How To Get The Girl- What's Your Issue? Let's Solve it

[Torobestia]

^^^ it sounds like she was blowing you off because she was letting someone else tap it that shes more interested in and she doesnt wanna totally toss you off the shelf just in case the main dude doesn't work out, she still has you as back up, classic... AKA you're getting played! Proceed to next vagina and move faster next time!

Astute observation. Totally missed it.

 

[mikeg313]

Yeah...

You two are probably right. I'll get on that

Sorry to brake it to ya harshly but it's probably true. Females that play that crap aren't worth trying for unless it's for a one night stand or a fuk buddy with no attachment. If she plays games and is shady now imagine down the road in a relationship what you have to look forward too.

 

[jwa254]

Sorry to brake it to ya harshly but it's probably true. Females that play that crap aren't worth trying for unless it's for a one night stand or a fuk buddy with no attachment. If she plays games and is shady now imagine down the road in a relationship what you have to look forward too.

Yeah, I hear ya. Reminds me of one of Chris Rock's bits

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zywIR_ZFLts&feature=player_detailpage#t=60s

 

[drewzx3]

She is the one in control and has been from the start. Men do that exact thing to woman all the time. Sucks, doesn't it?

How can this be avoided and be in control from the get go? I think this is what happens to me all the time.

 

[MuscleGauge1]

Sorry to brake it to ya harshly but it's probably true. Females that play that crap aren't worth trying for unless it's for a one night stand or a fuk buddy with no attachment. If she plays games and is shady now imagine down the road in a relationship what you have to look forward too.

David has consistently proven himself as a "helpful bro" his rep on women seems to really stand for its worth. Listen to the guy. He has been "Hitch-Approved"

 

[mikeg313]

How can this be avoided and be in control from the get go? I think this is what happens to me all the time.

For one thing both people have to be interested in each other as people i.e. sexuality, personality etc. and not so much on superficial bs that ALOT of woman look for as they play the "who can improve my image and make me more desirable for the next man with more money" game. Those are the same women that marry for money and go fuk other men for fun once they hit their 40s.

 

[uknowme62]

Find the woman as stated in the last sentence above. They make for fun times.

 

[OrganicShadow]

That was two weeks ago, and then spring break was last week. I saw her yesterday and she seemed interested in talking. This all seems more than mere coincidences but I want to give her the benefit of the doubt. However, I also don’t want to be naïve and actually think that all of these things are just inconveniently stopping us from going out anymore.

Shes playin you around too much man. I dont deal with that. Drop her. If you make plans and she bails for some crap like "my phone broke" then she clearly didnt feel like putting effort into contacting you by other means. This a thousand (or a few) other girls on campus dont get hung up on one. Even on the off hand chance she is actually into you, dont put up with this - your time is valuable and you dont like playing games. Shell have to shape up.

If I meet a girl and she does that gig one time, just one time. Its over and Im on to the next one.

 

[mikeg313]

Find the woman as stated in the last sentence above. They make for fun times.

Exactly! 40 yr old rich bitches with fake tits and nice pampered bodies that just wanna get hammered by a guy that isnt their husband. I've had many of those , theirs even a bar in SoCal on the PCH known for having those types. Last one out their for me was an 38 yr old ex flight attendant for the lakers built like a porn star that her husband didnt fuk enough. Super hot except for alil too much Botox in the eyebrows. They fuk like they mean it cus they know what they want since they don't get it at home so you can get as freaky as you want ;-)

 

[PowerliftNY]

There is prob no answer to my prob but i'll throw it out there just for the hell of it... I'm a good guy, treat a woman right, when i was younger i had no problem with women at all... I'm a decent looking fella work out in good shape, but i'm on disability have some health problems nothing life threatening of physically alternating but enough to make my life difficult for me and keep me broke 99% of the time. I've been alone for the past 6 years and its starting to ware on me a little i'm 33 and it just sucks. I know most women want money, security and that kind of stuff things i just don't have but there got to be some girls out there that just like you for you but GOD knows how to find them and get past the horrible getting to know you part when your presenting a picture of yourself that looks rather dim... There's a lot about me that good, but on the surface things just don't' look very i guess you could say prospectful in my life how do i get past that where i might be able to at least find some sort of companionship. If you got an answer for this one damn you good LMAO

