Well not sure how serious he is about his woman if not that serious then I agree with your stance. Call her your girlfriend to normalize the pussy and have less games. If she becomes an inconvenience to something more important than her then it is time for a curb check.what if the lady didn’t agree? I don’t understand this... guys are so scared to talk about their drugs use.. of my girlfriend don’t agree she can just **** off real fast no?
If serious then this **** isn't worth it if it is just a hobby and if he could lose someone extremely important over trying to get ready for his 1 bucket list competition. Big mistake... He can do it without going over what he needs to and cause a major issue with someone he might be considering spending the rest of his life with. I am 18 years in with my wife so it is a different situation. She will ALWAYS come before this stuff. Not even a question there for me. If you aren't there then that is totally inline with where you are in life. I mean if you can't be honest with someone you are in a relationship with then why be in it? Like I mentioned before sometimes you just have to get to a point where you say hey you probably don't like this so now that you know maybe we shouldn't discuss it any more.
Some people are cool with lying or cheating on their significant other. Those people won't get where I am coming from and think I am ridiculous. That is cool and I am no better than them and don't think I am. Just different with different priorities, that is all.