Don't know what to do, in a rough spot, ladies & gentlemen..feel free to chime in

Definitely Beau, I'm not an idiot. I mean I'm going to be a doctor after all lol. I see the facts & know that for sure, the majority (you guys & everyone else) is right. I just don't want to accept/admit it. It would be like admitting I wasted 2 1/2 years of my life & loved someone that didn't exist, which is exactly what happened. I'm just having a tough time gripping reality & holding on to it. I'm kind of just poking it & giggling.
 
& Beau, you're right. It's much different when you have someone close to you telling you something than when it's someone you don't know or know as well. His (my best friend's) words definitely hit home. He's not an idiot either, he's been with his girl for about 5 years now & has plenty of experience in these things. He made me realize that out of sheer disrespect she had for me, I shouldn't ever give her the time of day again & I agree. I agree with everything you guys have said, but that doesn't shut feelings off, which is the ****ty part cause it's what I need now. The only thing that'll do that is me not talking to/seeing her anymore.

It just sucks cause I was ahead of the game till she imed & as soon as I did what I did, I put myself back at square 1. Now it's time to climb the hill again & get over it.
 
"....I LOVE helping people in any way I can and I want to help her to be the best person she can be...."

Being there. Done that. Doesn't work. Sadly, you can't change people from who they really are. If people can change or be changed that easily, the world would have being a paradise since Jesus was a baby.....

To change yourself to be the best that you can be, is extremely hard. It takes a tremenduous amount of self discipline, that most people simply don't have.

So, for one person to think that he/she can change another person to be the best that person can be, is light years beyond wishful thinking, my friend.

If you love someone, set her free. If she returns to you, then it is mean to be.

Cut this one loose. If she is mean to change to be a better person, it will happen. And your paths will cross.

No matter how sure you think you can affect things for the better, the odds are against you, UNLESS and UNTIL she makes changes by herself. You can't change people for the better. They have to do it themselves.

If you think wasting 2.5 year is bad, then try thinking about wasting the next few decades of your life.


"...I truly believe that when she really loses me (I cut all communications with her), she will realize everything. I just know that as long as I keep speaking to her, I will keep feeding this same cycle & never get out of it, nor will things ever change...."

Well then... get on with it. :) What are you waiting for? It is a can't lose situation.
 
I cut off the friendship with her friend today too. If I'm going to do this, I can't have her around either. Thanks for the advice Bio & everyone else. Seriously, I can't express my appreciation enough. I am deeply touched by everyone's caring attitude towards my situation. I'll keep you guys posted if anything happens or anything like that.
 
I'm an ass. I texted her a day late for her bday cause I saw some pics she put up on her dotphoto from her bday & got jealous. She was pissed though but tried to play it off like she didn't care that I didn't say happy bday.

She said she wants us to be friends & when I asked why & what good it'd bring, pointing out she must still feel the same, she told me to stop?

I told her a friendship was definitely out of the question & that either way, whatever relationship she wants with me, if any, would have to be her doing because I'm not pushing for anything after what's happened, regardless whether or not I feel anything.

I'm in Chicago next weekend, she knows it & I know it. Oh ****...
 
lol Here's how simple it is Tru... Let it go. That's all ya have to do man. You may think about it, you may want it back, that'll disipate. Trust me. Every guy goes through this crap at some point in his life. Maybe two or three times. The best medicine is to move on. Don't call her, don't visit her, don't respond to her. Just blow her off man. There's other fish in the sea and all that stuff. The term wouldn't have been coined if others weren't going through the same thing. You can do it man, forget about her.
 
CallmeClark said:
lol Here's how simple it is Tru... Let it go. That's all ya have to do man. You may think about it, you may want it back, that'll disipate. Trust me. Every guy goes through this crap at some point in his life. Maybe two or three times. The best medicine is to move on. Don't call her, don't visit her, don't respond to her. Just blow her off man. There's other fish in the sea and all that stuff. The term wouldn't have been coined if others weren't going through the same thing. You can do it man, forget about her.
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GREAT ADVICE.........move on...i am doing ok, every once in a while i get a call from the ex, and yeah it makes me want to talk to him, but really why??? he has a different life, we want different things. This bozo dosent even remember my birthday, and argued with me that i was born in november, and not in OCtober...LOL I had to laugh.............you dated me for almost 2 yrs and you think i was born in november.....LOOOSSEEEERRRRRR