 

[B5150]

There is prob no answer to my prob but i'll throw it out there just for the hell of it... I'm a good guy, treat a woman right, when i was younger i had no problem with women at all... I'm a decent looking fella work out in good shape, but i'm on disability have some health problems nothing life threatening of physically alternating but enough to make my life difficult for me and keep me broke 99% of the time. I've been alone for the past 6 years and its starting to ware on me a little i'm 33 and it just sucks. I know most women want money, security and that kind of stuff things i just don't have but there got to be some girls out there that just like you for you but GOD knows how to find them and get past the horrible getting to know you part when your presenting a picture of yourself that looks rather dim... There's a lot about me that good, but on the surface things just don't' look very i guess you could say prospectful in my life how do i get past that where i might be able to at least find some sort of companionship. If you got an answer for this one damn you good LMAO

Yes, GOD knows how to find you a good woman. Do you want GOD'S help in finding you a good woman or do you want men who just want to bang a woman to tell you?

Find your local church. Attend your local church. Sincerely seek God's puprose for your life. Seek out other people who are also seeking out God's purpose for their lives. That is the best opportunity to find a woman of true character and beauty. A woman who loves Jesus is a woman who knows what a real man is. A man who loves Jesus will know how to love a real woman. Anything less is...just that...a lot less.

 

[UKNoko]

I can sense a tiny bit of sarcasm here.

Women like drama (think: soaps, reality shows, celebrity gossip) and good phucking. Money, security? Nah. Playfulness, dominance, sexual confidence and bad boy character. Bring excitement in her life and phuck her brains out. Rest is history.

Those into religion can be wicked when you get their repressed side out.

 

[B5150]

I can sense a tiny bit of sarcasm here.

Women like drama (think: soaps, reality shows, celebrity gossip) and good phucking. Money, security? Nah. Playfulness, dominance, sexual confidence and bad boy character. Bring excitement in her life and phuck her brains out. Rest is history.

Those into religion can be wicked when you get their repressed side out.

There is no sarcasm on my part. Worldy and ungodly woman, just like men, give in to and satisfy their lusts for all that you mentioned. If that is what you aspire to for a relationship have at it.

There are Godly woman who are just as exciting, thrilling, and are a great phuck without being carnal and conusmed by lusts. I happen to be married to one. It's not about religeon and it certainly is not a repressed side either. It is brought on by a Godly love for my wife that inspires her to love me emotionally and physically the way God intended...as hot or hotter than any worldy lust I have ever experienced.

PowerliftNY - I was sincere in my statement. Seek to fulfill your heart and the rest will follow.

 

[Whacked]

AMEN BRO!

Yes, GOD knows how to find you a good woman. Do you want GOD'S help in finding you a good woman or do you want men who just want to bang a woman to tell you?

Find your local church. Attend your local church. Sincerely seek God's puprose for your life. Seek out other people who are also seeking out God's purpose for their lives. That is the best opportunity to find a woman of true character and beauty. A woman who loves Jesus is a woman who knows what a real man is. A man who loves Jesus will know how to love a real woman. Anything less is...just that...a lot less.

 

[UKNoko]

Each to their own, I guess. I am glad you have found what you were looking for.

 

[MuscleGauge1]

There is no sarcasm on my part. Worldy and ungodly woman, just like men, give in to and satisfy their lusts for all that you mentioned. If that is what you aspire to for a relationship have at it.

