Actually had an argument with the gf last night over this - she wanted me to spend all day at some wineries with her coworkers/friends today way out in BFE instead of lifting, even though I took last night off to go out for food with her & take her to a musical one of her theater friends was performing in (it was actually really enjoyable, but still totally for her obv). So she got pissed that I wasn't interested in 3.5 hours of driving total coupled with 4hrs of hanging w/ ppl I don't know while they drink & I don't.
Tried to explain that I'd need to eat 3 times, don't drink, don't know them, it's a LONG time for something I could care less about, I just took off for her, & I need to lift (have commitments at 5pm on). She was getting all sourpuss on me. She later apologized, but damn....I was hot.
And of course she doesn't wanna come lift so we can spend more time together, or eat cleaner, even though she's @ 160-165lbs & would love nothing more than to be 150 again. That's far too logical.
Sorry for venting, man.