Sorry to hijack...(((HUGZ)))) callme has good advice
 
I didn't see her when I went to Chicago, but this girl is seriously driving me crazy. We started talking again the day I got back because she called to make sure I got back ok. She said she didn't call to see me because she was "scared" of how things would go & just wasn't ready yet, whatever that means. We kept talking throughout the week & she kept giving signs/hints she felt the same way, but when I would address the issue she would avoid it. She told me what she's done & with who, nothing serious, then I told her even though she didn't want to know because I felt guilty & I don't like keeping secrets/hiding things. She said she didn't care, but made a huge fuss about it like me probably having STD's & since I had sex with a girl that was 21 & a virgin, she started calling her a loser & other things for being a 21 year old virgin (I told her the truth which is that I have hooked up with 5 girls, 3 of which I've had sex with, 2 of which were on more than 1 occasion & that I am currently "talking" to someone, but I didn't know where that was headed). She tried to make it a very clear point that she didn't care. She basically told me she loves & cares about me, but doesn't want a bf right now. She said she thought I was the guy she was going to marry & seriously believed it. She told me how her parents have been telling her how I'm such a good guy & she needs to hold on to me bla bla bla. She said she wants to have a friendship, but I told her that wasn't possible. I mean for me it's either all or nothing. I know that us being friends would not work & I know that it would just carry things on.

Today we kept arguing because I made a comment that was, well not in my description to make. She basically went off on me about it & I apologized for making it. She also kept telling me how I was being crazy about this whole thing & I explained to her it wasn't an easy situation & she makes it much more frustrating & harder than it has to be. She said she wanted me to leave her alone & I asked her if that's what she wanted then why did she bother iming me or texting me with her new number when there was nothing between us? She said she figured we could be friends but now knows we can't & regrets it. I asked her if she truly wanted me to leave her life & she said that if it was 5-6 yrs from now, she'd say no, but for now yes because she can't handle it. I then asked her about the past & all that & she proceeded to tell me that the past 2.5 years we were together were bs & meaningless to her. I said fine, apologized for how I had been acting & said I wished I was more able to push my feelings aside & simply be friends/speak to her. I said I would try but needed time. We hung up & that was that.

She then texted me saying it was alright. I told her the reason I act the way I do is because I still do love her & honestly am scared to lose what we had or w/e. I then asked her what she thought & she said she didn't have time to get into it. I told her sometimes I wish we had never met cause things would be so different, she said she did too (even though the first time I ever told her that she started crying like a dumbass on the phone for half an hour). I said the reasons might be different & the only reason I wish that is because I wouldn't know what it felt like to be with her & how it felt to be happy etc etc so I wouldn't still feel this way & miss her & all that crap. She didnt say anything so I said "some kind of response would be nice" to which she replied "**** you!". I got upset & told her that I didn't deserve that kind of response, asked her what her problem was cause nothing I had said warranted that kind of reaction, called her the cockiest, fakest, manipulative, biggest ***** ever, told her she needed to get off her high horse because she's not God's gift to the world, told her I don't know who she thinks she is anymore but that she's turned into the worst person she could possibly be & that I was convinced that she was doing me a favor by taking me out of her life before she ****ed up mine & me too more than she already had. I wished her luck in keeping a good guy with her bs, told her reality is going to kick her ass real soon, said this wasn't worth it for me & that I deserve so much better & that it wasn't even worth a friendship. She said nothing.

I'm seriously lost. I don't know why I feel this way for her & what I'm trying to do even though I know I don't want to get back with her now. I don't know how she really feels because her actions contradict her words, then she changes her words, & changes them again & sometimes some of the things she says are so unbelievable that I don't know what to do (such as the past 2.5 years being fake & meaningless to her). This situation is eating me up. I made a promise to myself to not speak to her anymore as of tonight & her reaction to what I said & go back to how it was before I knew her number. I just wish I knew what was going on man. I've always felt like I'm 1 of the people that knows her the most in her life & I've always been 90% right when I think something that deals with her. I'm starting to question that now. I don't know if I know her as well as I think I do because from what I know, she still feels it, or if I'm just lying to myself? I'm starting to think that maybe I don't know her as well as I thought or something?

