my session from the weekend, and yesterdays session.
November 7, 2026 | Full-Body Pump - 10:10–11:46 PM | 96 minutes
Carb-loading pump session. Four supersets, generally targeting 15 reps and approximately 2 RIR.
General Warm-up: Airdyne Bike - 5 minutes, over 20 mph
Superset 1: Back / Chest
Single-Arm Cable Row - WU: 40×6/arm | 40×15 | 40×15 | 40×15
DB Bench Press - WU: 30×10 | 45×15 | 45×15 | 45×15
Notes: Approximately 2 RIR, with increasing difficulty across sets.
Superset 2: Chest / Shoulders
Chest Fly Machine - 100×15 | 120×15 | 120×15 (~2 RIR)
Standing Lateral Raise Machine - 30×20 | 40×15 | 40×15
Superset 3: Biceps / Triceps
Cable EZ-Bar Curl - 30×15 | 50×15 | 50×15 (~2 RIR)
Cross-Cable Triceps Extension - 30×15 | 50×10 | 40×12 (0 RIR)
Notes: 50 lb was too heavy. Cross-cable extensions also strongly recruited rear delts, which sometimes became the limiting factor.
Superset 4: Hamstrings / Quadriceps
Seated Leg Curl - 60×15 | 65×13 (~2 RIR)
Leg Extension - 40×15 (~3 RIR) | 40×15 (~1–1.5 RIR) | 40×12 + failed ½ rep
Notes: Finished with substantial muscular fatigue and a strong pump.
Good session, kept everything in a nice pump focused RIR goal, hit some failure here and there, overall great session!
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November 9, 2026 | Hotel Gym Push / Abs - ~5:29–6:23 PM | ~54 minutes
General Warm-up - Matrix Rowing Machine - 1,154 meters | 6:33
Side-Lying DB External Rotations
5×15 | 5×10 - Reps decreased due to fatigue.
Cybex VR1 Multipress (Lowest Setting - Chest Press)
WU: 40×20 | 115×15 | 160×4 (load test)
140×14 (2 RIR) | 140×9 (2–3 RIR) | 140×7 (2 RIR)
Bodyweight Dips - BW×10 (1–2 RIR) | BW×8 (depth-related stop)
Notes: On the second dip set, unintentionally descended into excessive elbow flexion and lost the mechanical advantage needed to press out of the bottom position. Unclear whether this represented true muscular failure or a positional limitation. Estimated 1–2 additional reps may have been available with controlled depth. Discontinued pressing proactively to avoid unnecessary joint stress.
Triceps - Cable Rope Overhead Extension 35×15 | 35×15
DB Overhead Extension - 40×12
Wide-Grip EZ-Bar Cable Extension
35×15 | 45×12 + 1 failed ¾ partial | 45×6 + 2 partials
Notes: Second heavy set reached failure on attempted rep 13. Third set included two partials after six complete reps.
Abdominals - Captain’s Chair / Vertical Leg Raise Station
Straight-leg ×15 | Straight-leg ×11 | Bent-knee ×12 | Knee raises ×15–20
Notes: First two sets emphasized maximum hip curling and posterior pelvic rotation for abdominal contraction. Progressively shortened lever length as fatigue accumulated. Final knee raises emphasized hip flexors while maintaining abdominal tension.
Nice session overall, still had a pretty good pump and put in some hard work.
I am going to skip training this evening and go see my coworker and good friend who I am up here covering for while they recover from surgery. I told my boss I was going to visit her, and asked if I could take her out for dinner to get her out of the house. She had spinal surgery about 5 weeks ago and is still recovering. So he told me to take her somewhere nice to let her know we miss her. So I am going to prioritize friendship here, and go enjoy a good meal with her. I am still going to keep to my low carb action, but can't promise I will be in a deficit today. Probably a ribeye kind of evening...
I love that my wife is secure enough in our relationship that she doesn't trip over stuff like this. She knows Karissa is my buddy. It also helps that she knows she is has zero interest in dating men. LMAO.
Oh yeah speaking of steaks last nights dinner was a Prime Wagyu Flat Iron steak with chimichurri, and some charred Brussel sprouts. The steak was so tender I could cut it with a butter knife, like literally, I cut it with a butterknife. Surprising for a steak under $50, my guess was 8oz on serving size.
oh man so sorry to hear about your mom. Remind me how old she is now? my daughters grand parents are literally moving this week into their new place for the first time in many decades to be closer to their daughter in a much smaller/simpler home so that side of our family is going through something similar. a couple strokes and some near catastrophe events lead to that very quickly in 2026.Thanks Gentlemen, Right now things are looking up, and we are all keeping a positive attitude and practicing gratitude that she is still around when things could have easily gone another way. She will likey end up moving up near my older sister who is retired and would be able to provide more availability to her tan the rest of us who are still working. however, we are also giving her a choice to figure it out. My wife already said she was welcome of course, so she has a place with us if needed. We just need to see what will work out best for her and her situation. We are only looking toward the positive here. The bad things happen regardless of outlook, so you just try to have a plan, and not worry outside of that. It doesn't help, and it doesn't affect the outcome. So, not going to waste energy on worrying.
never doubt a womans intuition-Man glad to hear your sister went to check on her
It also helps that she knows she is has zero interest in dating men. LMAO.