There are Godly woman who are just as exciting, thrilling, and are a great phuck without being carnal and conusmed by lusts. I happen to be married to one. It's not about religeon and it certainly is not a repressed side either. It is brought on by a Godly love for my wife that inspires her to love me emotionally and physically the way God intended...as hot or hotter than any worldy lust I have ever experienced.

PowerliftNY - I was sincere in my statement. Seek to fulfill your heart and the rest will follow.

Well said sir. Well said

AMEN BRO!

Second that

 

[mikeg313]

Not to crash on what david said but i have to slightly disagree. Im sure if you're the religious type then that's a great way to go to find a match. Although I have a couple friends (catholic and a orthodox Jew) that went that way and it went bad. One female became an abusive bitch and the other a cheating whore. So I don't think it can be singled down to finding a women through religion as much as it is more of finding a women who holds the same moral values as yourself because wolves can hide among sheep and mask themselves well.

My wife an l were partiers big time back in the day and known each other since our teens but didn't find each other in love and perfect matches till 15 years later when we reconnected both after having failed marriages with the wrong people. Now we have a beautiful son and meet on every level. Neither of us were raised with religion yet we both believe in a higher being and strong family principles have a "golden rule" mindset towards others. So I think true love can be found anywhere and cannot be singled down to one environment. It's more a question of moral values and what you want outa life

 

[B5150]

Not to crash on what david said but i have to slightly disagree. Im sure if you're the religious type then that's a great way to go to find a match. Although I have a couple friends (catholic and a orthodox Jew) that went that way and it went bad. One female became an abusive bitch and the other a cheating whore. So I don't think it can be singled down to finding a women through religion as much as it is more of finding a women who holds the same moral values as yourself because wolves can hide among sheep and mask themselves well.

My wife an l were partiers big time back in the day and known each other since our teens but didn't find each other in love and perfect matches till 15 years later when we reconnected both after having failed marriages with the wrong people. Now we have a beautiful son and meet on every level. Neither of us were raised with religion yet we both believe in a higher being and strong family principles have a "golden rule" mindset towards others. So I think true love can be found anywhere and cannot be singled down to one environment. It's more a question of moral values and what you want outa life

Religeon gets unfairly blamed for man's behaviors. Always has always will. Man ruins religeon not God. Your point is very valid. Point was that it can increase the likelihood of someone finding equal values.

 

[mikeg313]

Religeon gets unfairly blamed for man's behaviors. Always has always will. Man ruins religeon not God. Your point is very valid. Point was that it can increase the likelihood of someone finding equal values.

True

 

[CEDeoudes59]

Back in late 2009- I hit on 100 attractive women in Los Angeles using what I called 'average guy' game...
Compliment them (to express sexual interest), small talk, ask for their number (3-5 minutes total, IN and OUT)
then follow up with a more 'sexual' text, the ones that answered - i'd call the m ASAP and arrange to meet up
that was the blueprint

View attachment 54695
Picture is from 'The Grove', that was one of the main spots

About the 'social experiment' and the results-
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2011/12/23/getting-women-is-a-numbers-game-the-odds-are-in-your-favor/

 

[Conagher]

I get flirt messages from an anonymous email source.The names they go by are skinnybitch,timetocry,needthetruth2,krzy4ubaby,and caring4u123.Is it just me or are those strange nicknames to call ones self?

 

[UKNoko]

spam?

 

[Conagher]

spam?

Possibly.They originate from a dating site called True.com.I get a lot of phone calls with name withheld,also.When I answer,they just hang up.Gets annoying

 

[UKNoko]

Organised Stalking dot com ;-) Probably not much you can do.

 

[kokobeware2]

I get flirt messages from an anonymous email source.The names they go by are skinnybitch,timetocry,needthetruth2,krzy4ubaby,and caring4u123.Is it just me or are those strange nicknames to call ones self?

I was hoping you weren't gonna post all my other usernames but that's fine. I can take a hint

 

[Whacked]

lolol

:laughing:

I was hoping you weren't gonna post all my other usernames but that's fine. I can take a hint

 

[pyrobatt]

My last gf allmost burned my building down. What do I do to stop attracting crazys?

