I was hoping you were going to send me some of the goodies from your way for my cheat. I just sent you a PM and I got so hungry thinking about the places that you have in your neck of the woods, it wasn't good.
And yeah, I plan to succeed and I plan to fail. Whatever happens, I am doing it big.
^^^^^^This. I get where MrKleen73 is coming from and his thoughts and input are good for us to look out for. Maybe I'm a little naïve, but I trust the guys on here so far, and in the end, they would just be cheating themselves. I know it sounds corny, but you should be doing this for YOU above all else.
On that note, one of the biggest factors in getting in shape I think is honesty. We all tend to lie to ourselves. "I don't look that bad", "I only have 10 pounds to lose", "I don't have to diet that hard", "I don't have to exercise." - add into that the fact that our heads are filled with semi-lies by the media about weight loss (we need to lose weight, dieting is bad, avoid fats, avoid carbs, avoid whatever) and our head becomes filled with negative lies that keep us from doing what we have to do.
What I have learned, is if you have 40+ pounds of fat to lose, most people will think they only need to lose 25 in that case, and most people will act like they are close and not realize - they are pretty drastically out of shape and they got that way from consistently doing things for years, and if they want to change in a reasonable timeframe and be successful, they will need to take some drastic actions that they won't like in the beginning. I'm not saying they need to go crazy - but for someone who is extremely overweight, letting go of food at all can be emotionally difficult and they will come up with every excuse they can think of.