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Titan changing his looks with MassMax XT

Guys, you are app awesome and I love you all and love how this board supports everyone. I KNOW FireTitan appreciates it and I can't speak for him, but I can say that this board has helped me through some hard times and it is amazing how this group of guys online can be better friends than the people around in real life. You are all top notch.

I, however, am a complete d1ck. Can we end this chick flick now? I mean, come on. It isn't like this is a bad thing for this guy. Let me tell you all something about the Titan.

This guy works and plays on the land of milk and honey when it comes to poontang. I mean, even I got laid there....like....regularly....and ...a lot. And this guy is a jacked beast...with a unifor.....women want him and men want to be like him.

Firetitan is about to embark on an adventure where his biggest problem is making sure she is over 18. Trust me on this. I envy him.

Firetitan: bag it up, keep your nose clean, and try not to end up with a dozen kids or in jail.
 
Man brother so sorry to hear that. In my thoughts and prayers homie .
 
HIT4ME said:
Guys, you are app awesome and I love you all and love how this board supports everyone. I KNOW FireTitan appreciates it and I can't speak for him, but I can say that this board has helped me through some hard times and it is amazing how this group of guys online can be better friends than the people around in real life. You are all top notch.

I, however, am a complete d1ck. Can we end this chick flick now? I mean, come on. It isn't like this is a bad thing for this guy. Let me tell you all something about the Titan.

This guy works and plays on the land of milk and honey when it comes to poontang. I mean, even I got laid there....like....regularly....and ...a lot. And this guy is a jacked beast...with a unifor.....women want him and men want to be like him.

Firetitan is about to embark on an adventure where his biggest problem is making sure she is over 18. Trust me on this. I envy him.

Firetitan: bag it up, keep your nose clean, and try not to end up with a dozen kids or in jail.
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Kinda makes me want to ditch my wife and move. I mean, I wanna get laid, too
 
thorsdad31 said:
FireTitan said:
Ok guys Im back in here. Sorry for the delay but had some serious personal issues to handle. To be honest, the wife and I have decided to part ways and its been a very hard week. I haven't been able to lift at all, but have accomplished a few days of cardio. Its going to be rough for a while, but Im done with the pity party. HOWEVER.. R1balla I do apologize to you because I feel like Ive let you down. Starting tomorrow I will be back into the groove. Thats all I have for now, but I will make my return in full swing this weekend. Standby to standby fellas...and thank you for the support[/QUOTE

I'm sorry to hear that brotha you will be in my prayers ..... U are the strongest willed person I know through strength and perseverance u will get through god has a plan for u stay strong
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AMEN! Brother.
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HIT4ME said:
Guys, you are app awesome and I love you all and love how this board supports everyone. I KNOW FireTitan appreciates it and I can't speak for him, but I can say that this board has helped me through some hard times and it is amazing how this group of guys online can be better friends than the people around in real life. You are all top notch.

I, however, am a complete d1ck. Can we end this chick flick now? I mean, come on. It isn't like this is a bad thing for this guy. Let me tell you all something about the Titan.

This guy works and plays on the land of milk and honey when it comes to poontang. I mean, even I got laid there....like....regularly....and ...a lot. And this guy is a jacked beast...with a unifor.....women want him and men want to be like him.

Firetitan is about to embark on an adventure where his biggest problem is making sure she is over 18. Trust me on this. I envy him.

Firetitan: bag it up, keep your nose clean, and try not to end up with a dozen kids or in jail.
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Damn, well said!
 
Hey brother, you need anything let me know. I know all about the pity party. This really sucks! I will be praying for you and your family.
 
Keep your head up brother. Sorry to hear about that ****. We all been through it, and we are all better for it. We are all brothers, and we are all here for you. You need anything hit me up.
 
Dude! No worries at all! This has been an amazing log and personal life always comes first. You were only required to log 1 bottle of MassMax XT, which you have done.
 
HIT4ME said:
Guys, you are app awesome and I love you all and love how this board supports everyone. I KNOW FireTitan appreciates it and I can't speak for him, but I can say that this board has helped me through some hard times and it is amazing how this group of guys online can be better friends than the people around in real life. You are all top notch.

I, however, am a complete d1ck. Can we end this chick flick now? I mean, come on. It isn't like this is a bad thing for this guy. Let me tell you all something about the Titan.

