How To Get The Girl- What's Your Issue? Let's Solve it

[T-AD]

I'm open minded

I'm not gay.

 

[AaronJP1]

I'm not gay.

Keep bustin me up huh? lol

:FUFinger:

 

[Young Gotti]

treat a beotch like 7up, i never have i never will

 

[mikeg313]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06f67ru5tCI

She really knows how to handle some wood pressed against her chin ;-)

 

[AaronJP1]

She really knows how to handle some wood pressed against her chin ;-)

Don't have a heart attack old man...

 

[mikeg313]

Don't have a heart attack old man...

Lol! touché!

 

[taman6886]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06f67ru5tCI

Love the Viola, but the accompaniment is just a bit to techno for me.

 

[ManBeast]

it *is* dubstep....

 

[taman6886]

it *is* dubstep....

I have no idea what that means so the intended nuance is outside of my realm good Sir.

 

[mikeg313]

Dubstep is garbage don't worry bout it. It's trashy techno for pill poppers and meth heads lol.

 

[hvactech]

I have no idea what that means so the intended nuance is outside of my realm good Sir.

oh no you didnt!

 

[taman6886]

Dubstep is garbage don't worry bout it. It's trashy techno for pill poppers and meth heads lol.

That just further strengthens my original point, as I loathe Techno.

 

[taman6886]

oh no you didnt!

Yes, Yes I did. Dude, long time metal head and hard rockin' man here. So, uhm yeah

 

[hvactech]

never got into metal....atreyu, trivium, and senses fail are as "heavy" as i go..

 

[hvactech]

That just further strengthens my original point, as I loathe Techno.

there are too many techno spin offs, i listen to breakbeat but mostly 80's music

 

[taman6886]

never got into metal....atreyu, trivium, and senses fail are as "heavy" as i go..

That's cool man. Whatever "gets it" for you. I don't slam peeps just because I may have different preferrences.

 

[ManBeast]

I'm eclectic but lean mostly towards metal and its various over-classified subgenres, but I appreciate many things that aren't pop-manufactured-garbage.

 

[mikeg313]

Growin up in Detroit techno was all around and still is. As a teen my 3 main genres were punk rock, techno (acid house, ambient, jungle) and hip hop.
I love all music done well but nowadays It's usually Jazz, punk, hardcore and classic rock and acoustic guitar anything and the occasional 90s hip hop underground favorites. I'll sometimes through some ambient or downtempo on as well, calms me while driving.

 

[steppinRazor]

Dubstep is garbage don't worry bout it. It's trashy techno for pill poppers and meth heads lol.

got my finger on the neg button and its itchin,..

 

[mikeg313]

got my finger on the neg button and its itchin,..

Lol, last place I bartended at downtown had Dubstep sat nights ran by one of my buddies I grew up in the party scene with in the early/mid 90s. I couldn't stand it and even he would joke that hed rather play the old shît but kids nowadays just get all pilled and kranked out and jump around to that stuff. Was the truth, bouncers would always have tons of that crap they ran kids for at the end of the night. Neg me once , shame on me... Neg me twice, shame on me again! ;-)

 

[steppinRazor]

hahaha yeah no doubt theres some heavy drug use going on in that scene - and thats also prob the reason i can appreciate them chunes, i useto be into that type a shît. bottom line is dubstep is dope as fuĆk. drugs or not. wanna go beast mode in the gym crank up some flux, feed me, noisia, doctor p, dodge and fuski, knife party...list goes on brotha

 

[mikeg313]

hahaha yeah no doubt theres some heavy drug use going on in that scene - and thats also prob the reason i can appreciate them chunes, i useto be into that type a shît. bottom line is dubstep is dope as fu?k. drugs or not. wanna go beast mode in the gym crank up some flux, feed me, noisia, doctor p, dodge and fuski, knife party...list goes on brotha

Try some blood for blood , stigma, agnostic front or terror. Wanna get your blood pumpin? I promise ya.

 

[methusaleh]

Try some blood for blood , stigma, agnostic front or terror. Wanna get your blood pumpin? I promise ya.

Finally someone with a good taste in music!

