Friend with Benefits

[PumpingIron]

so you`re saying that people that dont have "open" relationships are immature?

I don't think she was saying that at all...

 

[Chad]

I don't think she was saying that at all...

i dont think she needs you replying for her.

 

[Chad]

Absolutely. She has a fantasy about being done by five guys. I've considered setting it up for her, probably will in a short while. I've also been part of a couple DP's with her. If you could see how hard she cums from that, it's pretty cool!

Squeaks...we need to set this up!!

well then as long as both of you are happy then its not a bad thing in my book. if you both trust each other, thats the most important thing.

 

[CRUNCH]

well then as long as both of you are happy then its not a bad thing in my book. if you both trust each other, thats the most important thing.

That's it. We do trust each other completely. Besides, we share soooo many other things in common that I'm not worried about losing her just because the sex with somebody else was better. Most of the time, the sex being with somebody new and different is the exciting part.

 

[PumpingIron]

i dont think she needs you replying for her.

Calm down there big guy...she was making a joke, if you re-read the post.

No need to give me ****.

 

[Chad]

That's it. We do trust each other completely. Besides, we share soooo many other things in common that I'm not worried about losing her just because the sex with somebody else was better. Most of the time, the sex being with somebody new and different is the exciting part.

thats cool bro. im happy for you. i just cant see myself ever doing that. maybe im just old fashion.

 

[Chad]

Calm down there big guy...she was making a joke, if you re-read the post.

No need to give me ****.

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Jules: Look, just because I don't be givin' no man a foot massage don't make it right for Marsellus to throw Antwan into a glass mother****in' house ****in' up the way the nigger talks. Mother****er do that **** to me, he better paralyze my ass cuz I'll kill the mother****er, know what I'm sayin'?
Vincent: I ain't saying it's right. But you're saying a foot massage don't mean nothing, and I'm saying it does. Now look, I've given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something. We act like they don't, but they do, and that's what's so ****ing cool about them. There's a sensuous thing going on where you don't talk about it, but you know it, she knows it, ****ing Marsellus knew it, and Antwan should have ****ing better known better. I mean, that's his ****ing wife, man. He can't be expected to have a sense of humor about that ****. You know what I'm saying?
Jules: That's an interesting point. Come on, let's get into character.

 

[ReaperX]

thats cool bro. im happy for you. i just cant see myself ever doing that. maybe im just old fashion.

Chad-


I agree with that as well. May be it is the new 'progressive' mindset of people but I'm not into that either. I'm ok with not being with anyone other than my g.f and I'd expect the same to. Plus lotsa nasty stuff gets spread around like HPV in women. Not good.

 

[PumpingIron]

Chad-


I agree with that as well. May be it is the new 'progressive' mindset of people but I'm not into that either. I'm ok with not being with anyone other than my g.f and I'd expect the same to. Plus lotsa nasty stuff gets spread around like HPV in women. Not good.

I think it's like 80% of the world's population have HPV...

...just and FYI.

 

[Chad]

I think it's like 80% of the world's population have HPV...

...just and FYI.

i think what he was getting at was that the more people you sleep with the more of a chance you have of getting something. that of course goes for everyone not just swingers.
FYI

 

[CRUNCH]

This isn't something I've always been into at all. I was very turned-off with the thought of seeing the woman I love getting nailed by another guy, couldn't imagine it. This actually started with my last wife, she was bi also. We'd played with a couple girls, then she said she wanted to be with another guy also. It would have been hard to say "no" after what we'd done with other women. So we did, and it was actually kinda hot.

Just for the record, we didn't divorce because of anything to do with our sexual relationship.

 

[Chad]

This isn't something I've always been into at all. I was very turned-off with the thought of seeing the woman I love getting nailed by another guy, couldn't imagine it. This actually started with my last wife, she was bi also. We'd played with a couple girls, then she said she wanted to be with another guy also. It would have been hard to say "no" after what we'd done with other women. So we did, and it was actually kinda hot.

Just for the record, we didn't divorce because of anything to do with our sexual relationship.

well you are 13 years older and wiser than me so we`ll see how i feel later on in life. but as of now there is no way.

 

[CRUNCH]

well you are 13 years older and wiser than me so we`ll see how i feel later on in life. but as of now there is no way.