This guy works and plays on the land of milk and honey when it comes to poontang. I mean, even I got laid there....like....regularly....and ...a lot. And this guy is a jacked beast...with a unifor.....women want him and men want to be like him.

Firetitan is about to embark on an adventure where his biggest problem is making sure she is over 18. Trust me on this. I envy him.

Firetitan: bag it up, keep your nose clean, and try not to end up with a dozen kids or in jail.
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Seriously FireTitan that's all you got for an excuse after being gone for like a week? WTF?? We expect to now see 15min updates on your progress in gym and with the all the new tail you're going to be chasing!!

All that aside hit me up if you need anything man!
 
SFreed said:
Kinda makes me want to ditch my wife and move. I mean, I wanna get laid, too
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LMAO - you know; my friend just sold his car and bought a 2017 Charger because it was more fun. No one feels bad for him because he upgraded to a newer model.....

On the other hand - you better hope your wife doesn't see this comment. I once was told, one of the benefits of being married is that you don't have to put up with all the crazy-#ss bullsh1t that comes with dating. Women, man, they can be cray-zay. I mean, insane. We all know this.

My friend with the Charger also has a moto, rule #1 - "Never chase puzzy down the rabbit hole." Words to live by.

Which all reminds me, I am sure we've all seen this, but it is worth a refresh given the subject matter. Plus, FireTitan is in an academic setting, this board is all about science and research, so this is the best lecture on women available:

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Br1ck_Sh1thouse said:
Seriously FireTitan that's all you got for an excuse after being gone for like a week? WTF?? We expect to now see 15min updates on your progress in gym and with the all the new tail you're going to be chasing!!

All that aside hit me up if you need anything man!
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Come on man. The guy is lifting a ton of boxes. He can't move out fast enough. It's a good thing with all the chicks available to him, he probably doesn't need to find his own place for at least another couple months. Every night, he's got a place to sleep.
 
HIT4ME said:
LMAO - you know; my friend just sold his car and bought a 2017 Charger because it was more fun. No one feels bad for him because he upgraded to a newer model.....

On the other hand - you better hope your wife doesn't see this comment. I once was told, one of the benefits of being married is that you don't have to put up with all the crazy-#ss bullsh1t that comes with dating. Women, man, they can be cray-zay. I mean, insane. We all know this.

My friend with the Charger also has a moto, rule #1 - "Never chase puzzy down the rabbit hole." Words to live by.

Which all reminds me, I am sure we've all seen this, but it is worth a refresh given the subject matter. Plus, FireTitan is in an academic setting, this board is all about science and research, so this is the best lecture on women available:

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Come on man. The guy is lifting a ton of boxes. He can't move out fast enough. It's a good thing with all the chicks available to him, he probably doesn't need to find his own place for at least another couple months. Every night, he's got a place to sleep.
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ethics and morals, eh....sorry, I think it is sad when I see people who have exchanged vows decide to separate-call me old fashioned...comparing getting a new car to the break up of a marriage is pretty piss poor, imo....


good luck, titan-I hope things go well and that you and your soon to be ex can part on friendly terms!!!
 
thebigt said:
ethics and morals, eh....sorry, I think it is sad when I see people who have exchanged vows decide to separate-call me old fashioned...comparing getting a new car to the break up of a marriage is pretty piss poor, imo....


good luck, titan-I hope things go well and that you and your soon to be ex can part on friendly terms!!!
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Yeah man, don't get me wrong. I am being pretty facetious and Titan and I have a strange relationship. I am just trying to make him laugh and look at the bright side. No offense intended to anyone at all. I applaud your feelings on marriage. Standards have fallen.
 
HIT4ME said:
Yeah man, don't get me wrong. I am being pretty facetious and Titan and I have a strange relationship. I am just trying to make him laugh and look at the bright side. No offense intended to anyone at all. I applaud your feelings on marriage. Standards have fallen.
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I apologize, I misinterpreted your post.


STANDARDS

WHAT STANDARDS? there are no standards today!!!
 
thebigt said:
I apologize, I misinterpreted your post.


STANDARDS

WHAT STANDARDS? there are no standards today!!!
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No, you interpreted it correctly. I was being a d1ck. I just can't ever be taken seriously...and I am a d1ck. Haha. So no apologies necessary.

