I just.....i feel empty

East1600Plus

East1600Plus

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So today my girlfriend tells me she needs to take a break..she is having a lot of stress. She told me know i cant just end things with you just like that because i love you, but i need some "me" time. I just feel empty right now and torn up....i just dont know what to do. I pray she really does want to just take a break and just spend some time relaxing..and wants to get back together soon, but its just so hard to think of it like that. We have been going out for about 9 months, and i honestly love her to death, I will do anything for her thats why its just so hard to say ok...I'll live until u r ready for me again...

:saw: i just kind of want that to happen to me right now
 
East1600Plus said:
So today my girlfriend tells me she needs to take a break..she is having a lot of stress. She told me know i cant just end things with you just like that because i love you, but i need some "me" time. I just feel empty right now and torn up....i just dont know what to do. I pray she really does want to just take a break and just spend some time relaxing..and wants to get back together soon, but its just so hard to think of it like that. We have been going out for about 9 months, and i honestly love her to death, I will do anything for her thats why its just so hard to say ok...I'll live until u r ready for me again...

:saw: i just kind of want that to happen to me right now
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Keep your head up bro and stay positive, let her see you doing your things and moving foreword and she'll want you more then ever.


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Dr liftalot
 
This has been happening to guys for literally THOUSANDS of years. You are NOT alone. Probably every guy has had something VERY similar. We all loved the girl to death etc etc.

I will leave all the heart felt posts to others to make, I will tell you the truth.

You probably don't want to hear this but I am going to say it. It is over ! Now it is up to you to decide your destiny. Do NOT leave your future in another person's hands. Go see here or if you think you will break down then call her.

Say in a VERY nice way. I repect you for being honest with me and I am going to be honest with you. I do not want to be with you anymore. I wish you the VERY best in your life and I just can not be friends right now but perhaps in the future.

Then go to match.com make a profile and state EXACTLY what you are looking for. Now is NOT the time to be politically correct. If you want someone who is pretty and thin and is Spanish then state that.

Within a month you will have just about forgot about what's her name. Or you can do what most people do and put yourself through a living hell for the next 3 months and update us every week on how you think you might be getting back together.

There it is. If you search old threads I have given the same advice a number of times. Just about every time the guy is either hurt or pizzed off at what I say or both. Then sure enough a couple months later they come back and post that it really is over and should have listened.

So it is your choice buddy.


CROWLER
 
CROWLER said:
This has been happening to guys for literally THOUSANDS of years. You are NOT alone. Probably every guy has had something VERY similar. We all loved the girl to death etc etc.

I will leave all the heart felt posts to others to make, I will tell you the truth.

You probably don't want to hear this but I am going to say it. It is over ! Now it is up to you to decide your destiny. Do NOT leave your future in another person's hands. Go see here or if you think you will break down then call her.

Say in a VERY nice way. I repect you for being honest with me and I am going to be honest with you. I do not want to be with you anymore. I wish you the VERY best in your life and I just can not be friends right now but perhaps in the future.

Then go to match.com make a profile and state EXACTLY what you are looking for. Now is NOT the time to be politically correct. If you want someone who is pretty and thin and is Spanish then state that.

Within a month you will have just about forgot about what's her name. Or you can do what most people do and put yourself through a living hell for the next 3 months and update us every week on how you think you might be getting back together.

There it is. If you search old threads I have given the same advice a number of times. Just about every time the guy is either hurt or pizzed off at what I say or both. Then sure enough a couple months later they come back and post that it really is over and should have listened.

So it is your choice buddy.


CROWLER
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This is very true, 99% of the time this is just an easy way for them to break up with you without having to come up to you and be forward about breaking up with you. Most of the time they will already have a guy in mind that they have been talking too.
 
sdmf45 said:
This is very true, 99% of the time this is just an easy way for them to break up with you without having to come up to you and be forward about breaking up with you. Most of the time they will already have a guy in mind that they have been talking too.
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idk i'm usually with her all the time.. and we r in highschool..Im a senior she is a junior

but she told her friend b/c her friend asked what was going to happen to us and she goes oh we are getting back together...i dont know...i'm just torn apart right now
 
East1600Plus said:
idk i'm usually with her all the time.. and we r in highschool..Im a senior she is a junior

but she told her friend b/c her friend asked what was going to happen to us and she goes oh we are getting back together...i dont know...i'm just torn apart right now
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Crowler is right my man...it's over! Why would you want to be with someone who would treat you like that?