I never labeled myself as "straightedge", but don't forget Judge, YOT, DYS, Slapshot, SSD, Bold, etc...that's what I grew up with and still mainly listen to.

 

[taman6886]

Try some blood for blood , stigma, agnostic front or terror. Wanna get your blood pumpin? I promise ya.

I go 80's Iron Maiden, Megadeth, Judas Priest, Ozzy (Randy Rhodes era), Ronnie James Dio, AC/DC, Tesla and when I want to chill it a bit, Stevie Ray Vaughn.

 

[mikeg313]

Finally someone with a good taste in music!

I never labeled myself as "straightedge", but don't forget Judge, YOT, DYS, Slapshot, SSD, Bold, etc...that's what I grew up with and still mainly listen to.

Yeah I could give a shît about the straight edge *******s , they can shove their preachy self righteous agenda right up their àsses but I like hardcore music. Kinda took punk rock a different way when it didnt really have any other way to go imo... Funny that every straight edge kid that I knew back in the early/mid 90s all ended up pretty heavy in drugs sooner or later. Some pulled out and cleaned back up, some leveled out to normal social pot smoker drinking types but a couple I knew well went down with heroin REAL bad and one in particular I'm not sure if he's still alive but doubt it. I guess that what happens to people with no self control that bind themselves from normal social substance experimentation while growing up by substituting personal self control by way of bull?hit scene ethics and let everyone around them do their thinking for them. Nice X tats on your hand as?hole! What kind of beer you drinking? Lol

 

[B5150]

I go 80's Iron Maiden, Megadeth, Judas Priest, Ozzy (Randy Rhodes era), Ronnie James Dio, .....

http://anabolicminds.com/forum/general-chat/28287-old-school-metal.html

 

[NuclearLaunch]

Don't have a heart attack old man...

Oh ****. He went there.

 

[AaronJP1]

Oh ****. He went there.

I know him so we good.

 

[NuclearLaunch]

I know him so we good.

I loled at it anyway.

 

[MuscleGauge1]

Okay Enough music talk...LOL Back to the real topic. Scoring with the women(in multiple ways) whether it be with a second date, pleasure, company, etc. These conversations are the ones that save you. Nothing like getting the "wrong advice" from a friend and it backfiring on you. I'm trying to save some lives here. What worse than being in the "Friend Zone"??? Rejection.....And not being in a "Zone" at all. Let's stick to the plan.

Ok so you if you do that should the attraction come back?

This is a little unclear but I think you mean "Okay so if you do that should the attraction come back?"
"Should" is the key word. If you don't pay her a ton of attention IF there is any attraction it "should" come back. It all depends IF she is feeling you or not. I wouldn't worry about that too much. Law of attraction states you get everything you deserve. So over time, if you just continue to play your cards right, they will fall in your favor eventually. That's the key to success, Consistency my friend Consistency. Think about a relationship. You do all the nice stuff in the beginning.
1.Open the door
2.Shower with gifts
3.Go all out on special occassions holidays birthdays etc.
What do women complain about first....All the THINGS you used to do (Not consistent)
1.No more opening Doors
2.No more surprise gifts
3.Birthdays are "chores" now and not the same as they "Used" to be....
Key to that "TAKE YOUR TIME" Don't do it ALL in the beginning. Make your girl/woman build some credit. Start with a MEANINGFUL inexpensive(not cheap, there's a difference) gift FIRST

WHY?
Because if she turns out to be a DUD, you don't cry in the end. You feel good that you didn't go "ALL OUT" you feel relieved that she told on herself early. Make her WANT things and build up some credit. IT will save you the speech in the long run about "Missing The Consistency"

What's the club tips? I do alright some days, and strike out others, so what's the full proof plan?

Club Tips. I have published my TOP TEN LIST Titled "How To Get A Girl in 30Days"
on my friends site Check out the link http://wwww.skinnybuddha.com

Or Directly at http://www.skinnybuddha.com/content/romance-blog-how-get-girl-30-days-codytigre

Let me know what you think! Here's #1 Just to give you a sneak PEEK

How To Get A Girl In 30Days-SNEAK PEEK
Intro:

Men,
There is no such thing as a “perfect” line or a “perfect strategy” but I tell you what. There are a LIST, a LONG LIST of things NOT to do in a club to get a girl.