And...as far as standards; I don't know much. I just focus on trying to keep my own standards up, and raise them higher. It is hard. It's enough work for me to just focus on my own standards sucking and how I can improve them...but I see plenty of people not even realizing they have such low standards.
 
HIT4ME said:
No, you interpreted it correctly. I was being a d1ck. I just can't ever be taken seriously...and I am a d1ck. Haha. So no apologies necessary.

And...as far as standards; I don't know much. I just focus on trying to keep my own standards up, and raise them higher. It is hard. It's enough work for me to just focus on my own standards sucking and how I can improve them...but I see plenty of people not even realizing they have such low standards.
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truth!!
 
thebigt said:
ethics and morals, eh....sorry, I think it is sad when I see people who have exchanged vows decide to separate-call me old fashioned...comparing getting a new car to the break up of a marriage is pretty piss poor, imo....


good luck, titan-I hope things go well and that you and your soon to be ex can part on friendly terms!!!
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I've been thinking about this a lot over the past two days. Even though we've all been trying to make light of the situation, I agree with you. This isn't about the ability to bang young girls. It's about a family that's going through some pretty rough shyt. I think we tend to joke about things, trying to ease some of the pain. I've been married for 34 years, to a girl that I've literally known since she was in kindergarten. For all my brave talk, God help me if we ever split up. I hope Cliff makes it through this difficult transition.
 
SFreed said:
I've been thinking about this a lot over the past two days. Even though we've all been trying to make light of the situation, I agree with you. This isn't about the ability to bang young girls. It's about a family that's going through some pretty rough shyt. I think we tend to joke about things, trying to ease some of the pain. I've been married for 34 years, to a girl that I've literally known since she was in kindergarten. For all my brave talk, God help me if we ever split up. I hope Cliff makes it through this difficult transition.
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well said!!!
 
SFreed said:
I've been thinking about this a lot over the past two days. Even though we've all been trying to make light of the situation, I agree with you. This isn't about the ability to bang young girls. It's about a family that's going through some pretty rough shyt. I think we tend to joke about things, trying to ease some of the pain. I've been married for 34 years, to a girl that I've literally known since she was in kindergarten. For all my brave talk, God help me if we ever split up. I hope Cliff makes it through this difficult transition.
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Geez. Well said and true. Now....I am having feelings. I was trying to hide behind the humor.

And yes, it is a crappy situation. Again, I was trying the cheer him up - sorry for my inappropriateness.
 
HIT4ME said:
Geez. Well said and true. Now....I am having feelings. I was trying to hide behind the humor.

And yes, it is a crappy situation. Again, I was trying the cheer him up - sorry for my inappropriateness.
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No need to apologize my friend. We were all trying to do our best to cheer up a friend. I know the Titan doesn't drink, but I wish we were all close enough to sit in somebodies backyard around a firepit, toss back a few adult beverages and solve all of the worlds problems.
 
Guys....every one of you...I cant thank you enough. It really means a lot to me that you guys are here and willing to listen to my b1tching. Its been a rough time, but its all starting to smooth over. Were on fairly good terms considering the circumstances. However...I am fixing to make every one of you hate her. She threw away EVERY SUPPLEMENT I HAD for the exception of a couple things I had in my bag at the time. So unfortunately, after rummaging through the house to see what I could find...nothing...this log will be coming to an end. Me on the other hand...I will continue on and will not give up. I still have my goals and I WILL achieve each and every one of them. I will be continuing my journey back on my personal log which Ill post a link too here shortly and invite all of you to join. In the meantime, all supplement donations can be mailed to Cli......kidding.

And for what its worth, dont be too hard on HIT4ME. He cleared the use of humor with me before posting. And has kept in constant contact with me to make sure I was Ok. Youre all effing rockstars in my book. As for the meet and greet...youre d@mn right Ill be there. keep me posted on it! Love each of you like the dysfunctional brothers I always wanted. R1balla, I thank you. Thank you for the hook up and opportunity and Id log anything for you and Performax Labs anytime. Im sorry I had to cut it off like this. You need anything...let me know
 
SFreed said:
No need to apologize my friend. We were all trying to do our best to cheer up a friend. I know the Titan doesn't drink, but I wish we were all close enough to sit in somebodies backyard around a firepit, toss back a few adult beverages and solve all of the worlds problems.
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I would love to hang out with any of you guys! It does kind of suck that everyone is so dispersed. I've been working on some things that involve contacting the CEO's and CFO's of some very large companies and I had this strange realization the other day. My search for these people often starts with a location in my home state. Of course, it is unlikely that a lot of these C-level executives are located at those locations, as their headquarters are often in a completely different state. So I research those locations and research the executives, only to find that they often don't even live in the same state as the headquarters. I had once company HQ in NC, and the CEO had a place in NY and another in Miami.