Put it this way...what if the shoe was on the other foot and you told her that you needed a break? She'd probably be heartbroken and tell all your friends what a jerk you are.

Also....don't take this the wrong way...but she is a junior in high school! She must be 16 or 17 and you just a shade older. Relationships at that stage of life are the all consuming but trust me, there will be other women for you in the future that will treat you much better than she's treating you now.

Keep your chin up my man! It does get better!
 
thnxs guys for the tips...i just like did everything for her and i put so much into it and i love her so much, i like dont even have the motivation to lift...
 
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CROWLER
 
East1600Plus said:
thnxs guys for the tips...i just like did everything for her and i put so much into it and i love her so much, i like dont even have the motivation to lift...
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That really sucks guy. Really nothing you can do, it will just take time to heal. Try to make something else your focal point, hitting the gym should make you feel better, you just gotta drag yourself in their.
 
East1600Plus said:
i just like did everything for her and i put so much into it
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Ironically, thats where you went wrong. When it comes to girls and relationships, if you ever put more energy into the relationship than them, its coming to an end soon. If you ever do more for her than she does for you, its coming to an end soon. Took me a couple of years to figure that out. At your age I was such an ******* and had a GREAT girlfriend I really didn't deserve. Eventually she left cuz I kept breaking up with her over and over, but would still want to sleep with her. She found another guy who basically was an ******* too, but only slept with her. So I tried being better to girl friends after that, it never worked out. I got walked all over and failed alot. Then I found a happy medium. Girls don't want a nice guy and they will only take so much of an *******. Just some advice to save you some time and effort, take it or leave it, your call.
 
well put aspire and crowler. Listen to them dude you know what you you need to do. You one day learn there are so many ****in girls out there. Especially at your age bro you should be chasin as much ass as possible.
 
sdmf45 said:
This is very true, 99% of the time this is just an easy way for them to break up with you without having to come up to you and be forward about breaking up with you. Most of the time they will already have a guy in mind that they have been talking too.
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He speaks the truth. A lot of the times they will say they need space, or they just need some time to think things over, but they will claim in order to do this you need to be on a break, a break where boundries are temporarily lifted. It's a load of bull**** bro, there is a big difference between just need some alone time, and arguing for a "break".

A "break" is merely a chance for girls to try out different guys, if they don't end up liking any of them they will come back to you and the "break" will be over. In other words, they use you as a safety net / parachute in case their infidelities don't end up working out.

If you really do love her, allowing that to happen will just be setting yourself up for some major heartache. You think you are sad now that she said she wanted a break, think how you will feel after she tells you she messed around with some guys, and that is if you are "lucky" enough to have a chick that is honest enough to tell you she ****ed around on her little vacation.

I strongly urge you either be calm, cool, & assertive and tell her that you love her, but if she does need some more alone time that can be done without being on a "break". Tell her you do not do breaks, and if she really cared, and if it really is just about needing some space she would find a way to make it work without resorting to that. If she does not come to her senses break up with her, and find a hobby to really distract you and focus your attention on.
 
crowler speaks the truth... your young, dont get tied to just one person so soon, you have your whole life left for that. Be young, have fun for now...worry about this stuff later on in life.. your still in HS, you've yet to begin living...things change DRAMATICALLY after HS so keep your head up.
 
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It's an easy way out of a potentially sticky situation. Wait and see if she doesn't want to get back with you, learn and move on.
 
