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damnit, the things I do for sex.

lifthardheavy

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Ive been seeing this girl for a few months. I enjoy being with her, and she is quite hot. Well, I recently got into her email and messenger (don't ask how), and found that she is sending and receiving love letters from 2 guys, and she has a profile on some dating site, and I'm sure she knows other guys from college. Basically she's a 2-faced skank.

So here she is, telling me how much she likes me and thinks about me and blah blah blah, while she's messing around behind my back. I normally would dump her, but I have a weakness for hot girls. And the sex with her is just fantastic. I can't give it up. So on the one hand, it's hard to listen to her lying to me when I know the truth... but on the other hand, the sexxxxxxx.

What would you do?
 
easy, you have the advantage now brother treat her like the pig that she is. I envy your situation.
 
what jminis said...and stick it in her butt for extra measure... lol
 
Ride that as long as you can, and when something better comes along you can pretend to give up your girl for the other - and the cycle continues.:twisted:
 
PIITB!


Now you want to get any kinky, sick and twisted sexual fantasy out. Don't go and sexually assault the girl but a little mushroom smack on the forehead would go a long way in giving satisfaction :)
 
bro, i can sorta feel ya on this one... right now im talking to a girl that i use to sleep with in the summer*. this chick is smoking hot. i knew at the end of the summer that she was messing around with some other guy, so i just took it for what its worth and had fun for a while... i had no real emotional attachment, and she wasn't looking for one. def piitb or atm it all day long thats what i plan to do when we get together for drinks this weekend.

*i just moved from a beach resort town where summer is a crazy influx of tourist, and completely dead after oct.
 
Personally I would tell her "banging you is like throwing a hotdog down a hallway" and just leave her. But hell, if you want to keep hittin' it, keep at it. Just dont treat her the way you would a real gf.
 
spatch said:
Personally I would tell her "banging you is like throwing a hotdog down a hallway" and just leave her. But hell, if you want to keep hittin' it, keep at it. Just dont treat her the way you would a real gf.
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it's easy to say that you would just leave her, but let me tell you, she does the freaking best lap dances I've seen/felt this side of a strip joint. She really knows how to get the flesh rocket ready for take-off. Have mercy on me but I'm gonna keep riding the bus until it runs out of gas.

Actually, in order to keep the sex and lapdances coming, I have to treat her like a real gf. It sickens me to have to say crap like "i miss you so much / i love you" when I don't mean it anymore. ahh well...
 
Lets put this together, Dances like a stripper, fvcks like a stripper, cheats like a stripper. Did you mention she likes the pole? If you wanna grow califlower on your junk then keep pounding ole wizard sleeve, if you wanna get out there and meet a real women then dump the byotch. This message is paid for and authorized by SWG.
 
if you could resist the urges that have taken over your head, you will be a better guy! any relationship based on sexy time alone is not a good relationship because you get nothing from it. like playing video games and spending 100 hours to get to level 50. No one cares except maybe there'll be some personal thing but anyway, don't spend your life idling away on trying to get something from nothing. You can only get what others are able to give.
 
lifthardheavy said:
Ive been seeing this girl for a few months. I enjoy being with her, and she is quite hot. Well, I recently got into her email and messenger (don't ask how), and found that she is sending and receiving love letters from 2 guys, and she has a profile on some dating site, and I'm sure she knows other guys from college. Basically she's a 2-faced skank.

So here she is, telling me how much she likes me and thinks about me and blah blah blah, while she's messing around behind my back. I normally would dump her, but I have a weakness for hot girls. And the sex with her is just fantastic. I can't give it up. So on the one hand, it's hard to listen to her lying to me when I know the truth... but on the other hand, the sexxxxxxx.

