wtf girls want nice guys? HUH?

toughchick401 said:
I can agree with this as well, I would like to meet someone BUT i refuse to settle for something less than I deserve, all my friends around me have and I see they are unhappy, trying to get out of current relationships, etc..I won't.....I agree it would be nice, refreshing to meet a nice guy, someone who accepts and likes the little things, the good morning texts, the notes to say HI, have a good day or give a hug when I get the crap beaten out of me at work ......... I have yet to meet someone who can do this....
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well no offense but i think if guys were to be that nice to most girls, i think girls might come up with some of that "he is too nice, i need a MAN". cuz i have noticed that when i treat girls like straight up **** they seem to like me more than when i treat them nice.
 
rochabp said:
well no offense but i think if guys were to be that nice to most girls, i think girls might come up with some of that "he is too nice, i need a MAN". cuz i have noticed that when i treat girls like straight up **** they seem to like me more than when i treat them nice.
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agreed. the nice guy was my brother in hs and he got **** on. i never saw a guy cry over women so many times. i treated them like crap and i couldnt get rid of them. he never changed and his wife now treats him like dirt. i did change finally and for some unknown reason met this woman over a year ago and i treat her like gold. luckily she enjoys it and doesnt take advantage of it
 
Fck bitches get money? Not for nothing....I just got out of a 5 year...and then a quick little 6 month sexscapade in November. Now....I havn't had to worry if a woman will get mad because of what I do or say...and I love it....Long Island/NYC women can be brutal. Life is so much less stressful just having to worry about Work/Gym/Friends/Sleep. Besides that...relationships make me fat lol. Gym time is the only thing I can cut to make time to "dedicate" to a woman.
 
ryox82 said:
Fck bitches get money? Not for nothing....I just got out of a 5 year...and then a quick little 6 month sexscapade in November. Now....I havn't had to worry if a woman will get mad because of what I do or say...and I love it....Long Island/NYC women can be brutal. Life is so much less stressful just having to worry about Work/Gym/Friends/Sleep. Besides that...relationships make me fat lol. Gym time is the only thing I can cut to make time to "dedicate" to a woman.
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yup i was the classic nice guy, but through the years i have adjusted and gotten wiser and now i treat women like sh1t, i show them no mercy, and they are simply my sexdolls. i may sound harsh or messed up but hey i adjusted to how women treated me and i guess you can say they created a monster. and know all i worry about is getting that dough and myself, and not some bichtes feelings
 
rochabp said:
yup i was the classic nice guy, but through the years i have adjusted and gotten wiser and now i treat women like sh1t, i show them no mercy, and they are simply my sexdolls. i may sound harsh or messed up but hey i adjusted to how women treated me and i guess you can say they created a monster. and know all i worry about is getting that dough and myself, and not some bichtes feelings
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I hear you me. I have become nothing but bitter and I get pissed off a lot over this issue. I was also raised by my grandmom and my dad wasn't there, so I was raised passive, which doesn't really help. I still have to learn how to be an *******. Actually I need to learn how to be an ******* without going overboard.
 
DerickVonD said:
I hear you me. I have become nothing but bitter and I get pissed off a lot over this issue. I was also raised by my grandmom and my dad wasn't there, so I was raised passive, which doesn't really help. I still have to learn how to be an *******. Actually I need to learn how to be an ******* without going overboard.
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well i think if you had the experiences i had with women, being an Ahole to women would be easily achieved. not only women but my mom too, my mom was the biggest b1tch i know sounds harsh but man you just dont know her, and it wasnt like she was looking out for me or taking care of me, or even strict she is just a b1tch i think thats were my hate for women originated, dont get me wrong i still wanna phuck them but no interest in love as of right now.
 
Today, a (very hot) girl told me:

"You're flirty yet insulting, I'm not sure how you very successfully do both."

I can't recall ever saying a single nice thing to this girl, though I consider myself a nice guy.
But I am often told that I'm mean...

I thought it was amusing.
 
rochabp said:
well i think if you had the experiences i had with women, being an Ahole to women would be easily achieved. not only women but my mom too, my mom was the biggest b1tch i know sounds harsh but man you just dont know her, and it wasnt like she was looking out for me or taking care of me, or even strict she is just a b1tch i think thats were my hate for women originated, dont get me wrong i still wanna phuck them but no interest in love as of right now.
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Hah well dude my grandmom is a complete bitch. In fact she just told me "No more whole milk, it's too fating, I'm not getting it." I struggle to bulk up because I struggle for food EVERYDAY. I'm 190 I'm not 300. She thinks she knows it all and will say **** like "3000 calories is too much." I don't have a job and I'm in college, so I'm kind of stuck. I'm hoping I get to move in with a friend soon. I need to because, I'm afraid I'll snap soon. She talks to me like I'm 6, so anyone who hears her talk to me, think I'm slow, so that also makes it hard for me to get girls. If I met one I damn sure can't take them back to my house.
 
wontstop985 said:
Today, a (very hot) girl told me:

"You're flirty yet insulting, I'm not sure how you very successfully do both."