Alright, tough love time:

Fine, don't workout. Sulk around feeling sorry for yourself. You are right, you are totally worthless. She was the only thing that defined your existance. I mean, prior to her, what were you? I bet you didn't have any friends and you were a scrawny little *****. Probably failed every class to. Everything that you were was only because of her right? Girls totally dig guys that feel sorry for themselves and feel worthless. I mean I see hot girls with guys like that EVERYWHERE.

or

You can get your ass back in the gym. Slam some weight around. Eat some food, get huge and feel good about yourself. I feel like superman after I'm done working out. Girls can sense it too. Walking back to my car from my school gym, I get eye contact and smiles from half the girls I pass.

The point is you feel good about yourself, girls can sense it and they love it. You feel bad about yourself, girls can also sense it and will avoid you like the plauge. Its your call. I'll stick to lifting weights and getting pussy over sulking around and masturbating though. Call me crazy.
 
You are only 18 with years ahead of you. WHen ones goes thru life one will experience many high peaks and many low valleys, but how you deal with each situation will truly allow you to live life. This current situation is nothing more than a pebble on your path.
 
tune into tom leykis in the afternoon, esp on Thursday, you'll learn a lot :)
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he's on 97.1 in los angeles, can be heard online
 
I agree with size... come on... you're gunna grad soon and she will be stuck in high school still... this is ridiculous how guys n girls wanna stay with there h.s sweethearts instead of seeing what else is out there... thats a recipe for unfaithfulness and trouble if you did get married... i;d say cut your loses and dip your dink in plenty pink. sorry im just not all about this love stuff... i think its all mumbo jumbo.... why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
 
BigCasino said:
He speaks the truth. A lot of the times they will say they need space, or they just need some time to think things over, but they will claim in order to do this you need to be on a break, a break where boundries are temporarily lifted. It's a load of bull**** bro, there is a big difference between just need some alone time, and arguing for a "break".

A "break" is merely a chance for girls to try out different guys, if they don't end up liking any of them they will come back to you and the "break" will be over. In other words, they use you as a safety net / parachute in case their infidelities don't end up working out.

If you really do love her, allowing that to happen will just be setting yourself up for some major heartache. You think you are sad now that she said she wanted a break, think how you will feel after she tells you she messed around with some guys, and that is if you are "lucky" enough to have a chick that is honest enough to tell you she ****ed around on her little vacation.

I strongly urge you either be calm, cool, & assertive and tell her that you love her, but if she does need some more alone time that can be done without being on a "break". Tell her you do not do breaks, and if she really cared, and if it really is just about needing some space she would find a way to make it work without resorting to that. If she does not come to her senses break up with her, and find a hobby to really distract you and focus your attention on.
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well i go what do u want to hang out with other guys and not worry and she goes NO!...i dont care about other guys anything she said she just has a lot of stress and doesnt want the stress of the relationship right now...idk what do u think?
 
BigCasino said:
He speaks the truth. A lot of the times they will say they need space, or they just need some time to think things over, but they will claim in order to do this you need to be on a break, a break where boundries are temporarily lifted. It's a load of bull**** bro, there is a big difference between just need some alone time, and arguing for a "break".

A "break" is merely a chance for girls to try out different guys, if they don't end up liking any of them they will come back to you and the "break" will be over. In other words, they use you as a safety net / parachute in case their infidelities don't end up working out.

If you really do love her, allowing that to happen will just be setting yourself up for some major heartache. You think you are sad now that she said she wanted a break, think how you will feel after she tells you she messed around with some guys, and that is if you are "lucky" enough to have a chick that is honest enough to tell you she ****ed around on her little vacation.

I strongly urge you either be calm, cool, & assertive and tell her that you love her, but if she does need some more alone time that can be done without being on a "break". Tell her you do not do breaks, and if she really cared, and if it really is just about needing some space she would find a way to make it work without resorting to that. If she does not come to her senses break up with her, and find a hobby to really distract you and focus your attention on.
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All this does is gets the guys hopes up. He will pick this single post that says there is a chance and hang his dreams on it and ignore the 8 other posts that are the real truth.

Why sit around waiting for another person to decide your future. What a huge waste of time and emotional energy.

But then again at 21 I understand.