What would you do?
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Let me give you THE best advice.
There's nothing you can do about guys emailing her directly. If you want to continue to eat pieces of that pie, then detach yourself from the relationship.
Yes, not "break-up",.. but this detachment will be emotional FOR YOU. Return her calls less, become very dissinterested in the outcome of ANYTHING she says or does.
You'll not only keep her on your lap (becasue she is still phucking you, and this will should cause HER to become the aggressor- chasing you!)
Im telling you, she has probably lost interest in you, and is getting the excitement and attention she needs elsewhere. Give her the attention she needs, but do so ON YOUR OWN TIME!
lol- MAny a women I have lost like this. The last 3 I have just followed this advice, becasue I removed myself emotionally, kinda like "yeah- your hot, but there are 100 other hot girls that I can be with too..... so unless your doing something special that the others cant..."
If this doesn't work (which wuold be more like you devieating from this plan, or simply going about this compoletely wrong) then simply start seeijng other females. You dont have to breakup with her, just see other females and don't hide it.
and lastly NEVER TELL HER YOU KNOW THERE ARE THESE TWO OTHER GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
lifthardheavy said:
it's easy to say that you would just leave her, but let me tell you, she does the freaking best lap dances I've seen/felt this side of a strip joint. She really knows how to get the flesh rocket ready for take-off. Have mercy on me but I'm gonna keep riding the bus until it runs out of gas.

Actually, in order to keep the sex and lapdances coming, I have to treat her like a real gf. It sickens me to have to say crap like "i miss you so much / i love you" when I don't mean it anymore. ahh well...
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NO NO NO NO NO !!!!
wrong way brotha! You make HER give YOU lap dances for those words. Not the other way around.
There, you gave your power away!
You need to be the one "in charge" .... like you were when she met you.

Everything is about being an Jerk, without the abusive behavior! - you can treat her like a g/f, but like you know, when she can controll the outcome everything is predictable.
Tell her you love that jacket, never compliment a hot girls beauty. I forget this sometimes and am always reminded why...
 
jminis said:
easy, you have the advantage now brother treat her like the pig that she is. I envy your situation.
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Agreed, treat like the ho she is and just use her for a good romp every now and then
 
xtraflossy said:
There's nothing you can do about guys emailing her directly. If you want to continue to eat pieces of that pie, then detach yourself from the relationship.
Yes, not "break-up",.. but this detachment will be emotional FOR YOU. Return her calls less, become very dissinterested in the outcome of ANYTHING she says or does.
Im telling you, she has probably lost interest in you, and is getting the excitement and attention she needs elsewhere. Give her the attention she needs, but do so ON YOUR OWN TIME!
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oh this is exactly what I was thinking. I call her less often now, and I plan to meet new women for a real relationship, but in the meantime keeping this ho-bag around for sex. She does crave the attention from other guys. Like all women. I think I gave her too much attention when we were together and she probably got bored.
 
You're in a great situation, take advantage of it because you only live once !
1. Use her for sex and treat her like you don't need her because in reality you don't need a girl like that.
2. Make fun of other guys when you're in public and say they're weak competition for you. IOW, sound extremely confident, be funny, and bring out your wild side :twisted:
3. Go see other girls, it's fair game if she's doing it to you. She might even like you more because of that ;)
4. Don't be a nice guy (not a **** either) or she'll drop you before you can get her panties off.
 
xtraflossy said:
never compliment a hot girls beauty. I forget this sometimes and am always reminded why...
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You my friend are a player and this works ;) Think about guys. Hot chicks get complimented on their looks all day by every guy with a hard-on. She doesn't want to see the same one trick pony every time. Make fun of her in a funny way. I usually tell girls something like "Hey, your competition is catching up fast, how would separate yourself from them ?" Or "Do you think you have the hots for me ?" "What else do you have going for you besides looks ?" You gotta challenge them but not be offensive about it. I suggest you do that with this girl bro :)
 
Can I add my 2 cents? Oh cool thanks :D


Several things come to mind first.

1. Have you two agreed to be a "couple" or are you just dating?

2. If she hacked into your messenger what would she find?


I think you are over reacting. You havent stated any proof she is having sex with anyone else, talk is talk.


I would just look at this as a warning signal. You need to decide if you just want to have sex with this girl or is she the kind of girl you would take home to Mother.