1. Remember its not about the number, women have the power to ignore your calls or give you the dry cleaners next door when it comes to giving out their number. Even if you get the number, you can’t all of a sudden be pissed when she finishes the drink YOU bought her and you see her giving out the same number to another male in the club. It’s all fair game. Keep your cool.

In 4 da bullish!t

LOL Thanks for joining the b.s. Stay a while you might learn something to help you along your journey of slaying girls that are DTF. lol

That depends on how you do it man. You are in the game. What he is saying is don't spoil them with attention, I agree. Let them know you aren't just their best friend that way, don't just say it.

Totally agree. REPPED

wrap it with a $20?

LOL That was my idea. Just make sure you do a Chris Angel and Slip the bill back in your pocket after. LOL I call it the "Instant Rebate Move"

I'll teach y'all how to get a slut to sick ya duck...

Wow....What an accomplishment

I read that probably 5 times before I understood what you were saying. I kept thinking you were the one doing the "sicking". Then I saw the word "duck" and was laughed a bit. And then I finally got it.

Dude. English. It's nice.

LOL I read it 10 Times, so I feel 50% Better now. Thanks

I gotta remember my audience lmao....

You guys gotta listen to a little more rap/hip hop hahaha...



:cheers:

Speaking english and listening to rap/hip hop have nothing to do with each other. But I'll let you continue

 

[AaronJP1]

Okay Enough music talk...LOL Back to the real topic. Scoring with the women(in multiple ways) whether it be with a second date, pleasure, company, etc. These conversations are the ones that save you. Nothing like getting the "wrong advice" from a friend and it backfiring on you. I'm trying to save some lives here. What worse than being in the "Friend Zone"??? Rejection.....And not being in a "Zone" at all. Let's stick to the plan.

This is a little unclear but I think you mean "Okay so if you do that should the attraction come back?"
"Should" is the key word. If you don't pay her a ton of attention IF there is any attraction it "should" come back. It all depends IF she is feeling you or not. I wouldn't worry about that too much. Law of attraction states you get everything you deserve. So over time, if you just continue to play your cards right, they will fall in your favor eventually. That's the key to success, Consistency my friend Consistency. Think about a relationship. You do all the nice stuff in the beginning.
1.Open the door
2.Shower with gifts
3.Go all out on special occassions holidays birthdays etc.
What do women complain about first....All the THINGS you used to do (Not consistent)
1.No more opening Doors
2.No more surprise gifts
3.Birthdays are "chores" now and not the same as they "Used" to be....
Key to that "TAKE YOUR TIME" Don't do it ALL in the beginning. Make your girl/woman build some credit. Start with a MEANINGFUL inexpensive(not cheap, there's a difference) gift FIRST

WHY?
Because if she turns out to be a DUD, you don't cry in the end. You feel good that you didn't go "ALL OUT" you feel relieved that she told on herself early. Make her WANT things and build up some credit. IT will save you the speech in the long run about "Missing The Consistency"

Club Tips. I have published my TOP TEN LIST Titled "How To Get A Girl in 30Days"
on my friends site Check out the link http://wwww.skinnybuddha.com

Or Directly at http://www.skinnybuddha.com/content/romance-blog-how-get-girl-30-days-codytigre

Let me know what you think! Here's #1 Just to give you a sneak PEEK

How To Get A Girl In 30Days-SNEAK PEEK
Intro:

Men,
There is no such thing as a "perfect" line or a "perfect strategy" but I tell you what. There are a LIST, a LONG LIST of things NOT to do in a club to get a girl.

1. Remember its not about the number, women have the power to ignore your calls or give you the dry cleaners next door when it comes to giving out their number. Even if you get the number, you can't all of a sudden be pissed when she finishes the drink YOU bought her and you see her giving out the same number to another male in the club. It's all fair game. Keep your cool.