CROWLER


EDIT: Sure enough look which post he quotes and then asks for more advice. It is like 10 people telling a guy he has a drinking problem and one says no he doesn't. He is going to listen to the one guy who says he doesn't. All it does is delay the inevitable.

And look at it this way if she does go out and sample other guys then decides you aren't the piece of crap she thought you were do you REALLY want her back ewwwwwwwwwww
 
At your age, i went threw the break thing, she wanted time to think yada yada....it didn't work out and i moved on to find someone better who later became my wife ^_^

You're 18, you shouldn't even be having relationships, set some goals and don't worry about a gf until you achived your goals/dreams. You can have friends with benefits but don't settle on one girl, enjoy being young while you can.
 
CROWLER said:
All this does is gets the guys hopes up. He will pick this single post that says there is a chance and hang his dreams on it and ignore the 8 other posts that are the real truth.

Why sit around waiting for another person to decide your future. What a huge waste of time and emotional energy.

But then again at 21 I understand.


CROWLER


EDIT: Sure enough look which post he quotes and then asks for more advice. It is like 10 people telling a guy he has a drinking problem and one says no he doesn't. He is going to listen to the one guy who says he doesn't. All it does is delay the inevitable.

And look at it this way if she does go out and sample other guys then decides you aren't the piece of crap she thought you were do you REALLY want her back ewwwwwwwwwww
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ya you really are right...im just gonna get on...i'm not gonna let go of hope though...why would I if she tells me she still loves me so much and still wants to be with me...i guess until that time rolls around i'll try and not let it get me down who knows..it could even be later 2nite or tomorrow u never know...i do everything for her plus im dead sexy :bb2:
 
dlew308 said:
At your age, i went threw the break thing, she wanted time to think yada yada....it didn't work out and i moved on to find someone better who later became my wife ^_^

You're 18, you shouldn't even be having relationships, set some goals and don't worry about a gf until you achived your goals/dreams. You can have friends with benefits but don't settle on one girl, enjoy being young while you can.
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ya...its just u know..HARD...to move on
 
East1600Plus said:
ya...its just u know..HARD...to move on
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You're right. It is. At any age.

I'm 23 and I'm just learning this. I threw away a lot of time that I could've spent having fun and meeting different and interesting women, when I was in a relationship for most of my college career (granted we cheated on each other, but it still kept me from some things). It's still something I regret. I gave up a trip to Jamaica with my buddies for her.

Life is about experiences. One girl leaves your life, you think it's the worst thing that could happen, but after a bit, you start seeing that there are a ton out there. Happens everytime.

Crowler had some good advice...take it.

Good luck with it bro. And if you're planning on heading to college, don't worry about it at all, you'll have more fun there than any one girl could ever show you.
 
East1600Plus said:
thnxs guys for the tips...i just like did everything for her and i put so much into it and i love her so much, i like dont even have the motivation to lift...
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lifting is probably one of the things that will help you the most in this situation, i know that is what i did in highschool to deal with that kind of ****. if talking to people doesnt help, talking to her doesnt help, going to school doesnt help, than i guarantee lifting will. it shouldnt be a matter of motivation, it should be the cure, sort of speak.

if youd like a bit different approach than "its just over and thats all there is to it" than try this.

tell her that you disagree with the whole "break" thing and that you think you should just stay apart for good. dont be nice about it, be extremely indifferent. if she loves you that will sting. if shes going to **** with your head, **** with hers.

its going to be rough but after all is said and done you will feel a little better about you situation and not so much like you got bit*ched.

then its just a matter of time. youll probably know within a week if she was serious about having a break or if she just wants to get out of the relationship for good. shell come to you, dont go to her. make sure she sees you "around" however, and remember, indifference/cold shoulder is the key.

the answer will be obvious
 
CROWLER said:
This has been happening to guys for literally THOUSANDS of years. You are NOT alone. Probably every guy has had something VERY similar. We all loved the girl to death etc etc.

I will leave all the heart felt posts to others to make, I will tell you the truth.