Understood...it was a freaky thing at first and I had to think about it for a long time just to be ok with going through with it. Then when it did, it was pretty cool. Nothing like keeping the excitement in your relationship too! Then the sex we'd have after being with somebody else (guy or girl) would be absolutely mind-blowing!

 

[rippedforce63]

never, ever again. :frustrate :frustrate :frustrate

 

[TripDog]

ahhh my boy crunch...your my effing hero dude :thumbsup: ....if you can bang a girl and they dont get emotionally attached "YOU MASTERED THE GAME".....but for some reason sometimes ya got to lead em on with bullsh*t lies to get the bang....stupid women actually believe that sh*t..hahaha

 

[greenwing7]

All i can say is..............I'm glad i am married and no longer have to worry about this SH!T! LOL!

NO you got a whole new world of SH!T to worry about! HAHA

 

[sdmf45]

thats cool bro. im happy for you. i just cant see myself ever doing that. maybe im just old fashion.

me too. i couldn't do it either.

 

[Otter_Wife]

i can answer this to. if two people are mature, or immature enough to understand sex is sex, and love is making love than you can have a very happy and some what perverted physical social life lol.. its usually the people that have this fairy tale look on life that end up getting into horrible situations. I have seen my fiance have sex with 2 women but he knows he comes home to snuggle next to me every night to a place that truly loves him.. sex is lots of fun and good recreation.. i also feel that being as open as he and I are, has made our relationship stronger

If you have no problem with your "man" sleeping with other women and you knowing about it, I personally wouldnt be able to sleep at night. Like Chad said, maybe we are both old fashion but for me, I think it's just wrong. Being married, that is so disrespectful to your spouse. Sex in a marriage is not to go outside of the marriage. There is a difference between love making and sex and believe me Chad and I know the difference and have plenty of both, but I could never imagine having sex with any other man besides my husband and I could never imagine Chad have sex with another girl! It's gross and wrong in my book!
:toilet:
Not saying that you guys are gross and wrong, just for me and Chad in our mindsets thats not right in marriage!

 

[TripDog]

If you have no problem with your "man" sleeping with other women and you knowing about it, I personally wouldnt be able to sleep at night. Like Chad said, maybe we are both old fashion but for me, I think it's just wrong. Being married, that is so disrespectful to your spouse. Sex in a marriage is not to go outside of the marriage. There is a difference between love making and sex and believe me Chad and I know the difference and have plenty of both, but I could never imagine having sex with any other man besides my husband and I could never imagine Chad have sex with another girl! It's gross and wrong in my book!
:toilet:
Not saying that you guys are gross and wrong, just for me and Chad in our mindsets thats not right in marriage!

:clap2: i agree 1000%

 

[macedaddy]

If you have no problem with your "man" sleeping with other women and you knowing about it, I personally wouldnt be able to sleep at night. Like Chad said, maybe we are both old fashion but for me, I think it's just wrong. Being married, that is so disrespectful to your spouse. Sex in a marriage is not to go outside of the marriage. There is a difference between love making and sex and believe me Chad and I know the difference and have plenty of both, but I could never imagine having sex with any other man besides my husband and I could never imagine Chad have sex with another girl! It's gross and wrong in my book!
:toilet:
Not saying that you guys are gross and wrong, just for me and Chad in our mindsets thats not right in marriage!

Right there, with ya, Mrs. Chad! :clap2:

but i think it is an issue of whats good for some isn't good for others!

I applaud those of you that can have the openness to do these things, but would never want to do it myself, nor have my wife do it.........:thumbsup:

 

[CRUNCH]

Be careful not to judge people like Squeaks and I. We don't judge you and your decisions in life. I do not find it disrespectiful to my spouse nor does she find it disrespectful to me. We (my wife and I) do not believe in monogamy and having sex with only one person for the rest of our lives. It works for us and our beliefs and yours works for you. Nobody's being hurt here, only happiness in our relationship.

 

[chopper]

so what... so you were friends and you crossed that line. if you're not feelin her, move on. and let her think what she wants.

 

[Otter_Wife]

Be careful not to judge people like Squeaks and I. We don't judge you and your decisions in life. I do not find it disrespectiful to my spouse nor does she find it disrespectful to me. We (my wife and I) do not believe in monogamy and having sex with only one person for the rest of our lives. It works for us and our beliefs and yours works for you. Nobody's being hurt here, only happiness in our relationship.

not judging you!

:wave:

I'm Sorry!

 

[TripDog]

not judging you!