Here I am making a 20 minute commute to work, in a car. The world becomes so much smaller to these people. Must be nice. I couldn't even afford the gas to drive to some of your guys' place, and I have a hybrid, and these guys probably go all over the country, all the time. One day, I'll turn that all around and I will throw an AM party and fly everyone into Vegas or something just for fun.

FireTitan said:
Guys....every one of you...I cant thank you enough. It really means a lot to me that you guys are here and willing to listen to my b1tching. Its been a rough time, but its all starting to smooth over. Were on fairly good terms considering the circumstances. However...I am fixing to make every one of you hate her. She threw away EVERY SUPPLEMENT I HAD for the exception of a couple things I had in my bag at the time. So unfortunately, after rummaging through the house to see what I could find...nothing...this log will be coming to an end. Me on the other hand...I will continue on and will not give up. I still have my goals and I WILL achieve each and every one of them. I will be continuing my journey back on my personal log which Ill post a link too here shortly and invite all of you to join. In the meantime, all supplement donations can be mailed to Cli......kidding.

And for what its worth, dont be too hard on HIT4ME. He cleared the use of humor with me before posting. And has kept in constant contact with me to make sure I was Ok. Youre all effing rockstars in my book. As for the meet and greet...youre d@mn right Ill be there. keep me posted on it! Love each of you like the dysfunctional brothers I always wanted. R1balla, I thank you. Thank you for the hook up and opportunity and Id log anything for you and Performax Labs anytime. Im sorry I had to cut it off like this. You need anything...let me know
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Nah, they aren't too hard on me - we all know I'm a jerk at times. I can't lie about that. But, I think I forgot to mention the part about the supplements to them, so they may have felt differently if they knew that.

Plus, I mean....they are right, but so am I. This sucks, it sucks for your family, but you're still gonna get laid! Nobody is wrong here.

BEAST73 said:
FireTitan, You're a Great Guy and a Strong Man! I was told a longtime ago, A Setback is Setup for a Great Comeback!!
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Yeah - see - when you say it like that it sounds great. When I talk about him getting a ton of chicks (talk about a comeback!) - I'm a jerk. It's all delivery I guess.
 
FireTitan said:
Guys....every one of you...I cant thank you enough. It really means a lot to me that you guys are here and willing to listen to my b1tching. Its been a rough time, but its all starting to smooth over. Were on fairly good terms considering the circumstances. However...I am fixing to make every one of you hate her. She threw away EVERY SUPPLEMENT I HAD for the exception of a couple things I had in my bag at the time. So unfortunately, after rummaging through the house to see what I could find...nothing...this log will be coming to an end. Me on the other hand...I will continue on and will not give up. I still have my goals and I WILL achieve each and every one of them. I will be continuing my journey back on my personal log which Ill post a link too here shortly and invite all of you to join. In the meantime, all supplement donations can be mailed to Cli......kidding.

And for what its worth, dont be too hard on HIT4ME. He cleared the use of humor with me before posting. And has kept in constant contact with me to make sure I was Ok. Youre all effing rockstars in my book. As for the meet and greet...youre d@mn right Ill be there. keep me posted on it! Love each of you like the dysfunctional brothers I always wanted. R1balla, I thank you. Thank you for the hook up and opportunity and Id log anything for you and Performax Labs anytime. Im sorry I had to cut it off like this. You need anything...let me know
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**confused, angry twitching**
 
That is dumb as hell. Hopefully, things will end amicably. The down times have to come so you can get stronger and make e everything else seem easy. I dropped you a pm. Stay safe.
 
FireTitan said:
Guys....every one of you...I cant thank you enough. It really means a lot to me that you guys are here and willing to listen to my b1tching. Its been a rough time, but its all starting to smooth over. Were on fairly good terms considering the circumstances. However...I am fixing to make every one of you hate her. She threw away EVERY SUPPLEMENT I HAD for the exception of a couple things I had in my bag at the time. So unfortunately, after rummaging through the house to see what I could find...nothing...this log will be coming to an end. Me on the other hand...I will continue on and will not give up. I still have my goals and I WILL achieve each and every one of them. I will be continuing my journey back on my personal log which Ill post a link too here shortly and invite all of you to join. In the meantime, all supplement donations can be mailed to Cli......kidding.