You probably don't want to hear this but I am going to say it. It is over ! Now it is up to you to decide your destiny. Do NOT leave your future in another person's hands. Go see here or if you think you will break down then call her.

Say in a VERY nice way. I repect you for being honest with me and I am going to be honest with you. I do not want to be with you anymore. I wish you the VERY best in your life and I just can not be friends right now but perhaps in the future.

Then go to match.com make a profile and state EXACTLY what you are looking for. Now is NOT the time to be politically correct. If you want someone who is pretty and thin and is Spanish then state that.

Within a month you will have just about forgot about what's her name. Or you can do what most people do and put yourself through a living hell for the next 3 months and update us every week on how you think you might be getting back together.

There it is. If you search old threads I have given the same advice a number of times. Just about every time the guy is either hurt or pizzed off at what I say or both. Then sure enough a couple months later they come back and post that it really is over and should have listened.

So it is your choice buddy.


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These are definately words of wisdom.....everyone has a heart break at some point. The tough part is picking yourself up and moving on. I think most of us have been through it and I can say from my experience the best is yet to come. Like crowler said it's best to cut the ties and move on.
 
A whole lot of wise words in this thread, so there isnt much for me to add.

Remember, what seperates men from boys is that boys know what the right thing to do is, but men do it. No matter how hard it is.
 
East1600Plus said:
thnxs guys for the tips...i just like did everything for her and i put so much into it and i love her so much, i like dont even have the motivation to lift...
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Alright I haven't read all of these posts but Crowler and just about everyone that posted are givin you the cold hard truth brotha, the RELATIONSHIP might be over but YOU are not(wording sucked but stay with me here). You dont have the motivation to lift? Get angry and friggin go throw some iron on the bar and lift!! You have to be at least a little bit frustrated by all of this, you were faithful and put all of that energy into it yet she turned trick and wants a "break"? She can't handle the stress? WAT stress is there junior yr of HS? This all translates into "you're nice...too nice I do care about you but you are no longer a challenge to me therefore I need to find a new one".

Let's be honest you're about to go to college(aka hot assville) soon there will be more "worthwhile" girls than you can shake a stick at. The next one is gonna "mean the world" to you as well I can almost gaurantee it it happens. My friend got me a shirt for christmas that said "It is better to have loved and lost than to live the rest of your life with the psycho" once you get that down you'll be ok. Work on bettering yourself hone a particular skill or somethin, hang out with ur boys, SOMETHING.

The best lesson I ever learned about ex's is out of sight out of mind. Get rid of the pictures, and texts, special ringtones, all of that crap close the chapter.
 
East1600Plus said:
well i go what do u want to hang out with other guys and not worry and she goes NO!...i dont care about other guys anything she said she just has a lot of stress and doesnt want the stress of the relationship right now...idk what do u think?
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Nah man, I think most of the time they are not going to admit to you that this is about other guys. They don't want to come off as hoes... some chicks will be up front and honest, some won't.

I think it sounds like she is trying to break up with you, but doing it in a round about way. I don't know what her reasons are, could be other guys, who knows, but bottom line is it sounds like she wants to break up with you in a "nice" way.

It is really not worth it to fight it, because she will end up controling things, and your relationship will become more one sided, everything will go to ****, trust me. I know it ****ing hurts, but it is best to just amputate the infected limb and RUN. I for one am not really into making chicks feel bad, so I wouldn't say you treat her like dirt, but do NOT make any effort to contact her or try to maintain some type of friendship, it will not ****ing word. Just give a nod of acknowledgement when you see her and focus one something else in your life, anything, just not her.
 
ok well the thing abou tthe stress i can believe that b/c...she lives with a foster mom...her parents had to taken away on neglect charges, shes had to deal with a lot of **** some1 her age shouldnt like her parents being complete *******s and trying to kill her
 
wrkn4bigrmusles said:
your putting the pussy on a pedastol
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"That's that second time I've heard that this week, what does it mean!?"