If its just sex, who gives a fawk what else she is doing. Cant have your cake and lock it up too :)













lifthardheavy said:
Ive been seeing this girl for a few months. I enjoy being with her, and she is quite hot. Well, I recently got into her email and messenger (don't ask how), and found that she is sending and receiving love letters from 2 guys, and she has a profile on some dating site, and I'm sure she knows other guys from college. Basically she's a 2-faced skank.

So here she is, telling me how much she likes me and thinks about me and blah blah blah, while she's messing around behind my back. I normally would dump her, but I have a weakness for hot girls. And the sex with her is just fantastic. I can't give it up. So on the one hand, it's hard to listen to her lying to me when I know the truth... but on the other hand, the sexxxxxxx.

What would you do?
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lol- I'm not a playa'. I honestly respect females and don't use them for sex (well, If I do it's a mutual thing).

With all the not calling stuff, did you know that with a cocky and funny attitude, you can keep a women so occupied tring to gain YOUR approval, that she never even stops and thinks about wether or not she actually likes you!?!?!
In other words, you have to get HER "chasing" you.

These are not just for "dating purposes", I try to use these things for my girlfriend.... Ity makes for a very interesting relationship, and many females had told me they would kill for a guy that knows how to KEEP a female attracted long term.

I posted in a thread, on the samesubject not to long ago (about relationships or how to get the girl)... I attached a file that I used when I decided I wanted to get this part of my life handled.
It's a great read. Interesting and funny.

... Fitnfirm has a good point though. You'll get the same BS from every guy here but a ladies perspective will get you thinking about the underling issues...
I beleive you mentioned though that your not planning on buyn' a ring for her....

Just a thought- yeah, she craves attention from other guys, but is that becasue their a challenge becasue she can't have them? (if so, thats good, casue that means she's choosing you!!)
Strippers require A LOT of attention. They are also VERY perceptive towards body language... part of the job is to turn guys on, and they KNOW when they "have you".
I bet oyu played it totally cool and indifferent + cocky and funny when you met her...
In your situation, with the knowlage you have, it shouldn't be too hard to fall back into "that" guy again.

BOttom line, don't hold on to her... in the sense that she can't do what she wants. Be indifferent and charming and she will CHOOSE to be with you.
 
FitnFirm said:
Can I add my 2 cents? Oh cool thanks :D


Several things come to mind first.

1. Have you two agreed to be a "couple" or are you just dating?

2. If she hacked into your messenger what would she find?


I think you are over reacting. You havent stated any proof she is having sex with anyone else, talk is talk.


I would just look at this as a warning signal. You need to decide if you just want to have sex with this girl or is she the kind of girl you would take home to Mother.

If its just sex, who gives a fawk what else she is doing. Cant have your cake and lock it up too :)
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Damn you women, you think too much ! :rasp:
 
xtraflossy said:
NO NO NO NO NO !!!!
wrong way brotha! You make HER give YOU lap dances for those words. Not the other way around.
There, you gave your power away!
You need to be the one "in charge" .... like you were when she met you.

Everything is about being an Jerk, without the abusive behavior! - you can treat her like a g/f, but like you know, when she can controll the outcome everything is predictable.
Tell her you love that jacket, never compliment a hot girls beauty. I forget this sometimes and am always reminded why...
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That VERY true, i work with a girl that every guy goes nuts over how good looking she is but i don't and i am always teasing her telling her they must be sniffing glue again, lol. She always wants me to come talk to her but i just act like i'm too busy and you know what, last week i threw it in her, lol She wanted me because i wasn't going on and on about how attractive she is.
 
somewhatgifted said:
So what you found a hoe that you like, cant make a hoe a housewife. Dr. Dre
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Agreed, dump her ass......in time she will meet these guys and you really want a STD from a hot girl, please, think more highly of yourself, dump her, and move on.