LOL Thanks for joining the b.s. Stay a while you might learn something to help you along your journey of slaying girls that are DTF. lol

Totally agree. REPPED

LOL That was my idea. Just make sure you do a Chris Angel and Slip the bill back in your pocket after. LOL I call it the "Instant Rebate Move"

Wow....What an accomplishment

LOL I read it 10 Times, so I feel 50% Better now. Thanks

Speaking english and listening to rap/hip hop have nothing to do with each other. But I'll let you continue

Guess I should feel special since you quoted 3 or so of my post ...

Either way since you're here, free protein for all? Might as well make yourself useful, I'm just saying....

 

[Jordinator]

My girlfriend and I just broke up today. Any advice for getting over it?

 

[AaronJP1]

My girlfriend and I just broke up today. Any advice for getting over it?

Find something that makes u happy, like for me it's riding my motorcycle and do that to take your mind off of it.

 

[kingdong]

Punk rock chick(not emo, but a real punker)

Girl who makes twice as much as me, and is lookin for a dude with more money

 

[MuscleGauge1]

My girlfriend and I just broke up today. Any advice for getting over it?

Sure,
Consider it her lose not yours. First and foremost, value your time and yourself more. Self-Empowerment. You are YOU with or without a relationship so be proud of that. Go to the gym and TEAR IT UP. Great motivational tool. Take care of your body! Don't revert to alcohol or bad habits, turn it to a positive. What's your fitness goal? Any spring/summer body goals you have? Go for those! Take each day by the horns and daily dedicate yourself to looking your best.
Feeling your best. Contact your friends again. They probably hated you since you were in a relationship. By friends I mean rely on your SINGLE Friends. She probably took A LOT of time away from the fellas so round back up with them and have a great night out. Check out a club or nightscene. Catch a movie with the boys whatever you LOVE to do that always makes you smile, go DO IT! Don't sit in the house and wait for a text or phone call. GET UP AND GO! Get with your boys and get back social again. That's the fun part.
STAY AWAY FROM SOFT ROCK AND R + B. CHANGE YOUR TUNES. CRANK IT UP! PLAY THE FUN STUFF ON YOUR IPOD
-Music sets the tone in a good way and a bad way. So take the high road and play the high tunes that keep your head banging(not too hard) and in a fun way!

Start there bro and let me know how it goes,
If you have anything else send me another post. I got your back

Your Welcome

 

[MuscleGauge1]

Find something that makes u happy, like for me it's riding my motorcycle and do that to take your mind off of it.

I agree with this conceptually but not fully. Ride the motorcycle because it makes you happy yes, but don't ride it to "take your mind off of it" I don't like avoidance. I think if you mentally put a thought in your head that your "doing something to keep your mind off of it" you'll think about it more and more sub-conciously. So I say Ride the bike because you LOVE Riding the bike and keep it at that. Do things you LOVE because YOU LOVE THEM stick to this because your head plays enough tricks, you always want to have control over your brain. Then you won't get tripped up. Just a little trick I use. Keeps things simple. Do what you love because you love it and leave the rest alone! ;-)

 

[ManBeast]

go out and f*ck her friends

 

[NuclearLaunch]

Sure,
Consider it her lose not yours. First and foremost, value your time and yourself more. Self-Empowerment. You are YOU with or without a relationship so be proud of that. Go to the gym and TEAR IT UP. Great motivational tool. Take care of your body! Don't revert to alcohol or bad habits, turn it to a positive. What's your fitness goal? Any spring/summer body goals you have? Go for those! Take each day by the horns and daily dedicate yourself to looking your best.
Feeling your best. Contact your friends again. They probably hated you since you were in a relationship. By friends I mean rely on your SINGLE Friends. She probably took A LOT of time away from the fellas so round back up with them and have a great night out. Check out a club or nightscene. Catch a movie with the boys whatever you LOVE to do that always makes you smile, go DO IT! Don't sit in the house and wait for a text or phone call. GET UP AND GO! Get with your boys and get back social again. That's the fun part.
STAY AWAY FROM SOFT ROCK AND R + B. CHANGE YOUR TUNES. CRANK IT UP! PLAY THE FUN STUFF ON YOUR IPOD
-Music sets the tone in a good way and a bad way. So take the high road and play the high tunes that keep your head banging(not too hard) and in a fun way!

