I know a few girls that wont date any guys at the moment because of God....
God is such a cock blocker. I seriously don't know why so many ppl put up with him. He causes natural disasters, wars, and a lot of pain. Then again, so do women. Guess we all like the good stuff they both do, so we accept the risks of the bad.
Anyways, back on point. Mullet is probably right, but for argument sake, I'll say that god is the reason why she doesn't want to date you. I also understand your need to vent. Truth is, you most likely lost your chance with her and won't be able to recover. When she decides to disobey god and date a guy, it won't be you. You probably deserve a better girl anyway.
IF you have any chance with her, remember 1 thing. Girls are NOT LOGICAL. I do not mean this in any derogatory way - I am saying girls think/talk primarily with their emotions and not with their logical mind. It's not that they don't "say" what they mean - it's more that men incorrectly listen to the "words" that come out of their mouth. That's how men talk, so that's how we listen. That's why we hear wrong.
Translation: do not attempt to change her mind. You must change her mood. Do not attempt to convince her logically about the whole god situation. Just have fun with her as a "friend". Make her want to be around you because you are so much fun for her. Of course, you also have other "friends" to spend that fun time with too. If her feelings develop into something beyond friends, she will wonder why she's getting jealous of you spending time with other female friends. Plus girls want what other girls have (your time). Do not give her all your time - leave her wanting. If her mood around you changes enough, she will change her own mind about the whole situation.
I feel for you. I used to be too emotional, caring, sensitive and generally "extra nice" to girls. Actually, I still am - it's tough to hide that at times. Despite the "words" you hear out of some girl's mouths, these are not attractive traits to a girl. They're attractive traits in their female friends.
Men typically act differently (less attractive) to the girls they are attracted to. I noticed a pattern in myself. I'd hang out with 2 girls. I'd have the hots for girl (A), and didn't care about the other girl (B).
Girl A never was attracted to me.
Girl B was usually attracted to me.
This pattern repeated itself all too often. "Wow, why is it the hot girls I like never want me, but their ugly friends do?"
Answer: It's not that girl B was ugly, it's that I acted differently with her. Or to be more precise - I acted DIFFERENTLY with girl A. I was just myself with girl B. Do not be the person that acts extra nice because you want something from a girl, just be you. That is what is meant when they say "just be yourself".
(Of course we know you want something from her, but don't let her know that). Her knowing you like her is comforting to her, and gives her a power advantage. Take away that power. (Would you act differently at a job interview if you KNEW ahead of time that the job was yours and the interview was a formality? What if you knew you had 3 job offers? All of a sudden, you are the one making the demands and setting the rules to best suit you, instead of comprising your ideals and taking whatever you can get).
What if you were the interviewer (aka the girl). One candidate was eager and obviously will take/do whatever you give him. The other one acts like he has a few other job offers as well and is looking for the best match for him.
Will you wonder "that guy must be good to have 3 other job offers. He proved his worth to other companies. Why doesn't anybody else want the needy guy? I'm not looking for a desperate 'yes man' to 'fix', I'm looking for someone who will make the company better."
Best of luck bro.