Hahahaha 40 year old virgin :twisted:

Just to reiterate I am trying to give some hopefully helpful input on dealing with long term relationships, with girls that you actually care about, not itchy the stripper from miami. I mean, if I am going to date someone, and there is going to be an official association between us, it is not going to be chloe the webbed foot jv cheer captain I banged at the laundry Matt. Plus, if you get to thinking of everyone woman as a slut, what does that make our sisters, cousins, moms, etc. Unless your girl gives you reason enough (cheating, etc) to treat her in a degrading fashion, I don't see the point.
 
I've developed a simple, house remedy that you can use whenever you want some pussy, but can't get any.

1. Get a VCR
2. Get some blank video cassettes
3. Stay home one day, and flip through the channels that play soap operas and other various chick shows like "The View".
4. Tape record the commercials for tampons, maxi pads, and whatever other female s*** that I don't even know about that are played.

Whenever you feel down because you're not getting any pussy, pop that tape into the VCR, and press play.
 
Ive used the "break", "me time" thing before, my intentions were as follows:
To gain enough breathing room to sleep around, to keep her close enough to think i had "issues with myself" to keep her close if i had a change of heart.
I honestly didnt want to hurt her feelings cause she was a good girl, but when your young you need to play the field a bit.

Take this oppourtunity to get laid and think about your future, relationships are made on mutuality, equality and compromise. How much do you need to give to make it work, well honestly you have your whole life to find a woman who can ask you to change who you are, enjoy being you.

There are too many girls and more importantly women who unlike me and her have the fortitude to tell you the truth. If what she says was true, she would run to you for support as you may well be the only person who has loved her for her and act as a "rock" of confidence and support.
Instead shes pushing you away telling you through her actions she doesnt need support and therefore isnt in inner turmoil. Shes using guilt to control you, her past to hide from her actions and hiding from the difficulty in telling you the truth.

Dont take it to heart, no matter how good you are, no matter how right you are, you can never controll the phallacies others.

Now take whats left of this relationship and use it to learn to prevent future pain and missunderstanding.

Dont punish all women or demean them bc of her, dont stop thinking that theres a perfect woman for you.
Find a girl whos looking for a relationship with thte same tempo as the one your looking for. you wanna wife she want to sleep around "you cant make a hoe a housewife" but once she stops being a hoe she'll be eligable for a decent marrige to any man wanting to increase his califlower intake.

Stay away from alcohol, steroids, clomid and deppressants until you feel free from her lies, guilt, blame and your lack of experience.
 
you should call her and tell her that a little break was a great idea!!

then tell her you've goto go sense your going out with a bunch of friends tonight. she'll be calling in the morning!! trust me

from one player to the next!!!!


oh and when she does dump ya its gonna hurt and all you can do is man up and start tapping her friends
 
Keep this in perspective, it's a very big world out there and you are only 18. You will encounter emotional stress like this but you will learn because of it. You have to hurt a few times before you can truly appreciate what it is like to be rid of pain.

This happens to many people. You can either make a choice to take the immature advice directly above and play mindfvck games on someone, or you can move on, and be better off for it in the end.
 
Ahh, I remember when I was 18 . I also remember when I was 21. The Funny thing was when I looked back at 21 to the decsions I made at 18 I could not not believe how silly I felt.You may want to look at your situation from this perspective; You were running in the jungle of life and you fell into a trap called - love/P*u*s*s*y.

This is the most deceptive trap you will ever encounter. The reason it is so effective is that it feels so good.

The nature of life is balance, so if something makes you feel really good eventually it will make you feel really bad.,.. just ask any substance or emotion addicted person.

You will fall into this trap again, but next time you will be ready.
It is possible to escape but in takes time. I fell into at least 3 good ones in my 41 years. Some I saw coming but fell anyhow,It was like watching a movie of train wreck!

So, take the pain and take the pleasure as this is the cycle of things, but you must keep playing. There is nothing more sad to be around then a "dry"- love/p*u*s*s*y junkie!

Good luck and remember, if we we designed to be with one women all the time then our penises would just stay connected to their vaginas all the time....
 