I can't recall ever saying a single nice thing to this girl (though I consider myself a nice guy).

I thought it was amusing.
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compliments with built in insults are the funniest thing in the world to me, like at the club

"thats a nice dress, looks a little better on the other girl wearing the same one tho"

"you got beautiful hair, who does your extensions?"

btw... this thread has gotten way out of hand. good girls like bad guys we all know this. being a huge ass is just a defence mechanism masking a fear of getting hurt.
 
DerickVonD said:
Hah well dude my grandmom is a complete bitch. In fact she just told me "No more whole milk, it's too fating, I'm not getting it." I struggle to bulk up because I struggle for food EVERYDAY. I'm 190 I'm not 300. She thinks she knows it all and will say **** like "3000 calories is too much." I don't have a job and I'm in college, so I'm kind of stuck. I'm hoping I get to move in with a friend soon. I need to because, I'm afraid I'll snap soon. She talks to me like I'm 6, so anyone who hears her talk to me, think I'm slow, so that also makes it hard for me to get girls. If I met one I damn sure can't take them back to my house.
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i can see how that could get anoying but man, my mom wasnt even like that she was just a straight up b1tch, she was a lazy b1tch, i did everything for myself from 13 years old, i mean cooking, cleaning, getting money, washing my clothes, it was almost as if i was her roommate or something. she would scream for everything, all the time, and she was never wrong according to her, even if she knocked something out of the table she would scream "who the hell put it there". i cant tell you how many times i wish for a nice mom. i would have loved that.
 
toughchick401 said:
I can agree with this as well, I would like to meet someone BUT i refuse to settle for something less than I deserve, all my friends around me have and I see they are unhappy, trying to get out of current relationships, etc..I won't.....I agree it would be nice, refreshing to meet a nice guy, someone who accepts and likes the little things, the good morning texts, the notes to say HI, have a good day or give a hug when I get the crap beaten out of me at work ......... I have yet to meet someone who can do this....
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Jeeze I used to do all of that, and got crapped on for it :( Even would string things throughout the house with notes and gifts attached for her to find, and other little things, would give her post-work massages when she got home(non sexual, just letting her get rid of a headache or stress). But I get yelled at for leaving a shirt in her seat, which "I knew" she was going to sit in after going 20 minutes out of my way to pick her up....and 1000 other similar things, but thats one of my favs cuz I still dont understand...:ponder:

Treat a girl right, and they will fling poo in your face...at least thats the lessons I have learned....metaphorically speaking -.-

I do admit I had my immaturities back then though, luckily I learned at least how to get rid of them at the cost of that relationship. And even though I hate being around her, I would still help her or even her stupid husband if they needed it -.- God I need to move to TN already and get away from here lol.


rochabp said:
well no offense but i think if guys were to be that nice to most girls, i think girls might come up with some of that "he is too nice, i need a MAN". cuz i have noticed that when i treat girls like straight up **** they seem to like me more than when i treat them nice.
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Ever been told. "You will make someone the perfect husband someday!" When your intentions was to hook up with them, but you know that phrase is an instant "your nice, but I am not interested" sentence....

I had one girl I ignored...for like 2 years, and she just got more attracted the more I ignored her...wtf? I mean... nevermind...

DerickVonD said:
I hear you me. I have become nothing but bitter and I get pissed off a lot over this issue. I was also raised by my grandmom and my dad wasn't there, so I was raised passive, which doesn't really help. I still have to learn how to be an *******. Actually I need to learn how to be an ******* without going overboard.
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I still cant really be too big of a "jerk" its against every fiber of my being. The best I get is "brutally honest and sturdy" as in, I will tell it how I see it. Which some people dont like the truth. My closest friends know I will blast them if they do something too stupid or are acting out in a bad way. Not out of anger or being "mean" but kinda out of love. People dont always respond to "nice" nowadays, some people need someone to get in their face and put the facts out there.

I do need to be more of a jerk, sadly I find it real easy to be a a jerk to my bosses :ntome: uh, this often has complications :D Just an FYI
 
yup its impossible for me to settle down cuz, i dont take sh1t from women, and dont let them control me.
 
rochabp said:
yup its impossible for me to settle down cuz, i dont take sh1t from women, and dont let them control me.
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Well with all the **** my grandmom puts me through I can't be in a relationship where the girl tries to control me and if I get with a girl and she tries to control me, I'll tell her to **** off, even if it means I'll be single again because, I can't that ****.
 
ryox82 said:
Life is so much less stressful just having to worry about Work/Gym/Friends/Sleep. Besides that...relationships make me fat lol. Gym time is the only thing I can cut to make time to "dedicate" to a woman.
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This right here, I totally agree with. I get enough stress at work and when I'm away from work I like for life to feel like a vacation. No responsibilities to anyone but myself. I can choose to go and hang out with a girl if I want, or I can go out and party with friends... or stay home and watch tv or play video games or go to the gym, or visit family if I like. I like not being obligated to do something with someone. Some may call it being self centered, but I think that's better than being a bother to someone. Freedom: It feels good man...