And for what its worth, dont be too hard on HIT4ME. He cleared the use of humor with me before posting. And has kept in constant contact with me to make sure I was Ok. Youre all effing rockstars in my book. As for the meet and greet...youre d@mn right Ill be there. keep me posted on it! Love each of you like the dysfunctional brothers I always wanted. R1balla, I thank you. Thank you for the hook up and opportunity and Id log anything for you and Performax Labs anytime. Im sorry I had to cut it off like this. You need anything...let me know
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Dang that sucks man!!!! All I ask from you is a final review and maybe post a review of MassMax xt in the supplement review section. Thanks man!
 
Sucks to hear all this has happened. Life's crazy sometimes. My first wife married my ex best friend after her and I had kids. Worked out great though, I'm way better off.

Like R1 said, please leave us a final review. Here is the link...

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R1balla said:
Dang that sucks man!!!! All I ask from you is a final review and maybe post a review of MassMax xt in the supplement review section. Thanks man!
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cubsfan815 said:
Sucks to hear all this has happened. Life's crazy sometimes. My first wife married my ex best friend after her and I had kids. Worked out great though, I'm way better off.

Like R1 said, please leave us a final review. Here is the link...

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In promise you guys..final review is coming tomorrow. Just been busy. But in a nutshell THIS SH1T ROCKS!!!!
 
FireTitan said:
Guys....every one of you...I cant thank you enough. It really means a lot to me that you guys are here and willing to listen to my b1tching. Its been a rough time, but its all starting to smooth over. Were on fairly good terms considering the circumstances. However...I am fixing to make every one of you hate her. She threw away EVERY SUPPLEMENT I HAD for the exception of a couple things I had in my bag at the time. So unfortunately, after rummaging through the house to see what I could find...nothing...this log will be coming to an end. Me on the other hand...I will continue on and will not give up. I still have my goals and I WILL achieve each and every one of them. I will be continuing my journey back on my personal log which Ill post a link too here shortly and invite all of you to join. In the meantime, all supplement donations can be mailed to Cli......kidding.

And for what its worth, dont be too hard on HIT4ME. He cleared the use of humor with me before posting. And has kept in constant contact with me to make sure I was Ok. Youre all effing rockstars in my book. As for the meet and greet...youre d@mn right Ill be there. keep me posted on it! Love each of you like the dysfunctional brothers I always wanted. R1balla, I thank you. Thank you for the hook up and opportunity and Id log anything for you and Performax Labs anytime. Im sorry I had to cut it off like this. You need anything...let me know
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I imagine everyone here is up in arms about the supplements being thrown away. However I am willing to bet she saw them as part of an unhealthy obsession that was probably part of the reason for some of the issues. Hopefully not overstepping but if she felt neglected in anyway over your new dedication to fitness, or that it was taking away from quality family time then you could understand the motivation to throw them away if you put yourself in her shoes. Not saying she was right, just saying that it may not a cut and dry "That Bitch!" situation most would reduce it to either.

I remember after Snagency V2.0 committed suicide a couple years ago, after his divorce and issues with his children and everything. His ex-wife came on and wrote an open letter type post to all of his friends on AM. She basically spoke up about how the forums and obsessive fitness negatively effected his relationship with her, and his children. That he basically ignored them and drove them away focusing on nothing but the forums and his physique. She begged us to all do our best to try to keep a balance in our lives, and remember what is really important. It really hit home for a lot of us and made us reflect a bit on things. I try to remember her pain, and her genuine concern not only for us, but our families if we fell into being obsessive about it.

Your dedication and discipline during this time was at an unreal level, we all spoke about how inhuman it is \ was. Just keep an eye on that level of commitment to keep it healthy. If you start getting anxious or freaked out over missing a workout or a meal, or prioritize it over something that should truly be your priority then you might want to reflect on that and make sure it isn't compulsion masquerading as discipline.

