Go to his ballet recitals and embarrass the **** out of him! Not clown on him but be a ****ing riot in the crowd!
"Whoooooo did you see that spin?! That's my ****ing boy!!! Hey Julie! My son has more grace in his right nut than little Cindy has in her whole body!!!!"
Its cool you feel that way. I used to think the same way when I was your age. I probably had the same attitude "nope **** that! Not my son!!!" Things change when you become a parent. When your little dude looks to you for comfort, guidance, support and to be proud of him, that will change. There is not a single thing in this world that could make me love him less. When you're a parent you just want them to be happy, no matter what.
I'm glad you don't want kids. You're 19, you shouldn't even be married at that age. Don't worry though its not marriage until you have kids, there is still a way out
The blast bro, the blast!!!
- Valdez