Start there bro and let me know how it goes,
If you have anything else send me another post. I got your back

Your Welcome

I'm going throw the seams thing. Found me a new woman that looks like Jessica alba. She is awesome. Keep your options open man. Don't go looking for anything. Awesome advice here. I saved my ex's number as Do Not Text. Just a constant reminder. I have been with we since 7th grade, she decided she wanted a new guy, and now she is throwing her life away. In the end I'll be happy, she will be terrible, but you make the bed you lay in. I'm focusing on the new girl, time with me boys, and the gym. Keep on killing it. Working out does more for you than strength, it motivates, makes you happy, and is just all around great. Sorry though, I know it sucks to go through this but the quoted post is the most solid advice you will get.

 

[OrganicShadow]

The good: I am decently attractive, VERY outgoing and open, good confidence, respond well to others energy, and my butt is f*cking fantastic. Like really, I should model this thing.

The bad: I am not a "kind" person, yes I am a nice and considerate to friends but not outsiders. Im also not that romantic as a consequence of the first. What can I do or keep in mind when trying to be more warm with people Ive recently met?

What if I just dress like this at parades?

 

[uknowme62]

Idk if its a secret but sarcastic humor has always worked for me. Oh and the general not caring if she says yes or no, its just a woman. Plenty were made for our enjoyment.

 

[OrganicShadow]

Idk if its a secret but sarcastic humor has always worked for me.

The sarcastic/edgy ability of females is far greater than mans so I find its a pretty easy way to connect in humor. Although, to me, its not the best form of humor.

 

[MuscleGauge1]

Idk if its a secret but sarcastic humor has always worked for me. Oh and the general not caring if she says yes or no, its just a woman. Plenty were made for our enjoyment.

I would actually stay away from "sarcastic" humor. I'll tell you why. When it comes to women, they do enough mental gymnastics in their own head you don't want to TRICK them into something that isn't really there. They are like when your mom goes into your room and you 16 and swears there's a dubie under your pillow or condoms in the drawer. Even if you are NOT guilty your guilty so don't plant evidence. Evidence would be being "sarcastic" women don't know what to do with sarcasm. They may ACT like it's funny in front of you but please believe it IS JUST A FRONT. They may actually think later alone, or to a friend "guess what this guy told me" And before you know it there are emotions fluttering around and your not a "funny guy" your an *******. Be careful with sarcasm because even when it may be funny, it could make the woman uncomfortable and you could get the RING. you know the ongoing ring....usually followed by a recording that sounds like this "You Call Has Been Forwarded To An Automated Voice Messaging System INSERT GIRL WHO DOESN'T UNDERSTAND SARCASM'S NUMBER HERE"

"Light" Genuine humor is fine. If your going to be someone then BE THEM. don't TRY TO BE. Sarcasm implies effort to "try" to be funny. Don't TRY JUST BE. Quote "Stop Trying To Hit Me and JUST HIT ME"
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Destiny is all about Being You and Succeeding. Don't EVER get a girl based on what I say. Get the girl based on how you get girls. Just tap into what WORKS. When it works, write it down, when it doesn't WRITE IT DOWN over time you will notice YOUR qualities that work and that is YOU. You want to be "You" not the Dos XX or Jose Cuervo Guy. Just be YOU because you will feel less pressure to "try" so much. Trying is what gets you into trouble. Just like "Sarcasm" would be "trying" to make a person laugh. Either your funny or your not!

The good: I am decently attractive, VERY outgoing and open, good confidence, respond well to others energy, and my butt is f*cking fantastic. Like really, I should model this thing.

The bad: I am not a "kind" person, yes I am a nice and considerate to friends but not outsiders. Im also not that romantic as a consequence of the first. What can I do or keep in mind when trying to be more warm with people Ive recently met?

