I brush him off when he wants sex, so now he's watching porn and hiding it from me, w

[Jayhawkk]

You can usually tell those who have to rely on their hands most of the time by their sudden change in wearing gloves in the gym...

 

[babywifey]

its too funny, after all my issues in my soon to be over marriage, I realized I spent well over a year of our relationship dprived of sex. I was rejected more times than a teenage boy

Sex is a very important aspect of marriage, and most women don't realize that. It is a way of communicating to one another, a way of sharing and taking care of one another. It is as important in marriage as verbally communicating, IMO.

 

[AE14]

Sex is a very important aspect of marriage, and most women don't realize that. It is a way of communicating to one another, a way of sharing and taking care of one another. It is as important in marriage as verbally communicating, IMO.

I agree 100%, and I think there are so many things that pertain to sex and the male ego that women do not understand, which is quite unfortunate. It truly makes me believe that if there is a god, it has a great sense of humor

 

[B5150]

Sex is a very important aspect of marriage, and most women don't realize that. It is a way of communicating to one another, a way of sharing and taking care of one another. It is as important in marriage as verbally communicating, IMO.

Actually, in theory it is quite really important, but in practical application, with a mature male who does not let his libido rule his thought and emotion process it is not.

I would gladly forgo the shallow sexual intimacy and/or immediate gratification substitute for intimacy for a time to engage in a deeper intellectual and logical intimacy and compatibility. There are major gaps in reason and logic that males and females can encounter that are far greater than any sexual incompatibility.

Boys think sexual compatibility is paramount, men know it is not but maybe a second or third on the list.

 

[babywifey]

Actually, in theory it is quite really important, but in practical application, with a mature male who does not let his libido rule his thought and emotion process it is not.

I would gladly forgo the shallow sexual intimacy and/or immediate gratification substitute for intimacy for a time to engage in a deeper intellectual and logical intimacy and compatibility. There are major gaps in reason and logic that males and females can encounter that are far greater than any sexual incompatibility.

Boys think sexual compatibility is paramount, men know it is not but maybe a second or third on the list.

It is only one aspect of a relationship, it isn't the whole relationship, nor should it be the only focus. I just think that it is an important aspect of marriage.

 

[raginfcktard]

Damn princess mentality has been ruining men for decades. There should be a document signed upon transferral of the diamond.
You want this then initial here, here, here, sign here, initial here and sign here.

"Your honor my client has procured a legal binding document that reads;
the defendant must clean, lose weight and administer atleast 7 times a week, either oral or k-9 style gratification for the plaintiff, or as other wise agreed upon by the parties.
Failure to so, by the defendant, forfeits any rights to property, monies shared by the parties and rights to further advance this relationship.
I rest my case."

i think that this would depend on what state you're in...but i like were you're going with this!

 

[B5150]

I just think that it is an important aspect of marriage.

It is important.

 

[JohnnieFreeze]

Chicks are funny in that, when they first meet a guy they're as horny as the male for the beginning of the relationship. The guy's sex drive never tapers, but the woman's will slow down as the relationship becomes more serious and emotionally involved.

I wont stand for that **** - biological or not. I can constantly remind myself to remember birthdays and anniversaries, not eat over the sink, and do all that other crap that makes them happy.

They least she can do is give it up a few times a day.

BV

best point I ever read on any subject.
Some women like to change the rules of the game midstream to fit their convenience but whatever the guy has committed to in the beginning of the relationship, he better damn well be doing 40 years from now. (minus the sex, of course, which us men just better understand she isnt as interested in anymore :frustrate)

Men: the majority of us think about what we can do to make women happy.
Women: the majority of them think about what men can do to make them happy.:think: whats wrong with this picture.

 

[nofx4110]

I had a girlfriend who wouldnt put out sometimes. I would start to rub one out while she was laying next to me and it would always get her to put out.

 

[oxman]

Damn... whats the prob, give it up then, its not our fault we are horny bastards all the time!