:wave:

I'm Sorry!

tell effing chad were still waiting for the new pics!!!!!!!!!!

 

[TripDog]

Be careful not to judge people like Squeaks and I. We don't judge you and your decisions in life. I do not find it disrespectiful to my spouse nor does she find it disrespectful to me. We (my wife and I) do not believe in monogamy and having sex with only one person for the rest of our lives. It works for us and our beliefs and yours works for you. Nobody's being hurt here, only happiness in our relationship.

ya crunch your my hero dude..totally not judging,yus sayin i couldn't do it..thats all..:thumbsup:

 

[Otter_Wife]

tell effing chad were still waiting for the new pics!!!!!!!!!!

Yes Sir! Very soon, just haven't gotten batteries for the camara!

 

[TripDog]

Yes Sir! Very soon, just haven't gotten batteries for the camara!

sounds like a chad stall...personally

 

[TripDog]

i forgot to add a fukcin happy face...whatever

 

[Otter_Wife]

sounds like a chad stall...personally

would he have a reason to stall?

 

[TripDog]

would he have a reason to stall?

i quoted right before this post i forgot to add a ..sorry no drama intended!

 

[Otter_Wife]

i quoted right before this post i forgot to add a ..sorry no drama intended!

:bb3: non taken! But I will get batteries very soon so you guys can get an update on Chad!

 

[TripDog]

:bb3: non taken! But I will get batteries very soon so you guys can get an update on Chad!

i find it amazing you support steroids.........my ex freaked the fukc out over it....hence.....my ex....hahahaha....but if you are educated on the subject...there is no need to worry..........chad knows his stuff........somewhat..lol

 

[Chad]

i find it amazing you support steroids.........my ex freaked the fukc out over it....hence.....my ex....hahahaha....but if you are educated on the subject...there is no need to worry..........chad knows his stuff........somewhat..lol

:thumbsup:

 

[Mrs. Gimpy!]

so you would be ok with another guy having sex with your wife while you`re banging his wife right next to each other?

lol i asked kwyck a similar question one time and he said that he'd rather have me have sex with a dog then a guy....disgusting



i've had hm.... 2 friends with benefits relationships before and 1 was terrible and the second one..... im marrying him in 10 months!!!!!

 

[pistonpump]

dude you never told us or i missed it. so what happened after this night? or day? still friends daily or weekly just havent done anything since?

We still talked as if nothing happened but once it happened i felt some sort of power over her. Anyways we all went out this past weekend having fun parting and drinking, wildin out ya know. Well things got out of hand people said some disrespectful things tempers flared and i had a real violent outburst. I really wanted to fight (and no i was not on roids) and lets see...i looked like a complete animal. It was a wild one now i probably lost a bunch of guy friends and the chick im talking about was there and saw it all. I wished her a happy birthday two days later on her birthday and called her today and she said she was mad at me so......im just forgetting about the whole thing til she comes around again.

 

[PumpingIron]

We still talked as if nothing happened but once it happened i felt some sort of power over her. Anyways we all went out this past weekend having fun parting and drinking, wildin out ya know. Well things got out of hand people said some disrespectful things tempers flared and i had a real violent outburst. I really wanted to fight (and no i was not on roids) and lets see...i looked like a complete animal. It was a wild one now i probably lost a bunch of guy friends and the chick im talking about was there and saw it all. I wished her a happy birthday two days later on her birthday and called her today and she said she was mad at me so......im just forgetting about the whole thing til she comes around again.

PP, i'm not so sure she is going to come around.

 

[pistonpump]

PP, i'm not so sure she is going to come around.

ehh, yer probably right. I think ive been fooling myself for quite some time. Thing is i think i even ruined a relationship with another girl because i was thinking of her. Yeah......."i was in love with my best friend" haha. Shes still young and dumb. I also kind of meant coming around as a best friend again but oh well if she doesnt then she wasnt. Im gonna go treat that other girl right now that i can see she deserves the treatment my "friend" was getting.

It was just really bizarre/shocking to have her just open up sexually for me to take her when i was sure that it would never happen. The power of porn! lol gotta try that on my next close girl-friend.

 

[PumpingIron]

Haha, just try and keep the fits of rage inside until your alone next time.