 

[Conagher]

I was hoping you weren't gonna post all my other usernames but that's fine. I can take a hint

Lol!Repped.

 

[Conagher]

My last gf allmost burned my building down. What do I do to stop attracting crazys?

Some one let me in on that secret,also.I have had a life time of crazy women.

 

[Jasen]

My cousins wife was a heavy religious women, yet was also an extremely bad marriage on her part at end she cheated as well. Imo religion makes no different you just have to find a woman with a good heart raised by caring family. Some of the craziest girls i dated were women of religion.... just saying. Look for a good hearted woman and don't go to bars or clubs looking for a wife

 

[Conagher]

My cousins wife was a heavy religious women, yet was also an extremely bad marriage on her part at end she cheated as well. Imo religion makes no different you just have to find a woman with a good heart raised by caring family. Some of the craziest girls i dated were women of religion.... just saying. Look for a good hearted woman and don't go to bars or clubs looking for a wife

I have to agree on religious women.Very strange people.

 

[kingk0ng]

Religeon gets unfairly blamed for man's behaviors. Always has always will. Man ruins religeon not God. Your point is very valid. Point was that it can increase the likelihood of someone finding equal values.

You are a great advice giver. I second everything you have said.

I have been surrounded by a religious family all my life. My grandfather has always been a preacher and very respected one at that. I met God half way when I was in the military. My wife and I were baptized holding hands. Our religion has kept both of us sane during some awfully terrible times in our relationship. We have only been married for close to a year, but we've been in a relationship for the longest time.

Most girls that like drama aren't worth the relationship troubles. I have a little cousin that is like this. She is jealous severly of my wife and tries to give us a hard time about it. We hear other people tell us how bad she talks about us and how she thinks "nobody better not mess with her". Her immaturity actually saddens me. My wife and I will be happy together regardless of her approval. People sigh at her stupidity and she doesn't even know it. It's a trait she picked up from her mother.

My wife's father won't have anything to do with her nor her mother. My family is basically her family now. Her dad goes out and buys his nephew everything in the world and has never bought for our son. Her mother has seen her three times in 12 years. Her mother has spoke to her probably 5 times in 12 years. It's actually pretty sad, but her family isn't religious at all. I'm not saying all families that aren't religious are like this, but I do believe if they have GOD in their life they would be much better off.

I'm sorry for the vent. I've been under so much stress lately. My little cousin and my wife's side of the family has driven me pretty crazy. I haven't talked to anyone about it and I guess I just kept rambling...

 

[MuscleGauge1]

David D is on point. Please continue sir....

 

[Conagher]

I have only known one Christian girl who was actually a good person.She has been married to the same man for 20 years now.She knows I am going through a rough period in my life and she checks in on me every few days to see how I am doing.All the other so called Christian women I was involved with are ****.They care about no one but themselves.

 

[kingk0ng]

I have only known one Christian girl who was actually a good person.She has been married to the same man for 20 years now.She knows I am going through a rough period in my life and she checks in on me every few days to see how I am doing.All the other so called Christian women I was involved with are ****.They care about no one but themselves.

Being Christians didn't make them that way.

We can't blame God or our religion for our mistakes.

 

[bigdavid]

Being Christians didn't make them that way.

We can't blame God or our religion for our mistakes.

I don't think he was blaming Christianity. He is just saying that because a girl claims to be Christian does not necessarily make her a good person.

 

[kingk0ng]

I don't think he was blaming Christianity. He is just saying that because a girl claims to be Christian does not necessarily make her a good person.

OK. Yeah, I could definitely agree with that.

 

[UKNoko]

Christians are still humans, whatever some want to believe ;-)
One problem Christianity has is that it's moral view is opposing what our society and media impose. Leading some people into being torn between what their religion is programming them with and what the culture's programming is.
Of course, I'm not saying that objectively one is better than the other.

