I am sorry you feel the way you do
@maximillia and applaud your being honest.
Yup, a lot of people don't care about others at all. I like to think I care about others though. I know sometimes I probably don't care enough. Sometimes I could do better. Sometimes I am so wrapped up in my own life that I may even forget to try.
And to quite Justhere4comm, sometimes there isn't much I can do, but I do the best I can.
There is this idea in psychology about "Maslow's Hierarchy if Needs" and it has a pyramid. The bottom level is the most basic needs like food and water and as you work up the levels of the pyramid you get into more complex human needs - like companionship, self actualization, etc.
And it is often said you cannot elevate to a higher level until you have fulfilled the base level. So you cannot self actualize if you aren't even capable of securing food and water. You have to focus on the more basic needs and work up.
And I think people can't help others when they cannot fulfill their own needs. But can all try to do the best we can.
And part of being a man is realizing the struggles of others and the struggles within yourself and making a choice to be better for yourself. It is something we all go through where we want to quit because so many people suck. And we want to just stop trying. Maybe the majority of people are not capable of compassion. But every person who can choose to be compassionate will maybe help someone else show compassion. And because you are upset about the way you see people acting tells me you are strong enough to make a choice. Be like the crowd or be strong and unique and different - regardless.
Just something I think about in my own life.