I don't treat women like crap though, love them too much for that. I don't put them on a pedestal either. It's the same as the way we take care of our bodies: there's a balance that you have to find. You either find this balance through experience or by reading up on how this whole attraction thing works. Personally, I think it takes a little of both.
 
buuzer0 said:
This right here, I totally agree with. I get enough stress at work, when I'm away from work I like for life to feel like a vacation. No responsibilities to anyone but myself. I can choose to go and hang out with a girl if I want, or I can go out and party with friends... or stay home and watch tv or play video games or go to the gym, or visit family if I like. I like not being obligated to do something with someone. Some may call it being self centered, but I think that's better than being a bother to someone. Freedom: It feels good man...
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I agree.

I was married for 12 years. I was on anti-depressants, blood pressure medicine (BP got to 188/118!!!) and my weight was up to 260lbs. I was absolutely miserable.

I left her and within a year I was taken off all the medicine, BP was normal, and weight dropped to 210lbs. I was having the time of my life.

I met another woman, ended up marrying her, and I'm now on BP meds, anti-depressant and anti-anxiety meds, and my weight is 240. I'm pretty miserable.

I see a pattern. If this marriage fails, I'm staying single.
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Man this thread really got a lot of people going.

Girls love a-holes. I used to be the nice guy that girls liked at first because I was so sweet and nice. Then after like 2 months they would end it cuz I was TOO nice. Like posted above I adjusted to the women and started be a D*ICK and now girls love me. Lol well when I was single they did. I treated girls like crap and they loved it for some reason. And its funny cuz even tho they liked the way I treated them they still told me that they wanted a nice guy. And when I told them to leave and go find urself one. They stuck to me even more.
 
Well, I think it's a fine line between being an *******(nobody wants a total *******) and not being a pushover. Having self confidence, a little ****iness and letting them know they're not your life. You can get along just fine without them. Women, like dogs, need something to chase else they get bored.


I was a pretty big **** to this last one. She's still around, but she's a pretty good woman and knows she won't put up with that side of me. Problem is I don't really think we mesh well in the long term and I also don't have time for a relationship. She wants one badly even though she denies it(actions speak louder than words). So when she pisses me off I let her know it a not so subtle way :D But she's definitely backing off. But I really don't mind either way.


Also yes, if you deal with enough ****ty women, being an ******* to them will just come naturally :flirt:
 
man this thread brings back pains from the women that were in my life and they all screwed me, i was such a nice guy and they would just fcuk me like that, that just hits me in the heart. that sh1t just fuels me to work harder and show em bichtes.

lol
im getting all worked up over this.
 
Hahaha same has happened here. Give them all the benefit of the doubt of being good people and not question their motives. Then they run with it and **** all over your yard when you're not looking.

Now, they're all whores to me until they prove otherwise. WHORES I SAY!!!
 
Dizmal said:
Hahaha same has happened here. Give them all the benefit of the doubt of being good people and not question their motives. Then they run with it and **** all over your yard when you're not looking.

Now, they're all whores to me until they prove otherwise. WHORES I SAY!!!
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thats why i laugh when girls cam a jerk
 
Dizmal said:
Hahaha same has happened here. Give them all the benefit of the doubt of being good people and not question their motives. Then they run with it and **** all over your yard when you're not looking.

Now, they're all whores to me until they prove otherwise. WHORES I SAY!!!
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Harsh!!!
 
toughchick401 said:
Harsh!!!
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Eh, some of the **** that was done to me was harsh. Some of them were previously my "friends" for 10 years.

I'm not a total *******, but I definitely am not as nice and caring as I used to be. I just make women earn my good side now instead of just give it to them outright.
 
Dizmal said:
Eh, some of the **** that was done to me was harsh. Some of them were previously my "friends" for 10 years.

I'm not a total *******, but I definitely am not as nice and caring as I used to be. I just make women earn my good side now instead of just give it to them outright.
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Its surprising how fast your most "trusted" friends will turn on you....I dont give out trust anymore, its rare if I do...
 
I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds.
 
bossman523 said:
I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds.
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Plagiarize much?
 
Where I live females, because I do not have enough respect to call the women around here women, they want a guy that's a "bad boy" and not "too big". So, basically they want a skinny douchebag. How I hate Baltimore.
 
bossman523 said:
I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds.
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Next time put a quote in quotations. Nobody is dumb enough here to believe you're that smart.
 
my wife wants a nice guy, my girlfriend wants a naughty boy
 
LOL I found the secret...just wear a tank go to a party drink a lot and get at drunk girls
 
rochabp said:
LOL I found the secret...just wear a tank go to a party drink a lot and get at drunk girls
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That works if you just want to **** some dumb slut, but not if you want a girlfriend. Plus like I said earlier aroudn here they want skinny douchbags. Girls aroudn here consider Steve Reeves "too big"..I don't get it, I really don't.
 
Honestly... I've never been very successful with women. I'm too nice for my own good, so my only weapon is my body. Until now... that's gotten me nowhere. But slow progress has added up and I'm getting attention like I've never had before.
Confidence is the best thing you can have. If you're not confident... fake it til you make it!
 
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