What if I just dress like this at parades?
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I wouldn't dress like that even if I was Andre 3000 or Charles Manson. LOL But when it comes to warming up to people First and foremost. Who are you? If you know who you are you can work on that. If your not a warm person tap into why...There are always reasons why people are who they are. When the shy girls says "no no no I don't want alcohol" Damn it Listen to her. She might be a raging alcoholic and she tried to tell you she pukes and doesn't Rally very well. Video

Biggest way to score in the warm up zone? Listen.
Listening and Responding is a lost art in relationships and something that women point out that men "never do" Your not listening when you have a headset on and your "gaming" and trying to shoot someone and talking to your girl on speakerphone. Your not listening during the superbowl and your sure as hell not listening while your waiting for her to take off her clothes to have sex with you. Listen to her. She will tell you everything you need to know about her. Look at my previous post about the "first date re-do" I go over how far "listening" got me. Here is a cool top ten list of things NOT to do in a club setting also. Here's a sneak preview,

Number 8- Calling
Calling- Remember if there is no deal closed that night, there is no deal. Don’t expect a girl to remember you out of the random guys she met that night. Best way to be remembered is changing environments. Get some food after the club, check out an after-spot(a legit one, not your house) or set up a date for later that week. A “daytime” date is a must, you want to make sure you see her in the light because makeup and Bebe Dresses change things!! Make it a chill place that’s not typical. Think like a small French café with good desserts and gelato not just “Starbucks” everyone has been there. Know your area

Let me know if this helps you at all and ask anything else along the way. I'm here

 

[uknowme62]

Wow you put a lot of thought into this. I didn't mean sarcasam as being a prick. You deftnly have a lot of info though, thanks.

 

[MuscleGauge1]

Wow you put a lot of thought into this. I didn't mean sarcasam as being a prick. You deftnly have a lot of info though, thanks.

I spent a decade chasing women and have learned many lessons. A lot of these lessons I want my peers to avoid at all costs. You have no idea what a decade of chasing can do. Now I don't chase. I just "Am" I just "Be" The Law of Attraction. Good things come to those who believe they are meant to be theirs. Own your personality own yourself and give the rights to that to no one. Self-Empowerment. Men are becoming weaker daily. Time to listen more and talk less. We can all help each other. I do put a lot of thought into this because women still think more and a lot of their thoughts are unnecessary but unfortunately they affect US daily! We can't be affected we must just be injected. Injected with knowledge. I'm going to open a store for inspiring pimps and pimp C's cant sell them dreams but the inspiration is free. Stick around I guarantee you will learn at least a thing. If not two...

 

[NuclearLaunch]

I spent a decade chasing women and have learned many lessons. A lot of these lessons I want my peers to avoid at all costs. You have no idea what a decade of chasing can do. Now I don't chase. I just "Am" I just "Be" The Law of Attraction. Good things come to those who believe they are meant to be theirs. Own your personality own yourself and give the rights to that to no one. Self-Empowerment. Men are becoming weaker daily. Time to listen more and talk less. We can all help each other. I do put a lot of thought into this because women still think more and a lot of their thoughts are unnecessary but unfortunately they affect US daily! We can't be affected we must just be injected. Injected with knowledge. I'm going to open a store for inspiring pimps and pimp C's cant sell them dreams but the inspiration is free. Stick around I guarantee you will learn at least a thing. If not two...

Congratulations, you are now my signature. Providing I can figure out how to put a quote in my sig. Anyone know?

 

[Tomahawk88]

I will sub. Pretty sure I am broken beyond repair so I will just watch haha.

 

[CEDeoudes59]

good thread
its especially helpful since a lot of us look the 'same' and project the same things
i'm building a website about this- www.goodlookingloser.com
its only ~2 months old

 

[whodey41]

Going out to a strip club and then clubs Saturday for a friends bachler party. How do I get the strippers to come down to the clubs with us? It's going to be my goal for the night just to make it interesting lol.

 

[ManBeast]

call the strippers ugly boring bishes

 

[Gutterpump]

There's no need for long explanations on how to meet women. As long as you're interesting and funny, as well as fun, then there should be no problems. Looks help with initial attraction, but you have to keep them interested. That story about the 2nd date was a good one though. Never over-reach on the first date or you will appear as 'trying too hard'.

If you have no humor, work on that, and work on not being afraid to crack a joke at a random person. Practice makes perfect, and there's really nothing to lose.

Don't overthink it (K.I.S.S. - Keep it simple, stupid!). Don't overthink, just do... That's people's main problem right there (self doubt, initial shyness).