This is perhaps one of the more insitefull posts I have read today!!
..... I always say forplay starts before dinner (although I am not married)
Actually, none of that is really "forplay" like what most guys think,.. or even what I consider forplay.
What B5150 describes is more like allowing your advances to sink in...
A woman needs to be relaxed enough and kinda low stress (although high stress can work- not sure in a long term marrage) so that she is
RECEPTIVE to suggestion. (and I don't mean "Hun,.. how about you get on the bed and take your cloaths off and..." - Seriously,.. if thats what's what on your mind your better off just taking her caveman style... AFTER the dishes are put away of course
Pheramones,.. Im not quite sure their advantage is any better then a man who knows how a woman works/thinks.
Just like we do in the gym,.. you gotta change it up every few months..
If you've been doing the leading.. leading her and taking in the dominate role ,she will WANT to submit.. (I dont know how else to put that, but I dont exactly mean like S&M here :icon_lol: ) Then switch it up to a more "romancing" role... where you use a little more flattery perhaps,.... write a VERY descriptive email that she reads about an erotic massage... beleive me,.. she will be thinking about that ALL day.. have your game on and ready (to fullfill that "fantasy" .....with women, its all about how you make them FEEL... She will be ready to go as soon as she gets home..
(lol-= a lil side note... I have about 3 very descriptive emails I send to a woman BEFORE a "date" ... one is a very romantic-like date senerio,... another is a very descriptive erotic massage where the story ends just as its getting "good" -lol,.. let HER imagination finish it... and another where I just TOTALLY take her... Most of the time, she will tell me now she's crazy horney,.. and hours later, when we get up,... We never make it out for drinks until much later ;-) ..... I'll send em to ya if you like... consider it 3 free phuck passes if you will
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One POWERFULL move you can pull,... is do the above,.. massage,.. candles, sented oil (coconut is good) and DON'T go for bullseye!!
You'd be suprised how the push and pull will work! Next time she's not "in the mood",.. say "I know,.. I just wanted to put my lips against your skin and kiss your neck"...
lol- time and time again, a woman wondering WHY a man doesnt want to sleep with her ALWAYS gets her worked up... Its why THEY run when your chasing them, and THEY jump your bones when you Don't want em... :duel:
lol- Im probably not saying anything new here... but I have used some "mones" and I think that the assurence I had that the females would want me more then they actually might projected onto them,.. if anything.
It's all perceived value anyways...