I'm just so confused & not sure what to do. This is really messing with me & the girl I'm talking to now. I've been totally honest with her about this situation & she's been cool about it, telling me she'll wait till I sort it out, but I really honestly feel I can't be with anyone feeling the way I do for my ex. And this isn't something I can just turn off, no matter how hard I try.

What do I do?
 
It'll take you 1 month or 1 year to get over her. The choice is yours. If you gonna keep talking to her, you'll never get over her. Stop talking, since you don't want to be friends with her anyway (IMO it's a right decision), stop texting, stop thinking about her. I know it's not easy, we are all been there, but as every day goes by it'll be easier and easier.
Try to separate yourself from all feelings and emotions and use your head to make any decision toward her.
 
Tru, you're not being fair to the girl that you're talkin' to now at all man. She may say that she's cool with this situation and all... But, news flash buddy... there's no way in hell that she's cool with it. It's time to move on brutha. For real. That girl is crazier than a rabid chimpanze in a shopping mall. She's going to continue to mess with you as long as you let her. I'll tell ya what it is, and hopefully you'll see this too... It's laughable. I too had a girl in my life that was very much that way. What did I do? I walked away. Hell, I moved out of the state ;). That seemed to do the trick. I was supposed to be the guy that she was gonna marry and blah blah blah bullsh*t. She's married to some other yahoo now. I don't care though. I only even know that because she tried to send me an email about it. So, there ya go. Be fair to the girl you're talking to now. Forget about that other nutcase and apologize profusely to your current interest. You'll be glad ya did. You're only compounding the problem by further entertaining thoughts of your old psycho girlfriend. Focus on the new one. Heh, that's my best advice ever. It's worth followin'. Good luck man.
 
X,
Let it go. I KNOW exactly what your going through, because I am going through the samething right now. 5 year relationship, 3yrs living together..hell when even had a dog together.
She cheated on me last summer with an ex and now she is living in SC with another ex. And she took the damn dog too.

But I look at it this way. I now I have nothing stopping me from doing what I want or going where I want to go. Hell, If I want to move to Rio for a few years, why the f not?
You just need to move on and stop talking to her. No e-mail, texting, or phone calls. Not even writing a damn letter to her.
 
BioHazzard said:
"....I LOVE helping people in any way I can and I want to help her to be the best person she can be...."

Being there. Done that. Doesn't work. Sadly, you can't change people from who they really are. If people can change or be changed that easily, the world would have being a paradise since Jesus was a baby.....

To change yourself to be the best that you can be, is extremely hard. It takes a tremenduous amount of self discipline, that most people simply don't have.

So, for one person to think that he/she can change another person to be the best that person can be, is light years beyond wishful thinking, my friend.

If you love someone, set her free. If she returns to you, then it is mean to be.

Cut this one loose. If she is mean to change to be a better person, it will happen. And your paths will cross.

No matter how sure you think you can affect things for the better, the odds are against you, UNLESS and UNTIL she makes changes by herself. You can't change people for the better. They have to do it themselves.

If you think wasting 2.5 year is bad, then try thinking about wasting the next few decades of your life.


"...I truly believe that when she really loses me (I cut all communications with her), she will realize everything. I just know that as long as I keep speaking to her, I will keep feeding this same cycle & never get out of it, nor will things ever change...."

Well then... get on with it. :) What are you waiting for? It is a can't lose situation.
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Some of the best advice, right her. Move on, bro.
 
xxtruxx1 said:
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Why? Logically what everyone is saying to you makes sense, but love makes no sense. I still love my "poison" as well and sometimes I think "what if". But all that is going to do is drive you into madness...trust me.

You need to step away from her and the situation. I know its hard and at times will seem impossible, but you need to do it.
 
Yea, I'm definitely on it. I told her today I was walking away & explained to her that the person she's become simply isn't someone I want in my life. Her response was "Ok, I'm sure you'll find your flawless girl." To which I said, "I know, but what you say & do aren't flaws, it's way more than that. I'm not looking for a flawless girl anyways. I'm looking for a caring, compassionate, appreciative, considerate, etc person..like you used to be."

I just feel stupid for STILL feeling this way for her after everything she's done/said. I don't understand for the life of me how I still feel it? I feel like a fool for still caring about her & for having so much hope in her that she'd change. I'm honestly dumbfounded. I just feel really stupid for still loving & caring for such a person after all they've put me through. I should be indifferent to her.