DO NOT TAKE THIS AS ME PLACING ANY BLAME ON YOU. I WOULD NOT DO THAT. Just offering up some consideration for introspection to a Brother out of love. For all I know fitness may not even have anything to do with any of the issues. However her throwing out of the supplements leads me to believe otherwise. Sounds like the act of a jealous woman literally trashing what she saw as the competition.


FireTitan said:
In promise you guys..final review is coming tomorrow. Just been busy. But in a nutshell THIS SH1T ROCKS!!!!
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If it is anything like the rest of the log, you definitely rocked it!
 
FireTitan said:
Guys....every one of you...I cant thank you enough. It really means a lot to me that you guys are here and willing to listen to my b1tching. Its been a rough time, but its all starting to smooth over. Were on fairly good terms considering the circumstances. However...I am fixing to make every one of you hate her. She threw away EVERY SUPPLEMENT I HAD for the exception of a couple things I had in my bag at the time. So unfortunately, after rummaging through the house to see what I could find...nothing...this log will be coming to an end. Me on the other hand...I will continue on and will not give up. I still have my goals and I WILL achieve each and every one of them. I will be continuing my journey back on my personal log which Ill post a link too here shortly and invite all of you to join. In the meantime, all supplement donations can be mailed to Cli......kidding.

And for what its worth, dont be too hard on HIT4ME. He cleared the use of humor with me before posting. And has kept in constant contact with me to make sure I was Ok. Youre all effing rockstars in my book. As for the meet and greet...youre d@mn right Ill be there. keep me posted on it! Love each of you like the dysfunctional brothers I always wanted. R1balla, I thank you. Thank you for the hook up and opportunity and Id log anything for you and Performax Labs anytime. Im sorry I had to cut it off like this. You need anything...let me know
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Sorry been so damn busy this time of year.
Hey brother my first wife was extremely vindictive when we split. I came to pack my stuff and all my supplements were gone. she said all that sh it on top of the fridge reminded her of me. more will happen but it will pass with time. she went as far as to buy a new car and let them repo the one I bought her. filed her taxes as though we were still married and took all of the tax refund. I had fun dealing with the IRS and the company that sold the car at auction before they sent me a letter telling me I owed they 14K for what they lost on the loan.

NOTE: the next one you marry make sure she is into fitness or can convert her before you marry! me and my current wife have been married for 26 years and she didn't know anything about working out when we meet. now she motivates me to go to the gym sometimes. (we workout together) it is awsome brother.

Hang in there it is going to suck! I'm not going to lie to you. It will pass, Hell I lived in my parents house for 8 months. (yes a grown ass man living with his parents) lol But my Dad had a gym in the basement!
 
MrKleen73 said:
I imagine everyone here is up in arms about the supplements being thrown away. However I am willing to bet she saw them as part of an unhealthy obsession that was probably part of the reason for some of the issues. Hopefully not overstepping but if she felt neglected in anyway over your new dedication to fitness, or that it was taking away from quality family time then you could understand the motivation to throw them away if you put yourself in her shoes. Not saying she was right, just saying that it may not a cut and dry "That Bitch!" situation most would reduce it to either.

I remember after Snagency V2.0 committed suicide a couple years ago, after his divorce and issues with his children and everything. His ex-wife came on and wrote an open letter type post to all of his friends on AM. She basically spoke up about how the forums and obsessive fitness negatively effected his relationship with her, and his children. That he basically ignored them and drove them away focusing on nothing but the forums and his physique. She begged us to all do our best to try to keep a balance in our lives, and remember what is really important. It really hit home for a lot of us and made us reflect a bit on things. I try to remember her pain, and her genuine concern not only for us, but our families if we fell into being obsessive about it.

Your dedication and discipline during this time was at an unreal level, we all spoke about how inhuman it is \ was. Just keep an eye on that level of commitment to keep it healthy. If you start getting anxious or freaked out over missing a workout or a meal, or prioritize it over something that should truly be your priority then you might want to reflect on that and make sure it isn't compulsion masquerading as discipline.

DO NOT TAKE THIS AS ME PLACING ANY BLAME ON YOU. I WOULD NOT DO THAT. Just offering up some consideration for introspection to a Brother out of love. For all I know fitness may not even have anything to do with any of the issues. However her throwing out of the supplements leads me to believe otherwise. Sounds like the act of a jealous woman literally trashing what she saw as the competition.




