What if?????

wranglergirl

wranglergirl

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What if someone you were seeing, called you by his ex's name, 3 times since you had been dating him????? I personally think it means he isent over the ex and wants to be back with her.......

This happened to my friend i teach with and she wont belive me, yet is mad at him everytime he does it.......and wont tell him he is doing it.......LOL games I tell ya....this is why i don't date :blink:
 
Dump him/her.
 
Was it a long relationship? It may just be an old habit if this person was saying that name for years. Not a good excuse, but I could see it happening. :frustrate

dd
 
diamonddave said:
Was it a long relationship? It may just be an old habit if this person was saying that name for years. Not a good excuse, but I could see it happening. :frustrate

dd
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I was married for over 11 years, together over 14, and have been split from my ex now for almost 8 years. I've been with my new lady for 7 years, and married for going on 2. I have to keep contact with my ex due to or son, who I have custody of. I am, and have been, completely over my ex, no question about it. There have been times, completely out of habit, where I have to make sure not to say the wrong name. There has been a couple of times where it has slipped. Usually when I'm pissed off over something stupid. Just a habit. Like DD said, not an excuse, but it can cause problems.

Hell, I've worked at a few diffferent places and on occasion will use the old codes on the radio when things get nasty. It drives my dispatch nuts because they have no idea what I'm referring to. We are just creatures of habit for the most part.
 
personally speaking, if my girl did that to me, i would have a problem with it knowing our history. (no details). Generally... hmmm, i wouldnt dump him or her but would be offended.
Sage
 
my wife has slipped up and called me by my dogs name before. hmmmm, his name is 'speedy', i wonder if she's trying to tell me something. :think:
 
Beelzebub said:
my wife has slipped up and called me by my dogs name before. hmmmm, his name is 'speedy', i wonder if she's trying to tell me something. :think:
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Actually, speedy is my nick-name. When she called you that, did you hear the back door slamming too? :trout: :run:
 
lol cuffs... wrangler: i guess it is up to you, however he most likely did it by accident or out of habit...I wouldnt really worry about it, but if it bothers you, then you gotta do what you gotta do..
 
Size this isent my drama for a change...so :rasp:

Thanks for all who answered i actually am printing this out and giving it to my friend on monday.....LOL from there she can do what she will
 
ive done this before, and the girls name i said i was over. sometimes you just have things on your mind. if he did it during sex or something or talking about something intimate or serious then that is a different story.
 
I'm going with the habbit thing. Having been divorced relatively recently, I was worried about doing that with my new girl. Never did though, but I can see it happen easily.

I'll add though that the fact she isn't telling him he's doing it isn't helping. If she did he would probably apreciate it and be much more aware or who he's with. I know I would.
 
bigpetefox said:
Ha, that's rich... :lol:
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I am a funny guy. But seriously, I usually just tell her that her name is not important to me and to leave once I'm done. :cheers:
 
It can just be something he's used to saying, ya know?

i catch myself all the time almost calling EVERYONE "baby" b/c thats what I say to my g/f 300000x a day.
 
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