I'm considering changing my phone number or just blocking hers. I don't know if cingular can do that. Either way it's a hassle & I should be strong enough to just do it on my own. I've already had her blocked on myspace & more recently facebook. I know I will be hearing from her again at some point, maybe on Thanksgiving since we're both in town & it's my bday. I learned from this time, ignore it or just play it cool, but better to ignore.
 
I understand how you still feel it. You told yourself once upon a time that you would love her forever. You convinced yourself of it. That's how it happens. It'll dull out over time. Don't worry.
 
CallmeClark said:
I understand how you still feel it. You told yourself once upon a time that you would love her forever. You convinced yourself of it. That's how it happens. It'll dull out over time. Don't worry.
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Nah bro. I think it's cause I know/see the potential there I guess. I mean I know the person she was with me when I pushed her to be the best person she could be, now she's just the complete oppossite, but for some reason I'm convinced this isn't who she really is. I feel like she's just being stupid & immature, so I guess that's why I still love her, I have hope she'll get it together. But I'm going to get rid of that VERY soon :).
 
I was just dealing with this a few months ago. It was harder to get over this girl, even though I've gotten over girls easier that have been in my life for a lot longer. I really attribute this to being on cycle. I thought I would never be able to do it. I'm not saying my cycle was the main cause of this but it definitely helped me get over this girl when I came off. Theres been great advice, just go after new girls, you have to have a new one to get rid of an old one.
 
xxtruxx1 said:
Nah bro. I think it's cause I know/see the potential there I guess. I mean I know the person she was with me when I pushed her to be the best person she could be, now she's just the complete oppossite, but for some reason I'm convinced this isn't who she really is. I feel like she's just being stupid & immature, so I guess that's why I still love her, I have hope she'll get it together. But I'm going to get rid of that VERY soon :).
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X,
Again I can appricate what your going through. The my ex is doing th exact samething and I was looking at it exactly how you are. But you need to let it go. Maybe she will wake up and realize that she is being a immature brat and start to see you as the only man that she loves, but maybe not.
As of right now you are not together and she says she doesn't love you anymore, so everthing we are talking about is moot in terms of getting back together with her.
My advice is to more on and start living your life. Travel, try something you ahve never done before. Like taking an art class or something. Expand your horizons, my friend
 
Definitely. Like you said bro, I have nothing holding me back from doing what I want to do & going where I want to go. I can say with almost complete certainty that she will realize things & regret this, but by the time that happens I most probably won't be around anymore or just flat out won't care to hear it.
 
xxtruxx1 said:
Definitely. Like you said bro, I have nothing holding me back from doing what I want to do & going where I want to go. I can say with almost complete certainty that she will realize things & regret this, but by the time that happens I most probably won't be around anymore or just flat out won't care to hear it.
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I have women at wok taking bets on when she will come back. One women bet me a grand that she would be calling to get back with me by June next year.
But one women said this "Honey, she's going to want you back. You know when? Right as your about to walk down the aisle with someone else."
 
LOL nice. My ex is currently accusing me of going on her sn. Mind you I told her I didn't want her in my life & that I was done with this & her, etc etc. Funny stuff really. Where does she come up with this stuff?
 
toughchick401 said:
end all contact, no friendship...move on.............CHANGE YOUR NUMBER...................
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I was actually considering doing that. I have blocked her from everything imaginable. I was hoping I could swing by cingular & see if I could only have her number blocked from calling me. If not I might just change my number, specially if it's free. The only thing that's holding me back is it's a HUGE pain in the ass. It would probably be easier to ignore her & it'd make me stronger :).
 
It is tough love but come on, i mean it's the same thing over and over, she calls, he thinks "what if"...he finally moves on or so it seems, and she calls of txts.....cut the cord,,, easier said than done but if it's meant to be, it will....but for now for sanity sake, move on, end it, help you both move on .........

(((HUGZ)))) I know it seems I am heartless, (some think I am but I am really only saying it because we have all been there)...when your in this you can't see/think clearly...us on the outside can......

wishing your heart a speedy repair.

from what I see in your avatar, you will not have any problems finding someone, very nice :)
 
toughchick401 said:
It is tough love but come on, i mean it's the same thing over and over, she calls, he thinks "what if"...he finally moves on or so it seems, and she calls of txts.....cut the cord,,, easier said than done but if it's meant to be, it will....but for now for sanity sake, move on, end it, help you both move on .........