Ubiquitous said:
You can either make a choice to take the immature advice directly above and play mindfvck games on someone, or you can move on, and be better off for it in the end.
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this girl is playing mindfvck games on him!!!!!!!!!!!!

if he wants her back he'll play her games. if he wants to feel like his heart has been ripped out for a few months then he should move on!

if she is already feeling to stressed now wait till she hits the real world!!!!!
 
Coming from a girl, first your 18, this wont be the last time it's done to you or you do it to someone,........

why in the hell at 18 would you want to be tied down with someone? Date, your a senior, going to college i assume, or not but still being a senior, the good old days.........enjoy them, move on, but do just that MOVE ON!!!!

As for her, it's over she wants a break, right? so when she does this agian and agian are you still going to stand for it? Not trying to be mean, but she made up her mind, has you were she wants you, not knowing what end is up so she can do what she has to do and your waiting for that phone call,

Good luck and i know it sucks, hurts but move on......
 
If she is playing these games now she will be playing them again when she feels like she needs another break. This will turn into the classic "we have been dating off and on for about 5 years." She is just keeping him around so that she can use him to fall back on because its comfortable.

If she is having all this stress then how are you adding to it if she says she loves you so much. Maybe you are around to much, you can mess up a relationship by not giving a person space.

Let her go and go do your own thing. Investing anymore time in this and trying to make it work is useless IMO.
 
toughchick401 said:
Coming from a girl, first your 18, this wont be the last time it's done to you or you do it to someone,........

why in the hell at 18 would you want to be tied down with someone? Date, your a senior, going to college i assume, or not but still being a senior, the good old days.........enjoy them, move on, but do just that MOVE ON!!!!

As for her, it's over she wants a break, right? so when she does this agian and agian are you still going to stand for it? Not trying to be mean, but she made up her mind, has you were she wants you, not knowing what end is up so she can do what she has to do and your waiting for that phone call,

Good luck and i know it sucks, hurts but move on......
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You should edit your post so that it says, "coming from a woman," because I usually associate girls with terrible relationship advice (coming from experience), and this is decent advice.
 
East,
As mentioned - you 'bout to head to College. Forget all the high school BS - forget HS girls.

This is the type of female you'll find at UofNebraska.
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Now - go forth with your head held high young man and remember that college will the best 4 or 5 years of your life. Don't be so eager to graduate and get out into the real world - it sucks. (That's coming from personal experience.)




I've got another way to forget this girl. :twisted:
http://anabolicminds.com/forum/general-chat/58469-jmh80-here-makea.html
You are welcome.
 
first, its possible to find true pure love at 18, i did at 16 (my fiance was 18) but its very difficult to... and people that do find true love did not date the indecisive types, aka "yo-yo's" .

keep your head up, something better will come along. love comes when you arent looking for it.
 
Mrs. Gimpy! said:
first, its possible to find true pure love at 18, i did at 16 (my fiance was 18) but its very difficult to... and people that do find true love did not date the indecisive types, aka "yo-yo's" .

keep your head up, something better will come along. love comes when you arent looking for it.
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So is that you in the avatar.....
 
Yeah - that's Gimpy in her avatar.
But - you have to big really big and dumb to get a date with her. :donut: Think Bill Walton...










Gimpy - tell Kwyck I still love him.
(But not that I'm going to steal you away in a few years....)
 
yet another lifting day missed....I tell myself the day before I'm not gonna effect my lifting, and then everynight i have a dream about her and me getting back together...and then i eventually wake up and i just dont want to wake up anymore
 
Dude...you're 18. She's 16. I mean cmon now! You're being her *****. You're letting her get the best of you. Just stop right now, get out of the damn house and go chill with friends. If you don't have friends anymore because you ditched them all to spend every moment with a girl when your in highschool, then shame on you. Learn a lesson from every mistake.

I mean cmon seriously man! If you're hurting this bad then why would you want someone who is going to hurt you this bad. It's selfish of her and it's selfish of you to sit there and wallow in self pity.

Hell! You should be glad you weren't married. Then there'd be a whole NEW set of problems.
 
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