Yeah, I know what you mean. It's a solution that definitely enlightens you, but it's painful af. Especially it isn't fair to the girl. Like for instance this one, she really cared about me and believed in us, I don't think I'm ever going to find something like this again. So me being doubtful and half committed, wasn't something I could forgive my self doing to her. It's different if you are dealing just with some random bit*h or with wife material.
How old are you? I'm 34, and this is really starting to be a major pain. Letting people in to your life to such a degree and then letting go. I don't think I can do this anymore. How picky should I be. I don't know. I've got pretty high standards as far as emotional maturity goes. And also there is the physical side, me being into fitness and aas, I clearly have very skewed standards in regards to general populy. She wasn't sporty at all and she was my age, and I don't know, am I to vain in saying that I can do much better? Or is the fact that she was totally committed enough ... If I wasn't 34, I wouldn't be thinking about it so much ...