Good luck :)

TC
 
Keep hitting it, knowing there is no real future in the relationship! Be her phuck buddy, that is all she is using you for......and be happy your hitting a hot woman!
 
somewhatgifted said:
So what you found a hoe that you like, cant make a hoe a housewife. Dr. Dre
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[Ludacris]
You doin ho activities
With ho tendencies
Hos are your friends, hoes are your enemies
With ho energy to do whacha do
Blew whacha blew
Screw whacha screw
Yall professional like DJ Clue, pullin on my coat tail
an why do you think you take a ho to a hotel?
Hotel everybody, even the mayor
Reach up in tha sky for tha hozone laya
Come on playa once a ho always
And hos never close they open like hallways
An heres a ho cake for you whole ho crew
an everybody wants some cuz hoes gotta eat too

[chorus x2]

[Ludacris]
Cant turn a ho into a housewife
Hos dont act right
Theres hos on a mission, an hoes on a crackpipe
Hey ho how ya doin, where ya been?
Prolly doin ho stuff cuz there you ho again
Its a ho wide world, that we livin in
feline, feminine, fantastical, women
Not all, just some
You ho who you are
Theres hoes in tha room, theres hoes in tha car
theres hoes on stage, theres hoes by tha bar
hos by near, an hos by far
Ho! (But can i getta ride?!)
NO! (Cmon, nigga why?!)
Cuz youza

[chorus 2x]

[Ludacris]
You gotta run in your pantyhos
Even your daddy knows
that you suckin down chocolate like daddy-o's
You hos are horrible, horrendous
On taxes ya'll writin off hos as dependents
I see tha ho risin
it aint surprisin
its just a hoasis
with ugly chicks faces
but hos dont feel so sad and blue
cuz most of us niggaz is hos too
 
id say use her like a CD (c*m dumpster) for as long as possible while tagging a bunch of other girls.....she wants to act like a slut.....so treat her like one IMHO


i do not mean any disrespect to any females on this forum...just stating an opinion about a certain kind of girl :)
 
just whack one in her arse then tell her to f**k off!!!
thats what ray sausage would do
Apha male 4 life
:goodpost: :bb:
 
keep the breakfast in bed, just give me some head.
Then do the dishes on the way out.
when you engage in sexual activities understand you are a very thin layer of condom away from being attached to this girl for the rest of your life. Baggage for life either child support or herpes. Nothing wrong with kids cant rerget them, but you WILL regret the mother,,,!!!!! ditch the pig get with a real woman. Sensible girls got badazz booty skills too!!!
 
toughchick401 said:
Agreed, dump her ass......in time she will meet these guys and you really want a STD from a hot girl, please, think more highly of yourself, dump her, and move on.

Good luck :)

TC
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well said
 
So 3/4 of the people here suggest I keep banging her until a better girl comes along, 1/4 say she's not worth it no matter how hot she is. And one guy wants her number. :nono:

hmmm.. I've decided to go with the 3/4 majority. :FUfinger: lol

Recently I met another girl, very attractive, but it's in the early stages.
 
somewhatgifted said:
keep the breakfast in bed, just give me some head.
Then do the dishes on the way out.
when you engage in sexual activities understand you are a very thin layer of condom away from being attached to this girl for the rest of your life. Baggage for life either child support or herpes. Nothing wrong with kids cant rerget them, but you WILL regret the mother,,,!!!!! ditch the pig get with a real woman. Sensible girls got badazz booty skills too!!!
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This is the ugly truth. Well said. Get far away from her. Real far before you start to itch. Go now. You were using condoms right? RIGHT?
 
lifthardheavy said:
So 3/4 of the people here suggest I keep banging her until a better girl comes along, 1/4 say she's not worth it no matter how hot she is. And one guy wants her number. :nono:

hmmm.. I've decided to go with the 3/4 majority. :FUfinger: lol

Recently I met another girl, very attractive, but it's in the early stages.
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let me play devil's advocate here, maybe you have some real feelings for this girl and you can't let go so easily???!!!! no matter what you found out???? (Just asking)

Good luck, but really move on, sometimes being solo single is ok :)

TC
 
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