 

[pistonpump]

Haha, just try and keep the fits of rage inside until your alone next time.

i have real aggro tendencies the reason why ive stayed away from tren or halo. It was one of those nights where you drank alcohol and did things you wish you hadnt. She'll call but i'll treat her completely as just a friend. Maybe one day ill be real horny and she'll go for another try hahaha.

 

[Iron Warrior]

i have real aggro tendencies the reason why ive stayed away from tren or halo

PP, no one should be missing out on the powers of Tren :nono: If someone fvcks w/you while on Tren then it's not your fault for crushing their skull, it's their fault for messing w/someone on Tren. Just chalk it up to Darwinism not Tren

 

[pistonpump]

PP, no one should be missing out on the powers of Tren :nono: If someone fvcks w/you while on Tren then it's not your fault for crushing their skull, it's their fault for messing w/someone on Tren. Just chalk it up to Darwinism not Tren

hahaha, yeah i will. no worries. AT least now if they dont respect me they WILL fear my wrath.

 

[Chad]

PP, no one should be missing out on the powers of Tren :nono: If someone fvcks w/you while on Tren then it's not your fault for crushing their skull, it's their fault for messing w/someone on Tren. Just chalk it up to Darwinism not Tren

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :head: :head: :head:

:bb3:

 

[Chad]

lol i asked kwyck a similar question one time and he said that he'd rather have me have sex with a dog then a guy....disgusting

would you be cool with him having sex with another girl?

 

[Otter_Wife]

i find it amazing you support steroids.........my ex freaked the fukc out over it....hence.....my ex....hahahaha....but if you are educated on the subject...there is no need to worry..........chad knows his stuff........somewhat..lol

Wait....Steroids? Chad does steroids? WHAT? I didnt know this! That is what that is? Oh my GOD! :nono: :nono: :nono:

I don't 100% support it but It's something he is really into and likes doing and is good at it and I'd rather him be at the gym working out all the time then him out at the bar or club all the time getting drunk! So yea i guess i can supportive about it, and i have never "told or asked" him to stop! Plus if I'm being a good girl I get to "stick it" in his butt! :lol: :lol: :lol: :head:

 

[TripDog]

Wait....Steroids? Chad does steroids? WHAT? I didnt know this! That is what that is? Oh my GOD! :nono: :nono: :nono:

I don't 100% support it but It's something he is really into and likes doing and is good at it and I'd rather him be at the gym working out all the time then him out at the bar or club all the time getting drunk! So yea i guess i can supportive about it, and i have never "told or asked" him to stop! Plus if I'm being a good girl I get to "stick it" in his butt! :lol: :lol: :lol: :head:

omg i just threw up in my mouth a little.....*makes a gulp sound*....ok im good..

 

[thesinner]

So a recent bout with a friend that I've been hooking up with from time to time just came to a head. In the past I've had enough girls that I considered friends and have hooked up with on occasion but in the end only remained friends and that was my expectation from the begining.

This time I suppose you could say it blew up in my face. The girl obviously thought it was more, even after repeated times of me explaining it wasn't going to. Now I'm out a good friend, probably not permanantly, but for a while...

So basically I'm just whether or not you guys have any FWB's or you steer clear of them?...

You know, I've had several Friends Willing that I never bothered to hook up with for that reason: failure to distunguish between being laid and being loved.

 

[thesinner]

Wait....Steroids? Chad does steroids? WHAT? I didnt know this! That is what that is? Oh my GOD! :nono: :nono: :nono:

I don't 100% support it but It's something he is really into and likes doing and is good at it and I'd rather him be at the gym working out all the time then him out at the bar or club all the time getting drunk! So yea i guess i can supportive about it, and i have never "told or asked" him to stop! Plus if I'm being a good girl I get to "stick it" in his butt! :lol: :lol: :lol: :head:

If that's not optimism, I don't know what is. :thumbsup:

 

[thesinner]

ahhh my boy crunch...your my effing hero dude :thumbsup: ....if you can bang a girl and they dont get emotionally attached "YOU MASTERED THE GAME".....but for some reason sometimes ya got to lead em on with bullsh*t lies to get the bang....stupid women actually believe that sh*t..hahaha

Your post just made me think of this song.

 

[TripDog]

Your post just made me think of this song.

ohh my effing god,i wish i had the drugs those mofo's are on..............wtf?

 

[thesinner]

ohh my effing god,i wish i had the drugs those mofo's are on..............wtf?

Careful what you wish for, you might go the way of their lead singer.