I have no need to 2x the drama in my life idk about youyou always need a work wife
LMAO! It helps we play on the same team for sure!oh man so sorry to hear about your mom. Remind me how old she is now? my daughters grand parents are literally moving this week into their new place for the first time in many decades to be closer to their daughter in a much smaller/simpler home so that side of our family is going through something similar. a couple strokes and some near catastrophe events lead to that very quickly in 2026.
never doubt a womans intuition-
this part cracked me up. my wife are both pretty opposed to each other having close opposite sex friends but I used to lift with this very butchy lesbian who we both loved. she tried to be as butchy as she could, but she was just cute as a button to be honest. Very very impressive powerlifter for her size and she was not on test, not trans, just a cutie with short hair who liked lifting and boobies like me.
WooHoo, we are intertwined like a deformed infinity loop.I forgot I made a graph of my weight and your weight over time. it basically keeps going like this in perpetuity. I think this time I'm the red one and you're the green one.
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Thanks, we try to take care of our people, and I know my boss is generous when asked. So, it was worth the asking for sure!That is really a nice gesture - and a free dinner? for the coworker, Kleen.
And prime rib, plus that wagyu has me jonesing for some good meat!! I only have steak while out, usually while on business trips, since my wife doesn't really have us eat red meat at home.
Glad your wife isn't the jealous type. Besides, you always need a work wife / work husband! In a totally platonic way of course.
AMEN to that!I have no need to 2x the drama in my life idk about you
I might be showing my old school here but... Gonna have to disagree on the work wife / husband. Even in jest there should never be another person of the opposite sex with any kind of husband or wife moniker. My wife tried that crap early on in our relationship because she was close with her boss and someone called him her work husband and she just went with it, than referred to hi as that to me and NOPE! I put the kybosh on that real fast and in a hurry. You have ONE HUSBAND, AND ONE ONLY!!! I HAVE ONE WIFE AND ONE ONLY!!! Lines slipping, lead to slippery lines. We can't have that.
There is jealousy, and there is territorial protectiveness and I think they can be confused. Having a boundary set that protects something is not the same as being jealous, or insecure. It is protecting what matters to you. We all have locks on the doors at home for a reason.my wife and I are the same way. we are watching some dear friends of ours go through the big D right now and it feels like, there is another person involved. I keep trying to tell them the grass isn't greener on the other side but they're going to do it anyways and regret it forever I think. my wife and I operate under an agreed and healthy level of co-dependence sprinkled with just the right amount of jealousy, lol. honestly it does feel healthy though, its just called unhealthy in modern society.
That really is great news about your Mom being moved into a regular room.There is jealousy, and there is territorial protectiveness and I think they can be confused. Having a boundary set that protects something is not the same as being jealous, or insecure. It is protecting what matters to you. We all have locks on the doors at home for a reason.
I think the unhealthy thing is not coming from psychology though, it is coming from the brainwashed masses just clinging to any soundbite or that tells them they are victims of the male boogie man. A boundary, or preference is espoused as controlling or insecure if coming from a man. I don't here relationship therapist saying this stuff, just the3rd wave feminists. It is an overcorrection, and just proof that when people are "liberated" they often are not happy until they get to actually "oppress the oppressors" and that is what we are experiencing now. with a lot of the male hate and demonization. It sucks but i already have my woman, and ain't planning on a new one so I am cool!
Great news, my mother was moved to a regular room out of the ICU Trauma unit yesterday. I will give her a call on my way home today and try to chat, she has been doing a lot of resting. They gave her another transfusion, and my sisters said that really made a big difference in her energy and comfort levels.
And that it would NEVER happen here. Guess what!!! It did!That really is great news about your Mom being moved into a regular room.
And totally agree about what you said about having one wife and one wife only….My wife and I are the same way, and it’s like you said it’s not jealousy, but I’m protective of her, our relationship, and family and so is she. And it’s really sad how men have been demonized in some parts of society, but it’s interesting when things get tough or go sideways a lot of those same people need what a real man brings to handle the situation. What’s really funny they will try and put what they think is their ideal version of a man is, but most of society really doesn’t accept it. What’s interesting is a lot of that crap that they are trying to cram down people’s throats, if you would have told us in the 80s or 90s the crap they are pushing now, 90% of people wouldn’t have believed it and would have said that’s crazy.![]()