If it is anything like the rest of the log, you definitely rocked it!
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My wife is not into fitness (thought I could change her. Their is still hope!) and this is exactly how my wife feels. In fact, this morning she made a comment about how she feels I don't have time for them right now. We are both teachers and have the summer off. Lately, We wake up, I do cardio, spend time with them, lift when my son naps, then the afternoons I have to go get ready for baseball games this week. She also hates that I take supplements so I hide anything that's not a basic like Serms, Folli, Erase Pro, Radiate etc. though she did she nectar TB500 in me when we were dating. Everything is fine but I need to prioritize to fit her needs so I need to get my lazy ass up early and cardio and lift before they wake up.
 
kjscatch said:
My wife is not into fitness (thought I could change her. Their is still hope!) and this is exactly how my wife feels. In fact, this morning she made a comment about how she feels I don't have time for them right now. We are both teachers and have the summer off. Lately, We wake up, I do cardio, spend time with them, lift when my son naps, then the afternoons I have to go get ready for baseball games this week. She also hates that I take supplements so I hide anything that's not a basic like Serms, Folli, Erase Pro, Radiate etc. though she did she nectar TB500 in me when we were dating. Everything is fine but I need to prioritize to fit her needs so I need to get my lazy ass up early and cardio and lift before they wake up.
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Got do do what you got to do! its all about time management. Mamma and the kids come first. and lack of sleep! lol
 
kjscatch said:
My wife is not into fitness (thought I could change her. Their is still hope!) and this is exactly how my wife feels. In fact, this morning she made a comment about how she feels I don't have time for them right now. We are both teachers and have the summer off. Lately, We wake up, I do cardio, spend time with them, lift when my son naps, then the afternoons I have to go get ready for baseball games this week. She also hates that I take supplements so I hide anything that's not a basic like Serms, Folli, Erase Pro, Radiate etc. though she did she nectar TB500 in me when we were dating. Everything is fine but I need to prioritize to fit her needs so I need to get my lazy ass up early and cardio and lift before they wake up.
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Yeah, now this is just my personal opinion, but if you are taking supplements that you need to hide from your wife you should not be taking them if your wife is important to you. There was a lot of time I was running products that were questionable when with my wife. However I told her what they were, what sides to expect, and that it was my responsibility to make sure that my sides do not negatively effect her or the family. IE, I needed to keep my head on straight and not become an impatient ass. For a very long time I kept bringing up real gear, and use of peptides. She was against them so I did not use them but continued to educate her on the fact that the illegal gear out there is actually MUCH safer to use than most of the designer steroids that were out like Epistane. DZ, SD, and the like. Finally one day she told me look I am not completely comfortable with you using them instead but if they are healthier and have less sides then do what you are going to do. Just please don't tell me about it.

We did that for a bit then she started wanting to know a little more about what I was or wasn't doing. Now we can discuss any plans I want to make if I choose to run a cycle of something. She likes to be informed within reason. So that is what we do. What I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt is that I would be single now if I had ever put my desire for gear above the sacred trust of our marriage. Had I ever done that and she found out I had been decieving her she would have left me over not being able to trust me. So no way in hell is it worth that too me.

If you want to run things you don't think your wife will be okay with then just inform her you are gong to do so and that you would rather her be disappointed than lied to. Even though she will still be unhappy she should respect that you came right out and told her your intentions instead of lying about them. If it goes much further than that you can simply remind her of the many inconvenience or uncomfortable moments you have dealt with that you were not happy about simply because you love her and that this needs to be one of those things for her. If none of those things work then WAIT... or decide that your fitness goals are worth more than your marriage.

Studhorse said:
Got do do what you got to do! its all about time management. Mamma and the kids come first. and lack of sleep! lol
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Damn straight everything we strive to better about ourselves should be to help make us a better human, parent, and or husband. If it takes away from that then it is wrong. Show them that you make personal sacrifices to achieve your goals, instead of asking them to sacrifice their time with your for your goals.
 
That's why I lift before I go to work. Family time when I get off work. Sure, it sucks waking up at 5 or so 5 days a week, but I won't let something I like become a negative. And be honest. I was honest with my wife and she asked me what I need to run before my contest in less than 10 weeks. haha I told her I want to do the first naturally and go from there.
 