(((HUGZ)))) I know it seems I am heartless, (some think I am but I am really only saying it because we have all been there)...when your in this you can't see/think clearly...us on the outside can......

wishing your heart a speedy repair.

from what I see in your avatar, you will not have any problems finding someone, very nice :)
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LOL! Yea, I guess you can say that. Thanks for the reassurance. Funny thing, she saw that pic & called me "gay." Actually her exact words were, "You're gay."

You don't seem heartless at all tc. You're right. Heart's already moving in the speedy repair direction thing. I like getting views from the outside because for sure mine are skewed by emotions.

Ah well, time will tell. :icon_lol:
 
xxtruxx1 said:
LOL! Yea, I guess you can say that. Thanks for the reassurance. Funny thing, she saw that pic & called me "gay." Actually her exact words were, "You're gay."

You don't seem heartless at all tc. You're right. Heart's already moving in the speedy repair direction thing. I like getting views from the outside because for sure mine are skewed by emotions.

Ah well, time will tell. :icon_lol:
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You could always respond (since it seems a certainty you will): "Yep I'm gay alright, and who could blame me? After dating you, being with guys could only be an improvement".

BTW - I just threw up writing that.

Dude-man - no more talking. texting, smoke signals, calling, sign language, tagging, singing, burping or farting near of with her. Be done with it.
 
LOL! Actually I always give her a smart ass response back. When she was like "You're gay" all I said was, "Yea well don't project you're insecurities on me. Just cause you're insecure about me improving myself, doesn't make me gay kid."

I am done with her. I don't call or tm or anything, but she knows exactly what to do to get me riled up & she does it to get a response. I can't control it when I'm upset.
 
xxtruxx1 said:
LOL! Actually I always give her a smart ass response back. When she was like "You're gay" all I said was, "Yea well don't project you're insecurities on me. Just cause you're insecure about me improving myself, doesn't make me gay kid."

I am done with her. I don't call or tm or anything, but she knows exactly what to do to get me riled up & she does it to get a response. I can't control it when I'm upset.
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Oh, but that is where you are mistaken. You CAN control it. It may not be easy or your default reaction, but recognizing when and how buttons get pushed is the first step. But - it has to happen by design, and only you can do that. If not, you allow her to control you.

Think of it this way - if you refuse to play the game, people eventually get tired of serving a ball that is not returned. As it now stands, you allow her to toy with you.

Get it?
 
Yup. My problem is I have a temper & I pretty much am not great at controlling it when it comes to my buttons being pushed.

In other words, it's pretty hard for me when something or someone is bothering me/pushing my buttons to just be like "ok, cool" & act like i don't care or it doesn't affect me.

Actually, that might not be true, because I can do it with a lot of things, but definitely not with her. She pushes my buttons & I feel like I want to shake her. Then I get all riled up & just that shows her I still care.

In other words, I see how it is her indirect way of making sure I still have feelings for her.

Damn it. lol.
 
Ok? I'm assuming she was drunk last night, but last night I was at a black & white party for a friend's birthday. I was having a good ol' time & was going to meet up with the girl I'm kind of with/talking to after the party. I was in a game of beer pong (my partner drinking all the beer of course since I am on cycle :twisted:) & as I sunk my shot, my phone vibrated. I looked at it & had gotten 2 messages, one from the girl I'm kind of with now asking me how much longer I was going to be (hah) & the other from my ex. This is what it said & I quote, "You know I love u!!"

Um, here I was kind of perplexed & responded, "No, I don't." Then later asked her what that text was about. She said what text? I forwarded what she had sent to me & asked & she didn't reply. Basically, this is where it ended.

Seriously, WTF!
 
I’m going to take the risk of telling you what I think you need to hear. I may get verbally raped for doing so, but I am old enough to point out things that I wouldn’t have a few year’s ago. Notice I didn’t say “wise enough”, I just said old enough (and I assume I am one of the elder statesmen on this forum). Clearly – mine isn’t the only opinion and others may well think I am a jerk. That being said:

What the hell - you actually responded????

I've heard of a slow learning curve, but .......

At this point, please just be honest with yourself. By virtue of your continued involvement/responses you still care for her, want to be with her and must somehow find some sort of a benefit to this torment. Look back and re-read all of the responses you've been given.