 

[Conagher]

I don't think he was blaming Christianity. He is just saying that because a girl claims to be Christian does not necessarily make her a good person.

Yep,not blaming Christianity or God in the least.Just despise those people who call themselves Christians but do not adhere to the teachings of the Bible.Most people I have ever know use it as a tool to fill their own selfish needs.The last Christian girl who came into my life took hypocrisy to a whole new level.She lurks this board and knows I am talking about her,so maybe she will reflect upon her actions and come to realize she acted and behaved in a less than Godly manner.

 

[B5150]

Christians are still humans, whatever some want to believe ;-)
One problem Christianity has is that it's moral view is opposing what our society and media impose. Leading some people to being torn between what their religion is programming them with and what the culture's programming is.
Of course, I'm not saying that objectively one is better than the other.

I believe you may have that backwards.

One problem that our society has is that it's moral view is opposing to our Christian Faith.

"But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.”

"We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ."

 

[kingk0ng]

I believe you may have that backwards.

One problem that our society has is that it's moral view is opposing to our Christian Faith.

"But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.”

"We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ."

That's exactly what I was going to say. In bold is what is true.

Are you a priest?

 

[UKNoko]

Yes, I may have it backwards It's my choice.
Not making such choice in one of the directions screws people heads. I believe one can't have both of the worlds the same time and stay sane.

EDIT: After all, it says further on:

"You are not able to serve the LORD. He is a holy God; he is a jealous God. He will not forgive your rebellion and your sins. If you forsake the LORD and serve foreign gods, he will turn and bring disaster on you and make an end of you, after he has been good to you."

I believe you may have that backwards.

One problem that our society has is that it's moral view is opposing what our Christian Faith imposes.

"But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD."

"We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ."

 

[B5150]

Are you a priest?

No!

 

[kingk0ng]

No!

Sorry. I saw the robe in your avatar and I assumed. Anyway, God bless you brother.

 

[B5150]

Sorry. I saw the robe in your avatar and I assumed. Anyway, God bless you brother.

Its a rain poncho.

http://anabolicminds.com/forum/general-chat/142902-introducing-david-dunn.html

 

[B5150]

Yes, I may have it backwards It's my choice.
Not making such choice in one of the directions screws people heads. I believe one can't have both of the worlds the same time and stay sane.

EDIT: After all, it says further on:

"You are not able to serve the LORD. He is a holy God; he is a jealous God. He will not forgive your rebellion and your sins. If you forsake the LORD and serve foreign gods, he will turn and bring disaster on you and make an end of you, after he has been good to you."

"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God."

 

[UKNoko]

"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God."

"Without Contraries is no progression. Attraction and Repulsion, Reason and Energy, Love and Hate, are necessary to Human existence. From these contraries spring what the religious call Good & Evil. Good is the passive that obeys Reason. Evil is the active springing from Energy. Good is Heaven. Evil is Hell.

All Bibles or sacred codes have been the causes of the following Errors.

1. That Man has two real existing principles Viz: a Body & a Soul. 2. That Energy, call'd Evil, is alone from the Body, & that Reason, call'd Good, is alone from the Soul. 3. That God will torment Man in Eternity for following his Energies."

 

[MuscleGauge1]

Its a rain poncho.

http://anabolicminds.com/forum/general-chat/142902-introducing-david-dunn.html

I want a rai poncho! LOL Didn't know if you wear a black one that they could look so mysterious. The tale of the mysterious poncho lives on.

 

[UKNoko]

I want a rai poncho! LOL Didn't know if you wear a black one that they could look so mysterious. The tale of the mysterious poncho lives on.

A truly bad ass look!

 

[Whacked]

Epic Exhange! LOLOLOL

Good stuff fellas

Are you a priest?

No!

Sorry. I saw the robe in your avatar and I assumed.

Its a rain poncho.