MrKleen73 said:
Yeah, now this is just my personal opinion, but if you are taking supplements that you need to hide from your wife you should not be taking them if your wife is important to you. There was a lot of time I was running products that were questionable when with my wife. However I told her what they were, what sides to expect, and that it was my responsibility to make sure that my sides do not negatively effect her or the family. IE, I needed to keep my head on straight and not become an impatient ass. For a very long time I kept bringing up real gear, and use of peptides. She was against them so I did not use them but continued to educate her on the fact that the illegal gear out there is actually MUCH safer to use than most of the designer steroids that were out like Epistane. DZ, SD, and the like. Finally one day she told me look I am not completely comfortable with you using them instead but if they are healthier and have less sides then do what you are going to do. Just please don't tell me about it.

We did that for a bit then she started wanting to know a little more about what I was or wasn't doing. Now we can discuss any plans I want to make if I choose to run a cycle of something. She likes to be informed within reason. So that is what we do. What I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt is that I would be single now if I had ever put my desire for gear above the sacred trust of our marriage. Had I ever done that and she found out I had been decieving her she would have left me over not being able to trust me. So no way in hell is it worth that too me.

If you want to run things you don't think your wife will be okay with then just inform her you are gong to do so and that you would rather her be disappointed than lied to. Even though she will still be unhappy she should respect that you came right out and told her your intentions instead of lying about them. If it goes much further than that you can simply remind her of the many inconvenience or uncomfortable moments you have dealt with that you were not happy about simply because you love her and that this needs to be one of those things for her. If none of those things work then WAIT... or decide that your fitness goals are worth more than your marriage.



Damn straight everything we strive to better about ourselves should be to help make us a better human, parent, and or husband. If it takes away from that then it is wrong. Show them that you make personal sacrifices to achieve your goals, instead of asking them to sacrifice their time with your for your goals.
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I remember a time where I thought my wife was a b1tch for throwing out the quart of dark eyes I had hid in the toilet tank....now she just complains about all the hours I spend working-but she knows she benefits from my long hours of working also!!!
 
I had to tell my wife along time ago. see all this stuff under the roof and in the driveway. without work we don't have any of it! lol
 
MrKleen73 I appreciate your concern but my dedication was not an issue. I always made time for them. There were several other issues that just built tension over years of my pretending to be someone Im not in order to keep the peace, and the more I started acting like myself, the worse we got along.
 
Man, this is why AM is the best forum on the internet. Such a great community and much love to firetitan. We are here for you man. And you know what? When you are ready, PM me. I'll set you up with whatever Performax Labs stack you want as long as you log it for me. On the house. We love you and love your logs my man.

Side note: just go buy the vette you have always wanted and dig race every night lol
 
MrKleen73 said:
Yeah, now this is just my personal opinion, but if you are taking supplements that you need to hide from your wife you should not be taking them if your wife is important to you. There was a lot of time I was running products that were questionable when with my wife. However I told her what they were, what sides to expect, and that it was my responsibility to make sure that my sides do not negatively effect her or the family. IE, I needed to keep my head on straight and not become an impatient ass. For a very long time I kept bringing up real gear, and use of peptides. She was against them so I did not use them but continued to educate her on the fact that the illegal gear out there is actually MUCH safer to use than most of the designer steroids that were out like Epistane. DZ, SD, and the like. Finally one day she told me look I am not completely comfortable with you using them instead but if they are healthier and have less sides then do what you are going to do. Just please don't tell me about it.

We did that for a bit then she started wanting to know a little more about what I was or wasn't doing. Now we can discuss any plans I want to make if I choose to run a cycle of something. She likes to be informed within reason. So that is what we do. What I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt is that I would be single now if I had ever put my desire for gear above the sacred trust of our marriage. Had I ever done that and she found out I had been decieving her she would have left me over not being able to trust me. So no way in hell is it worth that too me.

If you want to run things you don't think your wife will be okay with then just inform her you are gong to do so and that you would rather her be disappointed than lied to. Even though she will still be unhappy she should respect that you came right out and told .
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Yes you are right. Should have used better words. I don't "hide" neceSsarily as I said before. I take them right in front of her and she knows exactly where they are all located. She just doesn't ask. I would assume she looks at them. She doesn't believe in supps. she buys essential oil, hello fresh, Norwex and I buy supplements. I don't ask her about that and she doesn't ask me about supps!

Now if she ever wants to take Advocare, Plexus or those other things out there, I will steer her to a better, cheaper and just as effective direction.
 
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