You've ignored them all. Your words say one thing; your actions another. It is like the front end of a motorcycle being drawn back into the same groove (rut, actually), rather than steering out of it. That groove will take you right where you allow it to. Maybe the term groove is actually metaphorical.

I'm not saying what you are doing it wrong. For me, there is no way I would reduce myself to being her plaything, being sucked into her little game of cat and mouse, or put up with her past and present games; but that is just me. At some point – I would just say enough is enough.

So – since all the other advise has been rejected: Just call her, then go see her, then marry her, and then have kids with her.

But - eventually - when she has an affair right under your nose, please do not be surprised.

Remember: Even a dog can shake hands.
 
It's not so much that I ignore the advice. I mean I really try to follow it, then out of nowhere I get blindsided by something she does. The absolute last thing I was expecting was her telling me she loves me. I mean yes, I do still have feelings for her & I do still care for her. This makes it hard to follow all the advice given when she pulls things like this. I mean, it was so random that text. I don't know how to not let these things affect me.

I don't know what the hell keeps driving me back in like you say. My head tells me exactly what you guys have been telling me, so it's not like I don't think/believe it, but for some reason, something pushes me to do the oppossite when push comes to shove & I have no idea what it is. Believe me, if I did, I would either cut it out of me or turn it off.
 
Heh, it is that you're ignoring the advice. Be real about it. It's been the same advice, from multiple different members of the forum, over and over, without deviation. Either you're gonna stay hung up on this chic and be her lap dog, or you're gonna let her go.
 
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Heh, it is that you're ignoring the advice. Be real about it. It's been the same advice, from multiple different members of the forum, over and over, without deviation. Either you're gonna stay hung up on this chic and be her lap dog, or you're gonna let her go.
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Now thats tough love but good advice.................for the last time..MOVE ON, a friend drew me a picture once with a stick person running away from another...it was to represent me running from my ex..LOL I still have it, silly yes, but god she was right...............
 
The more I read this thread & think back to how I used to be with girls before this one came along, the more I realize what a little ***** I'm being.

God dammit. Where have my balls gone?

The thing is this, I wouldn't take her back. I know this for a fact. I've seen pics of her now & she's gross. She picked up smoking which I hate & is basically whoring herself out now. Basically, while I've been bettering myself & pretty much upping my net worth, she's been worsening herself & giving me more & more reason to not want to be with her. I want a good girl that is hard to get/have. One that doesn't chuck her **** at every other guy like she is doing. I see all these things & know I don't want to be with her anymore, yet I continue this? Maybe I'm doing this because I want to get her in a vulnerable position so, in the words of Borat, I can crush her.

**** that. I'm dropping this. I expect to hear from her for my bday, which we'll both be in town for. She won't get a response. It's seriously time to get out of this never-ending cycle of bull****.
 
Not for another buncha days (Nov 27th) lol. Hopefully getting a new car, which I should start a thread about.
 
Hells yeah a new car..that will get rid of the old my ex is a skank blues. I want a new jeep 4 door Rubicon. Might have to wait awhile. I rolled my Cherokee. What kind of car are you thinking about?
 
I'm looking into a Lexus GS, Infiniti G35 (my old car..can't get enough lol), Acura TL, Tahoe, not sure what else.
 
I went ahead & did it. I changed my number. Cost me $36. ****ing Cingular, but I did it. Hah...

Score. 1 me, 0 her.
 
ryano said:
Way to go bro..gotta spread some more rep.
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No worries, bro. Thanks for all the support throughout the thread. She really has no way of contacting me anymore. She's blocked on facebook, myspace, AIM, I got a new number. The only thing she still has is my house number back home & my address at home. I'm always up here for school so the only time she could pull anything would be on a break. I'll keep my Mossberg handy, j/k lol.

It was the last straw man. After that text, she told a mutual friend that I wouldn't leave her alone, she didn't want to be with me now (not that I ever asked her to because I made it a point to tell her each & every time we spoke I didn't want to be with who she's become) or maybe even ever again (mind you this was a day or 2 after that text) & all this bs, basically turning the situation around on me. Everything she said had no backing whatsoever. I was going to tell her something, but decided to forget it. I'm not playing this game anymore. She's just someone I don't want in my life. The girl is truly crazy & I'm upset it took me this long to see her true colors.

I can honestly say that after everything that has happened, I am truly indifferent to her at this moment, & I don't see that changing anytime soon, if at all.
 
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